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[Drama 2020] It's Okay not to be Okay, 사이코지만 괜찮아

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I let out numerous sighs this episode.. Wow. Despite all the happy scenes and MY and KT getting closer, I could feel the incoming heartbreak. We all knew that KT would eventually be pushed to choose between MY and ST. I just want everyone to be happy. I wish Sang Tae didn't say that to Kang Tae, but at the same time I understand why. I fear that either KT will move and choose his brother over MY, or that MY will let KT go so he can be with his brother. I hope there is no break up, the two leads have just been through so much already.

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Also, doesn't it feel like everyone is against KT and MY's healing?? MY gets a haircut, Sang Tae asks why and says she looks pretty before. KT finally letting out his emotions, Jae Su telling him he looks like a joker and the nurse telling him he was good at holding it in. 

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Why it feel like she send her step child to school , now want free time with the daddy :joy:


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4 hours ago, hwonhwon_stv said:

2020.07.12  It's Okay To Not Be Okay EP 08 TVING network real-time ratings break 77%
 

 

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What is the real time ratings 

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6 hours ago, stella77 said:

This show also trended on Twitter in Thailand last night and has been #1 and now #2 show on Netflix TH since it came on. I think many people are watching and enjoying it because it is an amazing drama as we all know.
 

I made a mistake of reading some comments from haters for whatever reason and I can tell they didn’t even watch the show because their complaint was that it was too dark, too slow, no character development and that it was romanticizing bad behavior.

 

Gosh, that's too bad about people's comments. I don't understand why people have the urge to comment on things that don't affect them. If you don't enjoy the show, just don't watch it! <_<

 

2 hours ago, mademoisellesia said:

@Ameera Ali Oh no!! Subway is back. Damn this PPL never dies.

I had been wondering why there's so much Subway, especially in tvN shows! The darn PPL! Is this very common in kdramas?

 

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2 hours ago, stella77 said:

They run away from butterflies because ST witness their mom’s murder and due to his trauma - he believes the butterflies are associated with the killer. He keeps on having nightmares that butterflies are out to get him etc. Since they were on the run since they were young, they just developed this nomadic lifestyle moving almost every year. KT feels like doing this will help ST deal with his nightmares but actually, he admits it’s for himself too - running away is easier to do than facing complicated problems. 

 

 

Yup and Also because what I think.

 

1. ST was watching something related to Butterflies Before Their Mum's Murder.

2. His Trauma made him convulate and merge the 2 concepts which Led ST to believe that BUtterflies are what chasing Him because they killed their Mum.

 

There is an Recurrent theme of Supressed/Overlapped Modified Memories in this show.The Characters are Basically Living Inside their Head and that is mostly what happens, their Imagination is their Made up reality. Some have the imagination part more prominent than others.

 

Prominent Ones....>>>>

1. MY's confusion on her Mom.being DOA

2. KT resentment leading to misunderstanding his MuM for half his live

3. ST relation to Butterflies.

4. The Fur Lady and her daughter's accident, also the fact that she was Poor but thought she was rich enough to get Plastic Surgeries.

 

Also Yes, There are BUTTERFLIES EVERYWHERE IN KOREA BUT Were Moon Brothers Living in Vicinity to a Garden or Jungle to Spot plethora of Butterflies everyday ??? Nope, they were from what I remember living in a City Space where spotting a Butterfly would be less, Also ST was working in such a place less closer to see a Butterfly, whenever He saw one that Triggered him ( the first scene itself was KT getting scolded for ST trigger was due to this thing I believe).

 

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Me : yes to the mom , I vote for Food fight 

 

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28 minutes ago, madmad min said:

 

 

Yup and Also because what I think.

 

1. ST was watching something related to Butterflies Before Their Mum's Murder.

2. His Trauma made him convulate and merge the 2 concepts which Led ST to believe that BUtterflies are what chasing Him because they killed their Mum.

 

There is an Recurrent theme of Supressed/Overlapped Modified Memories in this show.The Characters are Basically Living Inside their Head and that is mostly what happens, their Imagination is their Made up reality. Some have the imagination part more prominent than others.

 

Prominent Ones....>>>>

1. MY's confusion on her Mom.being DOA

2. KT resentment leading to misunderstanding his MuM for half his live

3. ST relation to Butterflies.

4. The Fur Lady and her daughter's accident, also the fact that she was Poor but thought she was rich enough to get Plastic Surgeries.

 

Also Yes, There are BUTTERFLIES EVERYWHERE IN KOREA BUT Were Moon Brothers Living in Vicinity to a Garden or Jungle to Spot plethora of Butterflies everyday ??? Nope, they were from what I remember living in a City Space where spotting a Butterfly would be less, Also ST was working in such a place less closer to see a Butterfly, whenever He saw one that Triggered him ( the first scene itself was KT getting scolded for ST trigger was due to this thing I believe).

 

Yes I agree with you its called intrusive dreaming and thinking its symptoms of PTSD which comes from a traumatic experience its all caused from

 Trauma remember they moved when ST dreams start thats his trigger that start his episodes and even MY father has it I wonder what her mother did to them in that house  

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Thoughts on ST

  • I wonder what's driving ST's obsession over MY's shortened hair. At one point, he asked GT if he was the one who cut it, and GT didn't have the chance to answer. In general, it's a very intimate gesture for a man to touch a woman's hair, and there certainly was quite a bit of touching when GT was fixing MY's hair.
  • The hospital director previously prompted ST to paint butterflies and today the head nurse is asking ST to paint a small flower in a corner. I think they're trying to break down his aversion to butterflies.

The battle over GT has begun in earnest

  • MY acting like a baby at the breakfast table, trying to get his attention by asking for the omelette.
  • The pillow fight over MT was great. ST and MY were totally uninhibited, letting everything out. They're such opposites to the bottled up GT.
    • I love that just before the fight, ST tries to teach MY some manners, "It's rude to just barge in without knocking."
  • Post fight, ST tells GT, "If I give away all my stuff to people who need them, what will I have left?" Ahhhhhhhh. So good! If GT gives all of himself to ST, who does need him very much, what's left for MY?
    • ST also tells GT that MY can have MT, not GT. Uh oh.
  • I think MY wanted to be one sharing an umbrella with GT after jjampong, but I'm impressed she showed restraint!

Show does a good job of mixing somber tones with humor

  • The scene after breakfast was like a sweet wifey sending her husband off to work and then we get MY telling GT before he drives away, "Come home quickly. If you're late, I'll kill you." :lol:
  • Ar director telling Mr. Lee, "You lack the most important trait... your face." Burn!
  • The whole reason behind the shaved mustache... :w00t:

GT and MY's relationship is definitely evolving

  • GT stands up to Mr. Lee on behalf of MY. Granted, it was largely motivated by jealousy, but it's nice he's looking out for her. It seems like she hasn't had anyone do that for her in her entire life thus far.
  • Isn't it interesting the patients A-Reum and Jung-Tae's feelings for each other mirror GT and MY's.
  • By the way I really thought GT was going to overlook A-Reum and Jung-Tae's indiscretion. I guess it shows he's a stickler for rules which makes it all the more shocking when he punches A-Reum's visitor. As much as GT tries to keep his safety pin in place, he's starting to let go a little when it comes to MY. The punch came out of his instinct/desire to protect MY. And I mean, come on, hitting a woman is just a no-no.
  • I think GT is so exuberant over his suspension because it may have been one of the rare times in his life where he listened to his heart instead of to his brain.

Finally... the hospital location is gorgeous.

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~  my favorite scene today 

# gosh so playful couple :D more to come please:wub:

 

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So many moments in this ep had me literally squealing and I never do that lol I never get tired of MY and KT wow SYJ and KSH need to be cast in everything together!

 

edit: this is definitely the calm before the storm. I can see KT not liking MY's comments about ST/ or feeling guilty about leaving him and we'll probably get our "separation" UGH

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Base on ep. 9 preview, what are your thoughts/opinions about what MY says to GT at the beach?

 

"I don't want you to spend the rest of your life taking care of your brother. " 

 

For instance, do u believe it's her being selfish or her initating to be another person besides Gang Tae to take care of Sang Tae? She's been so supportive & so inspiring in that I'm not leaning her towards being selfish though. Just want to know what everyone thinks!

 

Next weekend will be another rollercoaster ride of emotions! Gang Tae will be in a conflict having to choose his brother or Moon Young. I can already feel the pain. Gang Tae really needs a break for himself. I'm just a fan/viewer of this drama and I feel overwhelmed watching him deal with two important people in his life that loves & needs him. Not to mention both have mental disorders. I would be drinking every night especially over the fight for the third brother, Mang Tae, was HILARIOUS. 

 

One important moment in the drama that I can't ignore & want to share is when Aerum points out her thoughts on Beauty & the Beast: 

 

"The beast turns into a prince because of the power of Belle's true love. Her love calmed down the Beast's violent nature. That love embraced his wounded soul."

 

Then we are given a flashback of that beautiful night when GT embraced MY when she had her nightmare. That was a crucial moment for MY to realize that it is "love" that she is feeling for GT & it was HIS love that healed her wounded soul. Like OMG.... 

 

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Again, this show NEVER cease to AMAZE me & the meanings behind these fairytales will cut me so DEEP within my SOUL. Just MINDBLOWING!

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31 minutes ago, softestfairy said:

So many moments in this ep had me literally squealing and I never do that lol I never get tired of MY and KT wow SYJ and KSH need to be cast in everything together!

 

edit: this is definitely the calm before the storm. I can see KT not liking MY's comments about ST/ or feeling guilty about leaving him and we'll probably get our "separation" UGH

Maybe before a separation we'll get a hot kiss...:please: i mean, this sexual tension is now to the top so i'll be pissed off if they separate without a romantic phisical moment between them. It's my opinion about ST that this is the moment to let KT go otherwise there will be a war inside him. 

Spoiler

KT needs THAT woman in his life to complete HIM in all the ways we know :poledance:

 

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3 hours ago, stella77 said:

Another great episode for #8! So many great scenes today - I will rewatch it later this week.

 

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I think I laughed the hardest re Jae Su’s gum accident and then shaving off Mr. Lee’s mustache and all etc. It was just unexpected funny scene. Both of them are great at comedic acting.

 

I also think my heart broke when ST said to KT that MY can have Mang Tae but not KT. ST does understand and sees the relationship being developed between KT and MY. He has never shared his brother before and will take some adjustments.
 

The whole fight over Mang Tae between ST and MY was therefore not really about the doll for ST (but it was about the doll for MY). ST went really hard on MY because he was fighting for his brother KT. It is also why he gave the doll up pretty easily. I like this fight scene because it reminded me of my own siblings fighting over toys and such while growing up. My most infamous sibling fight involved a GI JOE figure flushed down the toilet and causing the toilet to break lol. My parents had to renovate the bathroom completely as the result!

 

I am so happy for KT though that he can finally acknowledge his feelings and doing something that his heart wants. Jealous KT was fun to watch and it was a good build up to the release by the end of the episode. 
 

I think MY is also progressing well and I actually found her “handsome pen” scene great lol. I think most viewer knew she was after the pen but let KT misunderstand to mess a bit with him. My favorite scene is def the couch scene when she asked KT how to repress anger and their interaction after. KT never had a chance lol. Another powerful MY scene was at the end of her class - her realization of what “love” was was quite amazing too (SYJ did great in this scene for me). 
 

Happy they left us with a happy episode since next week will require them to really continue their efforts and find a way re ST too. For me I love the scenes when they all walked together in the rain and into the clinic. I think it is good for shadowing that it will be OK. 
 

G’night fellow fans. 


@damondayfreak1 Since they were on the run since they were young, they just developed this nomadic lifestyle moving almost every year. KT feels like doing this will help ST deal with his nightmares but actually, he admits it’s for himself too - running away is easier to do than facing complicated problems. 

Oh, makes sense!! Thanks. Weird but I get it now.

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Oh my gosh, how cute is jealous KT?!

 

I love it that they so effectively used the Korean pronunciation of English words for MY to create confusion in KT when she says she likes Choi Daniel's "pen" because it's so beautiful and KT hears it as "fan" who MY thinks is so beautiful. In Korean, "pen" and "fan" are pretty much pronounced the same.

 

And, then KT stews over MY allowing Choi Daniel to put his arm around her, and acting all cutesy with him. :lol:

 

And, it was so funny when KT stops the CEO of the publishing house to tell him off for making MY do marketing and forcing her to smile at just anyone to sell more books. On a funny and serious note, KT uses the reference to smiling like a Joker, meaning it's an empty smile, to refer to MY's smiles to her fans. It's a flashback reference to how people had told KT that he his smiles were like the Joker's with no warmth to them.

 

Btw, Choi Daniel does a cameo! @triplem, your oppa was pretty cute in the cameo, though perhaps not as cute as KT was being jealous.

 

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There is one thing I have to correct in the k-drama. The novel "The Beauty and the Beast" wasn't written during the Middle-Age.  Middle Age ends at the end of the  15th Century and the fairy tale Jeanne Marie Le prince de Beaumont wrote was published in the 18th Century. Sure, the story existed before through oral tradition but the author lived in the Absolutist period.

 

And what people tend to forget is that the Beast was not just ugly, it has poor manners and behaved like "a wild animal". Belle was not just beautiful, she was famous for her modesty and her open-mindedness. So here, we have our ML turning into a Beast, a modernized version... as KT has been restraining himself for too long. For the first time, he expressed his true feelings. 

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9 minutes ago, bebebisous33 said:

Belle was not just beautiful, she was famous for her modesty and her open-mindedness. So here, we have our ML turning into a Beast, a modernized version... as KT has been restraining himself for too long. For the first time, he expressed his true feelings. 

Beast in this Sense is actually Applicable to both the ML. MY is Wild and KT has Hidden Ugliness/ANGER inside him. Both with their Own Beauties(MY bluntness Openmindness and KT's Care and StandingUp for MY) Are healing each other with LOVE.

 

Barring the Quality of Stockholm Syndrome which clearly here is reversed in terms of Gender from the actual Fairytale.

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3 hours ago, TiNaDo said:

MST's bonding with the nurse at the hospital. I can see a blossoming friendship & a strong bond there. 

To be honest,i found that exchange...awkward and i was wondering what it signified. Your interpretation is better but I did wonder why did the nurse suddenly want to talk to ST or show him the flowers...

 

So two questions:

- i keep wondering beyond attraction (sizzling hot types) what does GT feel for MY? 

- i want them to be a big family but GT will literally become a caretaker for two kids. Does he have a saviour complex?

ST's words to GT for me reflected something that GT should think about-- if he gives away (all his energy/care/love) because others need it, what is left for himself? Some self care is needed... no?

46 minutes ago, stroppyse said:

reference to smiling like a Joker,

This keeps scaring me as we know there is a murder mystery to be solved too... but there wont be any more murders?

 

17 minutes ago, madmad min said:

Quality of Stockholm Syndrome

So does GT have this for MY?

 

There is a darkness in MY that we are skirting and still not addressing. Btw is she a kleptomaniac? 

 

I keep wondering that she obviously sees ST as a plaything (or buddy, maybe) but what when the novelty factor is over?

 

We can already see that ST's fascination with MY is going down...

 

I know they will keep it light but at times I want them to dare and at others, i am just happy to follow where the show takes me.

 

KT+mom's memory while was having the dish... made me wish that he had someone who he could share/get strength from.

 

She could have asked the fan for the pen and he was a CEO so he would give it,why pickpocket?

 

Btw I read that Choi Daniels has a small role so we may see him again.

 

Oh and me thinks GT has saviour complex wherein he has to just give to all the people he is involved with!

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I lowkey feel bad for skipping JR's scenes. Usually, I'm that weird person who loves second leads (esp female second leads) because I sometimes find FL's boring and lacking personality. 

 

But MY is so damn perfect and interesting and fun and everything I ever wanted from a FL, so JR just seems....bleh. :unsure: 

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Awwww I can't anymore!! I AM A D D I C T E D TO THIS DRAMA!!!

The plot is great and the actors are beautiful and their acting is just the icing on the cake (but maybe I already talk about that)

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I just finished episode 8 and it's soooo goooood, I don't want to wait for another week to see how things will go on.

I want to know it right NOW!!!!! 

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And OMO, Seo Ye Ji's looks here is no joke guys,  the clothes style suits her sooooo well, I am envious ayaaaaaahhh!!!

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Look at that !! She is so gorgeous, so glamour, so badaaaas ">.<"

 

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I feel as if I love each new episode the best! It just keeps getting better and better, plus the continuity is amazing, bringing things forward from the past to look at in a different light.

 

I love the haircutting scene as the opening scene, plus the symbolism. MY had to cut her hair herself first because she's the one who has to ultimately free herself from her chains. However, KT is the one who evens out the cut and turns it from a jagged mess into a hairstyle. And, they even manage to make it funny as MY quizzes KT on his haircutting abilities. ROFLOL

 

But then, as KT cuts MY's hair, there is such intimacy in how he handles MY's hair and the look in his eyes. I hadn't realized that haircutting could be so intimate and so sexy.

 

 

I also appreciated the umbrella scene, and how they inadvertently recreate the scene from KT and ST's youth with their mother, except this time, KT is the mother figure, and ST and MY are competitive with KT's affections. We saw how in the past, KT had felt left out until his mother turned and invited him in. This time, MY isn't a child and she has little hesitation in wanting to be included in the closeness.

 

This theme of ST and MY wanting KT's affections plays out again and again, and based on the preview, it will continue to be a theme going forward. ST has already emphatically said it himself. He's willing to give up "MangTae, but not KangTae."

 

However, as adults, I really want ST and MY to have a good relationship as well. Part of this means that ST will have to slowly start cultivating some independence from KT as well in order not to be completely dependent and possessive of KT. I feel that it's been hinted at that while ST will always need help, he's not the complete helpless infant that KT thinks he is. ST has spoken up for himself a number of times already.

 

KT himself needs to do more than just endure. It's been a hard life for him thus far, just enduring everything and basically sacrificing himself. That has put him in arrested development, but he's clearly yearning for something more.

 

KT finally realizes that he has feelings for MY. It's interesting that it takes seeing the forbidden romance of AReum and JungTae for him to realize what he feels. It reminds me actually of a scene in Moonlight Drawn By Clouds where through the forbidden of a eunuch and a court lady, the ML realizes his feelings for the FL.

 

Just as importantly, MY who hasn't really put much thought into her feelings beyond that she's attracted to KT and wants him, had the realization that perhaps it's love and not just desire.

 

I love the ending of episode 8. KT, for the first time in his life since his mother died, hasn't restrained himself and just endured. He's acted out the way he wants to without thinking about consequences. And, it was in defense of MY, which also meant that MY could curb her own violent impulses since she was not about to let that guy get away with using violence on her. And, then having faced the consequences of his actions, which are plentiful, he decides he wants to run away and play with MY.

 

This is my favorite shot from episode 8. After KT helps MY up from the bench, and they are both smiling at each other, still holding hands. So looking forward to episode 9.

 

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