[Drama 2019] V.I.P, 브이아이피

[fieza1871]

31 minutes ago, flubby said:

Just watched ep 10 with subtitle.  I really hate SJ character, all his bad moves and bad decision.  I'm thinking not to watch the next 5 episode just wait for the ending, my heart can't it... I feel for JS.

 

 

 

I might joint you. I actually said the same thing 1 ep back. I might just jump ship and just read the comments here instead of torturing myself being mad at SJ and the story line...

 

It would not help my blood pressure at all. I guess the knet love it as the rating rise again. (So much for loving the scenario of hating and  torturing others even in drama...)  

[mundane9]

That VP is a first class class jerk a@%)(*_()*!?!?! who needs to fall really hard (referring to next week's episode). His response to the affair is ...  (TEARING MY HAIR OUT) - I wanna slap some people!!! Like father like daughter - the apple fell in the same spot where it originated.  0 tolerance for them both. How will JS respond to the humiliation?!?!?

[NoraSam]

49 minutes ago, flubby said:

Just watched ep 10 with subtitle.  I really hate SJ character, all his bad moves and bad decision.  I'm thinking not to watch the next 5 episode just wait for the ending, my heart can't it... I feel for JS.

 

 

 

I'm with you, waiting for the last episode. I don't want to be stress watching next 5 episode also..

[Samuel Yohanes]

The way i look into it now

 

Park sung jun has a deep secret himself.

 

And that secret only known by Yuri and thats how she comforted PSJ thus he also open up Bout his deepest secret that even his wife doesnt know about. 

 

Now i understand why PSJ want to divorce Jung Sun. From his perspective The Guilt of being a mistress kid stick forever for both the mother and the kid. Also not to forget the painful memory for the real wife and the kids itself. 

 

He does suffer himself from that guilt and all the abusive treatment from his step brother thus when he make that one time mistake ( opening up to yuri after that drink together and possibly one of his heart crushing moment ) he cant be the same anymore. Even after that although he was doing proffesional job from his vp order, yuri think that the opening means more. And still trying to win sung jun. 

 

Why he divorced jung sun is because he know even if he still shamelessly apologized and moving on. The Crack on their relationship knowing about the affair will never heal. Sung jun already know how painful the wound is and thats why he dont want jung sun to live like that pretending like nothing happen. 

 

Although yes it is not right that he only think from his own perspective that heavily came from his own experience and not thinking about jungsun.

 

But the way it happen i am scared that it will go very dark soon. If someone like park sung jun lose everything from his job,wife,family i smell a suicide ahead. The toll of guilt being a mistress kid is damn hard already. Add that with the guilt of having affair. And now losing everything. What else you want to do in life? 

 

I hope it wont happen. I do wish in a little that the SJ And JS open up to each other and really reconcile. I do believe that SJ in reality love JS the most. If you really having an affair, it wont be like this for sure. You will go very extreme like lying about your schedule and go sleepover with your mistress ( check other drama ). 

 

Also i wonder what would happen if jung sun Came with sung jun into the funeral. Will everything that happen be prevented? Because afaik jung sun didnt know that sung jun is also wedlock kid. Things will go different around them.

 

On the other side, will mina really betray sung jun again? And what secret does she talk about to sung jun? About baby or something else? 

[KY L]

I just finished ep 10 and my blood was boiling. I want JS to burn it all down so badly. Emotional cheating is the worst kind of cheating. JS trusted him wholeheartedly, by allowing him to see her own family secrets and shame. Yet, he didn't do the same for her, he couldn't be honest with her and that's all on him and his own insecurity. He already betrayed their marriage by not allowing himself to rely on her, not opening up to her, to share his pain.

 

On top of it all, he was willing to cover up his boss's affair without shame, all for a promotion, THEN fell in love with his boss's mistress, AND let her work with him on the same team under his wife's nose. He let all of this happen while playing the victim, as though he's just a clueless nice guy who got 'caught' up in the situation. He made multiple bad choices in a row and messed up his own life. He should take the responsibility, he should've been the one who came clean to the company, and he should be lucky that JS is a classy woman and didn't publicly drop him in front of the entire company.

[maribella]

@KY L I wish she were the boss' mistress too so she could be completely humiliated but unfortunately, it is confirmed a few times that she is his illegitimate daughter.

 

Totally agree with you about SJ, a piece of rubbish at best.

 

 

[lebeaucouple]

@Samuel Yohanes i agreed with your comment.

 

In my opinion, Marriage is not a lack of love, but a lack of trust and openness that makes unhappy marriages. The male lead has flaws which has too many dark secrets that are not wholeheartedly sharing enough with his wife. It was a pity and i am sure this was the intention by the writer. When they are back home, they are not communicating enough after office hour, too busy with work. It was sad that there were not many times the husband was willing to open up and share the secrets when the wife confronted him...

 

I like the writer put it this way to let many real life couples to learn the lesson what went wrong to this couple in the drama. A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together, it is when an imperfect couple learns to accept and see their differences and open up for honest discussion whenever possible. They can overcome the problem with complete sincerity and commitment. It will not easy to reconcile if the husband remains quiet and no further action from him. The mistress will be the major obstacles to this couple. 

 

In real life , most of the women will act exactly same as the female lead, or even more aggressive....like pulling hair or pour wine over the mistress in public, etc, but if you want to win over the competitor, a strategy needs to adopt in order to win back the husband heart, provided the wife still loves her husband. When the husband not doing anything, or struggle to choose which one, the two women will fight probably in words and take action.

 

A statistic shown that, men tend to protect the weakest one, if a woman is too strong, he knows that she can survive by her own and he will tend to choose the weaker one simply because he knows he is in an important VIP position to that woman and thus he can feel the needs required by that woman. 

 

Lesson learnt - if a woman truly loves that man, sometimes she needs to play the weakest (soft) role in their daily life. We must understand men weaknesses in order to win back their heart. If a woman is capable enough to survive by her own or find a new love along the way, then she should choose her path wisely and let go the relationship. Revenge will only for short term but it can cause long term pain and suffering deepen in her life, what about the rest of her life, is she going to accept the broken glass or move forward? A path that is never easy for all women when we are in that juncture, it all depend on the woman's character when making her decision.

 

I am curious how this writer wants the ending to be.... I hope the ending is an educated and meaningful one. 

[KY L]

34 minutes ago, maribella said:

@KY L I wish she were the boss' mistress too so she could be completely humiliated but unfortunately, it is confirmed a few times that she is his illegitimate daughter.

 

Totally agree with you about SJ, a piece of rubbish at best.

 

 

Ah, I wasn't really paying attention to that part. So it wasn't just a cover to save his public image. Even so, SJ should've stay out of his boss's personal life. And for the record, I don't think Yuri should be humiliated, she just wants someone in her corner, and SJ is the dopey type to play superhero. Like I mentioned, he never respected his marriage enough to be honest with JS, so he already screwed himself over before he even met Yuri. He honestly made it so easy for her that all she had to do is cling onto him and he's unraveled.

[maribella]

25 minutes ago, KY L said:

Ah, I wasn't really paying attention to that part. So it wasn't just a cover to save his public image. Even so, SJ should've stay out of his boss's personal life. And for the record, I don't think Yuri should be humiliated, she just wants someone in her corner, and SJ is the dopey type to play superhero. Like I mentioned, he never respected his marriage enough to be honest with JS, so he already screwed himself over before he even met Yuri. He honestly made it so easy for her that all she had to do is cling onto him and he's unraveled.

She did not just want someone to cling to, she saw JS being in a happy marriage and covet her husband. Someone quoted her in a post. I skipped a lot too. So she is not just the weak one to be protected, she knows how to manipulate. She deserves any humiliation for breaking up a marriage,  even if no children are involved. 

 

[KY L]

13 minutes ago, maribella said:

She did not just want someone to cling to, she saw JS being in a happy marriage and covet her husband. Someone quoted her in a post. I skipped a lot too. So she is not just the weak one to be protected, she knows how to manipulate. She deserves any humiliation for breaking up a marriage,  even if no children are involved. 

 

Well, yes, she manipulated him too. But she's already hit bottom, so I can see why she wants what she can't have. Her whole life was a humiliation, no? Also, JS's marriage wasn't all that happy if he didn't feel like he can be completely honest with his wife. Just saying, the problems were already there and he cracked at an opportune time.

[maribella]

6 minutes ago, KY L said:

Well, yes, she manipulated him too. But she's already hit bottom, so I can see why she wants what she can't have. Her whole life was a humiliation, no? Also, JS's marriage wasn't all that happy if he didn't feel like he can be completely honest with his wife. Just saying, the problems were already there and he cracked at an opportune time.

All marriages have cracks and weaknesses. Just why does one break, on its own? yes but many times there is a third party. Another woman or man or in laws.

 

I am totally against homewreckers, until and unless both are unattached, find another one for oneself. Even if the marriage is a mess, whose business is it if not the couple's?  
 

There is no excuse for cheating on one's spouse. A one night stand perhaps, but this case is not.

 

edit: I am sure you have your reasons, but I have seen too many broken homes, with children, when there is a third party involved.

 

 

[KY L]

1 minute ago, maribella said:

All marriages have cracks and weaknesses. Just why does one break, on its own? yes but many times there is a third party. Another woman or man or in laws.

 

I am totally against homewreckers, until and unless both are unattached, find another one for oneself. Even if the marriage is a mess, whose business is it if not the couple's?  
 

There is no excuse for cheating on one's spouse. A one night stand perhaps, but this case is not.

 

 

A marriage may fail for many reason, it doesn't always have to be a third party, and the blame doesn't fall completely on them either. Sometimes they might not know the other is married. Otherwise, I agree with you, no sympathy for someone who knowingly cheats or covet someone who's already taken..

[smhelen]

SR and YR have no moral compass. None whatsoever. 

[SyH]

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[mcdc]

What a sad situation.  Communication, Communication, Communication.   SJ & JS obviously have none.  He keeps quiet about his family past because he's ashamed....and he got married without telling his wife about it????   I'm amazed how he was able to calmly and with his normal blank expression tell JS she didn't know his mistress and that it was over. 

 

WOW...what a liar!  That's what upset me the most about his cheating.  He couldn't even be honest with JS when she asked him straight out to tell her the truth.  That's why she is furious with him now.  Once the Trust goes...its OVER.

 

Early in this drama I thought, No Way would they make the husband a total heal.  Was I wrong.  At this point I can't see anything redeeming in their relationship.  I'm sad that JS has nothing left but to go on a rampage against the cheaters.  She so deserves better than to waste her time on them.  She will end up hurting herself even more and they are not worth a minute of her time.

 

Every new episode makes me feel worse for our heroine since I can see the destructive path ahead.  Can someone else pop up in the story to save her before she ruins her self respect and dignity?  I  would hate to see her become desperate in her quest to even the score.

 

Jang Nara is phenomenal.  So great to see her as a character who is smart, strong, and with a take no prisoner attitude.  I expect JS to get revenge but at the same time find closure and learn from the mistakes that got her here in the first place.  This couple is so superficial.  Its scary to think they have been together for 10 years and still know nothing about each other.

 

 

 

 

[lu09]

Finally, had the opportunity to watch both episodes with subs. These ........... deserves what's coming for them. 

 

SJ messed up big time and he knows it. But, Instead of begging on his knees and asking for forgiveness, what.... DIVORCE????? Like JS said, she will make the decision and I hope she makes his life hell in the process. 

 

And don't get me started on YR. Like you Chingus pointed out, she is a manipulative little ( I don't want to swear). And who else thinks she staged that hug in front of the Dashcam? And idiot had to stand like a statue while being touched by his mistress when he was supposed to been done with his little affair. I hope JS teaches this little twit a lesson she will never forget.

 

From the looks of the preview, VP is backing her up and telling her to talk down on JS. What a nice thing to teach your new daughter. now the good question is, is cheater gonna grow a spine finally and stand up for his wife or let her get humiliated in front of her co-workers? But then again, I don't think so. Another thing, is the hug from the preview from a flashback or the present time???? I highly doubt she is gonna let him near her . Why is Monday too far??

 

Poor JS, she is going to self destructive mode and is gonna make sure she drags her husband along with her. Can't blame her, her 10 years marriage went down the drain and her husband keeps on lying and lying to her face. From the looks of the flashback, It looks like the miscarriage was recent considering the fact that the affair started shortly after that accident. I'm still waiting for the truth to come out regarding his father. Boy, it won't be pretty when she finds out the little twit knows it too. 

 

Phew.... now I feel better ranting and getting this out of my chest lol. 

 

@Samuel YohanesYohanesYohanYohanes

I read your post before I watched both episodes and hopefully, cheater doesn't pull that crap because JS will remember that for the rest of her life. Truth be told, the signs are there with him; however; I want him to be strong enough to pay for his mistakes. 

P.S... something went wrong with the name tag lol.

[etelou1]

This drama literally gave me a  headache......This is the last week of my school semester, I'll see yall next week. I still have hope that he gets punched or slapped.

[Josh Marquez]

Her husband is a piece of richard simmons. He can’t even bear the pain that he has caused. No matter what he’s reason is, it is never right to cheat. If you’re freaking tired of your relationship then break up, if you’re............ insecure or you pity YR then freaking BREAK UP with your wife not CHEAT! The guy has no balls such a coward, he can’t even talk or have a proper communication/conversation  with his wife. I pity JS for having a trash husband. 

 

I guess by the preview, YR will be the new head of vip team? The VP basically said to greet her subordinate, JS. ????

[gm4queen]

If you all don't mind, can I post these pics here..???!  I only vote for Na Jung Sun...  She's the only reason why I am here!

 

 

 

I don't know about the actress who play Oh Yu Ri & never heard about her either! But I think Lee Sang Yoon is a popular south korean actor among viewers.. This is my very 1st Lee Sang Yoon drama & I don't think I'd watch his dramas again..  He is so blank & depressing! He should do pleasant dramas so that he can gain more fans for him!

 

And I am not really watching eng sub eps now.. I only watch live stream! So I know that I am missing so many things. But I wanna know this for sure. Was it confirmed so far that Park Sung Jun & na Jung Sun had a miscarriage in the past???! Or is the baby room for their future baby??! I hope someone explain me in details...... 

 

[maribella]

@gm4queen He was in the road to airport ( sounding sort of). It was also an adulterous show with him as an adulterer. I could not watch it, I think it was trying a bit hard to show that adulterers are regular people.  There were children involved. It seemed quite popular. The few forum postings that I had read seemed to think their relationship was treated well. 

 

Here we need to totally reject the adulterer and fornicator, so the writer will dare not give them any hope for a happy life together. Does anyone know what the reception is like in Korea? Writers and directors are more receptive to their opinions, makes sense of course. 
 

Another adulterous show was about a woman who had artificial insemination with ex husband ( the adulterer) to produce baby number 2, and harvest him to save son number 1. In this show, he was thoroughly penitent, though he married the woman, they were both miserable and miscarried galore.

 

I am not sure I want a remorseful SJ at the end. As long as JS leaves and moves on to a better and happier future, I would end this show happily.