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16 minutes ago, cenching said:

For those who understand Korean well, may you please explain the meaning of the statement, “ShiAn’s thigh improves my welfare”.....Thanks in advance...

 

I speak French they mean looking at his thighs 3 time a day , increase your health :joy:

 

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@Lawyerh @cenching @Sarang21 but would thighs on skirt improve welfare as well :joy:

 

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6 minutes ago, celest1al said:

 

So in Korean, thigh is “heo-bohk-ji” and you  could translate “welfare” as well-being/blessings too. Welfare is translated to “bohk-ji” in Korean. So in Korean, the phrase rhymes and is basically saying his thigh is so sexy that it adds to her well being LOL. 

 

LMAO!!!! Thank you, Darling!!! I have been baffled with that term since it was first mentioned in few episodes back....:joy:

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42 minutes ago, celest1al said:

 

So in Korean, thigh is “heo-bohk-ji” and you  could translate “welfare” as well-being/blessings too. Welfare is translated to “bohk-ji” in Korean. So in Korean, the phrase rhymes and is basically saying his thigh is so sexy that it adds to her well being LOL. 

Nice, thanks for the explanation. Stuff inevitably gets lost in translation so I'm glad peeps here are helpful with that. Might have been better then to translate it as "Cha Si An's thigh gives me a high". Lmao

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Watched by ep 11 raw. My understanding of korean limited to sorry, love, like, thank you, it's ok. 

 

All this while I was not really convince of DM's love for RG.  Through the whole of ep11, I can't help to fell that maybe DO is a better match to RG.  Yes, we love DM's sunny, cheery, positive character, but the way she handled RG's inner angst with an invite to her penthouse, treat him with sweet drinks, was :thumbsdown:. I felt bad for RG, being the perfect BF, putting his feelings aside and have to 'entertain' DM's interests. 

 

So, at the end of the ep, when RG called her, I was hoping she will rush to his home.  To be FOR him for a change .  She didn't.  Yes, RG drove over to her place.... but I hoped she would have thought of going to him. Not, oh, you are downstairs, let me come down to see you.   Am I asking too much from DM? Nope, cos RG deserve the better.  

 

I guess they try to get DM's Sinagil stuff out of the way, then can focus on RG for the next 5 episodes. 

 

As of EG, I was right about him.  He backed out after confessing and realising DM likes RG. If he had a choice, if he knew DM love RG, I am quite certain EG would not burden DM with his feelings.  (Why SJ asked DM to keep it a secret from EG is beyond me.) But he already blurted out that he likes DM at the steps confrontation. He needs to a closure. 

 

Now, I 'll try to back read the 12+ pages on this wonderful thread.  

 

@celest1al, like your observation on the ‘kanchana’ start and ending  of ep11.

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This thread moves soo fast... its been a while since a thread here in soompi moving soo fast... that most of our lurkers here are suddenly getting active like myself... 

when was the last time that we became so hyper watching episodes by episodes either RAW or with SUBS... recapping and translating each scenes... loving the OTP's and shipping them soo hard whether its Real or Reel.

 

Reading each reactions give me soo much joy..

I'm glad we share the same interest... And were giggling at the same time...

 

I wonder will this thread reach 500p before the show ends?

 

MMMMmmmm

 

 

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15 minutes ago, 50okie said:

All this while I was not really convince of DM's love for RG.  Through the whole of ep11, I can't help to fell that maybe DO is a better match to RG.  Yes, we love DM's sunny, cheery, positive character, but the way she handled RG's inner angst with an invite to her penthouse, treat him with sweet drinks, was :thumbsdown:. I felt bad for RG, being the perfect BF, putting his feelings aside and have to 'entertain' DM's interests. 

 

So, at the end of the ep, when RG called her, I was hoping she will rush to his home.  To be FOR him for a change .  She didn't.  Yes, RG drove over to her place.... but I hoped she would have thought of going to him. Not, oh, you are downstairs, let we come down to see you.   Am I asking too much from DM? Nope, cos RG deserve the better.  

 

I thought the way she handled it was fine. They haven't known each other for very long. She sensed something was wrong and she probably sensed that it wasn't an ordinary mood shift, but their relationship isn't really at that level where she can just go directly, I know something's wrong, just tell me all your deep dark secrets. Sometimes you just try to cheer the person up for the moment, and hope that eventually they'll feel like they can share what's hurting them, instead of trying to pry it out of them. And I think not rushing to someone's house in the middle of the night is pretty normal, especially when it doesn't seem like the person is in imminent danger of hurting themselves or hurting others. I think it's more realistic.

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Yeah i feel bad for EunGi knowing all about DeokMi's secrets but the actual truth he was left behind... 

 

"The one that acts he knows everything is the one who doesn't knows a thing."

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Welcome to the FRIEND ZONE "EunGiYah"

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7 hours ago, Ameera Ali said:

 

 

:D I can’t wait for sub 

 

DM seem to enjoy herself in this scene :tounge_xd:  

 

.. love how the mother can’t find any wrong with him , he perfect in he eyes :mrgreen:

lol she is trying to  prove to her mom that all her fangirling got her a great partner  so it wasnt in vain lolololo

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2 hours ago, celest1al said:

So in Korean, thigh is “heo-bohk-ji” and you  could translate “welfare” as well-being/blessings too. Welfare is translated to “bohk-ji” in Korean. So in Korean, the phrase rhymes and is basically saying his thigh is so sexy that it adds to her well being LOL. 

 

No wonder the reaction of these two are so natural! Lol! That’s so funny!

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Omg.... u guys are too fast. 13 pages over night!!!! I don’t think I manage to back track and.  read all since I have yet to watch the latest eps with sub....

 

but....

 

i watch clips of it and I love how our couple overcome problems and reveal their secrets and they are definitely in love. 

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Hello HPL lovers:heart: how r u all been doing? Any casualties after episode 11 last night? :tounge_xd: 

 

Spazz worthy moment

 

1. That revelation of the great Latte nim tho.. i’m dead.. its like watching real couple having their lovers bantering.. sweet honey soaked moment!! Swooning over RG ways to calm DM down.. first he took her in his arm.. controlled her with tight bear hug.. brushes her hair tenderly all the while keeping  the eye contact throughout the whole conversation  :wub: 

KJW said over n over again in the bts n also during one of the interview that he found it difficult for him to do Rom-Com and he lean on PMY a lot in order to bring out this character.. however, based on the numbers of exploded ovaries & the increasing STS affected victims i think its clear that KJW is really damn good at it.. its seems effortless. The emotions, the eyes, the facial expression all are spot on:love:.

 

2. Penthouse visit 

 

The jealous RG is so adorable it made me want to pinch his cheeks. He sure has a lot to say on DM’s treasure collections:tounge_xd:

DM-RG- mother in law moment. The way he stifled his laugh is legit one Of my favourite.. replay button was harassed countless time.. don’t  judge me:relaxed:. I also think KJW broke his character in that scene.. its just so KJW-like. Im not complaining tho.. he’s cute beyond words.

 

Something to worry about

 

I’m a little worried on what Choi Da Out intend to do.. coz in the episode 12 teaser she said she’s left with one thing which she could do. But, its not very clear whether its related to RG-DM r/ship. Nope..  Scratch that. I think it’s all related to RG-DM r/shipp. Please CD-Out don’t let us hate you more.. Also, please writer nim, no breaking up due to noble idiocy or anything alike:cry:

 

 

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TBH, I LITERALLY WANT TO BE DM's and RG's couch so badly so that I can offer comfortable cushions for their kiss, make and made up sessions. 

 

I really ENVY THE COUCH. 

 

Can I buy RG's at the Ebay ? Or I can and will lined up if it takes me thousands of queue.

 

I don't want any other gift except of RYAN GOLD which is limited edition that available for limited time only.

 

 

 

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23 minutes ago, myd8 said:

 

 

Something to worry about

 

I’m a little worried on what Choi Da Out intend to do.. coz in the episode 12 teaser she said she’s left with one thing which she could do. But, its not very clear whether its related to RG-DM r/ship. Nope..  Scratch that. I think it’s all related to RG-DM r/shipp. Please CD-Out don’t let us hate you more.. Also, please writer nim, no breaking up due to noble idiocy or anything alike:cry:

 

 

Same here! I am really worried about what Da-Out said in the teaser. I don't want a break-up when there's just few eps left! So may things need to be resolved first e.g Ryan's identity, Lee Sol and Deokmi's mom- (If you could recall in ine of the eps Deokmi's mom was looking at the kids and was reminiscing about something. I do hope it's nothing related to Ryan otherwise he'll be shattered again.) On a happier note, I am really loving the relationship between Ryan and Deokmi's parents- how he showed respect to them on all the times they were together.

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@Ondine, @luvcrabbieshinhwa, I agree DM is sensitive and am aware of the significance of LeeSol paintings to RG. She did hold his hands while he stared at the painting.  I don’t expect DM to barge in to force RG to pour his heart out.  

Just that the method of ‘cheering’ RG was a bit off. (Maybe due to PPL obligation). At the end of the day, she left him alone by himself and she slept soundly. Not bothered.  

 

Remember how EG tried to be there for her at the roof top with drinks and snacks? Quietly listened. I was expecting something like that from DM but was lacking in most part of ep11. 

 

Anyways, at the end, DM did rise to the occasion at the end of ep11.

 

i believe in the remaining episodes, i will see DM give more than receive. 

 

 

Edit to add- my last 2 posts were after watching raw, so there is a possibility don’t sense DM reaching out  since I don’t understand the dialogues. Now I see the gif above with subtitle- DM complimenting RG “you look pretty/ beautiful when you smile.” Huh?!? I was right, that’s not the way to reach out to an adult, please. 

 

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9 minutes ago, Jemrie said:

Everyone talks about how understanding Ryan is as a boyfriend, but Deok Mi is one good girlfriend as well, she pays attention,  comfort, and perceived  the person that she loves..so it's take 2 people to have a good relationship.

 

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song deok-mi being a supportive girlfriend and showering her boyfriend with compliments in ep 11

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That is one of reason I stan DM. K drama needs nore female leads like this. 

 

Even I want to switch place with DM/PMY so I can get RG/KJW dor myself.

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@celest1al This is seriously so...WILD. I had my thoughts planned out right before I saw your post and I literally had to stare at my phone and blink a few times because who is this person who just hacked into my brain and ghostwrote this for me? 

 

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I think I could go on and on about why I love KJW and PMY here as Ryan and DeokMi but I’m sure I’d just be echoing all that has been said about them already. 

PLEASE DO. I am thirsty for content! I don't think any of us here would be opposed to this ♥

 

4 hours ago, celest1al said:

However, I think the thing I loved the most was the way episode 11 started and ended. It started (or ended last episode) with Ryan saying, “It’s okay... Shi Na Gil.” And it ended with DeokMi saying, “It’s okay... you can cry.” It was very touching. And a true sign of a deepening relationship when you can see that person’s deepest darkest secret and tell them it’s okay... that you see them and you accept them. That you don’t have to be embarrassed (for DM) and that you don’t have to suffer alone (for Ryan). I loved the way Ryan accepted DM’s fangirling, and without much judgement, and I think part of it is because he’s an artist himself and he sees her passion as something that is almost inspiring... in the same way he respects her parents’ obsessions as well. And with DM... although Ryan hasn’t told her in detail about the triggering paintings and his trauma other than from their conversation at the museum in episode 3 and the hand holding bit, she doesn’t push him to share. She senses how he’s feeling and reacts in such a reassuring way, such as the hand hold when they find the painting, and the hug at the end. And that last scene... it was very beautiful. I work with emotionally disturbed youth who tend to have trauma, and it’s heartbreaking. Those feelings of abandonment, of not feeling wanted or loved... that pain runs so deep. So the fact that DM hugged him without asking questions and provided a shoulder to cry on, was the most loving thing that she could have done for him. It was touching and moved me to tears and it will definitely be one of the most memorable scenes for me. 

 

THIS. I was really out here thinking that nothing could top Ep. 10 for me but HPL keeps getting better and better. Ryan and DM have undoubtedly become my favorite kdrama couple for this exact reason. This scene, as well as the one from earlier when she linked hands with him and brought him back to reality, goes to show how far DM's empathy can reach. I think this is the exact same reason why Si An mentioned that he loves SNG as a fansite because of her ability to sympathize with him through the medium of photography. I'm glad that TVN didn't let us down when they talked about showing their mature relationship growing in this episode (although you know, it wouldn't hurt for a mature romance either hehe). It was small moments like these that really make them as a couple seem so real (thank you kdrama gods for PMY and KJW). And their connection!!! This drama isn't safe for my single life omg. This is exactly what Ryan needed at the right time, and now he finally has HIS person to be there for him. She, who doesn't have any clue on the context of the change in his mood, was able to provide what he needed the most. And like the ice cream scene, she does it so subtley and gives him validation and compliments to lighten his mood and it just instantly brightens up his life. This is even more of a reason for me to continue quietly push the ending with them having children of their own @ writer-nim! I joke about how it would be fun to see Ryan and his fangirl/fanboy family, but it would just come full circle with Ryan finally having a complete family of his own where he can provide love and be given that love in return that he was missing all these years. 

 

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Some observations and things to look forward to... 

From ep 11, during Ryan’s dream, we were able to hear the voice of the lady who abandoned him and even though it was distorted, it sounded like DM’s mom to me... I definitely don’t think Ryan and DM are related, but I do think there’s some painful connection. Hopefully they handle this storyline well... fingers crossed. 

– From ep 12 preview, it looks like DaIn has one last thing up her sleeve and I’m going to guess that she’s going to try and find Lee Sol as a last attempt to gain Ryan’s attention. 

– I also feel like ShiAn may be looking for his brother, which could definitely be Ryan. Hope to see more scenes of them together.

– I actually like and appreciate where SJ and her husband’s storyline is going due to their honest conversation in ep 11 because I was not as interested before. I hope that they will be able to work it out. 

– I also like what they’re doing with Sindy/HyoJin! My personal thought is that I hope Sindy ends up working with DM to run the fanpage and learn as a mentee to be a healthy fan and not a stalker. 

– I also really hope to see Ryan and DM  create art together. I hope he will be inspired by her and that she could play a part in helping him overcome his inability to paint. Also a kiss somewhere in there? :P 

 

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- OK GREAT. I'm glad I wasn't the only one who noticed that. I haven't had the chance to rewatch (but I'm about to after this) but that was my instant reaction when I was first watching today's episode. Admittedly, I'm also kinda worried about this storyline and their connection. I've seen many reactions regarding the possible childhood connection trope, most not very receptive towards it. I think we could do fine without it, but the writing of this drama has been subverting many tropes already so I am hoping this will be tackled in the same way. I'm really excited for tomorrow's episode and them exploring Ryan's past. And the ultimate bonus of all -- KJW with kids again!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! One of my strongest hunches is that DM's mom has a past with the orphanage.

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I had to rewatch this scene to clear my thoughts, because when I first watched this, for a hot second I actually thought that maybe, just maybe, DM was also adopted. I need to rewatch some of the earlier episodes with DM's dream that was similar to Ryan's, her mom's memory after looking at the kids in EG's dojo when she came to visit, as well as the dialogue between DM's mom and Editor Nam and their past. It's been mentioned before that DM had a younger brother that passed? I might edit this reply later once I gather more information with my train of thought. I can already see where I could be wrong though, but the main reason why I thought that DM could have been adopted was because of the last screencap where she regretted saying that and shut her mouth. But then again, having fights like this with you mom could also lead to saying something you don't mean and still doing the same reaction as DM. Again, I'm pretty sure I'm wrong but I just felt the need to put it out there.

 

- Will the second leads please just give our couple a rest? We know the angst is coming up in the remaining episodes, but throwing the second leads in there might just add unnecessary conflict. This is one thing that ticks me off -- what is CDI's purpose? Ryan has explicitly told her already that he isn't interested in her at all. CDI is in denial knowing full well what Ryan's feelings are (and to our pure-hearted SA who was trying to ease his manager's comments knowing it might make her uncomfortable). If she was a good friend, shouldn't she just leave Ryan be happy with the one he loves, although I am very curious to see her history with Ryan as a romantic interest. I'm also worried that she would do something like you mentioned, where she'll think that Ryan finding his missing link with Lee Sol will suddenly make him fall for her. Unfortunately, that's not how this works. Not in this drama and not in the real world. Also @ EG -- I get that you're steadfast in your feelings in not giving them up but buddy, I have some news for you. It's never going to work out. And I felt bad for DM because his confession was burdensome and she didn't know how to handle the situation, but I'm glad that she and Ryan were able to talk about it openly and she immediately told him. Seeing the preview, it looks like EG and CDI will be meeting each other. But hey, the saying goes "Birds of a feather flock together" right?

- I see you're suggesting a possible Ghost-like scene :phew:? We stan a true intellectual :w00t:

 

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