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[Drama 2019-2020] Love is Beautiful, Life is Wonderful, 사랑은 뷰티풀 인생은 원더풀

The love wrectangle and the kiss prediction  

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  1. 1. Who will Seol Ah end up with ?

    • Tae Rang ! The poster says it all . TR is a complete sweetheart, he made her a better person and the feelings are mutual.
    • Jin Woo ! 10 years of marriage , deep remorse & repentance, 200% effort . Deep down SA just needed to realise she loves him too.
    • Men ? Who needs them ? She should just focus on her career... ( please don't kill me dear male viewers :D)
    • Let's not waste their chemistry - I think Jin Woo and Tae Rang should be the end game.
  2. 2. How many more kisses will we get from Jun Hwi and Chung Ah?

    • This is a family drama...so we will be lucky to get one more...
    • What ?! With their chemistry , there would be at least two more.
    • The power of positive thinking - one every weekend! :D

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  • Poll closed on 02/29/2020 at 10:55 AM

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1 hour ago, triplem said:

Highlight the section you want & Press the quote button at the bottom of your post . 

 

@sjlsjl, not to contradict @triplem too much, but if you do this, you're going to end up quoting the entire post, and then you will have to manually delete out any photos, gifs, and videos since quoting those are against the forum rules, as well as any material you didn't want to quote. Quoting entire long posts can actually make it harder to read, so you may just want to quote a selection anyway rather than entire posts in general.

 

Anyway, if you highlight the section on someone else's post that you want to quote, you should get a popup button that says "quote selection". Click on that button, and it will place the section you want to quote in your editor at the bottom. Good luck!

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4 hours ago, nohamahamoud2002 said:

I don't know how JW loves SA? I mean is it because she rejected him? And what is love to him? Is it buying things to her? And allow his mother to abuse her? Really I don't consider it love :huh:

 

So, I don't expect you to agree with me or anything, but your post caused me to write a defense of JW really loving SA.

 

JW married SA even knowing that she only wanted to marry him because he was not only rich, but a chaebol. He admired her spirit, her spunk, and her beauty, and seemed to have fallen for her. He has actually said as much since. He was also full of confidence that she would come to love him back, because he's rich, handsome, successful, and had never lacked for female attention.

 

JW married SA over the objections of his mother, despite her dire warnings and her temper tantrums about it. If anything, this should have been a warning to SA about how truly horrible a mother-in-law that she would have. He married her despite knowing that it might cause trouble down the road because of history between his younger cousin and her little sister. SA was the one who agreed to throwing away her family to marry him. Since that overcame his mother's objections to his marrying SA, he didn't think too deeply about it.

 

JW's major sin against SA, in my eyes anyway, even more than the overt act of cheating on SA, is that he was so oblivious to everything. He didn't understand the pain that SA was going through in throwing her family away for the sake of her ambition of marrying a chaebol. He didn't understand that she would long for her family even after having thrown them away, and he didn't notice that those feelings of longing would steadily grow worse because she didn't throw them away from her heart. It's this obliviousness on his part that led to SA never being happy as his wife. Though, truthfully, it may have taken SA's departure from his side for him to realize how grave a situation his oblivion was.

 

SA didn't do them any favors either, though. Having thrown everything away to be with a chaebol, she never allowed herself to open up to her husband, never shared with him anything of how she was feeling about anything including missing her family or how the way her mother-in-law was treating her made her feel humiliated.

 

You could argue that JW should have noticed and understood, but I would say that he isn't a mindreader. He knew from the moment that they dated that she just wanted his money and status. All the aloofness afterwards, he put down to that she still only wanted his money and status. And, so he did show her love the way he thought she would like, with giving her expensive presents. He also told her that he loved her, btw, even though she never reciprocated and seemingly only tolerated him.

 

SA's continued aloofness was hurtful to JW, even as he was falling more in love with his wife. When SA didn't conceive, JW even said that it was okay and that they could just be together. That from the only child of his family with all of that duty to produce a son, as his mother hounded him about. JW didn't appreciate that if he was having to hear about the lack of children from his mom, that SA was getting even harsher treatment on that matter.

 

So, the reason I feel sorry for him is that he doesn't seem to ever have realized what the true problems in their marriage were and SA never bothered to tell him anything. And, while SA had her family to return to who unconditionally loved and embraced her, JW does not seem to ever had any support system like that. His harridan mother definitely doesn't give him much love per se, much less unconditional love. Even JH's mother, despite her flaws, clearly loved her sons and was willing to support them albeit possibly loving them too much and tried to help in illegal ways and is now appalled at how things have occurred between JH and CA. Btw, it's that sincere love for JH that makes me think his mother is going to come around sooner or later. JW's mother, however, never came around and I doubt that she will ever accept SA. Another reason that JW will probably end up letting SA go after all. But, I can't help feeling bad for JW.

 

Sorry for the long post. Just thinking it through that JW was a careless and clueless husband, but I still think he sincerely loved SA.

 

 

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32 minutes ago, stroppyse said:

JW's major sin against SA, in my eyes anyway, even more than the overt act of cheating on SA, is that he was so oblivious to everything. He didn't understand the pain that SA was going through in throwing her family away for the sake of her ambition of marrying a chaebol. He didn't understand that she would long for her family even after having thrown them away, and he didn't notice that those feelings of longing would steadily grow worse because she didn't throw them away from her heart. It's this obliviousness on his part that led to SA never being happy as his wife. Though, truthfully, it may have taken SA's departure from his side for him to realize how grave a situation his oblivion was.

 

my problem with JW is that he still lived with his mother (as usual in kdrama  -_- ) when she was treating SA so bad

 

I mean his mother is really hopeless. And also JW is not really down to earth. 

 

I mean if you compare him with TR, TR was considerate to SA's mom. He made sure that SA eats the food sent by the mother. He knew how to calm SA down when she is angry. He is a kind simple guy. He is not interested in money and wealth.

 

What JW couldn't do with his money, TR was able to do with his kind-heart.

 

whereas JW is used to wealth, perhaps he loves SA "in his own way". 

 

 But I think somehow I prefer poor guys :D 

 

remembering the Beatles song @Ameera Ali  :D 

 

 

 

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Fully agree with  @stroppyse  :D ..

 

To be in that marriage with JW for 9 years... under very trying conditions...battered constantly by a ruthless mother-in-law.... is simply idiotic.....(in my book, 2 years is even tooooo long).

 

SA must have some love for JW..... or she would have bailed out of there fairly quickly.....and she was only forced out....due to blond MIL's threat to harm her family. And that is some dogged  determination for SA right there.

 

Understandably now...she is still hurting....why she is rejecting JW....(he's got to sweat it).

Moreover,  if she marries TR, she will be sister-in-law or family to HR.... who only out-performed her in bed with his ex............not sure that will look good at all.

 

 

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That's why I watch a 50 episode drama. I don't care what trajectory JW does now ok? I am just going to take the chance at seeing OMS. Who knows when he will next act. He might be in a ghost drama or something I won't watch.

 

So yeah, a cheating chaebol is kinda tame. The writer hasn't written him as swearing or being physically abusive so I don't have to swear at JW.

 

I still don't care about SA. So whatever. She's there. If I have to watch her I will. But otherwise * shrugs shoulders *

 

Still here. Just reading spoilers and going to selected scenes.

 

What I really don't understand is why the girls father still has so many scenes. I mean he's basically useless but he gets more scenes. It must be true that a jobless person has time to poke around and make themselves a nuisance.

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10 minutes ago, ck1Oz said:

So yeah, a cheating chaebol is kinda tame. The writer hasn't written him as swearing or being physically abusive so I don't have to swear at JW.

 

I still don't care about SA. So whatever. She's there. If I have to watch her I will. But otherwise * shrugs shoulders *

 

 

I think that's the conundrum for me as well. I don't particularly care about SA either way, whether she ends up with JW or TR, she is free to live her own life. However, I do care about JW, so I'm glad to see him getting some more substantial scenes because he's causing me to feel for him.

 

1 hour ago, nohamahamoud2002 said:

I mean if you compare him with TR, TR was considerate to SA's mom. He made sure that SA eats the food sent by the mother. He knew how to calm SA down when she is angry. He is a kind simple guy. He is not interested in money and wealth.

 

I don't disagree with you about TR. I don't even disagree as to whether TR is better for SA, or whether SA should end up with TR. TR clearly is more sensitive and more perceptive with respect to SA.

 

I do think it's their respective family backgrounds that matter. In addition to being the oldest of the brood, TR has had to step in as a parent proxy after their mother died and their father went to pieces. They aren't particularly rich so that meant he had to learn about moderation and not getting everything what he wants. JW is the only son of an extremely wealthy family where money and status matter more than love. He's had to be responsible for a corporation as a CEO, but never had to take responsibility for another person before SA.

 

So, while not disagreeing with your comments about TR, or even about whether TR or JW would make a better spouse for SA, I just wanted to point out that JW's love for SA was sincere, and that of the three (TR, SA, or JW), it's JW who actually tugs most at my heart because he seems so alone and unloved all the time.

 

And, yeah, I know that HR "loves" JW, but for whatever reason, that never felt sincere either. It felt more like obsession than true love.

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I think all characters in this drama need to hear this -_- this is from writers past drama I have a lover. 

 

 

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1 hour ago, stroppyse said:

JW's love for SA was sincere, and that of the three (TR, SA, or JW), it's JW who actually tugs most at my heart because he seems so alone and unloved all the time

 

Well yes if you put it that way, I think he loves her in his own way. But is it enough? I mean the love of rich people is really strange. He interprets everything to money. He needs to learn how to show his feelings by simple gestures. I mean sprinkling the salt on the ground was considerate of him and eating at a simple restaurant with her was touching too. He needs to do this more often

 

He is lonely, I admit :(

But neither SA nor HR are suitable for him. I wish there will be a new woman introduced. 

 

His mother is the worst really 

 

As for your feeling sorry for JW, I have been there twice in Left-handed wife and A place in the Sun when I rooted for the second male leads lol, I decided to support the first male lead for a change this time and Yoon Park is helping me :D

 

@yookitube as for SA not marrying TR because of HR, the only way out is for the writer using HR's death scenario in the end. She is a psycho and I imagine her killing herself if she can't marry JW (I hope she doesn't kill JW as well)

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Whoa....wow...ok 

 

Its agreeable to say  HR, JW, SA, blonde witch, Judge, Lazy Oppa  ....stink! :glasses:

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I wanted to not like JW but the more screen time he got the more I want him to find someone who can love sincerely.  I thought they would make him someone I would hate but so far he is not that person. One thing though I dont want him with HR.  I think most of us feels that way 

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his wife was tell him for years to man up & protect his girls :tounge_wink:

 

... { So would he finally be a man ,

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8 hours ago, tiMadam said:

I wanted to not like JW but the more screen time he got the more I want him to find someone who can love sincerely.  I thought they would make him someone I would hate but so far he is not that person. One thing though I dont want him with HR.  I think most of us feels that way 

 

It is the OMS  charm lol

He is very good at getting the audience's  love. I'm glad he is able to do it.

 

My poor idols in the other drama I mentioned made every one dislike them :phew:

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10 hours ago, nohamahamoud2002 said:

He interprets everything to money. He needs to learn how to show his feelings by simple gestures. I mean sprinkling the salt on the ground was considerate of him and eating at a simple restaurant with her was touching too. He needs to do this more often

 

He did because he was raised that way, but he also did so because he knew that his money along with his social status was the reason that SA agreed to date him and marry him. He knew that she had not grown to love him, but he thought that she still liked his money and his status. He didn't realize that the reality of those things had not met up to her expectations. He thought he was doing what she wanted.

 

Now that he understands better what was wrong, he's now doing the simple gestures that could possibly mean more to her, like sprinkling salt on the icy roads around her house, eating in simple restaurants with her, and also trying to cultivate her family. Unfortunately, it's too late for JW and SA, and only JW is left to realize that. However, for him, having woken up from a coma, he's still in love with his wife, and disbelieving that she's moved on from him. As per the preview, I think him seeing her crying so piteously for TR will show him how much SA has moved away from him and gone to another man emotionally. I think one of the things that is going to hurt JW is knowing that SA never cried over him the way she is crying over TR.

 

10 hours ago, nohamahamoud2002 said:

His mother is the worst really 

 

Yes, she is.

 

10 hours ago, nohamahamoud2002 said:

@yookitube as for SA not marrying TR because of HR, the only way out is for the writer using HR's death scenario in the end. She is a psycho and I imagine her killing herself if she can't marry JW (I hope she doesn't kill JW as well)

 

Hmm, I don't think that TR could be with SA if HR dies actually. Too much guilt and regrets on both sides, but especially for TR who also truly loves HR as his little sister. HR's suicide would probably have TR retreat, especially from SA and CA, though being apologetic to both. I think the only way really would be for HR to somehow make amends to SA and CA. Given that this is a kdrama, I'm pretty sure that HR will be redeemed somehow. Perhaps she will be the donor of an organ to SA or her family or something. That seems to be a rather common plot device in these matters in kdramas. :D

 

8 hours ago, tiMadam said:

I wanted to not like JW but the more screen time he got the more I want him to find someone who can love sincerely.  I thought they would make him someone I would hate but so far he is not that person. One thing though I dont want him with HR.  I think most of us feels that way 

 

LOL, Yes and yes. I do like JW, and I definitely don't want him saddled with psycho HR.

 

 

I'm hoping that this weekend's episodes will have the OTP having to interact some way. I know they only separated last week, but it already feels far too long that JH and CA are apart. I guess, from the preview, CA's mother calling JH may lead to her knowing the truth about who JH is?  If so, she had better tell CA. I'm so tired of CA being the only one kept in the dark.

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So for Sa. It's OK to be with TR, the brother of the one Who take her hasband and more of that, thé one Who make her Sister want to suicide. Even TR is ashamed. 

But for SR, CA shouldn't be with JH, and don't want his Mother to know what she realy did,(MAKING HER SELF AS ORFIN JUST TO MARTY JW) so selfish and self centred. 

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Sorry all. . I’m out of town & unable to live cap today & tomorrow. I think KBS videos are out soon 

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Don don... Now CA mother knows who JH mother is....  

 

 

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