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38 minutes ago, Nymeria289 said:

Him taking him to the school/hospital was not overstepping his boundary, his hovering around Ji Soo's family after both set of parents and grandmother showed up however was not okay.  There is something called emotionally cheating, maybe it is not textbook definition of cheating that would hold in a court of law but it does damage people around you. So, no Jae Hyun is treading dangerous waters, more dangerous for Ji Soo than for him because SK society, is not kind to divorcees especially female divorcees. I am pretty sure they will never cross the actual line but  this emotional cheating will continue. I also suspect the wife is going to start acting like caricature kdrama villain soon. I don't see how else they can justify any of this. It is better that way, I can at least root for the romance.


Well, I certainly don’t blame HJH or YJS for acting like human beings. Let’s face it, although there are right and wrong in life and a lot of times gray, many human beings act according to their feelings rather than what they know to be right especially when clouded by emotions. So there’s a certain understanding and empathy I have for both characters because of their story and because they act like human beings...you know, with flaws. For example, while you see HJH as overstepping the boundary by checking on YJS and her ex-in-laws in the hospital scene, I totally see it from a human point of view that a person in his position was probably curious about what would ensue or he was curious about the family dynamic that YJS experienced or he wanted to check that YJS was okay. Emotional cheating or not, his actions are very human.

 

Characters whom I can’t sympathize with or understand are people who use their wealth and power to grind other people down. People who think they can humiliate people just to put them in their place. People who think their child is precious but cannot see that someone else’s child is also precious. People who think that wealth make them classy when in fact their character is tacky. Yes, I’m talking about the rich wife and her father. I totally cannot relate to them although terrible rich characters just like them appear all the time in Kdrama.

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The driver brought HJH to the hospital and then he went back to the school and took the child home. Anyway, I really don’t know why I’m defending HJH as a parent. There are “many” imperfect parents in this world and it’s certainly not a crime for HJH to be one of them. He might not live up to the perfect standards that others have of parents but it really doesn’t bother me as a viewer. Terrible parents to me are fathers like YJS’ father who basically told her she’s a failure as a child and also physically abused her. 
 

On a light note, one of my younger cousins said that his parents only care about each other and not that much about him. My mother agreed with him.

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32 minutes ago, FactChecker said:

Talking about destroying someone's life. Imagine if your chaebol wife or her dad catches you cheating, you are a dead man walking. He is not really afraid to get caught, he has been searching her for 20 years and even has a friend helping with it. It is not that he is particularly secretive about it...

 

 

And, by the way, how good is his life now? he has no family, no good reputation, no money or job of his own. He can be frown away by his FIL easily. Ok, he has some friends and some plots, but was it worth it?

As I see it, he already destroyed his life. 

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13 minutes ago, FactChecker said:

No, you are skipping one important detail here. JH is with his driver. They are with two people. I am okay if he goes to the hospital, but he can tell his driver to stay there and wait for JS or her husband. He can then take the car, pick up his son and bring him home. Or he could take his son to the hospital and tell him to wait there with him. He could even go back home with his son and driver and inform the school officials... That is what a doting father would do. Instead he lets his driver pick up his son. Stays in the hospital and takes the train home. He basically left his own son unattended for hours, because by the time he got home his wife already came back from work...

I was referring to the immediate action of seeing a fainted child.

 

What comes after, it’s the drama’s narrative. It so happened the one fainted is the child of his first love, who he knows is divorced and got the custody of this child, who he also knows has no car and needs longer time to take the public transportation to reach the town. Like @celebrianna said, it shows the human side of him, to want to do more for a friend, or to be exact, for a person he loves. (If I were in that situation, I know the kid and the parents, I would personally stay until the parents come instead of instructing my driver to stay. Does that make me a less loving parent to my own child?). As for his son, being the grandson of a chaebol family, he probably is very used to being chauffeured everywhere by just a driver. I am not saying that it means he doesn’t need a father’s love. But another child is in emergency room and there will be other opportunities for quality father-son time, supposedly. 

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I seriously don't understand why the discussion about HJH's taking YJS's son to the hospital, having his driver drive his son home while he himself stay there until the boy's mom or dad shows up.  Its not that HJH doesn't know the boy.   He had talked to the boy before and the boy is the son of someone he knows, let alone that someone is the woman he cares about deeply.  I am the mother of a 8-year-old.   I am just thinking that I would most likely do exactly the same thing as HJH does if I see my daughter's friend faints and collapse in front of me.  I will call the kid's parents and wait for them to come to the hospital myself.  And yes, I would also ask my driver to drive my kid home first, because I would prefer my kid to stay away from hospitals unless she is ill and has to go to one.  and second, if my daughter wants to stay with me just to see what happens, that's fine also but she has to stay in the car for previous stated reason - but obviously this won't happen in HJH/YJS situation because their sons don't get along....so might as well ask the driver to drive the kid home first.  And I'll probably only think of informing the school if I don't know the kid.  Still, I would have taken the kid to the hospital first myself and then the school can take it from there.

 

Anyway, I don't understand how by doing the above would make a parent appears as not a doting mother/father or "imperfect". :huh:   

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2 hours ago, celebrianna said:

 

Characters whom I can’t sympathize with or understand are people who use their wealth and power to grind other people down. People who think they can humiliate people just to put them in their place. People who think their child is precious but cannot see that someone else’s child is also precious. People who think that wealth make them classy when in fact their character is tacky. 

You would be surprised how many people in real world belongs to this category, people rarely prioritize another child's well being over their own. Even if parents knew in most cases that the fault lies with their own one, nobody will admit it outright and risk the future of their own child. And I speak from personal experience here. What Jae Hyun's wife did is more likely to happen albeit in a dilute and less dramatic form than what Jae Hyun did......he has yet to have an actual conversation with his own son about his wrongdoing.......from the looks of it, he is more interested in Ji Soo's one....that is wrong for a number of reasons. Because A. Ji Soo's son has a dad and not a particularly bad one, he seems to respect Ji Soo's ridiculous demands of parenting  B. He has one that could use some guidance right in his home C. He is indifferent to his own son's emotional needs, if the child gravitates more towards the one who are clearly raising him wrong but at least care enough to show concern, can you blame that child. His son is spoiled rotten and he doesn't seem to care enough to fix it despite his wife asking him to step up.

I am not saying Jae Hyun doesn't exist in reality. But from personal experience, likes of Jae Hyun leave a trail of hurt behind, that I find distasteful. I wish they were shown to be in a childless marriage. I am watching this and World of Married in parallel. Jae Hyun and Ji Soo both are scoring ridiculously low points as parents at the moment. It sort of makes me uncomfortable to root for this grand love of theirs. Its grand when you don't look around and see the devastation it will leave around. I am not sure how the writer intend to give the two a happy ending as it is. I just don't see one. Perhaps, I am nitpicking a bit and should just accept this drama will continue to be what it is. It just grates my nerves because I had high expectation from first 2 and all sorts of red flags started popping up from episode 3 and 4.

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46 minutes ago, Nymeria289 said:

You would be surprised how many people in real world belongs to this category, people rarely prioritize another child's well being over their own. Even if parents knew in most cases that the fault lies with their own one, nobody will admit it outright and risk the future of their own child. And I speak from personal experience here. What Jae Hyun's wife did is more likely to happen albeit in a dilute and less dramatic form than what Jae Hyun did......he has yet to have an actual conversation with his own son about his wrongdoing.......from the looks of it, he is more interested in Ji Soo's one....that is wrong for a number of reasons. Because A. Ji Soo's son has a dad and not a particularly bad one, he seems to respect Ji Soo's ridiculous demands of parenting  B. He has one that could use some guidance right in his home C. He is indifferent to his own son's emotional needs, if the child gravitates more towards the one who are clearly raising him wrong but at least care enough to show concern, can you blame that child. His son is spoiled rotten and he doesn't seem to care enough to fix it despite his wife asking him to step up.


Please don’t paint the world with a broad brush of your individual experience. You would be surprised to find out that in the real world there are societies where people actually choose to discipline their child and make them take the responsibility for their actions. Where I grew up if a child did anything wrong, not only did the teacher punish him but when he goes home the parents also punished him. That’s right, double punishment. There are people who live by “don’t spare the rod and spoil the child”. Furthermore, there are also societies where the neighbors will correct a child when they see him do wrong. A teacher will do the same as well. So would a coach or anyone in the role of a mentor or adult. I don’t have any kind of patience or understanding for parents who don’t discipline their kids and instead enable them and then get a bad apple. Not all societies are the same. I believe in respecting elders but I think some societies take that too far as if the word of an elder cannot be wrong. There is also nothing that forbids rich people from having a good character. There are many “unknown” rich with upstanding character who quietly did good in their communities. This is why I don’t believe that it’s being rich is the problem with HJH’s wife but it’s her character. 

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By the way, JS son is not a poor child. JH son and his wife are totally wrong to think, that he can be easily bullied. He has powerful background himself. So I guess this fight won't be that simple.

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12 hours ago, ktcjdrama said:

Any stranger should do that to a fainted child. What should he have done? Go inside the building and inform the school officials first and let the child lay there? 

 

 

I live in the U.S. and I have school-aged children. And yes, that's exactly what he should have done (in the U.S.), more or less. You cannot take any child who isn't yours from the school premises without explicit written permission from the parents. That would just be very illegal. The right thing to do is to just call for help. But I live in the U.S., and he lives in K-Drama Land.

 

There are a lot of things that are illogical. For example:

 

1. Doesn't this posh school have any staff or teachers? A student faints and no one is around to see it, except Joon-Seo (of course).

 

2. Ji-Su worked at Hyung Sung Mart before, and Hyung Sung is apparently a huge conglomerate, and she never knew that her FIRST LOVE is the son-in-law? When she dreams about him *every* night, when she carries his handkerchief that he gave her 20+ years ago with her every day? Oooookay.

 

3. Ji-Su just happens to have worked at Hyung Sung Mart and ends up protesting in front of his building. She also just happens to be the masked piano player at the hotel he likes to go to have drinks. And their kids just happen to attend the same school, and just happen to be enemies. Even Seo-Gyeong is like, "Hey, this is too much to be a coincidence." That's right, Girl, this is K-drama Land.

 

4. Let's not forget Mr. Third Wheel, who's been in love with her for 20+ years, during which time he apparently never met any other woman, and pined only for her, and will now have to stand by and watch as she starts up with Sunbae again. This poor dude.

 

You either buy this, or you don't. I do, and I love it.

 

And yes, Ji-Su's fancy borrowed gown did look an awful lot like Carrie's prom dress, and Seo-Gyeong helpfully even used the English word "grotesque" to describe the red wine splatter.

 

Ah, Seo-Gyeong, she really is hilarious. Rich, beautiful, spiteful, self-aware of her failings as a mother (it really was funny when she said, "I am not someone who can make a decent person out of my son"), blase about her affair ("I was lonely. What else am I supposed to do?"), and zipping around in her green Lamborghini. She is an absolute riot, love it.

 

(I think that was a Lamborghini? I just know that it's an absurdly expensive car that she is driving.)

 

And of course, on the other end is Ji-Su. Practically a poor little match girl. Poor, idealistic, forsaken by her father, slapped by her *horrible* MIL (is there any other kind in K-drama?) Her shoes falling apart, bags ripping (twice!) all perfectly timed to get her to cross paths with Mr. True Love.

 

It was especially hilarious when Seo-Gyeong had her "people" do a "background check" (Wow, are there no privacy laws in Korea?) and found out all about Ji-Su's misfortunes and says, "This is bad, he must not find out. Her life is so terrible that he won't be able to resist her!" Seo-Gyeong is our Greek Chorus! Ha ha.

 

My point is: this is HIGH MELODRAMA. Expect a whole lot more slaps and people throwing wine/soju/water at others. A whole lot of swelling music, a whole lot of crying. Tragic backstory for both our leads. You either embrace that or you don't. It's cool either way.

 

(Speaking of Park Si-Yeon playing spiteful rich B's, how do we forget "My Girl?" HAHAHA.)

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13 minutes ago, celebrianna said:


Please don’t paint the world with a broad brush of your individual experience. You would be surprised to find out that in the real world there are societies where people actually choose to discipline their child and make them take the responsibility for their actions. Where I grew up if a child did anything wrong, not only did the teacher punish him but when he goes home the parents also punished him. 

I myself grew up where discipline was given utmost importance but when push comes to shove in major issues, most parents want to protect their child's future and this I can say by dealing with parents of students. Being a bully in SK is a huge stigma. No parent would want to own up to that, not there anyway. So the fact that Jae Hyun candidly confessed to Ji Soo was surprising to me. If Ji Soo took it to the authorities, it could spell disaster for his son. That would go into his permanent record. And by all means, it should go into his records. I know the school I went to would kick Jae Hyun's son out in a heartbeat if these allegations were made and proven to be true. I am just talking about reactions here. Most parents would want to discipline their child but there is discipline and there is ruining his or her future in the process. Most would not want to ruin their future in the process. They may reprimand in private but not in public. As for Jae Hyun's wife she did own up to the fact that she doesn't know how to correct her son, its not something she is used or has capability of doing. So, it is indeed a character fault and the character actually admitted to it which was again surprising. I though she would deny it in that scene. I don't like Jae Hyun's wife for her flaw. But the reaction to somebody throwing a chair at their son, I think Jae Hyun's wife's reaction was more realistic compared to Jae Hyun. I can assure you, no parent will stand still if somebody threw a freaking chair at their son. All hell will break loose then.

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17 minutes ago, chickfactor said:

2. Ji-Su worked at Hyung Sung Mart before, and Hyung Sung is apparently a huge conglomerate, and she never knew that her FIRST LOVE is the son-in-law? When she dreams about him *every* night, when she carries his handkerchief that he gave her 20+ years ago with her every day? Oooookay.

 

He was in jail all that time.  So I can believe, that she never knew. 

 

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33 minutes ago, chickfactor said:

 

2. Ji-Su worked at Hyung Sung Mart before, and Hyung Sung is apparently a huge conglomerate, and she never knew that her FIRST LOVE is the son-in-law? When she dreams about him *every* night, when she carries his handkerchief that he gave her 20+ years ago with her every day? Oooookay.

 

 

Just because you work at a company does not mean you know who the president, vice-president or any of their personal business. All you care is about getting and doing the job.  Jisu is busy and miserable to look at magazine, news, or anything beside working. 

 

 

  

3 minutes ago, FactChecker said:

By the way, just to throw someone new in the topic... Did you notice that JH is overbearing with JS' kid, whilst he only has the flu. His own kid received a freaking chair against his hat and he does not care for it. His son is even saying something like "shouldn't I go the hospital, as my head is really hurting" and JH straight up ignores it. Haha... Bully or not, a chair is a chair... My god, his son might have some concussion without them knowing... Man, he is quite harsh with his own son...

 For sure, Jaehyun is an awful father and husband. He ignores his wife and son. He does not seem to give a sh* about his son. He does contribute to his son's bully persona. The kid lacks of affection from his father. JH cares about Jisu's son more than his own. This makes me wonder if the son is even Jaehyun's. The son does has a bratty personality to which a good communication between him and Jaehyun is difficult. The kid lack of empathy. Jaehyun's family lacks of communication and affection. 

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25 minutes ago, airgelaal said:

He was in jail all that time.  So I can believe, that she never knew. 

 

 

 

But he said he is more famous than the typical celebrity.

 

Speaking of which, it's very unrealistic that there was some glamour article written about him when he just got out of jail for having (allegedly) committed financial crimes.

 

Also, pretty funny that the protesting ahjummas knew that he took the fall for his FIL. I mean, they sure knew a lot.

 

Also, he looked for her for 20 years but couldn't find her? When he's a powerful chaebol who's able to dig up her divorce court records at the snap of his finger? It's not as if she changed her name and lived under witness protection so how hard was it to find her?

 

Anyway, my point is that if we expect this show to follow any real life rules, it would never end. :lol:

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46 minutes ago, Nymeria289 said:

Being a bully in SK is a huge stigma. No parent would want to own up to that, not there anyway. So the fact that Jae Hyun candidly confessed to Ji Soo was surprising to me. If Ji Soo took it to the authorities, it could spell disaster for his son. That would go into his permanent record. And by all means, it should go into his records. I know the school I went to would kick Jae Hyun's son out in a heartbeat if these allegations were made and proven to be true. I am just talking about reactions here. Most parents would want to discipline their child but there is discipline and there is ruining his or her future in the process. Most would not want to ruin their future in the process. They may reprimand in private but not in public.
 

As for Jae Hyun's wife she did own up to the fact that she doesn't know how to correct her son, its not something she is used or has capability of doing. So, it is indeed a character fault and the character actually admitted to it which was again surprising. I though she would deny it in that scene. I don't like Jae Hyun's wife for her flaw. But the reaction to somebody throwing a chair at their son, I think Jae Hyun's wife's reaction was more realistic compared to Jae Hyun. I can assure you, no parent will stand still if somebody threw a freaking chair at their son. All hell will break loose then.


There seems to be a lot of things in SK that stigmatize people. I guess they don’t believe in second chances. However, as to other societies, there’s such a thing as forgiveness and punishment that doesn’t ruin a child’s future. That’s probably why in some countries juvenile records are sealed. There are also parents who believe the pain today is worth it rather than raising a bad apple. So I don’t believe that most parents with any “moral sensibility” and wisdom would defend their kids bad actions. You don’t want your kids to end up in jail because you didn’t teach them what’s right. You don’t want your kids to end up as a failure because you didn’t teach them responsibility. You want them to grow up with the right set of morals and a sense of responsibility to be able to function in society. Children should learn there are consequences to their actions. Don’t wait until they are in serious trouble to teach them this invaluable lesson.
 

HJH was upset that a kid threw a chair at his son. Go back and watch the scene when he was waiting in the principal’s office and before Ji Soo came in. When Ji Soo came in immediately apologizing, he didn’t even look at her for a time. I keep wondering why people are missing his initial reaction. He was obviously upset about the situation. 
 

As to the wife’s excuse about her inability to teach her son wrong from right, that’s just beyond ridiculous. If she doesn’t know how, she should go take a parenting class or read a “Parenting for Dummies” book and stop making stupid excuses.

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3 minutes ago, chickfactor said:

 

 

But he said he is more famous than the typical celebrity.

 

As if JS had time to pay attention :)

 

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Speaking of which, it's very unrealistic that there was some glamour article written about him when he just got out of jail for having (allegedly) committed financial crimes.

 

I think it's an old magazine. I don't think those ahjummas would buy it.

 

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Also, pretty funny that the protesting ahjummas knew that he took the fall for his FIL. I mean, they sure knew a lot.

I think, it's not really a secret.

 

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Also, he looked for her for 20 years but couldn't find her? When he's a powerful chaebol who's able to dig up her divorce court records at the snap of his finger? It's not as if she changed her name and lived under witness protection so how hard was it to find her?

 

And I also think, that it's impossible. But I start to think, that his friends and JS friends knew everything. 

By the way. he still doesn't know, that she was in jail.

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I think what is important to note is that they both seems to be just going true their life and being resigned to what they have now. But then they now meet again and stair old feelings and forgotten memory. Like JH says he want to find his happiness again. I belive after he did taking the blame for his father in law going to jail, and also knowing his wife was having affair would make him ambivalent to his family. Beside being away from them for 4 year. I am sure it is hard getting into the loop again. I also wonder if he deep inside feel disgusted letting himself being his father in law "dog". I mean it would not surprise me he have build up some resentment toward his father in law witch make him cold to his wife and son. In the end this is going against his own belief that seems so strong in his youth. 

He already stating to go against his in laws in company question. I think there is no way he is not gonna start fighting against them in his own way. But I do think this gonna be ugly as they not gonna lett him go easy even if he do bring divorce paper. Even though I am not happy about them starting an affair, I also think it is not so black and withe situation.

 

We do see him and his wife seems to actually have an understanding of each other. My only feeling is that she is not gonna let him go easy. even tough I wish she would because she could see him love JS and knowing it would not be right hold him back when it would just hurt her more. But then there is the son to think about also...

 

I want to say about JS I feel she is really depressed as she voice the hopelessness she feel. Sure you can say she should just fight, but she seem to be a hurt bird... Depression is a real thing that affect the way we think and act. It is so sad seeing how mature her son is beyond years. 

 

I think it is sad that in the past and in the present there is this big wall between that is their different  social and economical situation. This make me root for them to finally find their happiness in life and find peace. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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 When Their Love Bloomed....

 

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I just finished episode 3 and 4

 

The  college Jaehyun and Jisoo. I enjoy them for what they are suppose to be during college. Young love. First love. Being together. Fighting together.  The me and you against social barriers.

 

Adult Jaehyun and Jisu. I want pressing emotions. I don't know... maybe anger, disbelieft, rage, love .Well,  Jisu got broke down in anger  during scene with her father in the hospital. I want more I guess. 

 

 

On 5/4/2020 at 2:39 AM, ponderings said:

What I find interesting is the socioeconomic status of their younger selves and what they believed in. JH has something against the capitalistic system and JS learns about the world outside of her home. Her beliefs are heavily influenced by the younger JH. Episode 3 Young JS learns to be with the losing side and keeps that belief. Episode 4  Young JS learns that she is a special and precious child of the deity.

@ponderings Same here.

 

 

"To deities, every human is precious and meaningful. Don't let anyone treat you badly. Not even family" -Jaehyun, ep 4

 

cto:

 

I like this scene in ep 3.  She wanted to join him his protest but he won't let her. She stood waiting,  the snowflake falling, her sad lonely face waiting for him. Her facial expression.  Him telling her she's pianist, to put on gloves. Took her hands kiss them. Blowing warm kisses. 

 

"Whether it's the organization or the assemblies, don't come. The era we live in doesn't require people to risk their lives. You're not desperate for a change or  or believ in the cause" -  Jaehyun, ep 3

 

"To me, you are my belief and my my world. So I will do everything you believe in. I'll be on the same side with you and live in the world you live in" - Jisu, ep 3

 

cto:

 

I like their younger version. College  Jaehyun with his idealism, his campaigns, the protest and rallies,  arm in arm with laborers protecting their rights. Championing their cause.  collegeJisu liking him so much , being in love and and impressed, joined him in his rallies and protest,  became active participant at the cost getting hurt, landing in jail. The slap and anger of  the chief prosecutor father. At first it's to be with  Jaehyun and to see him  but later on I think she undertood his idealms and what he was up against or fightin for.

 

Adult Jisu and Jaehyun feels subdued. There's sadness and sorrow. It's tame.  Both of them still having that feelings for each other,. And with their current status on opposite ends,  it becomes a barrier.

 

I wanted adult Jaehyun to have that same conviction, princples and attitude like he had back in college.  I finding him  tame at the moment. Letting himself be jailed, being used by dirty possibly corrupt chaebol chairman of Hyung Sung corporation. Well maybe he has an agenda we don't know but I dounbt I'll see a  college Jaehyun with princples and ideals be in thisa position.

 

I wanted adult Jisu to be like her younger self. Confident, brave,  bold. Heck, she went to  the law dept to look for him, went to library to check on him. Shhe was always there for him. Because Jaehyun was busy being student council, leader,  law student doing protests, it's up to her to do the moves but Jaehyun appreciated they became close an the rest is sweet young love.

 

 But again after reuniting seeing each other after decades,  you can actually see they still have feelings for each others. Jisu keeping her feelings  more hidden in hear heart more so. I think they both suffered miserably with their lives after college leading their present circumstances. Her father blaming her for mother's death. Him....well something happened that seems to have change his dispostion or ideals. I think it's still there except in present time, he's  married to chaebols daughter, is puppet of the chairman and has to do his dirity stuff.  If he ever tries to make Seo Kyung unhappy,  he will face consequence from the chairman.  He was warned.

 

18 hours ago, plappi said:

I would like the boys to become friends. They both found themselves in a difficult situation because of their parents. And I want to think that Joon Seo is just rebelling against it like an ordinary teenager, and not at all so bad in itself.

@plappi I agree.  They should becomes friends. I feel sad for both of them.  I think Joon Seo not close to his father too and I feel the distance there. Given that he was out of his life  for four years and maybe  even  when he was child. (I wonder if he married Seo Kyung  because she got pregnant?). Absence of father or not being wanted can affect a child. As for Young Min, he does  have relationship with  the father but I feel his sadness, his situation with the divorced parents, there seems to be tug of war for him. It's affecting. He loves his mother. He understands Jisu's situation. Their situation.

 

The children are always the ones affected by adult's complicated relationships.  :(

 

Anyway, I don't have the eloquence to say my two cents worth with regards to characters scenes of child rearing and discipline  I'm not yet a parent. I will leave the discussion to the experts.

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58 minutes ago, jongski said:

I wanted adult Jaehyun to have that same conviction, princples and attitude like he had back in college.  I finding him  tame at the moment. Letting himself be jailed, being used by dirty possibly corrupt chaebol chairman of Hyung Sung corporation. Well maybe he has an agenda we don't know but I dounbt I'll see a  college Jaehyun with princples and ideals be in thisa position.

 

I'm still inclined to think that JH is specifically to marry SK, and he has a plan against her father.

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8 hours ago, sal2 said:

 I also wonder if he deep inside feel disgusted letting himself being his father in law "dog". 

He already answered

 

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6 hours ago, FactChecker said:

his show is just a nice calm drama and should not be overanalyzed. It is definitely not the type of show that has all kinds of easter eggs hidden, so I should stop looking for them.

 

5 hours ago, chickfactor said:

 

My point is: this is HIGH MELODRAMA. Expect a whole lot more slaps and people throwing wine/soju/water at others. A whole lot of swelling music, a whole lot of crying. Tragic backstory for both our leads. You either embrace that or you don't. It's cool either way.

 

Couldn’t agree more. So let’s stop over-analyzing every scenes and actions, or having too high an expectation for any characters, and just enjoy this plain old school drama. 

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