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  1. 1. Was there an affair?

    • No, there was no affair. It was one sided on Yoo Ri's part
    • Yes, there was an ongoing affair.
    • It was a one night stand.
  2. 2. The Conspiracy Theory

    • Yoo Ri is not the real daughter but the VP's mistress.
    • Sung Joon is doing this for his own gain ( to advance his career).
    • The VP hired Yoo Ri to destroy the Sung Joon - Jung Sun.
    • This is a high-end escort service.
    • There really is no conspiracy - just a marriage breaking down.

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What a sad situation.  Communication, Communication, Communication.   SJ & JS obviously have none.  He keeps quiet about his family past because he's ashamed....and he got married without telling his wife about it????   I'm amazed how he was able to calmly and with his normal blank expression tell JS she didn't know his mistress and that it was over. 

 

WOW...what a liar!  That's what upset me the most about his cheating.  He couldn't even be honest with JS when she asked him straight out to tell her the truth.  That's why she is furious with him now.  Once the Trust goes...its OVER.

 

Early in this drama I thought, No Way would they make the husband a total heal.  Was I wrong.  At this point I can't see anything redeeming in their relationship.  I'm sad that JS has nothing left but to go on a rampage against the cheaters.  She so deserves better than to waste her time on them.  She will end up hurting herself even more and they are not worth a minute of her time.

 

Every new episode makes me feel worse for our heroine since I can see the destructive path ahead.  Can someone else pop up in the story to save her before she ruins her self respect and dignity?  I  would hate to see her become desperate in her quest to even the score.

 

Jang Nara is phenomenal.  So great to see her as a character who is smart, strong, and with a take no prisoner attitude.  I expect JS to get revenge but at the same time find closure and learn from the mistakes that got her here in the first place.  This couple is so superficial.  Its scary to think they have been together for 10 years and still know nothing about each other.

 

 

 

 

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Finally, had the opportunity to watch both episodes with subs. These ........... deserves what's coming for them. 

 

SJ messed up big time and he knows it. But, Instead of begging on his knees and asking for forgiveness, what.... DIVORCE????? Like JS said, she will make the decision and I hope she makes his life hell in the process:crazy:

 

And don't get me started on YR. Like you Chingus pointed out, she is a manipulative little ( I don't want to swear):triumph:. And who else thinks she staged that hug in front of the Dashcam? And idiot had to stand like a statue<_< while being touched by his mistress when he was supposed to been done with his little affair. I hope JS teaches this little twit a lesson she will never forget.

 

From the looks of the preview, VP is backing her up and telling her to talk down on JS. What a nice thing to teach your new daughter. now the good question is, is cheater gonna grow a spine finally and stand up for his wife or let her get humiliated in front of her co-workers? But then again, I don't think so:weary:. Another thing, is the hug from the preview from a flashback or the present time???? I highly doubt she is gonna let him near her :blink:. Why is Monday too far??:rolleyes:

 

Poor JS, she is going to self destructive mode and is gonna make sure she drags her husband along with her. Can't blame her, her 10 years marriage went down the drain and her husband keeps on lying and lying to her face. From the looks of the flashback, It looks like the miscarriage was recent considering the fact that the affair started shortly after that accident. I'm still waiting for the truth to come out regarding his father. Boy, it won't be pretty when she finds out the little twit knows it too. 

 

Phew.... now I feel better ranting and getting this out of my chest lol:relieved:

 

@Samuel YohanesYohanesYohanYohanes

I read your post before I watched both episodes and hopefully, cheater doesn't pull that crap because JS will remember that for the rest of her life. Truth be told, the signs are there with him; however; I want him to be strong enough to pay for his mistakes. 

P.S... something went wrong with the name tag lol:sweatingbullets:.

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This drama literally gave me a  headache......This is the last week of my school semester, I'll see yall next week. I still have hope that he gets punched or slapped.

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Her husband is a piece of richard simmons. He can’t even bear the pain that he has caused. No matter what he’s reason is, it is never right to cheat. If you’re freaking tired of your relationship then break up, if you’re............ insecure or you pity YR then freaking BREAK UP with your wife not CHEAT! The guy has no balls such a coward, he can’t even talk or have a proper communication/conversation  with his wife. I pity JS for having a trash husband. 

 

I guess by the preview, YR will be the new head of vip team? The VP basically said to greet her subordinate, JS. ????

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If you all don't mind, can I post these pics here..???! :D I only vote for Na Jung Sun... :wub: She's the only reason why I am here!

 

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I don't know about the actress who play Oh Yu Ri & never heard about her either! But I think Lee Sang Yoon is a popular south korean actor among viewers.. This is my very 1st Lee Sang Yoon drama & I don't think I'd watch his dramas again.. :( He is so blank & depressing! He should do pleasant dramas so that he can gain more fans for him!

 

And I am not really watching eng sub eps now.. I only watch live stream! So I know that I am missing so many things. But I wanna know this for sure. Was it confirmed so far that Park Sung Jun & na Jung Sun had a miscarriage in the past???! Or is the baby room for their future baby??! I hope someone explain me in details...... :)

 

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@gm4queen He was in the road to airport ( sounding sort of). It was also an adulterous show with him as an adulterer. I could not watch it, I think it was trying a bit hard to show that adulterers are regular people. -_- There were children involved. It seemed quite popular. The few forum postings that I had read seemed to think their relationship was treated well. 

 

Here we need to totally reject the adulterer and fornicator, so the writer will dare not give them any hope for a happy life together. Does anyone know what the reception is like in Korea? Writers and directors are more receptive to their opinions, makes sense of course. 
 

Another adulterous show was about a woman who had artificial insemination with ex husband ( the adulterer) to produce baby number 2, and harvest him to save son number 1. In this show, he was thoroughly penitent, though he married the woman, they were both miserable and miscarried galore.

 

I am not sure I want a remorseful SJ at the end. As long as JS leaves and moves on to a better and happier future, I would end this show happily.

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1 hour ago, maribella said:

@gm4queen He was in the road to airport ( sounding sort of). It was also an adulterous show with him as an adulterer. I could not watch it, I think it was trying a bit hard to show that adulterers are regular people. -_- There were children involved. It seemed quite popular. The few forum postings that I had read seemed to think their relationship was treated well. 

 

Here we need to totally reject the adulterer and fornicator, so the writer will dare not give them any hope for a happy life together. Does anyone know what the reception is like in Korea? Writers and directors are more receptive to their opinions, makes sense of course. 
 

Another adulterous show was about a woman who had artificial insemination with ex husband ( the adulterer) to produce baby number 2, and harvest him to save son number 1. In this show, he was thoroughly penitent, though he married the woman, they were both miserable and miscarried galore.

 

I am not sure I want a remorseful SJ at the end. As long as JS leaves and moves on to a better and happier future, I would end this show happily.

Fun fact. The rating is rising high after the secret is out. Double digit now. I think this drama will peak at 15%+ and beat vagabond peak rating.

 

Jang Na Ra is a magnet rating for sure. Her latest drama The last empress is also huge in rating. And tbh this affair is nothing compared to the last empress. 

 

That one is just ........... from beginning from fake love / kids / makjang mother and actually having affair that he didnt even try to hide with the secretary. 

 

For the blank part i think that maybe thats how his character supposed to be. I enjoyed his performance in whisper with lee bo young. But yeah he master those blank looks and thats one plus point from him because he can look innocent from doing just that

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1 hour ago, gm4queen said:

But I think Lee Sang Yoon is a popular south korean actor among viewers.. This is my very 1st Lee Sang Yoon drama & I don't think I'd watch his dramas again.. :( He is so blank & depressing! He should do pleasant dramas so that he can gain more fans for him!

You’ll be missing out then... Try watch him in Twenty Again. I can promise you he is a good guy there. 

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Guys , gentle reminder ...don't circumvent the swear filter please. This is part of our terms of use and rules 

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For discussion sake , I don't know if anyone here has seen My Wife is Having An Affair. Lee Sang Yoon's character or rather his lack of emotions here remind me of the female lead's character there as well. It was intentional as the first half of the drama focussed alot on the how her husband reacted to her affair and alot of it was told from the husband's perspective. So initially her character seemed emotionless and it was really hard to empathise or understand what led to the affair especially because there was a child involved and it wasn't like the guy was a bad husband. But as the drama progressed we got to see her side of the story and her feelings and emotions. And by the end of the drama as the couple realised the true matter of the problem lied in within their marriage ,    I as a viewer ended up rooting for them to be reconciled. So right now I am just wondering if this drama has been intentionally keeping Lee Sang Yun' s character as distant and as emotionally unavailable as he is projecting because we're first seeing it from her perspective. It'd be really nice to see the next phase of the drama look at things from his perspective as well.

 

Of course , at the end of the day , affairs etc are still a conscious choice made by the offending parties. There's no excuse because of the hurt you bring to the other person....but if you have been married long enough, you'll probably be able to see that sometimes there's so much that goes on in a marriage that may be a factor in leading to those poor choices.

 

By the way Lee Sang Yoon was pretty fantastic in On The Way to The Airport. The adultery theme aside , he brought to his character a sweetness and kindness that is quite different from his personality here.

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2 hours ago, ktcjdrama said:

You’ll be missing out then... Try watch him in Twenty Again. I can promise you he is a good guy there. 

Haha , Liar Game is great. I guarantee you that he’s very very talkative as a theatre professor in drama ‘Twenty Again’. So don’t miss it 

 

 

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Dear @maribella @Samuel Yohanes @ktcjdrama @triplem & @sin hoonsim friends, 

 

I adore all your recommendations about Lee Sang Yoon dramas but I think I've brought up something unnecessary to the thread! :( I apologize for any inconvenient caused! Since this is the thread for VIP, let's talk more about the series.. 

 

This is my most fav scene yesterday! I dunno why but when jang Nara cries, she hits me real hard with her tears. :tears: I can't see her crying like this.. She is so helpless.. I want her to be strong & have guts to move forward in her life!!! Yeah, that's the best revenge her untruly husband can have from her!

 

 

 

And this guy is just floating around... :D Ha ha ha.. He is so funny to watch..

 

 

And can't wait to see how these two women get in line for Park Sang Jun.. Seriously, innocent faces are most dangerous!! :( 

 

 

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5 minutes ago, gm4queen said:

adore all your recommendations about Lee Sang Yoon dramas but I think I've brought up something unnecessary to the thread! :( I apologize for any inconvenient caused! Since this is the thread for VIP, let's talk m

It is not entirely out of point, we are comparing the characters and the various shows with VIP.

It's good to know LSY has many more expressions.

 

Monday is so far away too.

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Lee SangYun posted SJ & YR on his personal Instagram LOL

SangYun made it clear recently at Osaka Fan Meeting 1.12.2019, ParkSungJoon & LeeSangYun are two DIFFERENT person LOL

and he is worried of respond ...role in VIP

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I am so disappointed in the character SJ.  I wanted a love story between the two leads and I'm skeptical that they can reconcile now.  I am still confused about him asking for divorce.  Do you think it is because he loves JS so much that he can't stand to see her in pain?  After seeing Episode 10, is it because he saw his father stay in a marriage, broken by an affair, and the whole family was angry the rest of their lives?  Is it because he wants to be with Yuri?  Why did he go to mistress rather than wife that night after team meeting?  Why did he sit in car so long?  What was he conflicted about?

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Poor LSY:lol:, knowing his real personality, no wonder he is worried Imao:joy::mrgreen:. He is doing a fantastic job with SJ character considering the fact that we hate him lol:mrgreen:. He shouldn't be reading comments LOL. He will be shocked:sweatingbullets::sweat_smile::lol:.

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36 minutes ago, lu09 said:

@sin hoonsimh

Poor LSY:lol:, knowing his real personality, no wonder he is worried Imao:joy::mrgreen:. He is doing a fantastic job with SJ character considering the fact that we hate him lol:mrgreen:. He shouldn't be reading comments LOL. He will be shocked:sweatingbullets::sweat_smile::lol:.

Haha, fan meeting was his last project for 2019, now resting & Guess holiday in Taiwan w his best friends

christmas is coming...our VIPs

Final episode 16 will be aired on Xmas eve?

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10 hours ago, lebeaucouple said:

In my opinion, Marriage is not a lack of love, but a lack of trust and openness that makes unhappy marriages. The male lead has flaws which has too many dark secrets that are not wholeheartedly sharing enough with his wife. It was a pity and i am sure this was the intention by the writer. When they are back home, they are not communicating enough after office hour, too busy with work. It was sad that there were not many times the husband was willing to open up and share the secrets when the wife confronted him...

For starters SungJun told his wife a lie about his father being dead before their marriage. He maybe ashamed of his secret being an illegitimate and also for a fact that he does not want to burden JungSun who already has a falling out with her mom.   It could be this secret that he hides that make it difficult for him to open up to his wife. 

10 hours ago, lebeaucouple said:

if a woman truly loves that man, sometimes she needs to play the weakest role in their daily life.

 True in a way because man are traditionally providers, they want to feel needed. 

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11 hours ago, INJINFAN said:

I am so disappointed in the character SJ.  I wanted a love story between the two leads and I'm skeptical that they can reconcile now.  I am still confused about him asking for divorce.  Do you think it is because he loves JS so much that he can't stand to see her in pain?  After seeing Episode 10, is it because he saw his father stay in a marriage, broken by an affair, and the whole family was angry the rest of their lives?  Is it because he wants to be with Yuri?  Why did he go to mistress rather than wife that night after team meeting?  Why did he sit in car so long?  What was he conflicted about?

My dear chingu, you have raised a series of many "Y" questions...but i will try my best to answer that based on my best of knowledge.:D

 

Q1) Why is he asking for divorce?

It could be possibly due to his desperate sadness and guilty (his emotion shown) in a situation that he couldn't handle any more at that point of time (when his wife kept pressuring him for an explanation/truth). Similarly, when we force someone for an answer, the outcome may be just as cruel one that we could not bear to hear. Sad to say...

 

Q2) Do you think it is because he loves JS so much that he can't stand to see her in pain?  

Yes, it is part of the reasons. He still loves his wife a lot. He felt shameful for what he had done to her so far.

 

Q3) After seeing Episode 10, is it because he saw his father stay in a marriage, broken by an affair, and the whole family was angry the rest of their lives?

Yes, he had a disgraceful past from his father side but he believed that this is not his fault because he was not born with that. He has a pride. Nobody has a choice to choose who your father is when you are born. 

 

Q4) Why did he go to mistress rather than wife that night after team meeting?   

It was an order from his boss to take care of his "daughter" (mistress), and he empathize her was because they had the similar background (child born out of wedlock) and at the same time, he and his wife were having "cold war". Timing is the most crucial element in life, it can benefit us if we do the right thing, while it can also work against us. 

 

Q5) Why did he sit in car so long?   

He was struggling whether to tell or not to tell his wife about the truth behind, he did not know how to handle the crisis, and thus choose not to go back home early and rather stay in the car. Most men use this way to avoid problem which is quite common in the relationship.

 

Q6) What was he conflicted about? 

The moral-conflict situations occurred in his marriage. Cheating in his marriage is one of them.

 

In my opinion, there may be some fundamental issues existing in their marriage which have not been reveal in the episode yet.......If their relationship is very strong all these while, no third party can even come into it. I always believe it takes two hands to clap, it takes two people to make a marriage work. Both husband and wife have to individually invest in the marriage to make it successful, it's not a one-sided thing.

 

We shall see how the plot developed further from a different perspective. I look forward to seeing more revealing side of the story....:)

 

 

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