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@melody2016wrapzHow much times has passed since this all happened? Well, at first you should try to get regular contact with him again, no need to bomb him with messages, just put yourself back on his radar and get in touch with him. Try to get him into a state where he begins to talk to you again. 

This will be significantly more difficult, if a lot of time passed already. 

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@Dhakrait happened couple of months ago. Sorry for the late reply it’s because I finally get to meet him up with couple of friends to play tennis today. During tennis it seem that he picks on me on a lot of things. I’m not a pro of tennis and I am still trying to learn how to play, while I was in the game and he was just waiting for his turn, instead of throwing me a ball for me to surf but he throw a bunch of them at me. And if I was on his team he would say that he doesn’t rest enough for this round. I don’t know if he being mean because I was on his team because I don’t know how to play tennis or because he just hate me in general. We both argue throughout the time we play.

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@SejabinYou could also just ask me directly. :D 

 

@melody2016wrapzWell, his behavior suggests that he definitely has still some kind of interest in you. Now you just have to find out which kind it is. If guys have an interest in a girl, we tease her to get attention and make her interact with us. 

It's kinda hard for me see which way it went, was it more bantering between friends or serious argueing. Body language is also something important to take into account. 

 

If we like a girl, the first thing we do, is not showing that we like her. 

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Why a person, a guy, or a person, send you this ~~~> :heart: and red lips emo ?

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@SejabinBecause he/the person likes you? :huh: And the red lips...maybe he wants to kiss you?

 

Maybe he doesn't know you. ^_^ Kidding.

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@Dhakra  it was more of a bantering,, how do I figure it out what kind, it hard to tell since everybody was just playing tennis.He’s a very mysterious person, up until now his message is still kind of like beating around the bush. For example if I ask what year he born, he would not tell me but instead he would ask me to tell him his birth year instead. For guys, do you guys like to do the mind game also? If you were to interest in a girl would you do beating around the bush conversation? I noticed that during the tennis game  he was introduce one his guy friend to us but when it come to introduce me to that friend, both of them start to giggling. 

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I recently fell in love with lot of Thai BL. And mainly 2moons2

But I wonder a lot about Thai boyfriend. In 2moons2 their life looks so cool and they look so much fun to hang out with.

How are the guy in the serie versus real life? Also how to actually try to contact them to get closer? I tried send messages on instagram but they never reply. Can they date online? Are they are sweet as they look like? I am very into one of them and I would like to know him better. But idk how. I also do not live in Thailand but Europe. And it is not a fan kind of though. I am never the one going to even and screaming like crazy. I am so lost :/

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@melody2016wrapzThat's not a question that you can answer in general. People, and so are men, are all different. Some do, some don't. I personally wouldn't do that, or at least I think I wouldn't, but if that is his way, then I guess you have to either endure it or straight tell him what's up. Someone has to make the first move.

 

@PocketPoutouSo, you fell for a guy from a variety/TV Show? I think there is nothing I can really help you with. 

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@Dhakra I’m not as sure if I make the move what if he wasn’t interested at all. Also when you mention that “ If we like a girl, the first thing we do, is not showing that we like her.“ how do you not show it? In what way? Isn’t risky since if the girl think  you not show any interest, wouldn’t be bad? I texted him asking a question, he answer but when I give my opinion/ statement he doesn’t text back at all, is this a red flag?

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@melody2016wrapzAre you interested? The "if"-question will lead nowhere. It's always a risk, you can never be 100% certain. You have to decide for yourself what you want, it's not an easy step and shouldn't done lightly, but saying nothing, fearing that he doesn't reciprocate your feelings shouldn't stop you.

 

Teasing her, most likely. Try to achieve the opposite. We go into one extreme, either we always try to mock or tease you, or we totally ignore you, like you don't even exist. Every guy has his own way. :D 

 

 

Him not texting back is rarely a red flag, just because we don't reply asap or not at all doesn't mean we aren't interested. Maybe he is busy, doing something else or, and I know that feeling to well myself, sometimes texting is just annoying and bothersome. 

And not because of you. this isn't something personal, it doesn't mean that we don't like you, just the.....act itself, sometimes we just don't feel in the mood of texting, answering or writing a text. So we let it slip.

Just wait a day, maybe even two or three and message him again. Only if he continuesly doesn't reply, you should ask him what's going on. 

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@Dhakra I am interested, I guess 50/50 % chance, I just wish that I can know for sure so it could be 100%. I don’t mind being the person to make the first move. Just a question if guys know a girl like them and the girl confess but they’re not interested in that girl, can they develop their interest on that girl overtime? Or are they not going to and draw the line?

 

I heard some guy talked about texting and how they are not into it, but wouldn’t it be contradicting since guys, they want to talk to girl that they like by texting her?

 

He did reply back but my phone didn’t get the message until 2 days later ( I need a new phone for sure ) 

 

‘What a good way to approach him? Should I asked him to go get food one on one since he still owned me a dinner? Does guy prefer one on one interaction instead?

 

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@melody2016wrapzThat's not something I can generally say, that something individual that every guy has to figure out for himself. There is no general rule of thumb. Some guys can develop it, some don't. It depends on the personality.

There will never be a 100% chance to know, you can get more certain, yes, but unless you ask him you willl never know. Just don't rush it. 

 

We usually are not big texter, I for myself delay texting messages every day. Some like it more, some don't though. If he doesn't text you message, that doesn't need to be a bad sign. I get texts from my best friends each day, but don't answer right away aswell.

Maybe he is also like me and prefers voice messages. 

 

That's good sign. 

 

 Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. You have a good reason, since he owes you and it feels like a free and easy activity. We definitely do prefer one on one interactions with girls. ^_^ Just make sure during the meeting he doesn't feel like he is in an interrogation.

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Why men usually tend to care when they see you in your worst pain or situation? :joy: hahahhaha I mean please.. not that I can not endure pain or what I am a strong woman.. I will be appreciate men more if they care to us in our happiest healthiest time and do not wait until they must to see us in the worst situation :blush:

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@Sejabin Because we aren't able to see woman in pain, we are meant to protect, especially weak or loved ones. It doesn't matter for us if you are a strong person, it's in our dna to guard. Even if we do know that you can hold your ground, when we see you being vulnerable or not at full strength, our head clicks and makes us (overly) protective. 

 

Well, a good guy supports you in both situations, but different. You can't compare both ways of caring. The first one is more like being a shield, we try to guard, we try to help you recover by being someone you can lean on. We honestly don't even necessarily consider that you could handle on your own. We see you weakened and feel like we need to step in automatically. 

The other is more like supportive care, free form any health issues or pain. 

 

 

Same goes the other way around by the way. A men who show a girl is weakened side and is ready to show you being vulnerable, is someone who truly loves you. 

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Hye Everyone!!!!

My name is Anis and I am looking for street dancers to form a dance crew in 1/12/2019 .Open for Ampang,Selangor and Kuala Lumpur Area.The audition is so easy , you just have to send a short video of you dancing and a little bit of your introduction and your suggestion for the name of the dance group to my IG account : _anissyahirah_ 

Im looking for boys and girls no matter how old you are.I cant wait to form a Malaysia dance crew.The audition starts today...

 

My suggestion  for the name of the group is : Lost And Found dance crew

 

Feel free , Let It Be

 

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Why men can be so good with words? Like there are tons of honey in their lips.. sometimes I feel like I want to slap their cheeks (which means: stop talking) Wkwkkwwkwk :mrgreen:

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@SejabinCharme and experience ;) We are used to talk us out of stuff after messing up.

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Sometimes I don’t understand men’s ego. Does not want to accept woman’s advice or goal set because he thinks that this is a kind of underestimate man’s capability. 

 

I am a goal setter. Love to plan and manage and setting strategy.  As my sign sagittarius the archer. I have never setting something in my life without calculating the chances and risks before. Yeah sometimes things happened out of our control but still we can manage to do the best in that wild situation. So as if I give advice. It is not for underestimate or try to be smarter (which is true that I am smarter WKWKWKKWKWKW) BUT if I give advice it must be the best for the one who received it because I already calculate and predict things in the future. In other words. Listen to me. It will be the best. LOL. I am not trying to be the man but if try to listen to me things will be good for sure HAHAHAHAHAHA. 

 

Stupid man.. 

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