Popular Post GogoRoboto Posted June 6, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted June 6, 2020 I honestly have no idea why some still think that something is wrong with their relationship (whether close friends or more) just because they are awkward or cold with each other. This is not the first time that they have acted that way since the dating rumors came out last year. Remember that event they attended last year that was hosted by the company that owned Mediheal and Ma:nyo where, if you had no idea who they were and had not seen any of their TN interviews, you'd think they were total strangers who were forced to take a picture together just because they happen to be endorsers of the company. It's the same when they were at the check-in counters at the airport on their way to Mongolia for CLOY filming where the photographers were following their every move. Same goes for the CLOY press conference where the SK and international media were present. Of course, we've all seen that they interact differently with each other behind the scenes with only the film crew or on smaller sets where there is no media present. These are two veteran superstars with super successful and highly acclaimed 20 year careers. They are not oblivious to the fact that their every move will be published, scrutinized, and discussed by the media and the public, and of how public perception could impact the careers they have worked so hard in for two decades. In what I've seen of the major Korean awards show (Baeksang, Daejong, Blue Dragon) the guests don't really talk or interact much with each other during the show proper. When they do, they are incredibly discreet like a bit of a whisper here or a little gesture there which are incredibly hard to do at the Baeksang this year without attracting attention because they're sitting 2 meters apart, and SYJ and HB were already getting a lot of attention as shown by just how many times the cameras focused on them. 17 7 3 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post lovelyz Posted June 6, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted June 6, 2020 What actually happened 7 18 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RiRiGaGa Posted June 6, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted June 6, 2020 I understand ppl having different opinions, have different personal perspectives on who they choose to ship, and that ppl interpret events differently based on their own ideals, desires, and intentions. People only want to see exactly what they want to see. Sure, you do you. But I really draw a line at people spewing negativity towards people who are simply trying to do the best they can in a situation that they cannot control. I draw a line at ppl who feel that they own other people or are entitled to the way that they live their lives simply because they watch them through a screen and consume their content. I draw at a line at insinuating personal character flaws about an actor who they personally know nothing about, and throwing judgements towards two people, who beyond being the object of our shipping love and adoration, are first and foremost, humans with their own feelings, personal lives, and standards. Thank you to those who have remained the voice of reason and have already expressed such logical sentiments about the situation. I wanted to add my thoughts as well. 1) HB and YJ are consummate professionals. If they were not, they would not have garnered the love and respect of fans everywhere from around the world that stayed up to watch an awards show they don’t even understand the language of for hours, simply to watch these two amazing professionals potentially rise up to receive an award for work that inspired you so much, that you’re freaking watching an award show in another language, lurking on a social media platform, anxiously awaiting for their victory just so you can talk about it! Two professional stars who have managed to capture global attention and fan dedication like that would NOT tarnish their public image and reputation by not taking a professional, prestigious event like this seriously. Please kindly remember that these two gorgeous people were not getting all glammed up to attend a prom where they can feel each other up at ease. They are two professional actors who took time out of their busy, demanding lives to show up at an event to show support for a project that they have poured their heart and soul into for 6-8 months and to show support for the industry that they so love and are such respected figures within. Mind you, HB is in the middle of shooting a film whose production had to be continually delayed due to a worldwide pandemic. He is an international endorser for a Filipino brand where he could not even fly to that country in order to shoot his CF, so they had to shoot his CF in Korea. Do you think a professional like him does not understand the weight and significance of all of that? This is from the man that penned a letter to international fans from all over Asia worrying for their health and wishing for their well-being. This was the man who was one of the first celebrities to anonymously donate 200 million won to the COVID relief efforts and got crap for not donating yet and still he did not come forward and take credit for his good deed because he did not want to make it about him. Do you think a person like that would show up to an event like this and make it about him? I think if it were up to HB, knowing the kind of person that he is, he probably would not have wanted to even attend this award show just out of respect for our world situation right now and out of his endless dedication to sticking to his filming schedule because he’s a professional who puts his work ahead of his own needs for attention. But he knew that fans have spent countless hours, those who struggle to use technology or social media who still were so determined to download apps and kill their thumbs trying to cast votes for him. He recognizes all of that and cleared his schedule to make sure that he can come and personally stand up on a stage to tearfully thank fans all over the world for going to such great lengths to show him their love. So, he got all glammed up (looking fine as hell) and showed up just to thank his fans. He was not there to circulate a rumor mill, add fuel to a fire that does not seem to die down, and give scraps to vultures who are scrutinizing and speculating his every move waiting at bay to throw judgements and shade about his intentions or work ethic. He also did not show up to be a pin-up doll puppet having to put on a dance and show to entertain people’s fancies and fulfill their pink bubble fantasies. He was there because he was rightfully nominated FOR HIS WORK, and he wanted to show his appreciation to dedicated fans who supported him for this work. If this means he is “no-jam,” “cold,” and “distant,” then so be it because HB/KTP answers to no one and owes you nothing. If that’s how you think of him then you are most likely not a real fan to start with. If you would kindly watch the way he teared up through most of the speeches, the heartbreaking song montage, and when he gave his acceptance speech, this is a man who feels deeply and is endlessly considerate and aware of others around him. But just because he didn’t continuously throw candies our way, he’s suddenly a cold-hearted monster? If his so-called “fandom” is that fickle and insecure about his intentions, then I think HB is better off without that kind of “support” if it’s going to be so conditional and wavering. 2) HB and YJ’s goal for their Baeksang attendance was to thank their fans, they were NOT there to make a spectacle of themselves. Seriously, how insensitive and tone-deaf would they have come off if they decided that during a somber event like this where they were forced to socially distance, to be all over each other and announce their love for a project they were both nominated for ACTING in. No matter how real life we believe they are to their roles and how we think they feel about each other off-screen from what we've observed, the fact is that they were hired to do a job of bringing to life two characters and they that’s exactly what they did and did so well at that. But to admit to using CLOY as their personal relationship platform and dating bubble would take away their highly regarded reputations of professionalism, would strip them of the acting merit that they both so aptly deserve, and would tarnish the respected reputation that they have toiled for 20 years to achieve and maintain. It’s career suicide and neither of them would be where they are if they were to frivolously self-sabotage their careers like that. They know very well the industry they work in, the ease of career-ending scandals being wielded, which is why they have been in full control of their narrative the ENTIRE time. These two have dulled out exactly what story that they want to feed us and they are both too smart and too meticulously careful than to overstuff us or starve us. Trust me, these two know exactly what they are doing. They knew exactly what fans wanted and I think they towed that line perfectly. They dulled out stolen glances, sweet smiles, and collective “we” moments so that shippers don’t starve but still overall, maintaining a professional, respectable distance because that’s exactly the kind of professional class acts that they are. 3) I will admit that I was initially also afraid that voting for them for the Popularity Awards would detract from their chances of winning their main acting awards but then I realized that none of us had control over their chances. But we DID have control over their chances of still being recognized for the global phenomenon that they created and that’s exactly what we gifted to them. So thank you for putting effort into helping these two wonderfully deserving actors receive tangible proof of all the love and support that their work has resulted in all over the world. These two turned non-K-drama lovers into believers and that is no small feat. They brought a story that is in a different language with two different cultures and STILL managed to speak deeply to people from all around the world, uniting us and drawing us into their narrative. That trophy that we gifted to them is proof of our gratitude of what they have gifted to us. And seeing from Binnie's precious, teary acceptance and YJ's adorable "Thank you!" in English, they truly appreciated that gift with all their hearts and it meant the world to them. There was tough competition all around in both of their respective categories and they both received the honor of being nominated (and were regarded as frontrunners). While my heart truly does break for HB for not being recognized for his incredibly nuanced, subtle yet powerful interpretation of Captain Ri, I know that all this will do is fuel him to pour even more of his energy and passion into the next project so that he can continue growing as an actor and showing us fans that he is truly always deserving of all the love we show him. This loss will just push him to become even stronger than ever. A subjective opinion of an award body does not take away the merits of his work or his ability. We saw in CLOY EXACTLY what this man is made of as an actor and a trophy or not does not change that. Also, HB has already won the highest honor in TV in 2010, the Daesang for Secret Garden and YJ has won 4 (?) (I lose track with her) Baeksangs for her movie work. Clearly, these two actors are doing JUST fine. 4) For unsure shippers who want to abort the journey at the turn of every turbulent wind that sweeps through, kindly take the time to re-read through the last almost 800 pages of proof, receipts, analyses, interpretations, pictures, videos, that dedicated shippers have already gathered and shared, and judge for yourself. And as @Cloy_eva has so aptly boiled it down (thank you for that!), the very first page of this shipping paradise starts with an irrefutable picture of two people in another country, ACROSS THE WORLD, in their most uncensured, undisguised, authentic selves in the flesh as KTP and SYJ, doing one of the most natural, common everyday things. No analysis needed. Enough said. It's as clear as how gorgeous they both looked last night! (Sheesh seriously though, pure perfection!) So just take a deep breath, put aside your heartbroken emotions (I get it, I’m totally feeling the pain too), and think rationally about what we know about these two people. Give them the benefit of the doubt, respect them enough to allow them to do their jobs, and give them reason to WANT to share the good news with the world instead of SCARING THEM OFF into thinking that their privacy will never be respected and their reputations will be tarnished with vicious silent whispers. Draw them out using love and understanding instead of backing them into a corner and forcing them to hide out of self-preservation for a relationship (whatever it may mean to them) that they clearly both really value due to circulating negativity or unjust scrutiny. If you value them as individuals and as the couple you ship; then please respect them enough to allow them the space and breathing room to do what’s best for their relationship and their personal lives. They are human just like us and deserve that respect. Alright, back to crying while rewatching CLOY, while downing a gallon of ice cream with a side of wine, and writing in my BinJin diary for me. The is still very much alive, ppl. Let's try hard to keep it that way. 17 47 1 3 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gloriousCh33se Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 6 hours ago, shipwreck said: 3) On shippers here are on hype because they hold together ONE trophy at the TikTok interview while they won individual award not couple award, well sorry to disappoint you. It's because you didn't know how it logistically works. The trophies on stage are all generic with no names, etc., they were handed out for picture and symbol purposes only. All recipients would give them back to the event organizer to be customized (with the winner name, the title they won, etc) and send to their agencies later. Therefore, the only ONE they hold at the TikTok photo boot was not them to begin with. In addition, at the photo book, they keep ONE for picture for each receipient, and that explains why they hold ONE and not TWO trophies. My take after the Baeksang event, they are just co-stars. Leave them alone so that they can interact freely. Look at what shippers all over the world have done to them...they were trying to avoid each other at all costs to not give out any more wrong impression... I did post yesterday joking about sharing the trophy. If you had that in mind, please don't take that seriously, I wanted to lighten the mood at that moment even as I was personally disappointed myself (with the awards; it still stung even when I prepared for the possibility that our OTP and CLOY wouldn't win majority of their nominations). I, and I believe a lot of the currently active shippers here, am not that obtuse to expect that individual trophies wouldn't be delivered some time after the event. Having followed a lot of different artists from different countries, I've seen a few "unboxing" videos. Although I do get what you're trying to say for less naive fans. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElectricHearts Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 11 minutes ago, lovelyz said: What actually happened First part was during SJH Bazaar Fashion Icon Speech, they were laughing at her being awkward, not knowing what to say and the second was the look during their popularity award win. Moments they shared together. First one they looked at each other. Second one they looked at each other at different times 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flailingfangirl Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 Oh my why the hell am I still here - I need to buy my new plant but thought of just sharing it here. I wrote earlier how surprised I was reading and looking at the posts and messages from my real-life friends about Binjin. Some are even my lifelong friends. Mind you, all of them are not in the same categories of friends I have in this life but they said really nice things about them and even they can see what you guys observe here. One of them even said to me that looking at their photos is like looking at two real-life people and find it actually intrusive to look at it even longer. I was like “Wow, you never say things like this to me before!”. They have touched our lives in a good way. My conclusion is, don’t worry about them incessantly. They are doing fine, and they are doing well. They addressed their fans together, I don’t know Korean but some of you do see that they addressed themselves as “we”, they are comfortable with each other and respectful of one another and despite of the rules of the day, you can still feel the realness of them, just being themselves. They genuinely like each other (I don’t know in what way lol) and with that, I just let them be. It is really hard to make real-life connections in that industry of theirs (you’ll think that one person is your friend, turns out they are not. you think you can find a confidante but turns out they stabbed you. Everyone is envious of one another and will try to one-up each other). Actresses are the worse lot - be it in Hollywood, Bollywood, Pinoywood (I don’t know what it’s called over there) and even K-ent. They might appear as friends but they are not. All are for show, all are for their own benefits. True friends are hard to get in that industry where unfortunately, your youth and beauty is being looked at. A very vain industry indeed. Consider themselves lucky that they have a ~close friend like each other (I honestly think Ms Son reeeeally lucked out this time because Mr Kim is such a good person) in this crazy business. Everyone is out there for themselves and to actually have another person to come into a common ground together and to be able to sincerely appreciate their fans for all their efforts together, that is major. I don’t know how they end up taking photo with just one trophy when each of them receive one. Maybe on the instruction of the photographer or whatever. Regardless of that, they still do it together, and addressed their fans as one unit. HB himself seems like even he cannot believe the immense support he garnered for the award - even as the award is already in his hand. Even when he occasionally goes online and monitor his fans’ responses. Even when he already knows. And with that, they earn my respect. Keep calm and carry on, you both. 17 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delulu0696 Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 Whaa Maybe HB : I will wait at home babe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kari Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 24 minutes ago, ElectricHearts said: I will just bring this part up from your post with a simple reason. Umm didn't you see how beautiful she looked in that dress enough said Yes! I was so busy writing my response to BinJin's interaction last night I forgot to write my thoughts on the Baeksang results! I'll take this opportunity to write my thoughts. I'll make it short: Damn, Yejin was smoking hot and just drop dead gorgeous! I was worried the dress would be too plain but she totally rocked it! The dress really helped her show off her ahem assets lol My only complaint is she would've benefited more with maybe a bracelet or some rings (but then people might speculate if she's wearing a wedding ring). Her earrings were wonderful. As for HB, he's handsome as always. His navy blue suit complemented her gold-bronze color really well! The only thing I wish was his stylist noticed and fixed his crooked bowtie haha. I wasn't expecting at all that HB, Yejin, Park Ji Eun, Director Lee, or CLOY to win. Okay, maybe HB a little, and I was disappointed he lost. But KNH really deserved it so oh well. I knew Kim Hee Ae was going to bag the Best Actress. Just a gut feeling. Plus Yejin had won Baeksang Best TV Actress before so I'm not that hurt over her losing. I wasn't sad CLOY didn't win the writing, directing, or drama award. I did watch WOTM and other dramas and yes, they were really good. CLOY is great and my favorite drama, but I gotta say the show employs a lot of dated SK drama tropes. NK-SK politics aside, I personally think Korean audiences have moved away from these SK drama tropes over the past years and demand to see more realistic dramas, such as WOTM, WTCB, or Stove League, as opposed to international audience who still prefer a fantasy or fairy-tale like element to SK dramas. This is also why I'm trying not to compare too much the current Baeksang to the Baeksang of 4 or 6 years ago, when JJH or DOTS won Daesang. But I admit I WAS REALLY DISAPPOINTED that Yejin didn't win Daesang. That was the only award I was rooting for her to win. It's her 20th anniversary and she's contributed so much to both film and television. JJH, like Yejin, had also worked mainly in film but her Daesang was for TV. So the awards show did leave a little bitter aftertaste in my mouth, but WTCB deserves it too. Maybe Yejin can win Daesang for film one day. 13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yejinatic1981 Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 I woke up with a heavy heart from yesterday's Baeksang snubbing and robbing the best drama I have ever watched of major awards. But I suppose they were just being too careful because CLOY's plot is quite political and it's a very sensitive issue in Korea,, no matter how the drama downplayed or romanticized it. I just thought SYJ is so deserving of the best actress award for jer role (I have no issue with KNH winning the best actor award cos he really effectively portrayed his role in WTCB. I was rooting for HB, versatility wise, but I knew it was a tight competition with KNH and PSJ both nailing their roles too in their respective dramas.) I just ate a half gallon of my comfort food Cadbury vanilla ice cream for breakfast to de-stress and I am on a sugar high right now while typing this. Sad to see that the most recent pages of this forum have made this fangirling haven a war zone. It makes me want to eat more ice cream and I have already gained 10 kilos for staying at home during this pandemic, so can we all be nice and cheerful? Anyway, I hope that CLOY or 사라의불시착, and its actors, director and writer get recognize in international awards like The Emmys. They so deserve it. Not sure how we, fans, can make it happen but I think the drama has also gained popularity in the US so let's keep our fingers crossed. I think the storyline of CLOY is too big for local award giving bodies like Baeksang. It is still a taboo in conservative SK, and would surely affect on their decision to recognize the drama and the people behind and in it, no matter how great they are. So, if you are from the North America and you are a solid BINJIN and or CLOY fan, this is your opportunity to help CLOY get noticed in The Emmys in your small little way, espcially if you are in a right position to do so. 화이팅! ♡♡♡ 7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ElectricHearts Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 @Delulu0696 it's getting deleted again FYI. So I don't think they want us to talk about it. 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ccb_RiRi Posted June 6, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted June 6, 2020 Hey guys! Just wanna share my thoughts here because I can't talk to anyone I personally know cause they obviously wouldn't understand my shipper heart. lol Yesterday was definitely a whirlwind of emotions to a lot of us. We were very excited due to alot of reasons. We were so happy CLOY got a lot of nominations for this year's Baeksang Awards. We have to understand that it was a great honor for the drama to be nominated. I mean how many K-Drama is being released in a year? But then CLOY was one of the dramas who bagged quite alot. And from what I read, Baeksang is like counterpart of the Golden Globes in the US so I'm pretty aware this was huge. Being nominated was huge for all the actors, writers, directors, etc. I admit, I don't watch a lot of K-drama. I watch more of western tv shows and animes actually. But living in the PH, I was pretty aware how SK established their TV and Film industry. It was years of hard work and dedication. And the quality of their works has evolved to a very much higher level to the point that they've been recognized internationally (Parasite). I have not seen any of CLOY's co-nominated shows, but based from what I've read, esp Stove League and When The Camellia Blooms, all of these has really good reviews also. Which makes me decide to watch these dramas. What's really interesting to K-dramas/films nowadays is how they are now more open to tackle some social issues in their story lines. I have nothing but high respect for them, honestly. Now moving to our OTP, I must also admit, I was one of those who was expecting to see them arrive together at the red carpet. Be sweet and all that jazz. I think, weeks of anticipation really made us thought that way. Some of us, and I think a lot of international shippers felt that our agony was neglected by our OTP. It really saddens me how some shippers expressed their disappointments from the awards, and most esp, on BINJIN's actions yesterday. In my opinion, the fact that Baeksang pushed their show amid Covid-19 pandemic and Binjin confirmed their attendance was a huge blessing already. I remember few months ago when people were worried if its really gonna happen, and it finally happened yesterday. Not to mention a week before the event, reports of new Covid cases in SK increases I was worried they might cancel the ceremony, but hey, the show still went on. Lastly, and I learned to finally accept this just yesterday haha. Binjin are South Koreans after all. They're strictly conservative. Showing affection in public is like a mortal sin and we have to accept that reality. Yes, we international fans are open minded but its in their culture, South Koreans value their culture. Its just the way it is. Its how their life works and we have to also respect that. They are after all, professional artists. Apologies if this burst the bubble for some, but I think some really expected way too high yesterday. High expectations truly leads to disappointments. Every shipper must know that. I've been into other ships in the past that's why I've learned this the hard way. Nevertheless, the glances are way too precious to invalidate it. The laughs and smirks are still giving me the same kind of electricity I needed to keep this ship from sailing. So yeah. BINJIN PA DIN hahahahahahahha A lot of good photos yesterday but this one is my most favorite. Because we knew, HB was staring at the giant screen where SYJ was being focused. 22 20 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delulu0696 Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 8 minutes ago, ccb_RiRi said: A lot of good photos yesterday but this one is my most favorite. Because we knew, HB was staring at the monitor where SYJ was being focused. I like it..binjin's shipper like a detective 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ccb_RiRi Posted June 6, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted June 6, 2020 Hats off to SYJ's glam team. Gosh the moment she got off the car, my jaw dropped. She's very blooming and the overall styling was perfect! And I really wanna touch her hair LOL. Definitely one of her best looks. Side note: Mommy Yejin really kept everything clean. No rings to avoid speculations. LOL 9 3 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post luvlove Posted June 6, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted June 6, 2020 I'm supposed to be gone, reading Brene Brown and living my best life. (Thank you, Brene.) Working on it, but still on a Baeksang Buzz! What kind of relationship permits someone to chuckle at a friend or giggle at something they do in front of a mass audience? It takes a true bond that says, "I'm allowed. That's my better half, so I can tease." When BinJin came up the steps and SYJ looked back, causing HB to chuckle at Yejinssi, I thought, "He would never, ever, EVER laugh at her if they were not a true couple, a team. It's just not done." His ability to laugh said, "I'm laughing at my girl. She's so silly." Mic drop. It was over for me, as if he had rubbed her back. They make me so happy! I seriously need a therapist to explain why two awesome people showing love makes this random stranger on the other side of the globe so dang happy. I'll be reading the news (U.S. Ugghhh! Save me!) and the ugliness will make me think, "Maybe BinJin did something super cute! Go look!" They do make me happy, something about those two. 13 25 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post HBYJ2020 Posted June 6, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted June 6, 2020 Hi everyone. Ive been a silent reader here and a binjin shipper. But after reading posts of some doubters about HB ans SYJ's overall acts in Baeksang. In my opinion that awkwardness and anxiousness stem from knowing the fact that they knew that people/fans are following their every move, not to mention they went through 3 dating rumours and i believe they prefer to be professional. Korean actors aren't like other nationalities who have no qualms of showing off their closeness. When they received their award, it's obvious they are very close (friends or lovers) coz they glanced at each other for a moment when they were at the stage. For me that's a sign that they are in good terms. I mean compare it in the 2014 awards when they almost didn't look at each other. Also, didn't you observe the real couple Rain and Kim Tae Hee? In an interview, Rain was asked why isn't he talking about his wife, he said he doesn't like to mix personal and work. Im not even sure if they often seen together. And i bliv that's the kind of person yejin is. So yes... I think they are still together. In good terms. I won't have expectations but i don't however doubt that they are really close, and there's something between them. 21 10 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walk Kindly Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 8 hours ago, BinJin_Netherlands said: I don't even think ''close friends'' act so cold as Hyun Bin did today. What do you guys think ? I'm afraid it didn't work out between them or that Hyun Bin is in love with someone else Please take a reading course from page 1 for your better understanding of BINJIN nature.. If you're lazy, i couldn't help you. though you need a better insight for your mind and heart immunity. a different way perspective from others could be means that you don't know much about the nature of those two beautiful people. I respect your BINJIN username I hope after reading route you don't drowned anymore and start learn for swim. so, when we're arrive at the dock, you're not too late at the party 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
girlpepper Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 10 hours ago, RiRiGaGa said: Give them the benefit of the doubt, respect them enough to allow them to do their jobs, and give them reason to WANT to share the good news with the world instead of scaring them off into thinking that their privacy will never be respected and their reputations will be tarnished with the silent whispers. Draw them out using love and understanding instead of backing them out into a corner and forcing them to hide out of self-preservation for a relationship (whatever it may mean to them) that they clearly both really value due to circulating negativity or unjust scrutiny. If you value them as individuals and as the couple you ship; then please respect them enough to allow them the space and breathing room to do what’s best for their relationship and their personal lives. They are human just like us and deserve that respect. Amen to that! Sometimes we forget that they are people. If we Take away all that glitz and glamor around them we will realized they are just like the rest of us. They might have put themselves in the limelight, but it doesn’t give us leverage the to use them. We have to stop putting them in a pedestal where they can’t move and breathe it will suffocate and burn them. Let them be! 10 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Lk k Posted June 6, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted June 6, 2020 (edited) Hi, i dont usually post but saw that there is alot of discussion and alternative views going on which triggered my eagerness to share my view of yesterday's event. Views are welcomed. Binjin interactions Alot comments surfaced citing bin seems aloof to jin and not on form which I disagree. Their interaction throughout the event was kind of expected to me, at least not to the extent of dropping big hints about their r/s . I never expected them to be lovely dovely and be upright close for such an event and what's more, yesterday's mood is kind of sombre due to covid. On top of that bin was clearly nervous yesterday due to his high expections for the acting award. He definitely has improved in controlling his gazes to jin but that's not aloof (recall how he behaved at the first part of cloy press Con). Despite the fact that we don't have much shots of them throughout the session, the short snippets we saw are all telltale signs of their affection. I guess there is no need to elaborate further as there are so many pictures and proofs. Their r/s is definitely not one that is showing upright pda but subtle actions and acts to show they care and look out for each other. That is what it takes for a long term r/s to go strong and lasting. Bin's reaction, behaviour Bin was clearly uptight and anxious thoughout the show and had shown high desire to clinch the best actor award. He was figiting with his fingers during the annoucement and when announced, his expression tells everything that he was clearly disappointed. His disappointment perpetuated in the post event interview and shot with jin as he seemed to lack smile and happiness which caused people to cast doubts about their r/s. My heart goes to him as well, this is one award that I truly felt is a pity for bin given that it is such a close shave to an award from his last big award. However, the good thing is that jin was there to support him as she tried to minimise his sense of sadness which was evident when she tried to round things up during the backstage interview by consistently thanking the supporters etc. In a bubbly mood. Personally, I believe she will be there to support bin with her ample experience in award shows and get him out of this down time. I guess nothing beats more than a life partner or soul mate that understands your work, thoughts and feelings, and support you in whatever at her level best. Jin's reaction, behaviour Jin was clearly not after the actress award yesterday as she was in a totally relax and spectator mode. She surprised us with her top form yesterday and clearly a different self she used to portray. From cloy interviews, she was usually the elusive, protective one and don't openly display her thoughts or affection (unlike someone). However, yesterday, not just the reporters' shots which displayed her vibrant smiles openly to bin, she also took a different stance on stage, in her speech and in the interviews to drop subtle hints. She is no longer stonic and has become the radiant one. One is to help cover up for the disappointed bin to thank the fans on behalf of herself/bin, she also assured us in the couple backstage interview that she is very blissful everyday. Isnt this subtlely dropping hints to fans to reveal that we should not be too panicky and worry about their r/s as they are going strong and happy. It is a good thing to me that jin is slowly moving out of her protective shell and telling us more info, this may be part of her move for bigger plans in the future. All in all, whilst I'm disappointment about cloy's haul yesterday, especially with Bin's miss, I'm a satisfied with bin jin's interaction and progress and am sure the ship is still going strong. The couple affection for each other is still strong to me and they are all proven by their actions and words. I am definitely a fan of their low profile yet strong way to show care n love for each other which to me is most important for a r/s to last and withstand any challenges to come. Moving forward, we have to be prepared for binjin drought again, my take is they will not do cf together at this moment. But being low profile has its merit for them. It is only that their r/s will grow stronger without the public scruntiy and fanfare ( this is how their r/s progress rapidly during TN right when no much people knows about them). Understand this is at the expense of fans like us dreading for their content, but ultimately this is what it takes for ship to sail and it is not to satisfy fans right? Cheers to all. Edited June 6, 2020 by Lk k 19 11 7 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renzshin Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 Hello! I've been a silent reader in this forum. Since many of BinJin fans had been disappointed towards their action yesterday, all I can say is they acted pretty normal. There are a lot of cameras. I think some of us are disappointed because we've expected so much more. This is a awards night not a promotion of their show or their love. They've been scrutinized since their grocery shopping photos. I think their actions are guarded. They are mature individuals. We actually don't know what happened during commercial breaks or after the show. I think HB and SYJ wants to be known thru their hardwork not their personal lives. We should just be happy because they attended the show and want to thank their millions of fans around the world. SK is a conservative country. And dating scandal is not a very welcome issue to them. We might never know what's the real score between the two. But let's respect their decision. I don't want them to be pressured to get married for the sake of the happiness of their fans. I want them to get married because they are really in love. (honestly, i can see love in their eyes and there's no doubt they still have the sparks in their eyes last night) Actually, the more they are awkward and hiding their relationship, the more it shows. Fellow shippers, calm your heart. Let's just be happy for them. And continue to support them in a relationship or not. Love love love! Mahal ko sila. 12 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ccb_RiRi Posted June 6, 2020 Share Posted June 6, 2020 20 minutes ago, HBYJ2020 said: Also, didn't you observe the real couple Rain and Kim Tae Hee? In an interview, Rain was asked why isn't he talking about his wife, he said he doesn't like to mix personal and work. Im not even sure if they often seen together. And i bliv that's the kind of person yejin is. So yes... I think they are still together. In good terms. I won't have expectations but i don't however doubt that they are really close, and there's something between them. Exactly. I've checked out other SK celebrity couples in the past. Even married celeb couples. Its not really in their nature to show affection especially on big events where they knew a lot of media were present. They're behavior yesterday was similar to CLOY presscon, Lots of cameras so they tried their best to act as if they're not that close. But again, the smirks, shared laughs, the stealing glances just proved to me that NAHH its just their ploy. AS USUAL lols 12 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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