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Finally watched the latest episode subbed, and I have to say, there were just so many missed opportunities between our leads!! But then, that’s what a drama is about. If everything went our way yesterday, it would’ve been an 8-episode series. 

 

Ryan, my dear Ryan... she totally got your heart racing when she had that blindfold on you. Why didn’t you act on it then?! But it would’ve been too soon at that point. It was really Da In’s comment about him being jealous that made him realise his feelings and want to cross that threshold, cos despite feeling agitated with Eun Gi’s actions, he never actually acted on them until. But it does look like he’s gonna get annoyed with Deok Mi again next week. I hope in their (what looks to be) impending blow up regarding him being the one that was dumped, it’s going to come to light that she’s the one who feels she’s been dumped cos she found out that he wanted to stop the fake relationship. And then he’s gonna say to her, “but that’s cos I wanted it to move on to being a real one!” ;) 

 

Deok Mi. Could you be more wrapped up in your own wallowing that it never crossed your mind to hear him out first? Aigoo... this is one time her bff did her in with the wrong kind of advice. The positive signs were all there after all, no? He who does not like skinship placed his hands over hers so willingly to help her control the sander. And he was going to move her stray hair away from her face. Even if he didn’t, she would’ve seen him about to do it right? Alas. Fear and self-doubt makes you unsure of your own gut, which really, more often than not, is right! So trust it!

 

And Nam Eun Gi! I want to smack you! That lingering shower scene did nothing to further the plot, really. I was just so annoyed at him already by then, I really wanted less screen time for him. That said, good acting to make me dislike you! He’s gotten to know her so well that really, I think he can’t move beyond siblingship with her. His instinct is to tease her, rub salt into her wound, and really, just tear her ego down. He’s still got that 15yo crush on her and he hasn’t appreciated her maturity as a woman. Besides, I don’t think her parents nor his mum would actually approve of his relationship with her. He needs to move on. 

 

As for Choi Da In, gawsh. She’s got the b**** in her character all down pat! I do not like her, though between her and Eun Gi, you’re right. At least she isn’t intentionally sticking herself between them. In that regard, she’s more artful. Which makes her the perfect bee with an itch. :lol:

 

Lets hope this angst doesn’t last past one episode and we’re on to how to get this relationship move along, hiccups and all of what stalking can do, cos right now, Ryan’s also hiding the fact that he’s been stalking her! Not sure if you’d find it romantic once you find out your boyfriend’s been quietly watching your every move!

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16 hours ago, Auntie Mame said:

Back to this drama, here is my theory on why Si An has many paintings from that artist (Lee Sol).  It is because she was his mother.  And, the reason Ryan is so drawn to those paintings is because it is a hidden memory of his mother.  Therefore, Ryan and Si An are half-siblings. ?:huh: 

 

And, upon closer examination of the painting, the memories of her sons are contained in the bubbles.   Perhaps, the paintings are the mother's way of preserving her memories in a fight against Alzheimer.   

@Auntie Mame Thank you, for getting us to move on to what I consider as the "meat" of the story, the Lee Sol paintings. I think you got something here. I have posted before about what Ryan said to DM after the bidding in Shanghai when DM asked for the Lee Sol  painting from Ryan and he said

"have you seen hands that are shaking for two years due to alcoholism? I bought a painting with lousy brushwork for that price"... he was referring to the Lee Sol painting which he just bought... which makes me think that he knows there was something not right with the painter Lee Sol, not that she was really alcoholic, but I think he was comparing the shaking hands of the painter Lee Sol, to that of the tremulous hands of an alcoholic which made the brushwork "lousy" as he described it. So yes, there could have been something wrong with the painter Lee Sol who at this point is partially revealed as his mom from Ryan's flashbacks, maybe not Alzheimer's Disease but could have been something else that made her hands shaky like Parkinson's Disease or some other disease and that is why mom decided to give up her son or sons for adoption. Maybe Ryan is worried that he inherits whatever it is that ails mom? I also think that SA may suspect that Ryan knows or has some connections to Lee Sol and why his interest in Ryan. When Ryan first visited him about displaying his collections at Ryan's exhibit and Ryan said that he was interested in his Lee Sol collections, SA perked up and asked if Ryan knew Lee Sol. DM told SA that Ryan had just bought a Lee Sol painting at a bidding but Ryan denied that he had the painting that he obtained the painting for a client. SA is very interested in meeting Ryan's "client" who owns the painting. That is what sparked SA's interest in Ryan. At this point Ryan is kj about revealing his client to SA. I think SA might even suspect that Ryan's client is actually Ryan and therefore the address "hyung". 

 

Then there is DM who knows about the secret room and about Ryan's "painting" dilemma or suspects it. So, DM letting go of Ryan's hands is very unlike DM at this point (wey PD, wey,wey, wey) because she is the conduit that could connect SA and Ryan with their past and the anchor Ryan needs to overcome his psychological painter's block knowing that DM will always be around to hold his hands. So, Ryan and DM, get into a rip roaring argument and follow it up with sweet, tender and sultry make up session. You both deserve it, after all you know have fallen for the other and we your fans deserve that as well...LOL

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29 minutes ago, SC2019 said:

For those interested in reading the webtoon in Hangeul (Noona Fan Dotcom), go to: 

https://page.kakao.com/viewer?productId=52522252 (courtesy of Sky8lue)

 

i want to read but i dont want to get spoiled. although it wasnt sub n english but still.. mmmmm my hand was tempted by sneaking the site... aigoo

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1 hour ago, SC2019 said:

For those interested in reading the webtoon in Hangeul (Noona Fan Dotcom), go to: 

https://page.kakao.com/viewer?productId=52522252 (courtesy of Sky8lue)

 

Wah, too many chapters there. May I know ep 7-8 are in what chapter? 

 

Already watch it twice today, but still skipping the last scene. hahaha I dislike the way Dok Mi left Ryan :(

Why she not sense it? He dress nicely, very2 nice, like a man who want to propose properly #sigh

 

hmmm, any indonesian sompiers here? 

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do you know any indonesian site that write about korean drama? thank you!

 

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2 hours ago, Artheusa said:

 Thinking on it with a clearer head today (when did I get so much invested in this show lol), I agree with you that Choi Da In has more leeway. As you said, she didn't insert herself between Deok Mi and Ryan when they were all working together, like Eun-gi did, and reproached Eun-gi for making a fool of himself in front a couple. She made her move only after being filled in on the real situation. Acting according to her heart's will is human I guess (to an extent), and makes her a more layered side character. But then she knows Ryan likes DM, and goes behind his back to tell DM his supposed intent, conveniently dropping half of the truth, which is extremely sly. What she did should cost her Ryan's friendship imho, even if she shows the incentive to fix it. 

  

I think Choi Da In's trying to solve her own artist's slump by clinging onto a mentor, and imagines she'll be over it if she has Ryan's intimacy too. She seems bored out of her life, has no purpose and is looking for an easy out. Compare her to Ryan, who's actively striving to bring contemporary art to the masses, despite being self-retired from painting, while Da In easily refused a collaboration with Cha Shi An in the past. She's setting up a super slick studio, decorating it prettily, planning where to place plants and all that stuff, but has seemingly no desire to actually work. I'd say to someone like her (because I went to art school myself I've known a lot artists, and very successful ones too) "get over yourself".

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Da-in *knows* she is doing dirty by both Ryan and DM... after re-watch with subs you can tell that she kinda hates herself for it. While Eun-gi is *relishing* messing with DM.

 

Yes, you are so right! It will definitely test their friendship... especially after her ep9 preview 1-on-1 chat with Ryan. 

 

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OMG HA. Yes. The pouty behaviour that just results in creating drama and not getting on with it. (art school for grad school here, not an artist myself). Her clingy behaviour as well makes me want to shake her: 'If you want to change, if you want to work, YOU have to make that decision and change for yourself. No one (mentor, lover, rival) is going to do that for you!'.

 

 
 
 
 
 
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1 hour ago, zenya22 said:

So, Ryan and DM, get into a rip roaring argument and follow it up with sweet, tender and sultry make up session. You both deserve it, after all you know have fallen for the other and we your fans deserve that as well...LOL

 

I think "tender and sultry" is basically this couple's MO. So I can completely imagine that scene--massive fight, one of them stalks off and the other follows (not unlike our first trolling incident). 

 

If we don't get this I think this thread will explode from angsty-chemistry tension :crazy:

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1 hour ago, rcalma said:

 

i want to read but i dont want to get spoiled. although it wasnt sub n english but still.. mmmmm my hand was tempted by sneaking the site... aigoo

I did go to the site but while I can read the word, my vocabulary is so bad I can't make head or tail of what is going on. For starters, all I did was try and figure out which character was DM and which was RG, it took me a while to do that... and then I gave up figuring the story (sigh)... blessed are they who can read:sweatingbullets:

There are 78 chapters, but only the first 12 are FOC. I think the rest are based on subscription. :(

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12 hours ago, zenya22 said:

Mama Editor did an interview with Ryan and she asked Ryan if he plans to stay in Korea and get married to a Korean woman and Ryan answered, he is thinking about it. Mama Editor called her unni DM's mom to prepare for a dowry ...lol. They already planning for a wedding. I hope Mama Editor will know what his son is doing to sabotage DM and Ryan romance and stop her son from doing further damage. She is also very much on board with the DM/Ryan ship. 

 

But Ryan and DM also need to take responsibility for themselves and their feelings. Ryan so far has been shown to be not the type to let others decide his actions including his pride. When he fired DM and found out that he made a mistake he did not hesitate to go apologize and suggested to re-hire her.  He was the one who made a decision to debunk the scandal created by Cindy by fake dating DM. He told Ms Eom to not interfere with the management of the museum and his projects and spearheads a cutting edge exhibit. So why can't he just confront DM to clear the air about their feelings and DM who had argued and talked candidly with Ryan before now starts pouting and sulking? Where did those 2 grown ups go?  

The script writer decided it was not convenient for them to remain as grown ups - otherwise we wouldn't feel any angst :w00t:. Hopefully she (?) will read your comment and decide that this should be addressed.

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Has this been posted here? Looks like that child actor, Geun Woo, had shot some scenes with Eun Gi and Da In. Great! Eun Gi can be a couple with Da In so they won’t get in the way of Ryan and Deok Mi :lol:

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After watching for more than 30 times of the BTS, I must share with you that please pay attention to the mirror at 3:20. OMG, I’ve been overheated.:blush::astonished:

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2 hours ago, zenya22 said:

@Auntie Mame  I have posted before about what Ryan said to DM after the bidding in Shanghai when DM asked for the Lee Sol  painting from Ryan and he said

"have you seen hands that are shaking for two years due to alcoholism? I bought a painting with lousy brushwork for that price"... he was referring to the Lee Sol painting which he just bought... 

 

I believe that sentence is for the painting DM bought for Director Eom, auctioned before Lee Sol painting. The one that RG kinda threaten to expose to prosecutor since he did not see the painting in the gallery. That painter is famous before he paint the painting that DM bought for Director Eom which has lousy brushwork. So thats why he said DM didnt know art much since she just bought the art not because of the art itself, but just because the name of the painter who is famous before that.

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3 hours ago, rcalma said:

 

welcome to the wagon... me either its been a while since i last posted here and now im back... giggling everywhere checking for new updates

we cant get over KJW&PMY couple 

 

Thx u. Yes. I cant stop rewatching all episode again. LOL. How can we get through this week? :lol:

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1 hour ago, SC2019 said:

The script writer decided it was not convenient for them to remain as grown ups - otherwise we wouldn't feel any angst :w00t:. Hopefully she (?) will read your comment and decide that this should be addressed.

I think he’s going to clear things up in the next episode, judging from the preview. Five more days omg!!

 

When I started watching I was able to wait till Thursday and Fridays and watch the show with subs. I’ve started to come here to view raw screen caps in real time, even though I know that logically my viewing experience would be better if I could watch it with subs. The power of this couple! 

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All I can say after last night's episode is: I should definitely have a date at a carpenter shop, making a furniture together. (When I have a boyfriend of course). It is such an intimate date! Measuring each other's heights and teaming up on creating an art is sooo pleasing! The writer really upgrade the fake dating game to a whole new level>< Imagine being looked at by someone like that... am so not fangirling over KJW:) 

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Waiting for the lover's quarrel next week!!

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With all my attention focused on the otp I missed why DM's mom got emotional seeing Geon Woo at EG's judo class. Did she lose a child in the past?

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I have not had time to read the responses to the last two episodes; therefore, I hope that I am not expressing an opinion that has already been expressed.  

 

I was so disappointed at the end of episode # 8.  I was hoping against hope that Da In would be as mature as character Jo Hye In was in Encounter or character Song Hae Rin in Romance, is a Bonus book.  But I was wrong and now there will be wasted, as far as I am concerned, episode(s) of misunderstanding between RG and DM.  These characters are supposed to be mature, (in their 30's.)  I know, I know, fangirling is not mature.  These characters have completed college, own their own business, or have successful careers, and still artist DI In has to stoop to this level, oh come on.  As adults EG and DI should know by now, just because you come between two people does not guarantee that the person you like will suddenly fall for you.  I am also sick of the "oh I am so humble" attitude.  Just because some girl says, I like him, you are going to move aside and put away your feelings.  My response, as DM, would have been to say sweetly, "well I like him too."  Why should DM move aside because DI likes RG?  Really?  In the real world, DM would have waited until he told her he wanted to end the fake relationship. RG had already told her not until Cindy left the gallery; therefore, why take to heart the word of someone who has told you she likes him.  Where are these women brain cells when I comes to men?  Did their brain cells take a leave of absence? 

 

There are other plot lines this writer could have explored that would have interested me.  For instance, why can't RG paint any longer.  Why was he abandoned.   What about a story line where DM helps RG through his trauma and they both start painting again and perhaps showcasing their art in a major gallery.   The show could have also taken the opportunity to introduce us to a few major Asian, as well as new international artists.  

 

As I stated at the beginning of my post, I am disappointed.  I am disappointed that the writer felt he/she had to write the artist DI character, in such a pathetic way, especially when she already knows that RG is not romantically interested in her, in order to move the story forward.

I am thinking about skipping the next few episodes.  :heartbreak:

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2 hours ago, cind3r3lla said:

 I believe that sentence is for the painting DM bought for Director Eom, auctioned before Lee Sol painting. The one that RG kinda threaten to expose to prosecutor since he did not see the painting in the gallery. That painter is famous before he paint the painting that DM bought for Director Eom which has lousy brushwork. So thats why he said DM didnt know art much since she just bought the art not because of the art itself, but just because the name of the painter who is famous before that.

@cind3r3llaI know he referred to or asked DM what she knew of the Ivanov painting but then he said, "I bought a painting with lousy brushwork for that price." At that time he did not know that DM was working for Director Eom. And he did not bid for the Ivanov but for the Lee Sol. So what did he mean he bought a painting with lousy brushwork for that price or maybe he meant, you (DM) bought a painting with lousy brushwork for that price and the translation of what he said was off? Before I posted I went to the episode and read the subs of the conversation again. If that is the case the translation of that conversation needs to be corrected or I am missing something??? 

 

 

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Definitely hate EG. He will sabotage every potential man for DM then he wish to grow old together? He never act as a man in DM eyes, and he never try. So just out of our couple. I don't want EG to end up with DI too. DI is wrong to say all of that, but she realised she is dirty by doing that. DI also already confess, so I welcome her to the game.

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9 hours ago, ktcjdrama said:

Arrrghhh!!.... A break-up of fake relationship is already affecting them (and me!) so much,

 

 

@ktcjdrama , @Lawyerh & @Sejabin & @staygold @cenching

lion : Was it a fake relationship :scream::joy:

 

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I hope they don’t make it a long break up , we need our fluffy moments :mrgreen::joy:

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1 hour ago, staygold said:

With all my attention focused on the otp I missed why DM's mom got emotional seeing Geon Woo at EG's judo class. Did she lose a child in the past?

I think so! Maybe the pictures of two kids in a photo is her deceased sibling and their grief is part of why they had EG come into their family. There’s also when EG is confronting Ryan and tells him that ‘DM Hasn’t told you anything about her.’ I am also wondering if the loss of her sibling contributes to her fangirling for SA. Maybe he reminds her of her deceased sibling? Or distracts her from her grief?

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