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1 hour ago, lu.hus said:

 

Have u ever seen a denial within 15minutes??? Yess, they denied this rumor in 14minutes only.. 

I think its all about agencies war. There is info regarding dispute on kjh contracts. If they are really dating for a year then why just now. Dispatch reported the dating news was false but then they posted and reports the photos of them together..

I think sjh is the victim here..she is not supposed to be in this scandal. 

I believe they were there together talking bout culture depot and sjh just helping him. They chose the apartments bcause they dont want people from agencies or other suspected bout kjh joining new agency. But too bad maybe someone inforn kjh current agency and they made it up to create such a mess toward CD agency and kjh. 

And been dating for a year and celebrated birthdays together are ridiculous. Remember when sjh invited kjh at Team Lab exhibit, that was sep 2020, and i can tell sjh created boundary between them (bcos she was already in close relationship with someone else who is ssh i assume) and there was only sunbae hoobae relationship between them. 

 

Lets wait for further info. As long as sjh denies it then lets believe her. This k entertainment i dustry is just too complicated to understand if we just catch it from one poin of view. Esp we are not koreans (at least i am not korean :)

 

Lets keep supporting our lovebirds heonhye as song as there is not a marriage news from any of them. This ship is def sailing :wow1:

 

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18 minutes ago, Shay Mitchel said:

I think its all about agencies war. There is info regarding dispute on kjh contracts.

 

And not only this. His previous drama has problems and I read that it affected actors. But I don't know if dating news would worsen things or improve them. I won't be surprised if it was SJH's agency idea. If SJH has secret relationship with someone else, then this rumors will help her to hide it.

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55 minutes ago, airgelaal said:

And not only this. His previous drama has problems and I read that it affected actors. But I don't know if dating news would worsen things or improve them. I won't be surprised if it was SJH's agency idea. If SJH has secret relationship with someone else, then this rumors will help her to hide it.

Yess. And if they really witness that they have been dating for a year why they reported the recent photos of them (suspected the photos are taken when they were discussing about the new agency). If they really witnes that both are dating the must have the other photos of them dating. 

This rumour is made up, the scenario is set up. 

Not really sure who is the big player behind this. 

But this is the first only ever sjh relationship rumor and her being involved in such a problem. 

 

If take a look on this photo, see how sjh put her hands in her back. Looked like she was not comfortable and unfamiliar with the situation. Maybe it was true that she visited kjh home but it was nothing just friend visit..

 

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Hopefully ssh is able to calm her and tell her how to respond and react toward this problem. :dontwanna:

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I think, the first and foremost thing we need to keep in mind when stanning a public figure or shipping a couple is that they are humans, with their own interests and wants. It's the best if we can take their happiness and well being into our consideration. Yes, we have our wishes and opinions but at the end of the day, it's their life, their happiness that matter.

 

With regard to the rumour, if that is true and KJH x SJY are happy with that, then I am happy for them. Despite I am shipping SSH x SJY (and I do believe there were genuine sparks between them), SJY is an independent woman knows what is best for her. Fans do not have any rights to complain, curse, hate or do anything negative to KJH or SJY. It's their life. If you don't like it, just move along.

 

If that is not true and it's a rumour spread because of contract disagreement, then I feel bad for KJH and SJY. Such rumours will affect their life and their family/beloved ones' life. 

 

Now, as shipper, I personally do not see any sparks between KJH and SJY. Yes, they were (are) in good relationship during CLOY and after, but personally, I see them as close friends. SSH x SJY, meanwhile, sparks were everywhere. 

 

So, please be calm and keep on shipping until there's an official acknowledgement from SSH or SJY that they are in relationship or getting married; hopefully to one another!

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Gayyoxx, thank you for the timely response.  I totally agree with you.  Agency disputes are ugly and this is going to get so much more uglier.  Let’s consider the motivation here and follow the money sort of thing.  I am sure KYH agency is not happy at this point and is trying to embarrass KYH.  I would not doubt if his agency had KYH followed and leaked the photos to dispatch.

 

For SJH she has been friends with KYH since CLOY.  They look good together but no apparent sparks with these two.  I get a bother sister type of vibe.  Look at BTS, interviews between the two, play games and you will come to this conclusion.  They have been friendly previously so not a big deal in my mine.  Remember KYH was added to DM with the support of SJH.  

 

I find the just released hug picture to be so timely by SSH.  This is a support picture and another crumb SJH and SSH are together.  This might actually work for us in bringing the E day sooner.  We went thru this with BinJin and the ex item all the time so again nothing is new here.  I Believe SJH when she says I don’t have a boyfriend in ILA.  No reason to doubt her or even her agency.

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This is my personal analysis. I've posted it on Dinner Mate message IG group.
My analysis is based on all the articles I have read and the tough competition that exists in the entertainment world. My analysis could be wrong but anything can happen when it comes to competition in the entertainment industry.
 

It seems that O&Entertainment (KJH's previous agency) still wants KJH to join them, considering their contract will end soon. But it seems that KJH wants to try to improve his career by moving to another agency.

 

Incidentally he knows SJH well and finds that her agency, Depot Culture is a new thriving agency with talented actors there. Including recently Kim So Hyun also joined this agency.
It seems that O & Entertainment is aware that KJH will not renew his contract with them.

 

The people from the agency informed the company that KJH seemed to be moving to SJH's agency because they saw that since KJH came to the Team Labs event, KJH and SJH met several times and it seems that KJH also did not immediately renew his contract with them.

 

Why did SJH only invite KJH to the Team Labs event held by Depot Culture?
First, as gratitude for KJH's willingness to support her as a cameo in DM.
Second, surely SJH already knew that KJH was considering changing agency, there has been talk about this before, and she wanted to promote her agency to KJH.

 

They must be very upset because they think KJH is one of the potential actors for them. They couldn't like it when KJH moved to a new agency.
The only way to make it clear whether KJH really moved to Culture Depot, they informed Dispatch that KJH and SJH were dating, without telling the problem that had happened between KJH and them.
 

Dispatch, who desperately needed news about celebrity life, and did not know what really happened between O&Entertainment and KJH immediately followed KJH's movements. And it was true that he was seen meeting SJH. Dispatch could even take picture of them in the parking lot of SJH or KJH apartments.

 

If we look at the photos of SJH and KJH in the parking lot, it looks like they knew that they were being followed and being photographed. They just looked at the photographer and weren't surprised. They felt like they hadn't done anything wrong so they didn't care.

 

When Dispatch finally broke the news, both SJH and her agency, Culture Depot immediately denied it. Her agency explained what really happened. The agency acknowledged that KJH had plans to join them with SJH's help.
 

I think since KJH's transfer to the Culture Depot agency is confidential, it makes perfect sense that KJH didn't come to the Culture Depot office meeting or they had a meeting at a cafe or restaurant. It seemed that KJH did not want his previous agency to notice his movements.

 

Meanwhile, O&Entertainment did not provide any clarification regarding the rumors.

They only talked about the cooperation contract with KJH which will end soon.

 

The clarification from Culture Depot that they were not dating and SJH & KJH meeting because of KJH's plan to join the Culture Depot agency clarified the suspicion of the O&Entertainment agency so far that KJH would move to a new agency.

 

Actually O&Entertainment just wanted to know the truth that KJH really moved to Culture Depot. They made up false rumor involving SJH only to get news that KJH was indeed moving to Culture Depot.

 

Off topic:
If you've ever read how evil Harvey Weinstein, a producer and co-founded the entertainment company Miramax, has sexually abused several actresses with threats that they wouldn't get roles in his films if they weren't willing to have sex with him.
 

 

So that's how cruel the competition in the entertainment world is.

They do everything they can and knock each other down to get success.

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Hello, all. Haven’t been able to check out news about our fave couple in a while and suddenly - wham! Bam! Here we are. 
 

Conpared to the rumor mills in the entertainment industry in other countries, this seems pretty tame. But for someone like SJH, I guess, who seems to have a reputation for being highly professional and particular about keeping her personal life out of the public eye, this kind of rumor can be quite upsetting.  More so if she were an innocent party who finds herself caught in the middle of some friction between KJH (who’s one of her good friends) and his agency.

 

I honestly don’t think she and KJH are dating, not because I’m partial to SSH for her, but because I never saw anything that would give any indication that something more than friendship was growing between them. I would cite the BinJin couple as an example. I’m not really a fan of them or their ship, although I find them cute together. But even so, I saw the spark between them even in the few CLOY BTS that I’ve seen of them. And look where they are now. I never saw that in the CLOY BTS of KJH and SJH. They always came off as friendly, civil, but still with professional distance between them. Compare that to SJH’s behavior and demeanor in the DM presscon with SSH.
 

Of course, I could be wrong, and for all we know, maybe SJH and KJH are the type of couple who are so discreet that one would never know they were together until they actually come out and say it. But if they were really already dating for about a year now, then I don’t think SJH would have still acted that way with SSH in their numerous DM BTS. That doesn’t seem to be the kind of person that she is. In fact, I think she would have put more distance between herself and SSH if she were already in some sort of understanding with KJH, especially with how open and vocal SSH was about his liking her. 
 

But let’s wait and see what happens. SSH, for his part, seems to be very happy and content with his life nowadays. Makes me wonder where all that contentment and quiet happiness are coming from.
 

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@SophieAnne, @lu.hus, @airgelaal, @Jimmy Greene, @Shay Mitchel@gayyoxx@hrkharis, @akhenaten

Kudos to all your comments! 

Thanks for all your two cents and I agree with everyone!

This ship will continue to sail!

Let’s all move forward and ignore the bad news.

 

@SexyDolceVita, @Siomara, don’t let this news pull your shipper spirits down.

We have more than 100 crumbs to support this ship!

Let’s keep on sailing.

Please keep on posting

 

In the meantime here are Black and White Shots of our Lovebirds

 

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Keep the Faith Everyone! 
 

PS: On a positive note, SJH’s IG increased by 12k overnight and the silent lurkers showed up!

 

Thank Goodness this rumor did not backfired on SJH.

 

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if they really are dating, I try to be sincere with what happened :dissapointed_relieved:, But I also hope the happy news from SSH as soon as possible, if ssh and sjh are real dating I am very happy, wish them all the best

 

I also don't close my eyes with their pictures, it looks like they are really ready to go public, because they saw when they were photographed, I still haven't accepted the reason I went to my house just for the reason of discussing moving agencies :crazymad:, the point is now I'm trying to be more open with  this problem, (that this is someone else's life) very hard to forget when over a year I keep hoping that SSH and SJH are a Real couple, even I pray for both of them, (but only time can answer this riddle all)

 

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There is a saying “not all you read or see on social media is true"

 

While some netizens pointed out that the signs are there such as the overnight bags they were carrying and SJH’s denial is a reminiscent of Binjin’s dating denial when they denied the dating rumor 3x then turned out they were dating, SJH and KJH’s dating rumor cannot be compared to BinJin’s. 

For one, SJH and KJH’s dynamics/behavior toward each other is totally different.

Second, they do not have "the crumbs" that our ship have (mutual admiration, the sparks when they are together, their body language via BTS, teenage giddiness) 

Third, even her BFF SSY in "Life Bar" said SJH takes care of her friends very well and as a friend to KJH, she was there for him giving him moral support when he was having a hard time with the scandals he had from his previous drama.

Thus with these reasons for me, they come off as more platonic/sibling kind of relationship only.

 

I am an SJH fan and I support her with whatever or whoever she will be happy with but at this point I believe her when she said no she is not dating KJH. 

 

Therefore, I believe this ship is sailing so I am keeping the faith.

 


Moving on, sharing some positivity!

 

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“I love with all my Heart” - SJH 11/7/2016

 

“If I were to love a person, I would only love that person - SSH 2/1/2017

 

Our Lovebirds both “wear their heart on their sleeve” when it comes to their views on love

 

They are really a perfect match

 


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1 hour ago, Anjel said:

I still haven't accepted the reason I went to my house just for the reason of discussing moving agencies 

 

It's not like you can invite only lovers to your house. And not necessary they were alone.

 

I think this situation is weird. If KJH has problems with his agency and he wants to move to SJH agency, then I don't think he wanted to make it public this way. And I don't think it's good for Culture Depot. So if they are really dating it was more safe to admit rumors (I don't think that any of them has a contract, that forbid them to date). If they are not it's better to say they are friends. So why Culture Depot so easily admitted that SJH and KJH were just discussing his contact? It's obvious, that both agencies knew, that Dispatch would public this story, but we got such a weird outcome anyway. I think there is a third party in this story.

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I believe what SJH said that they are only like brother and sister relationship with KJH. If she had been dating him for one year as what Dispatch reported, she wouldn't have been responsive to the affections of SSH in the first place. She would have drawn the boundaries with him and just remained professional keeping her distance with him. But that is not what we all saw with the two of them. And in the post Dinner Mate interviews SJH clearly expressed mutual admiration for SSH both in his physical attributes and in his wonderful personality which made her feel so comfortable. Being a very private celebrity and not wanting the limelight on her and just doing what she loves and that is to act, her being on the news and trending worldwide on social media in not something she wants. I believe in what she said that she and KJH are not dating. She vehemently denied it more than once and I know she would not do that to the man she loves, to deny that they are in love. So by clearly denying, it means that she is not in love with KJH and they are just in a platonic relationship. I still believe in SSH and SJH and pray and hope for the two of them ❤

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Hi All,

It's been a while since I've posted anything on this forum. Work, life has kept me so so busy. But I've been lurking here and on the DM IG account. We were sailing so smoothly for such a long time, and now BAM, a BIG WHOOPER of a wave! But fret not, fellow shippers....

Echoing all the sentiments of @huckleberrymoonriver @hrkharis@fiona628 @Jimmy Greene @akhenaten the pictures, the dating rumors, are manufactured by a 3rd party. I was a BINJIN shipper and I watched the bts and interactions between SJH and KJH--- no spark. I watched their interactions at the Culture Depot event--- no spark. it was clear that their relationship is similar to that of older sister-younger brother. That's it. 

I understand that some of us need something MORE, and because we haven't gotten something like the "grocery incident" of BINJIN, it is difficult to keep the faith in our couple. BUT... LOOK AT THE CRUMBS our OPT has given us the past months during the filming of DM, the interviews, the IG posts (with hidden messages), etc. 

I'm still sailing this ship, and like I've said many times in the past, if no denial from the SSH-SJH agencies regarding THEM, then its still sailing. And if in the end, SSH and SJH are together then YEY! and if they aren't then, I'll be happy for them too, and continue to support them.

Lastly, one of the "perks" of shipping them is the people I've met online who are genuinely really AWESOME! This may be an added bonus, but one that I didn't expect. Keep the love going for us OPT, friends. The truth prevails! Peace!

:heart::heart::heart:

P.S. @Shay Mitchel - agree with your post re SJH and KJH's demeanor: they KNEW they were being followed. The way they looked at the camera, the hands behind SJH's back, etc. Maybe, the reason why SJH had an overnight bag with her is that she had just returned from Jeju visiting SSH, and had little brother KJH pick her up. :approves:

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Before I go on, I'd like to premise this post with the statement that I wrote this while wearing the hat of a neutral, non-SSH/SJH shipper as far as this dating rumor is concerned so I can assess more objectively if there is a great likelihood of it being true.  I haven't jumped ship yet and I'm still on board, and I will hold off my decision to jump ship until there is enough proof - preferably a proper statement from SJH and KJH - that they are a couple.  :)

 

I was going over the photos and statements again over at IG and if you think about it, they look similar to the photos of other KDrama actors who were dating under the radar of the media and got caught on camera by Dispatch.  The masks, the heavily wrapped-up attire, the access to their respective apartments via parking lots, stuff like that.  That's why I'm not surprised that it was concluded that SJH and KJH are currently dating.  If Dispatch is reliable, then maybe they were already keeping these two actors under surveillance for quite a while now and when they decided they had enough evidence, they came out with this bomb.

 

But if they really have been dating since CLOY ended and right before SJH started with DM, then SJH's statements about her single status all this time aren't true.  Yet this kind of behavior doesn't seem to jive with the kind of personality she seems to have.  Although a very private person, I don't see her as the kind who would outright lie about something so very important to her.  Maybe she won't give details and maybe she would give evasive answers, but I don't think she would behave as if she were single and unattached.  And based on her personality, I doubt very much if she would act the way she did with SSH all throughout DM if she were in a relationship with someone else. 

 

On the other hand, it's also possible that she made those statements despite being in a relationship so she can deflect the attention of the media.  In which case, they wouldn't be exactly lies, but more of half-truths.  Or it's also possible that, at the time she said them, they weren't a couple yet.  Maybe, if the stories are true, she was just being his friend during an especially challenging time in his personal and professional life.  Maybe it only progressed to something else shortly after DM ended and while he was doing Mr. Queen.  So in this case, her statements weren't lies.  They were true, at the time she said them. 

 

So how do we factor in all those BTS of her candid and unguarded behavior with SSH?  Well, if she and KJH were still just friends at the beginning and during DM, then maybe she behaved that way with SSH because he made her very comfortable and she saw him as a good friend.  And she genuinely liked him.  However, if she and KJH were already a couple prior to and during DM, then she was probably comfortable enough with SSH that she trusted him not to mistake her actions for anything else other than that of a close female friend and colleague.  

 

And what about SSH and his affectionate and playful actions towards SJH?  Well, it's possible that he was just being teasing and playful with her as her sunbae.  And maybe, if he were already aware at the time that she and KJH were secretly dating, it was an incentive for him to tease her more.  I've seen that kind of interaction and behavior between an onscreen couple here in my country.  They were hugely popular and so many people were utterly convinced of their onscreen romance and were getting confused as to what the real score was between them.  But the actor was known to be very much married and very private about his personal life, while the actress had a relationship with another actor at the time and everyone knew about it.  Yet despite that,  their dynamic onset (as seen in their BTS) was electrifying and he would treat her as if she were his girlfriend.  Of course, he was also her senior professionally and they had become close friends during their drama, so it kind of gave him that license to tease her. But it was an inside joke because they both knew they were committed to other people.  

 

So what am I trying to say? That the possibility of SJH having been in a relationship all this time with KJH is there, despite everything that we saw and all the "crumbs" thrown our way.  That she might be the kind of person who would act formally when in public towards the person she's romantically involved with in order to safeguard their privacy, while with someone she knows she has nothing going on with but she likes as a friend, she can be very openly affectionate.  

 

And the lightning-quick denial from SJH's camp (or was it her direct and personal denial?  I can't recall) about the relationship?  If she's really not in a relationship with KJH, then she did that to make it clear once and for all that these are mere rumors and she's nipping it in the bud.  (And if she is in a budding or ongoing relationship with someone else, whether it's SSH or whoever, she wanted to assure that person that nothing's going on.)  On the other hand, if they are in a relationship, then that denial would be your typical damage-control to avoid any premature revelation that may adversely affect them, which in this case, would be similar to what happened with Son Ye Jin and Hyun Bin.      

 

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Thank you all for the great analysis.. it did give me some hope that the dating news may be fake. That said, I can’t shake off the question why they were both carrying what seems like a day bag.  If it’s really true, then what would be going through SSH’s mind now? It’s obvious that he has feelings for SJH - even if he knows that she already has someone during DM production.. now that it’s been out, he must be feeling very low.. and at a time when he’s doing filming for Voice4 which requires his utmost focus.  My heart aches just thinking of this. :sad1:

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53 minutes ago, moomoo said:

Thank you all for the great analysis.. it did give me some hope that the dating news may be fake. That said, I can’t shake off the question why they were both carrying what seems like a day bag.  If it’s really true, then what would be going through SSH’s mind now? It’s obvious that he has feelings for SJH - even if he knows that she already has someone during DM production.. now that it’s been out, he must be feeling very low.. and at a time when he’s doing filming for Voice4 which requires his utmost focus.  My heart aches just thinking of this. :sad1:


My personal take on this is that, if SJH and KJH are really already dating now, they weren’t dating yet when DM started and while it was airing.  Maybe at the time, she was still being the supportive friend and noona to KJH. But maybe it developed into something more after DM. 
 

If SSH were really interested in her romantically, maybe he tried to show his interest early on, but when he saw

how involved she already was in KJH at the time (whether as a friend or whatever), he decided to back off gracefully and just manifest his feelings through his playfulness.
 

It also kind of disappoints me, if the dating rumors turn out to be true. There’s actually this annoying little voice in my head that says it is, but then the other part of me that ate all those crumbs SSH and SJH gave us refuses to accept defeat, at least until we hear it from SJH that the rumors are true. 

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