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8 hours ago, TheRoadtoPMY said:

@luvcrabbieshinhwaPeople saying her acting is similar in these 3 dramas are blind, I'm sorry to say lol. Deok Mi is more outspoken, mature and outgoing than Mi So, who was basically a passive recipient of the Vice Chairman's affections. Mi So would've never done the "just go ahead and gaze at me, I'll do everything else" scene from the RG seduction scene. Mi So was a fun character but IMHO a bit shallow. PMY wasn't given much to work with there. Deok Mi is a more fleshed-out character, we learn her heartaches, her hopes and dreams, we empathize with her insecurities, we spazz with her when she fangirls, we felt her heartfelt sorrow when she thought RG didn't like her.

 

As for Healer, I'd say Deok Mi had more in common with Chae Young Shin, who was spunky, no-nonsense and a go-getter. But the thing here is, I love PMY exactly because you know she plays strong female leads. She will never be put in as a ditzy, whining, helpless character. She has been "typecast" as a strong woman, and I love that about her roles. 

 

I say this as someone who loves WWWSK, and very recently had it as my favorite drama ever (before being supplanted by you-know-which lol). 

I know what's the problem with PMY, she's so pro and talented, she makes her costars look good. The similarity in all her works? She never strive to dominate the scene. (A good comparison is Park Seo Joon costar in She is Pretty vs WWWSK).   Unfortunately , Kdrama female leads have not been too varied, thus she can't stretch her acting skills too much.  

 

Back to our gold  KJW, he was wise to have his first rom-com with PMY.  After watching HPL BTS, I can sense he humbly learns from PMY, rom-com is a new genre for him afterall. 

 

I like PMY since SKK Scandal, love her since Healer. Like KJW since he struts down the steps with MILK in his hand, love him after watching Antique.  

 

@Ondine, i agree it was too rushed when DM forced RG into art therapy.  I was more moved when she rushed to the gallery to find RG and smacked him. 

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1 hour ago, Ondine said:

I would have promptly taken a leave and gone on a bender, maybe with some therapeutic plate-smashing thrown in.

 

1- 1000% they could have pulled it off. And I’m kinda bummed that they didn’t have a chance to have that chance. 

 

And I totally agree re bender and plate breaking—if DM had joined in the plate breaking that  would have been perfect. But I still think that off that emotional high there would still to be a dramatic emotional drop/dead end which doesn’t really play well with hyper-sexy bed scene. I guess I’m coming from personal experience in how I’ve worked with a partner through really difficult stuff and then ended up in a bed scene of our own. it was always a spike in emotion and then a very low key, calming coming together. If that makes sense.  I didn’t like how we got to the bed scene but the emotional beat of the bed scene made a lot of sense to me. 

 

TBH I didn’t want Ryan to be painting or even drawing until the very, very end. The episode was lazy story telling because they needed to wrap it up because we don’t have enough episodes to deal with it realistically.

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And the best girlfriend award goes to Deok Mi! Really though, DM has really been taking the centre stage for me these last few episodes, she is so understanding, patient and supportive of everyone not just with RG but even Cindy, DI and EG. I love the part where she's secretly trying to hide her fangirling to SA in the church but even though he is telling her about his bands new album, seeing RG and his mum finally happy together catches her attention instead. Just goes to show how much DM and RG's relationship has developed and strengthened. I absolutely love how PMY has brought DM to life too. 

 

I'm glad EG finally came around and I liked the way they broke the awkwardness. You can tell how much DM cares about EG as a friend and family member and it would be a shame if they couldn't just go back to being their usual selves around eachother. I'm curious to see what EG does now he has a hint that RG might be the boy from their past though. Hopefully he continues to be a loyal friend to DM and doesn't do anything unnecessary. 

 

Normally I would roll my eyes at the 'main leads already met eachother as children' cliche but I actually don't mind it here. I am curious to see how DM reacts and handles the knowledge of knowing that her mum was the one who left RG at the orphanage. I think RG will forgive DM's mum fairly quickly given he has forgiven his own mum for leaving him alone at a park.. I do feel sympathy for RG's mum and understand her desperation at wanting to provide for RG but honestly, who the heck leaves their child at a park alone!? I actually thought she would have at least approached another parent who's child was playing at the park, explained her situation and asked them to quickly watch her child, not that leaving your child with a complete stranger is any better, but this would have been slightly better than leaving him completely alone. I also feel less upset with DM's mum for taking RG to an orphanage because she probably wasn't in the best financial state to take care of another child given she had already offered to raise EG but I'm fairly certain that she left RG on the orphanage doorstep at night so unless we get a proper clear version of the events that occurred, I'm not sure why she didn't take him during the day and into the actual orphanage? Or to a police station? Even if it was an impulsive move, I still think there were better ways to do it but anyways I guess that's dramas for you lol

 

In regards to the comments about the drama feeling too rushed, I am actually enjoying the fact that it's fast paced and quick to the point. It's refreshing for me to watch a drama that doesn't drag out it's back/side storylines, the main romance is the focus and I like that the drama hasn't forgotten that.

 

RG and DM's relationship continues to be the highlight of every episode (and pretty much the entire drama) for me. Their relationship is so incredibly sweet and loving, they really are perfect for one another. I know everyone has already gushed about the end of ep 14 but I only just watched the subbed episode and it was such a beautiful scene. DM's eagerness to help RG overcome his trauma is really admiring and the way she is so gentle to him just makes me adore her more. You can really see and feel the love between them. I certainly am hoping the start of ep 15 might give us a bit more of the kiss and bed scene though :joy: 

 

I've got to add that KJW's acting skills are crazy good. You can really see in his eyes how broken he is when he finally sits down with his mum. I really felt for him when he couldn't look at her in the face. And slightly off topic but why is he so handsome, seriously.. this man is so swoon worthy :wub:

 

Anyways sorry for another long post. Lots of thoughts again! Now off to the PMY and KJW shipper thread I go haha

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The discussion about PMY here made me wanna ask something.....I am more of KJW's fan than PMY. So for those who follow her since ancient time, did you notice that her acting chop is way more advance in HPL than her previous dramas??? Because I do notice it....:glasses:

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Happy 200th page!!! Congrats everyone...  i find it nice that KJW is a left-hander... its rare in K-drama i think.

 

Somehow ep14 kiss scene seems 'docile' compared to others... but love the scene where Dokmi's hair fell after Ryan pull the paintbrush :wub:

 

- ok its 201st  page then... hahha....

 

by the way, i thought DM really let go of her fangirling since she dared to cut off Sian when they were talking the church just to see Ryan and his mom be comfortable with each other.... mature DM has her eyes on Ryan, nothing else. Its nice to be in love... the start of love/relationship :D and yes, i do think they did the deed :phew:.... do people understand the significance of that - they did it the day before her birthday, its a great birthday to remember :wub:

 

Happy to see that KJW gains more IG followers, 705k followers and even PMY has an increase number of IG followers as well.. .congrats to both, i hope KJW knows that love stories gain many fans, therefore he should focus more on romance dramas? :P

 

Also, it was extremely cute that Hyojin called DM's mom - omma and her real mom freaked out... served her right :)

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@luvcrabbieshinhwa thank you for the continuous fan accounts! I'm so jealous haha but very grateful to you for sharing!

 

@cenching the earliest PMY drama I watched was Sungkyunkwan Scandal and I think she's always been a good actress but for me, her acting has become much more natural. She has always had this way of bringing her characters to life and making her characters her very own though. Also probably the only actress that comes to my mind who has insane chemistry with all of her costars.

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54 minutes ago, luvcrabbieshinhwa said:

Deokmi, Eungi, and Ryan just filmed in Deokmi's house. On separate scenes. 

 

Ryan and Deokmi were in the car together. Then Deokmi and Eungi were in front of the house. 

 

PMY is super pretty... Idky her hair always looks perfect hahaha. I greeted her to tell her she worked hard  and she thanked me

 

 

Kim Jaewook left earlier after finishing his scene with Deokmi. He just stayed in the set to discuss something and smoke. 

 

Some fans, somehow, managed to get his signatures. 

 

I was just standing and gazing at him lol

 

Hope you also get something from him , :D

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55 minutes ago, cenching said:

The discussion about PMY here made me wanna ask something.....I am more of KJW's fan than PMY. So for those who follow her since ancient time, did you notice that her acting chop is way more advance in HPL than her previous dramas??? Because I do notice it....:glasses:

I’m a big PMY fan but not since ancient times (lol at the term). I’ve seen 5 of her dramas though and I’m always at awe at her acting. She can easily cry like a river (SKKS & 7DQ) or be charming/funny depending on what the character requires. I’ll just say that as she or her character matures so does her acting. 

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1 hour ago, luvcrabbieshinhwa said:

Deokmi, Eungi, and Ryan just filmed in Deokmi's house. On separate scenes. 

 

Ryan and Deokmi were in the car together. Then Deokmi and Eungi were in front of the house. 

 

PMY is super pretty... Idky her hair always looks perfect hahaha. I greeted her to tell her she worked hard  and she thanked me

 

 

Kim Jaewook left earlier after finishing his scene with Deokmi. He just stayed in the set to discuss something and smoke. 

 

Some fans, somehow, managed to get his signatures. 

 

I was just standing and gazing at him lol

 

I love your updates! 

 

just out out of curiosity, how much does KJW smoke? For example, does he chain smoke? I do think he looks cool with a cigarette, but I feel chain smoking can be so bad for one’s health.  Guess he is not perfect after all!

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8. I LOVED THE LAST SCENE. Hear me out. Yes, it was not sexy or explicit or daring, but the the last scene was so much more emotionally intense than ep9-10 kiss. The first is something you do after being apart from your lover for too long and you need to feel them as much as you could, but this scene was something that tells you that they will be just as unbreakable for as long as they live.

 

The slow fall of her hair, him taking out the brush from her bun - it seemed to convey the union more beautifully than an actual explicit scene would. Think about it this way: bun signified DM was hiding things, and then she let her hair down when her identity was revealed. The fact that Ryan let it down himself, meaning she is allowing him to enter the guarded walls she has kept around herself as a woman at his free will/own initiative, after mutual declarations of love seems to convey intimacy of consummation without the need of an explicit bed scene.

 

@tensaitekikuronekoLove your post. I love the last scene too and I thought it was very sexy. First of all our gutsy heroine DM gives the "come hither" look to Ryan as she backs off smiling without losing eye contact to follow her as she was entering the studio/painting room and Ryan's face as well says, "baby I'll play" but when they were in the room Ryan's face changed. DM at this point did not know how Ryan would react if he would refuse her request yet DM was undaunted. She asked Ryan to draw her for her birthday gift, letting Ryan know that she had faith in him. She put up her hair and sat posing her silhouette on the canvas. After such a request from a beautiful woman whom he fell in love with and who courageously put her full faith in him, how could Ryan not comply? Kneeling on the floor he took the charcoal and slowly, carefully, inch by inch drew her until he was done. DM said, it is beautiful "Artist Ryan Gold". She gifted him with herself and he gifted her with his trust and gratirude. The unpinning of her hair by pulling the paintbrush holding the bun and her hair cascading down her back, was so sensuous. Like the way he drew her silhoutte would be the way he would love her.... slowly, deliberately and gloriously all of her and she responds in kind. The tear coming down her eyes as they declared their love. That scene for me is more stirring and touching. More than that would have ruined the mood of what they were trying to convey, the deepness of their feelings and connection. Then we see them spooning in slep

 

Couple sleeping positions and what they mean: 

 

Spoons In A Drawer Means New Love

When you sleep closely linked with your partner, it means two things: y’all can’t get enough of each other… and it’s probably a brand new relationship. When running down couple sleeping positions and what they mean, this one is pretty self-explanatory: when someone is new and exciting, you want to show that you’re excited to be around them, hence the lack of space. It’s sort of a physical reassurance that you can’t get enough of that person. Though this position tends to change as relationships age, there’s nothing wrong with this being the beginning sleeping position for your new love. This position does tend to be a little uncomfortable, so if your sleeping suffers, make sure to change it up.

 

The Intertwining Lovers is a Sign of Intense Emotional Bonding

Typically this is after an emotionally positive encounter, sexy or otherwise. Both partners sleep on their sides, facing each other, locked in an embrace of arms and legs. This definitely doesn’t lead to optimal sleep, even on a good foam mattress like nectar, and is often the signal of a new relationship. Neither of you want to leave the other’s arms, which is great, but it can also lead to a lot of arms that have fallen asleep or waking up in the middle of the night.

 

 

 

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 If they had wanted to explore the issue of overseas adoption during that era, it would have been better to say that she had been forced by her family to give him up cos she was a single mother. No wonder Ryan himself had difficulty believing her too...

 

And speaking of husbands... Lee Seol's maiden name was Gong, according to the college yearbook. But RG was registered as Heo, so clearly, he got into his father's registry. And SiAn, if that is his real name, is Cha. So he's got a dad too. So what happened to her first husband? Died? 

 

What I hope not to happen (as with all these dramas and the tropes they love) is that the discovery that it was DM's mum who left him at the orphanage and whose hand he remembersletting go of him, 

 

@gilaswanI agree. I thought too that they would go the way of Lee Sol's family taking young Ryan for adoption to give Lee Sol a chance at having a better life being that single mothers were looked down on and descriminated at that time. It would make sense and would be more believable and understandable for Ryan. But leaving him alone in a playground then being taken in by DM's family and then left again at some unfamiliar place in the dark of night was very traumatic and being abandoned twice at that. No wonder his brain chose to forget what happened before adoption. He came to Korea looking for the paintings and thinking that if he finds all the nine paintings and find the painter that he will be able to paint again. He never mentioned any intention to find his mother. It was only recently after he had those dreams that woke him up at night that he admitted the woman whose face he can't remember might be his mother. I wish that the woman who left Ryan at the entrance of some building will be someone other than DM's mom or any mom we know in the drama. 

 

I would like to know where Si An's dad is too. I never even heard Si An ask about his dad which any child would do when they meet mom who came to visit alone. Where is dad or what is dad doing? But Si An mentions a grandfather. 

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1 hour ago, luvcrabbieshinhwa said:

Deokmi, Eungi, and Ryan just filmed in Deokmi's house. On separate scenes. 

 

Ryan and Deokmi were in the car together. Then Deokmi and Eungi were in front of the house. 

 

PMY is super pretty... Idky her hair always looks perfect hahaha. I greeted her to tell her she worked hard  and she thanked me

 

 

Kim Jaewook left earlier after finishing his scene with Deokmi. He just stayed in the set to discuss something and smoke. 

 

Some fans, somehow, managed to get his signatures. 

 

I was just standing and gazing at him lol

 

 

 

oh you so amazing, please if you have a chance to see them again, tell them that the drama has a lot of fans and that we love them, and PMY that she is just unforgettable in this role. WE SEE ALL AND PRICE HER! 

Thank you so much!

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