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[Drama 2020] It's Okay not to be Okay, 사이코지만 괜찮아

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these two need to stop ask each other question 

Q- what later mean ?
** sometime before you die :joy:
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^Now that I see ST and JS in their pizza shop, I want pizza too! My food cravings are also being influence by this show lol! 

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12 hours ago, cenching said:

Love Story On The Stairs......:rubchin:

lol sorry have to continue this joke with bad bad ediing but

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for the sake of 4th option:mrgreen: @Ameera Ali :joy:

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MY cutting her hair was the highlight of the episode. i see a lot of rapunzel references. hmm now beauty and the beast? interesting :yay:

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@bairama I can’t sleep thinking if The friend  is Dog that chase chicken , what our girl is Dog that chase the sheep :mrgreen: 

 

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** Not in the radar option 

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19 minutes ago, stella77 said:

^Now that I see ST and JS in their pizza shop, I want pizza too! My food cravings are also being influence by this show lol! 

 @stella77 Weren't you craving for the barbecue before?  :bashful:

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Eng sub of Ep 8 preview! :fun: 

 

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Today episode had done a great job that covered both ends of the spectrum.

 

KT shown cheerful in the day with MY but displayed his vulnerable side of emotion exploded in the evening. This is exactly what most people behavior. Day and night difference, only during the bedtime is the time where shown your true self. There were many close-up shots on KSH and I think he had done a great job in today's episode.

 

Using a well structure of healing flow in this EP :
1. KT discovered the possible fear factor from MY's nightmare

2. A baby day out - a cheerful day for MY and KT to release stress

3. Using "cheerful dog" story book as an analogy to tell tale is a perfect match

4. Using the right dialogue by MY to challenge KT about the suppressing feeling

5. Remove the fur coat from the lady patient is a good sign of releasing burden (she felt guilty of her daughter death all these while)

6. Cutting a short hair in the end is a big relief for both of them, at least is a good start for MY.

 

What a fundamental and almost holistic approach to start a healing that had displayed in this drama. We are yet to see more reveal in the upcoming ep, let's see how our most pathetic KT to solve his own problem as it will not an easy journey for him to torn between these two who rely on him alot. :)

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Just a litte reminder from It's Okay To Not Be Okay

 

 

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The Cheerful dog story with eng sub. I love all the stories that were being shared in this drama. Salute to the writer!

 

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2 hours ago, mademoisellesia said:

In just one episode, the Show has resolved the long time misunderstanding of Kang Tae towards his mother and Moon Young releasing herself from her mother. I've no issue with this if the Show has more contents to fill in the next...9 episodes but if it doesn't then it's worrisome that these got dealt with so soon. I do see the intention of the writer to resolve each of their problems first before moving a step up in the relationship, so let's hope the concern is all for nothing.


This. By resolving it at this time, I can’t help but think that something big, bad, and sad will happen to break whatever they built.

 

Although honestly, I enjoy the pacing of the past seven episodes. The story flows naturally, and I appreciate how the writers use the stories of other people to help the characters deal with their own trauma. And what the leads end up doing is comforting each other. While they may be there during the course of events or even trigger it to happen, there are a lot of more direct factors that come into play. The thing with KT, I think he has always been asking himself if his mother really loved him or not or if she had him just because she needed him. It was triggered in the fourth episode and worsened in the sixth one. It broke down his wall by the seventh ep. My grandma used to tell me: A drunk man’s words is a sober man’s thoughts or something like that. For so long, he has been repressing himself—even bits and pieces of his childhood. And when he got tipsy and when he heard his brother’s testimonies, he was forced to evaluate his memories and view them differently. The whole scene built up pretty well, starting from the issues regarding parenting in episode 3, seeing Kang Eun-ja break down and regretting what she Did to her daughter, his choice to drink that night,  Juri’s mom and Jae-su comforting him on the rooftop—and finally the hug he gave his brother.

 

This means there are NINE episodes where so many things can happen :( and we’re already so attached. We don’t want to see them in more pain :(

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just don’t make him notice you :joy:

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Last night was such a heart-rendering episode. With the revelations of the mother who loves both of the sons the same. It breaks my heart seeing KT cried all his inside for all his time. I think this is the first time he is being honest to his feelings. The heart is a liar which lies when it's hurting. The lady patient gets her reality back and accepts it with more peace. It's so poignant that this episodes are depicting how these characters are finally agreed to make peace with themselves. 

 

Now talking about MY's mom, in every flashback memories of her, she is the one who is indifferent here. So they declared her death as she disappeared for quite long. Like I said the lady who took the book from Mr.Ko and told him he's always one step behind probably knows something? 

 

Aww.. the otp scenes melt my heart. The nightmare snatcher doll present is such a sweet one that happens in this episode.  I love how MY pouts her lips waiting for something else then mock how ugly it is. But once KT said it's made by him she changed quickly into praising the handmade is such a pretty one. She even threw away the statue out her table. Lols

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Hello. I just started to watch this last Friday and finally got to catch up with the recent episode and I definitely regret why I didn't decide to watch this earlier. Anyways, can't count how many times this show manage to make me cry. It just speaks to you deeply. Like in the latest ep, that back story with KT's mom. I really ugly cried at that part.

 

Anyway, I really want to know if MY's mother is still alive, like her disappearance seems fishy. Also, what really happened between MY and her dad. Like I wanted to know who's really the bad guy in their family.

 

And I really can't wait for the OTP's relationship to further develop. I hope it won't cause conflict between KT and ST though. Looking forward for later's episode. :) I am so excited to see more of KT's jealous side lol.

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@YongZura⁷ yes, I want to eat everything: Korean BBQ, pizza and soft serve ice cream Lol I have healthy metabolism 

 

For me, our three leads have just started on their healing process at this mid way point and to finish well, it will be painful and difficult times ahead but it doesn’t mean that it will be a sad or terrible thing.
 

So yes, we are half way through the show and as the week progress, we see how the characters are confronting their fears and working to help each other in their own ways. There’s still a lot to understand re MY’s mom and her death, Moon brother’s mom’s death too and how will our three leads handle it all once the truth is revealed.


My theories re MY’s mom and dad

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My theory is that MY’s mom probably committed suicide but in the process of doing so she traumatizes both her husband and MY very badly. Before the death, I think MY’s father knew of his wife’s obsession with MY and maybe in his fit of anger/jealous too?, tried to kill her thinking a combo of stopping his wife who was abusing MY or preventing MY to become insane like his wife. I wanted to know if he knew she had problems, did he tries to get her help etc. It seems like she was just left in the castle with MY. 


Back to the mother’s suicide - I think she drowned herself in the water hence the flashback of MY seeing her mom say save me. I don’t think they ever found the body and it’s MY’s projection of guilt that she didn’t save her mom that she imagines her being in the basement. 

 

I hope the show doesn’t make MY’s mom the killer of Moon brother’s mom. It is too much even if she was insane but if they do I would like them to explain it well and not just it be like oh an insane person killed this poor mother. It is also a bit contradictory of the overall message of the show so far too - to paint people with mental problems in a positive light and I would be conflicted it in the end this villain would be someone like MY’s mom.

 
but these are me just making guesses and I am looking forward to how they explain everything.

 

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The Wizard of Oz and IOTNBO/Thoughts on Ep7

 

The Wizard of Oz

 

In the story of The Wizard of Oz, a young girl by named Dorothy and her dog, Toto, live on a farm in Kanas. One day, a tornado hits, teleporting both Dorothy and Toto to the magical land of Oz. It is there that Dorothy meets a good witch who gives her ruby red slippers. The good witch tells her that in order to return home all she has to do is travel on the yellow brick road to Emerald City and meet the Wizard of Oz/Professor who will help her. 

 

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Along her journey she encounters the evil Wicked Witch of West who seeks to take her ruby red slippers as well as kill her. However, with the help of her companions whom she had met along the way, Dorothy is able to defeat the evil Wicked Witch of the West and continue her journey to meet the Wizard/Professor.

 

Upon meeting the Wizard/Professor and the good witch, Dorothy is able to return home by clicking her heels three times and saying "there's no place like home". She then finds herself back home in her bed and surrounded by her family members and her dog, Toto. She goes on to telling her family what all had happened to her, but her family dismisses her story by telling her it was just all a dream. The story ends with Dorothy insisting that it was all real and says, " I'll never run away from home again. There's no place like home". 

 

Connection to IOTNBO

 

Like Dorothy, MY also returns home with the help of her red slippers (aka KT). For example, it was KT's decision to move to the area of the OK mental hospital that leads to MY deciding to move back home. Additionally, KT is her dog, Toto, who is her loyal and trusty companion that she cares deeply about. KT could also be MY's reason for wanting to permanently stay in her old family home. Meaning that he is the one who is responsible for turning her nightmare of a home into a happy one. 

 

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As previously mentioned,  the Wizard/Professor is an important figure that helps Dorothy/MY in returning home. So maybe there is some sort of aspect of Professor Ko that will help MY to heal from the past. It leads me to think that Professor Ko is actually a good person, but may not have been a good father to MY similar to how the Wizard says to Dorothy that he is a "good man, but a bad wizard". Finally, MY's mom is like the Wicked Witch of the West who tries to kill her and take away her red slippers (i.e tries to kill her prince aka KT). 

 

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  • Favorite Moments:
    • KT taking care of MY after her nightmare
      • I thought he was actually going to sleep with her in her bed...guess he's too much of a gentleman LOL
    • CEO nearly falling and getting saved by KT 
      • Reminded me of the Matrix for some odd reason haha
      • Also the CEO's hand on KT's chest....HILARIOUS
    • KT realizing that his mother really did love him
      • Such a heart-wrenching moment!!!! :tears:
    • KT and MY's date at the restaurant
      • KT is just like his mom by giving MY all the food and saying he's not hungry...AWWW
      • KT spitting up water from the shock of MY asking if he's ever slept with a woman before...HAHAHAH. REMOVE THAT SAFETY PIN MY HAHHAHA
      • KT's awkward laugh HAHAHAH
    • KY/MY's walk on the walkway
      • So freaking sweet and when he briefly held her I was like OH THEYRE ABOUT TO KISS RIGHT NOW!! However, I was slightly disappointed when they didnt haha. KISS ALREADY!!
    • KT in the cab and MY's texting 
      • Let's be real here, all of us at one point or another have been that way with our significant others haha.
      • KT's smile in that scene was so sweet !!
    •  KT/MY stair case scene
      • HAHA BABY GIRL IS TRYING HARD TO SLEEP WITH KT!! He just needs to stop denying her advancements haha
    • MY cutting her hair and KT helping her to fix it
      • OMG I was clapping so hard during these scenes! I'm so proud of MY for finally cutting her leash!! 
      • The looks between these two just made my heart flutter so much!! It was so touching!! They were both genuinely smiling at each other with looks of love and happiness!! It felt like such a breakthrough in the development of their relationship! I loved it !:wub:

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Love how he Longing for her , the touch of her hand warmth:wub: 

 

 

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Theme of ep. 07 centers heavily on role of mothers and the weight carried by the words we say.

 

Moon Young inadvertently helped Ms. Kang to gain closure and in turn, come to terms with loss of her daughter.. It was also the catalyst needed for Moon Young herself to free herself from the clutches of her own mother. Which results in her chopping off her lustrous, flowing locks. 

 

I find it true and funny when Moon Young said, If you want to be fashionable, you need to be prepared to be uncomfortable. Which is the equivalent of Beauty is Pain somethin' I'm more familiar with LoL!     

 

We, as do I have all been guilty of uttering words in the heat of anger. We often forget how hurtful words can be. At times, we say things without really meaning it. Unfortunately, the damage is already done by the time we realize it.

 

That behind every word that's been said, the one who conveyed it actually meant well. As seen in flashback, Gang Tae's mom loved him just as much. We just choose to see the worse which mars our entire perception. I think it's an Asian culture thing LoL. My parents believed in that whole bullying is love. At the time, I didn't see or choose to not understand the meaning of their words until now... that scene where Gang Tae held onto Sang Tae while crying out he misses their mom hit hard for me personally..      

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1 hour ago, midflight said:

This. By resolving it at this time, I can’t help but think that something big, bad, and sad will happen to break whatever they built.

 

Although honestly, I enjoy the pacing of the past seven episodes. The story flows naturally, and I appreciate how the writers use the stories of other people to help the characters deal with their own trauma. And what the leads end up doing is comforting each other. While they may be there during the course of events or even trigger it to happen, there are a lot of more direct factors that come into play. The thing with KT, I think he has always been asking himself if his mother really loved him or not or if she had him just because she needed him. It was triggered in the fourth episode and worsened in the sixth one. It broke down his wall by the seventh ep. My grandma used to tell me: A drunk man’s words is a sober man’s thoughts or something like that. For so long, he has been repressing himself—even bits and pieces of his childhood. And when he got tipsy and when he heard his brother’s testimonies, he was forced to evaluate his memories and view them differently. The whole scene built up pretty well, starting from the issues regarding parenting in episode 3, seeing Kang Eun-ja break down and regretting what she Did to her daughter, his choice to drink that night,  Juri’s mom and Jae-su comforting him on the rooftop—and finally the hug he gave his brother.

 

This means there are NINE episodes where so many things can happen :( and we’re already so attached. We don’t want to see them in more pain :(

I'm rewatching ep7 at the moment I think if it is planned well it is possible to spread it all out to 9 episodes. We still have the following to explore:

 

1. What's the backstory behind Joori and Moon Young? Like Kang Tae with his mum and Moon Young telling him to "Gojo" - It appears there may be misunderstanding between them when young since they were friends before.

 

2. Daepyo-nim's relationship with Moon Young and potentially Moon Young's mum. I don't know if I miss the details in previous episodes but he knows a lot about Moon Young's family so I'm thinking he may be an old friend to the family.

 

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Ep7 rewatch: I reached the part where Kang Tae cries on the rooftop and I cried again with him.

 

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Ok....back...

 

3. The mystery behind the woman who hums "Clementine". Is it Moon Young's mum?

 

4. Kang Tae & Moon Young's blossoming relationship. For now Kang Tae needs to confront he still has feelings for Moon Young (think this will happen tonight).

 

5. Also in ep8 preview, is Sang Tae jealous and fighting with Moon Young for Kang Tae?

 

6. The mystery behind the butterfly & will that lead to the mystery of their mother's death? Will this also lead to Moon Young's mother's disappearance?

 

7. The mystery behind why Go Dae Hwan is trying to kill Moon Young.

 

8. Moon Young's new book and Sang Tae's new sketch.

 

9. Sang Tae's wall painting.

 

10. Triangle love between Jae Soo, Joori and Daepyo-nim.

 

11. Other patients' stories that could tie in with the characters and their character growth.

 

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The scene where Kang Tae was drunk, these two are sitting so close with each other. Being Moon Young, I'd have expected her to take advantage and kisses Kang Tae. He was so drunk he might not resist and voila safety pin unplug :D But I also like that it didn't happen as it allows them to have the deeper conversation about Kang Tae's story and intro to Mang Tae (so cute, but is this going to be commercialised later?).

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