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So now everyone is aware of their divorce, and therefore the next episode they will no longer live together, it's a shame, but I'm waiting to see how they could possibly get back together, their respective ex are happy and very much take advantage of the situation, ill they work closely together? EVEN IN THE SAME HOSPITAL THEY MAY NOT SEE A LOT,

 

the mother of the female lead was heartbroken, the father angry, but  it seems to get better in the next episode


  i want the love story of the eldest sister to be developed, please, now that the delivery boy and she live more or less together, in any case, it seems that he will first become close to the son

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Hello everyone! I finally saw the finale last night after a busy weekend.   OMG the ending of my first weekend family drama. It had its up and downs with Leech story line (wrapped up )

Whoa! We've got a real development between GJ and NH!!    What's funny is that I watched the interview of LMJ and LSY Friday. LSY said that GJ will be straightforward from now on...but given

Hard sub: GJ: It's been a long time since we walk together like this NH: That's right. If we walk together after we divorced, anyone who sees us will think that it's strange GJ: Na Hee-

I’m glad the divorce is out in the open. I don’t think the writer did a good job of showing that Na Hee and Gyu Jin “love” each other. When they bicker, it’s basically followed by “whatever”. They weren’t invested in their relationship. Contrarily, as much as some people didn’t like the divorced couple in Beautiful Life Beautiful Love getting back together, at least that couple seemed more “affected” by their divorce and much more emotional. So it’s a good thing NH/GJ are finally going to live separately. Maybe if they fall in love again it will be more convincing this time.

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7 hours ago, celebrianna said:

I’m glad the divorce is out in the open. I don’t think the writer did a good job of showing that Na Hee and Gyu Jin “love” each other. When they bicker, it’s basically followed by “whatever”. They weren’t invested in their relationship. Contrarily, as much as some people didn’t like the divorced couple in Beautiful Life Beautiful Love getting back together, at least that couple seemed more “affected” by their divorce and much more emotional. So it’s a good thing NH/GJ are finally going to live separately. Maybe if they fall in love again it will be more convincing this time.

 

I didn't see much of Beautiful Life Beautiful Love, did the couple lose a child or miscarriage? It seems that the marriage breaks apart when this happens; VIP and I have a lover for example.

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A part of me feels very irritated that the way the writing is done make NH always look like a petty bickering woman. I dont think it was always like that and there needs to be a proper showing of what happened to them both to make them disagree and constantly pick on each other and fight with each other. I think the miscarriage part shows the start but there needs to be more of a understanding of their relationship. Like more scenes of how strong their love was to contrast the very different situation they are in now where they fight all the time. I also dont think it's fair that they've written GJ as a man who is so loved but NH is such a difficult character. They should give us more of her good traits too and not just a lot of her bitterness. A bit of inconsistent writing when they show her character 

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Dahee and Jaesuk is so adorable, he loves teasing her. Now she wont be working Jaesuk mom's cafe he surely will miss and longed for her comapanion. i hope writernim will make them fall in love at ep 20 get marry around ep 25 please don't drag it til ep 90's or last episode. :blush:  Question, NH and GJ divorce's is a big issue to the public and has to be on the net? They are not popular or bigtime surgeon (correct me if im wrong) in a Big Hospital to be a big deal.

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Pretty sure they  are already missing each other already. A tragedy what they suffer though I dont think they property  talk or grieve 

 

The moms are a big poison  pill in their relationship

 

I think he told his mom off right here

 

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I like next week preview now the story is getting more interesting, jealous GJ :D. I think Jaesuk was kickout by mom and will  stay with GJ. and the best part of the preview JaesuK and Dahee meet again, i hope they wont get drunk and ending up in a motel :lol:

 

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18 hours ago, brooksmom said:

 

I didn't see much of Beautiful Life Beautiful Love, did the couple lose a child or miscarriage? It seems that the marriage breaks apart when this happens; VIP and I have a lover for example.

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The husband was cheating with his secretary and the wife found out after he got into a serious car accident with the secretary. The husband’s mother forced the wife to divorce her comatose husband. When he woke up he found out that he was divorced and he wanted back his wife. In a messy situation like that, the husband and wife were very emotional. She was upset and felt betrayed by him and he was upset that she abandoned him. In any case, their marriage suffered tremendously from lack of communication. In the end he was able to win back his wife after walking through coals of fire. :lol: However, the important thing I noticed about them is that they were very much affected by the divorce. It’s not like GJ and Na Hee who are so cold and somewhat indifferent to each other although they seem to have moments of sadness but that’s about it.


Gyu Jin’s conversation with Na Hee’s father confirmed what I have been saying all along. All he and Na Hee did was bicker. Like he said, they didn’t even laugh with each other or much of anything else but argue. Not once did they have a normal conversation with each other. I honestly think they’re not suited for each other. I don’t mind the writer convincing me otherwise but for now I don’t find them compatible. The doctor whom Na Hee sometimes converse with seem better able to put up with her prickly personality and I’m convinced Gyu Jin can date just about anybody because he doesn’t seem extra. 

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Even if GJ nags, it’s nothing near the level of his mother’s nagging. His mother’s nagging is what I would call “extra”. The very definition of “extra” means more than what’s considered usual for something.

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Well then it just proves even more how much GJ and Na Hee are incompatible which is what I’ve been saying all along. Since his nagging means he consistently shows contempt for Na Hee, it’s not like this flaw in his personality will disappear.

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44 minutes ago, celebrianna said:

Even if GJ nags, it’s nothing near the level of his mother’s nagging. His mother’s nagging is what I would call “extra”. The very definition of “extra” means more than what’s considered usual for something.

As a marriage and family therapist that works with couples 6 hours a day for the last 10 years, I can tell you that nagging is extra. And plenty of couples have divorced because of nagging which is also known as contempt. Nagging is more than extra, it is contemptuous ineffective communication.

This couple has to grieve their loss because these characteristics will follow them no matter how compatible their next relationship is. What they need is a good Gottman Marital Therapist to help them. Beyond that, the couple's past is not fleshed out enough to know whether they were in love or not. Both of them are stubbornly willful. What have they done to work on their marriage? Nothing! Being in love is not enough to sustain a marriage. Arguing and bickering should not end a marriage but couples use that to divorce instead of understanding what they are arguing about. GJ nor NH are not a "catch" for anyone until they learn Distress Tolerance. While there are people that are more compatible, "the one" is who you decide to be with to "death do us part, not until grief do us part" w/few exceptions. 

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To me the fact that they didn’t fight for their marriage tells me that they didn’t value their marriage. I don’t care what kind of excuses they make, they just gave up without even trying to work it out. 

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To me Na Hee’s brother’s marriage breakdown is pretty much clear. He’s crazy for acting as a guarantor for people when both him and his wife are raising two kids. According to his ex, she forgive him several times in the past and he would still turn around and do the same thing...basically proving himself untrustworthy. She had enough and decided to get tough and divorced him.

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14 minutes ago, celebrianna said:

To me the fact that they didn’t fight for their marriage tells me that they didn’t value their marriage. I don’t care what kind of excuses they make, they just gave up without even trying to work it out. 

 

This is where I'm most disappointed in the drama.  Right now there isn't one single character I care about so I'm not sure why to keep watching....

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