Guest motherducker Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 x0ny said: TL,DR; Girl loves spending time with me, really likes me, loves who I am and who I encourage her to be. Said she doesn't see herself falling IN love with me. Is it foolish for me to pursue and be persistent at it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest chibi_chibi Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 Meany-chan said: Hey ladies,A friend of mine is expecting a baby. What would be a good gift to get for her? Keep in mind that she doesn't know the sex of the baby yet. Baby onesies would be more useful, right? I know there's already a gift thread but nobody's questions get answered in that thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest flyhighbich Posted June 6, 2014 Share Posted June 6, 2014 is it stupid to hit on a girl at the gym?!?!?if not then how???is there a way to gauge her interest? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cristolephe Posted June 6, 2014 Share Posted June 6, 2014 Hi everyone,As a guy who gets hit on buy guys a lot, I really feel uncomfortable when it happens. Do you girls feel uncomfortable when it happens? I honestly wouldn't do such a thing to someone else since I feel so scared when guys hit on me, big huge burly men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest I_play_with_dolls Posted June 6, 2014 Share Posted June 6, 2014 cristolephe said: Hi everyone,As a guy who gets hit on buy guys a lot, I really feel uncomfortable when it happens. Do you girls feel uncomfortable when it happens? I honestly wouldn't do such a thing to someone else since I feel so scared when guys hit on me, big huge burly men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raymondc27 Posted June 6, 2014 Share Posted June 6, 2014 why do some girls ask arent you going to marry me since we are dating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest motherducker Posted June 6, 2014 Share Posted June 6, 2014 flyhighbich said: is it stupid to hit on a girl at the gym?!?!?if not then how???is there a way to gauge her interest? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
livingforhistory Posted June 6, 2014 Share Posted June 6, 2014 So obviously, if you found a guy attractive and he hit on you, you'd be flattered. So does that mean unattractive guys shouldn't even try to approach girls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest motherducker Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 ^ Looks can be pretty subjective and attractiveness can have many different factors other than appearances. Someone I would considered unattractive, another person might consider otherwise and vice versa. Someone who has a friendly personality and is easily approachable might notice someone's personality at first meeting rather than their looks. Call me a hypocrite or what have you, but I believe there are no "unattractive" people out there; there's going to be someone who likes you for who you are; appearance-wise and/or personality-wise . There's no reason for anyone to approach someone. That's just my opinion anyway. It's just that for me, I look at appearance first when I meet someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
livingforhistory Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 @suju_loveeI don't think it's just you. Most people look at appearance first. If he's physically unappealing to you, why would you even bother making the effort to get to know him?Also, is it possible the guys you find to be unattractive but other people find to be attractive are just objectively good looking? Like they may not be your type but they're still good looking guys objectively. I'm talking more about objectively unattractive guys. Should they just not bother pursuing girls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest macloona Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 livingforhistory said:Also, is it possible the guys you find to be unattractive but other people find to be attractive are just objectively good looking? Like they may not be your type but they're still good looking guys objectively. I'm talking more about objectively unattractive guys. Should they just not bother pursuing girls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
livingforhistory Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 @macloonaCan an introvert have a kickass personality? I think what you're talking about is charisma. There exists non-good looking people who have amazing charisma and can be attractive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest x0ny Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 @livingforhistoryintrovert here. I has kickass personality but will only show it for the right person. Perhaps you need to meet the right person thatll trigger it for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiocat Posted June 8, 2014 Share Posted June 8, 2014 Intelligent lawyer or a successful entrepreneur / businessman for a boyfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
halfmoonsmile Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 Thanks to everybody who answered my question of what to get my pregnant friend. I decided to get her baby onesies of different sizes. I think it's awkward to get her diapers to be honest. @cristolepheYes, it is uncomfortable especially when the guys hitting on me are older. Older men are dads, uncles, grandpas to me. Never in my life have I have ever been hit on by a guy that I knew I liked. Story of my life. @radiocatI would probably choose entrepreneur / businessman for a boyfriend because intelligent lawyers are sometimes associated with helping rich people/criminals and trying to intimidate the victim. I have no interest in guys who are jerks for a living. Although, businessman who travel to other countries are also associated with cheating on their S/Os. Basically, it all comes down to how the individual man is as a person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TRaNz Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 So im in this period where this girl and I arent talking due to an incident ( nothing overly major ), but yeah we arent talking. But after 2.5months she texts 'hello'...thats it....so i responded with a 'hi, how are you?' she replied with 'yeah, work is crazy, how are you?' and i decided to not continue with a question this time since in the past ive mainly been the one to initiate and continue the convos with other talk. So i just said 'yeah im just about alright'. andddd of course no reply........whats that supposed to mean? like is she just checking to see im alive or something?Its been another 1.5 months after that and no words have been said. Should i be waiting around for her to say something a bit more than that or am i just letting myself get more hurt over time waiting?Like, after 2.5 months of no communication, wouldnt it be i dunno, umm proper to start with a 'Hi how have you been?' rather than just a 'hello' ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiocat Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 Meany-chan said: @cristolepheYes, it is uncomfortable especially when the guys hitting on me are older. Older men are dads, uncles, grandpas to me. Never in my life have I have ever been hit on by a guy that I knew I liked. Story of my life. @radiocatI would probably choose entrepreneur / businessman for a boyfriend because intelligent lawyers are sometimes associated with helping rich people/criminals and trying to intimidate the victim. I have no interest in guys who are jerks for a living. Although, businessman who travel to other countries are also associated with cheating on their S/Os. Basically, it all comes down to how the individual man is as a person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
livingforhistory Posted June 9, 2014 Share Posted June 9, 2014 Serious question for the ladies.I got rejected on a dating site recently. I messaged this girl who I felt would be compatible with me. I'm going to be very blunt here. She's not pretty. But I thought from reading her profile, she and I would get along personality-wise. I'm making a conscious effort to lower my standards in terms of physical beauty and going more for compatibility. Obviously I know nothing about this girl but I had a feeling she and I would get along on that level. I'm not a handsome guy myself. I'm just an average guy but I feel overall I'm a good person. At least my friends and colleagues think so. Anyhow, I sent her a nice and polite message and she turned me down. She said she was flattered but she doesn't think we'd be compatible. And that's it. I don't get it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiocat Posted June 10, 2014 Share Posted June 10, 2014 x0ny said: @livingforhistoryintrovert here. I has kickass personality but will only show it for the right person. Perhaps you need to meet the right person thatll trigger it for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest x0ny Posted June 10, 2014 Share Posted June 10, 2014 TRaNz said: So im in this period where this girl and I arent talking due to an incident ( nothing overly major ), but yeah we arent talking. But after 2.5months she texts 'hello'...thats it....so i responded with a 'hi, how are you?' she replied with 'yeah, work is crazy, how are you?' and i decided to not continue with a question this time since in the past ive mainly been the one to initiate and continue the convos with other talk. So i just said 'yeah im just about alright'. andddd of course no reply........whats that supposed to mean? like is she just checking to see im alive or something?Its been another 1.5 months after that and no words have been said. Should i be waiting around for her to say something a bit more than that or am i just letting myself get more hurt over time waiting?Like, after 2.5 months of no communication, wouldnt it be i dunno, umm proper to start with a 'Hi how have you been?' rather than just a 'hello' ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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