Quantcast
Jump to content

[Drama 2019] Her Private Life 그녀의 사생활


Recommended Posts

I haven't seen tonight's episode, but last night's episode was really insightful.

 

I love DM and Ryan, they are just so cute, protective and respectful of each other. The final scene of her intuitively knowing that something was wrong and then giving him the freedom to cry was just so precious.

 

I know I am wrong for this, but I laughed until I almost cried at EG confessing to DM last minute in his Easter suit, then having to stand there in the same Easter suit and watch her be whisked off by her boyfriend Ryan after he coolly let her know that he knew about her fan site and doesn't care.

 

In regards to DM not wanting RG to find out and even her friend being upset at her husband, I think this is about ageism in k-pop. In Korea, specifically in regards to k-pop, there is this idea that you have to be under a certain age to really enjoy it. Once you are a certain age, now you are too old to be into the genre and definitely too old to be a fangirl/fanboy. I think DM was ashamed of being over 30 and being a fangirl. I think her friend was proud of it because it helped her hold on to her identity even though she was now a wife and a mother. Her husband doing this expose show [more so about sasaengs] is encroaching on something that is a big part of her identity and making it out to be a bad thing. So, I get why she is angry. She feels judged and pitied, and to a degree, she's right. Her husband is judging her because his own male pride was stung by the fact that his wife still held on to this life. He never took the time to just see that it makes her happy, the way that Ryan did DM. 

 

One of my favorite moments was when Ryan was at DM's house and he saw all of her CSA memorabilia. He decided to be DM's fanboy. She told him that to be a fanboy/fangirl there is no touching, you just support and admire that person from afar. As a fan of k-pop myself, that healthy definition was heart warming. 

  • Like 13
  • Insightful 4
Link to post
Share on other sites
  • Replies 5.8k
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Top Posters In This Topic

Popular Posts

FINALE KISSES                                    THANK YOU FOR WATCHING!   

Before we move on, I just want to appreciate their first kiss again:     Sorry it's night time at my place so can't find more proper lighting for the painting. Anyway, an art direc

My First Real Fangirl Experience   Since we all don't have BTS today, I thought I'd share with all my fangirl buddies here what happened to me last night as yall were going wild watching ep

 

KJW expression. Who's not gonna melt with that cute smile? Neoumu Kyeoupta :wub:

 

How do he lifting his eyebrows, making him look more cuter :wub:

 

Remember BTS for ep 4. It was so cute to remember how is his interaction with kid actor. A super loveable man RG or I can say KJW :heart:

  • Like 11
Link to post
Share on other sites

When DM searched for R's name in the missing child sheet I became curious how the answer would be when she used her own name. I dunno why but it would be such a great twist when she was the lost child who got adopted later and R was traumatized by loosing her and her mom. SA's mom doesn't looked like she would heartless abandom her own child. Probably she was volunteering at his orphanage. :phew:

Okay, probably too twisted for a K-Drama but I would love to watch a Drama like that. :D

  • Like 5
Link to post
Share on other sites

I just finished watching HPL with subs but I got upset.

 

Lee Sol (as we know her) and we are now aware that Sian & RG are brothers(I hope). 

For some reason, I got upset and jealous on behalf of RG. 

LS was all Gooey & motherly to Sian but she Left RG at the orphanage. I don't know what the reason is but "I am sorry" wouldn't make me forgive her.

How will she pay the price for abandoning him?

LS missed over 30years of his life. She has no clue who he is & how he grew up. Did she even bother to look for him?

How is the reality going to be better when he realizes that his momma raised a superstar with so much love and just "threw" RG away?

Sian got the life and love from her (don't get me wrong. I love Sian. He's a good kid and I'm excited for him to know he has a big brother) and RG had to make something of himself.

LS left a deep wound in RG heart that has tormented him for years. A simple sorry won't do or wipe it away. Yes, he can forgive but to me, that's not enough (I really dunno what will justify her actions). The writer better give us a solid reason to why she left RG.

 

Anyway, I am excited to see the bromance between Sian & RG.:)

 

  • Like 11
Link to post
Share on other sites
19 minutes ago, mellinadear said:

I just finished watching HPL with subs but I got upset.

 

Lee Sol (as we know her) and we are now aware that Sian & RG are brothers(I hope). 

For some reason, I got upset and jealous on behalf of RG. 

LS was all Gooey & motherly for Sian bit she Left RG at the orphanage. I don't know what the reason it but "I am sorry" wouldn't make me forgive her.

How will she pay the price for abandoning him?

LS missed over 30years of his life. She has no clue who he is & how he grew up. Did she even bother to look for him?

How is the reality going to be better when he realizes that his momma raised a superstar with so much love and just "threw" RG away?

Sian got the life and love from her (don't get me wrong. I love Sian. He's a good kid and I'm excited for him to know he has a big brother) and RG had to make something of himself.

LS left a deep wound in RG heart that has tormented him for years. A simple sorry won't do or wipe it away. Yes, he can forgive but to me, that's not enough (I really dunno what will justify her actions). The writer better give us a solid reason to why she left RG.

 

Anyway, I am excited to see the bromance between Sian & RG.:)

 

 

im going to watch ep12 with subs today i have different thought from you but maybe it will be change after watching tonights ep... kinda confuse a little with that mother thing... 

  • Like 3
Link to post
Share on other sites
9 minutes ago, Ondine said:

Translated Knetz comments on episode 12 by Melohwa:

 

https://melohwa.blogspot.com/2019/05/her-private-life-ep-12-spoilers-park.html

 

Not too many hilarious comments, more on the plot and a couple asking why the ratings are low.

Some are making the same speculations about RG and DM's mum and even DM, which someone hypothesised in this forum. :P 

Well one more week to go before we find out. Hwaiting... 

  • Like 4
Link to post
Share on other sites

To me PMY’s character is especially radiantly in love in this. The smiling expressions on her face when she looks at Ryan sometimes seem like it’s the first time I’ve seen those expressions from her. Yet I’ve seen her in other equally enjoyable romances. I’m really enjoying her, Ryan and all the supporting characters. Even Cindy has grown on me. ^_^

 

 

  • Like 14
Link to post
Share on other sites
On 5/15/2019 at 4:20 PM, ravenbleu said:

Ryan's most genius response

 

The 'get out of here' thumb of a hyung who is not pleased that his cheeky little brother is being nosy... 

  • Like 2
  • LOL 3
Link to post
Share on other sites

Whoa! DM is brilliant in this episode especially the hands drawing. Brilliant!! This is what I was looking for. Damn the  obligatory scene for childish drinks and vacuum cleaner PPL in ep11. (Yes, after watching with subs, I still feel the 2 scenes are so awkwardly wedged in.) 

 

I predicted SA is still in contact with his mom, LeeSol. That’s why SA knows there are 9 drawings in total. She came to Korea to participate in the exhibition, as proposed by SA in earlier episode. Most probably they are using the art piece to reconnect with the abandoned boy. If it pans out to be true, i’ll be almost as proud as when I predicted the thumb kiss. Muahahhahah.

 

ooh! Now I now why I was reminded of Sojisub ‘I’m sorry I love you’, SA is adopted by Leesol. Maybe. Hee....

  • Like 5
  • Love 1
Link to post
Share on other sites

PMY really up her standard in the kissing scenes, much better than her previous WWWSK. Thought WWWSK was good chemi with PSJ in the kissing, but this HPL, you dun see awkwardness on the couple kisses, they looks so spontaneous, and as good as real couple.

  • Like 22
  • Love 2
Link to post
Share on other sites
1 hour ago, Ondine said:

Translated Knetz comments on episode 12 by Melohwa:

 

https://melohwa.blogspot.com/2019/05/her-private-life-ep-12-spoilers-park.html

 

Not too many hilarious comments, more on the plot and a couple asking why the ratings are low.

 

Ratings only reflect TV viewing. 

Most ppl stream online. They should hv counted online viewing, too. 

 

I remember during Oh Haeyoung drama, there was two viewership count: TV and online. I wonder why there isn't now... 

  • Like 5
Link to post
Share on other sites

Even the rating isn’t that spectacular, but HPL tops most buzzworthy list for 2 weeks and its leads taken 1st and 2nd places for 2 weeks. It really shows how popular the drama despite the rating. Agree, they should’ve counted the online viewers too.

 

And.. looks like we won’t get any making video today. TvN just uploaded Abyss bts video, so I think HPL bts might be for tomorrow or Sunday. :bawling:

  • Like 7
Link to post
Share on other sites

Finally finish bothe Ep 11 n Ep 12. Now I can talk about it here....

 

How do I want to survive the whole week without the preview???? 

 

tvN is cruel for living us in dark..

 

I hope nothing bad will happen to Ryan-Deokmi relationship. 

  • Like 3
Link to post
Share on other sites

This show has been showing pleasant conflict resolution... I'd expect angsty week next week regarding Ryan's past and his connection to both SiAn and DM mother... I only wish the show still maintains its way in dealing with conflicts.. No more breakups between couples and noble idiocy.. Only sitting down and talking about the issues... 

 

Like one of the soompiers mentioned above, idk if LeeSol issue can be resolved and whether she can be forgiven only by saying SORRY.. I won't.. But at least I think Ryan and SiAn will hv good relationships..even without their mother involved #YayforBromance

  • Like 10
Link to post
Share on other sites

i have a feeling Si An knows that Ryan might be his long lost brother. Maybe that is the reason he reveal his hobby of collecting art. He is using his popularity to get in touch with Ryan Gold. ANd maybe that is the reason he already call him hyung and feel comfortable with him. 

  • Like 12
  • Insightful 3
Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks to all the peopIe that did live recapping, you are all awesome and your efforts are greatly appreciated. 

I also think DM mother was the one that abandoned Ryan(the back and the voice of the woman in the dream sound like DM's mum), and since they mentioned the death of a brother ,its possible Ryan was part of the reason DM brother lost his life (probably through a child's play that went awry) which led to DM 's mother abandoning him and saying she is not his mother.

This guessing game is giving me headache all I want is for Ryan to be happy forever, with DM of course .

Dear writernim ,no unnecessary angst please ,else someone is gonna flip a table and come for you like Danearys did for kings landing:D

  • Like 6
  • LOL 1
Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

By using this site, you agree to our We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. You can adjust your cookie settings, otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue..