Why Are You Single?

[Guest omochi]

...because I'm scared to love again.

[edrianisawesome]

Kurisu

said: I think that I have loved enough in this lifetime where I do not feel the need to openly pursue finding someone. I don't have a lot of time right now, and I seem to attract and be attracted to people who are equally as busy as, if not even more than, me. But every now and then I put myself out there and take a lighthearted approach on the dating scene.

I am not afraid of commitment, but it is clear that commitment is a two-way street and I have been pleasantly surprised at what I am capable of. When I think of the men that I've met as well as the few I've felt a connection with, I realized that there is also a reason why they are single and for quite some time too. It's not that we are broken or that there is something wrong with us. We are just more aware of our priorities and know that when the circumstances or timing is right, things will fall into place.

Don't feel bad that you're single... sometimes it can be lonely, but there's so much to life out there and if you're driven, inspired, and motivated, it will attract others... some things are just worth waiting for

[karaxi]

Because after being hurt by the person I loved the most.. I'm afraid to love and care for another person for the reason that they may be the same. I might be young but i really do consider the people I date as someone who I would potentially marry. I guess even if it takes awhile, id rather wait for that person who is the one for me than date a bunch of pricks. I know i know, silly right? but if that person never comes, i get to learn how to love myself more and just focus on myself

[Ninshark]

karaxi said: Because after being hurt by the person I loved the most.. I'm afraid to love and care for another person for the reason that they may be the same. I might be young but i really do consider the people I date as someone who I would potentially marry. I guess even if it takes awhile, id rather wait for that person who is the one for me than date a bunch of pricks. I know i know, silly right? but if that person never comes, i get to learn how to love myself more and just focus on myself

[Hanulsky82]

i'm kind of really shy. i'm jobless and I act like a damsel in distress. Most guys like independent ladies.

[Guest orchidlover]

applejuicechaser said: To be honest, it's because i have a small penis (4"). I'm scared that i will not be able to meet the demands of the person i care for's needs. I'm a very deep-hearted person, and I'm realer than a 100 dollar bill, with the line across.. I've got time, passion, intellect, and a mature soul in a youthful body. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life, rich and busy making a difference in society- rather than being cheated on down the road, or get mistaken/mistreated in a relationship for my wealth and knowledge. Sometimes i think this is what God wants me to do. Maybe this is my fate. This life that i lead- makes me a stronger person, knowing that i may not have someone by my side, in life. Its me against the world, and i want to make a positive change in this picture, for the better. I want to be remembered as a person who kept it real, who stood and delivered for what i believed was right (at least in ca). I plan on leaving a legacy before my time comes. you guys have to realize that society's culture is changing very fast, and its not like the 80's-90's anymore. Capitalization/industrialization is in full effect. Its changing the general moralities of what simple things people used to believe in.

[Guest orchidlover]

I am single because I set my standard too high and I do not have the greatest personality.  However, I still believe that having high standard is a great thing.  I get too into myself, I love myself too much and get annoyed easily.  But I know I am a great gf, maybe too needy. lol.I am also a very straightforward person which many people do not like.

[Guest nanarniaa]

I'm single by choice I guess.I had two chances to be in a relationship and I just couldn't do it. I like to think it's because I deserve better than what those two guys were offering but the truth is, I wasn't over my past relationship. Anyway, I just chose to be single because I would much rather achieve things on my own than waste time on someone who I will eventually break up with. I realized that I shouldn't settle just for the sake to be in a relationship.

[UnMyeong2025]

I think there are many reasons…1) I haven't met the right person yet2) No one's asked me out yet3) When I confessed it wasn't reciprocated

[Guest gisellaaa]

Well I have a few reasons of my own...
1. He lives in another country. We are literally separated by oceans, so a relationship isn't possible at the moment. I still have feelings for him and I'm not that interested in any other guys atm. 
2. I'm too busy with my education/career. Although, I'm only 17 and it is my senior year of high school - it's definitely less of a 'stress-out' than my junior year. But now, I'm focused to the future - graduating university cum laude and getting a nice-paying job before the age of 23. 
3. There aren't any guys around that particularly interests me atm. It's not that I'm picky - it's just that I prefer guys who are mature (which pretty much rules out almost 3/4 of the guys in my high school). By mature, I don't mean 'older', I just mean someone who takes their future and education seriously. 
4. I'm so far happy with being single right now. Although, yes it must be nice to be in a relationship, I'm not rushing for it to happen. If it happens, then it happens. Plus with relationships you have to face the fear that you might break-up with that other person + less emotional drama if you're single. 

[Guest christwangary]

I haven't meet one and don't need one for now

[Guest thingsdontmatter]

Was too busy with work and lost someone I love. I still like her a lot but I think she has moved on.

Have been finding it hard to date again since I'm pretty introverted by nature and I lack confidence.

[oryxncrake]

I think I'm just ugly. No one wants a fug girlfriend!

[Guest purekoreanblood]

I'm not aggressive enough with women. 

[Guest kateneo]

because i love being single....sometimes.

[Guest Bby-GIE]

I'm single because I'm a hermit and don't socialise with people. And secondly people are either not interested or they get bored of me.

[Guest ThunderSoul]

If they are old enough, they are single because:
-Decided to focus on career rather than have serious relationships-Are male and poor (no female looks at you if this statement is true)-Are homeless-And the biggest of all: you think you are too good for anyone to be in a relationship.

[Guest celinexx]

I choose to be single because I just came out of a really terrible relationship and am happy with my freedom and doing my own thing.
But that's not to say if the right person came along that i'd be willing to change that  

[this_isl0ve]

Because I lack confidence and I can't approach people to talk. I look like I'm 12, too.

[Guest ohmyshelley]

Too shy to approach guys, and guys don't approach me either. LOL I'm fine with being single though.. However it does get lonely when everyone else is in a relationship but you.