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Seeing the raw -  Does IS ask the assistant to process MR resignation?

 

Can anyone translate the preview?

Thanks in advance.  Looks like the chairman is asking to find out he relationship between IS and MR.  

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2 hours ago, sadthe1st said:

well, if IS is sincere to get back with MR, then it’ll be so blessed for MR to have both moms. MR will definitely not forsake SJ.. the pack of things SJ handed back to MR.. money that IS gave last time to send MR off to the States right?

 

Yes, it will be so good when she will have both moms. Sun ja felt betrayed and she is angry with Mi ri but she really loves Mi ri as her daughter. I think it is difficult for an adopted mother to know that her child is keeping contact with the biological mother. It is the natural fear that the relationship between her and the child is changing but I believe that she will understand Mi ri and will accept that Mi Ri has two moms. The real mother here is Sun ja because she took care of Mi ri for such a long time, she cried and laugh with her, she witnesses her growing up. Mi Ri loves her deeply too so nobody will take that conection from both of them. Mi ri`s love for her adopted mother won`t become less if she will have her biological mother on her side.

 

About the money... How come In sook thought that with that money her daughter could have a good life in US? Unless she gave each month money to Sun ja but still, no money would make a healthy envoroment for a child without a family`s love.

The happy scenario of Mi Ri being happy with two moms in her life is far from happening. Not now, at least.

 

1 hour ago, alleram95 said:

Based on youtube clips, the progress of IS and MR to meet as mother and daughter is very fast. They even hugged each other dearly after they realize the truth. Sure it was a touching moment, but I don't really like they reconcile easily like that. MR should yell first at her why she abandoned her and work for HS group, IS begging for forgiveness and explain truthfully about the reason etc. After that, they can act as mother and daughter. That's what I feel is proper before they get together as mother and daughter.. But, that is just my opinion.

 

Thank you again for the translation. I was so curious to know about the scenes with In Sook and the Chairman Han but there are no videos for those scenes.

 

I agree that MI Ri should be angry with In sook. Again, she is not confronting the biological mom who gave her pain, it is like not confronting her fears. I think it is not healthy and she could have another heartboken soon without resolving the older trauma. We know very well that Mi ri had resentment in her heart about being abandoned. She has to realize that it was not her fault. I don`t know how to explain better. She knows that In Sook left her to marry a rich husband and knows it is not her fault but children with abandonement issues could internalize a certain guilt and think they did something wrong that caused the abandonment.

Mi Ri showed signs that she is not alright with what her mother, In Sook, did to her. She showed resistance towards others (she would not open up with other people except with her new family), was an workaholic who refused any social life, had nightmares. That could bring depression. Life is not a fairy tale. It is not everything alright just because her biological mother appeared and hugged her. People won`t change easily. I really don`t know why In Sook abandoned her. She said that she did not want to abandoned her but she did it for her sake. OMG... really?  What if she will abandon her daughter again? For her sake or not... it will have the same result.

I wanted to know what the Chairman and In sook talked about and what In Sook told Director Park (the right man of Chairman Han) to do. She told Mi Ri`s name. What if she feels the Chairman`s presure towards her and abandon Mi Ri again?

I really want Mi Ri to forgive In Sook for what she did. I want her to be at ease, and really heal and move on. Having two moms on her side will be wonderful. But for that, she has to resolve many things first.

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u know the scene of TJ and MR at the bibimbap place? she said something and TJ was so happy that he held her hand for a moment.. did she say that she is not leaving for the States? or that she decided to stay on in the co? :o if so, did Chairman decided to accept MR resignation which caused IS to fumble with her words? the preview had IS and MR being apologetic (in car scene) which im wondering why.. either i need to be patient for the eng subs or, I NEED TO LEARN KOREAN! lolol

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22 minutes ago, angelwingssf said:

Seeing the raw -  Does IS ask the assistant to process MR resignation?

 I also suspect that. I think In sook knows that the Chairman is pressurring her. Why is so bad for people to find out that Mi ri is her daughter? I know that it will be a scandal but after so many years why she cares so much? I sense that we don`t know everything.  If she has a good reason or for selfish reasons. Whatever, I wish to know. 

 

5 minutes ago, sadthe1st said:

she said something and TJ was so happy that he held her hand for a moment.. did she say that she is not leaving for the States? or that she decided to stay on in the co?

 

Yes, I believe she said that she won`t leave. Of course, he could not be more happy with this news.

 

5 minutes ago, sadthe1st said:

if so, did Chairman decided to accept MR resignation which caused IS to fumble with her words? the preview had IS and MR being apologetic (in car scene) which im wondering why..

 

We know that the preview is not realiable source but it is affective in causing us curiosity.

I think that In Sook wanted to accept Mi Ri`s resignation for the Chairman to not digg much about her past with Mi ri. But I still think that Tae Joo`s father knows already. I just don`t trust this man. I have a feeling that he is behind the reporter as well. He is the master of puppets.

We`ll see.

There are many questions and I want answers right now.

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2 hours ago, alleram95 said:

SJ:Crazy woman. Just hear what you are talking about. Now that you found out about your daughter, so what? I knew that you are not even a human, but I never thought that you would have any thoughts like that. How dare you, evil woman? If you knew that she is your daughter, you should kneel down and ask for forgiveness instead of coming here and blaming me. Are you calling yourself a mother?!

 

We now know for sure that In Sook and Sun ja were sisters-in-law.

I love that Sun ja told her some true words. In sook had the guts to come there to ask why Sun ja raised her daughter and not sending her to US? In Sook said to her face that she is uneducated and that she took her money to feed the other daughters some meat? And she is not greatful that she raised her to be a good woman?  OMG... it is too much.

She blames Sun ja that Mi Ri and her met in the same company? She is delusional. I get that it is not comfortabble for her this situation but why should Sun ja has to run away with her family and Mi ri  because she received some money? She better have a good reason to be so vocal now. Again... why she abandoned her daughter and thought that she did a good thing for her as a mom? She is crazy or it is something else? I WANT answers, show!

 

2 hours ago, alleram95 said:

SJ: For 28 years, you laugh and smile as if nothing wrong. But inside, you are suffering while waiting for your mother to come and see you, aren't you?  

 

2 hours ago, alleram95 said:

SJ: This girl is hiding it from us. For the long time she with us, she just keep quiet and pretend that she is okay and there is nothing wrong. She did that! If she really thinks me as her mother, how could she say nothing or show anything? How could she live like that? How could she hide it? I have shown everything to all of you, either I'm happy or tired while raising you. I showed all of it fairly to the three of you! So how could your sister hide it from me? Why did you do that to me?

 

The scene with Sun ja and three daughter was heartbreaking. Yes, Mi Ri did all of that and I anticipated why Sun ja was upset but I did not think that Sun ja will react this way. Well, it is in her personality. She tells exactly what she feels or thinks. She will forgive Mi ri because she loves her, because she is her daughter. She felt betrayed that Mi Ri was hiding her own feeling  but she knew that all this time. It really made me cry when Sun Ja rejected her and told her to leave. Please, reconcile quickly. :tears:

 

The preview...

Mi ri went to her mother`s restaurant to help or maybe to be forgiven. Tae Joo is taking the boss`s side and Park Tae Ri is asking how he knows .:D.. It was funny how Park Tae ri saw many times how Mi ri and Tae Joo came to work at the same time, having the same mood. When he will guess there is something between those two? :lol:

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24 minutes ago, larus said:

 

We now know for sure that In Sook and Sun ja were sisters-in-law.

I love that Sun ja told her some true words. In sook had the guts to come there to ask why Sun ja raised her daughter and not sending her to US? In Sook said to her face that she is uneducated and that she took her money to feed the other daughters some meat? And she is not grateful that she raised her to be a good woman?  OMG... it is too much.

She blames Sun ja that Mi Ri and her met in the same company? She is delusional. I get that it is not comfortable for her this situation but why should Sun ja has to run away with her family and Mi ri  because she received some money? She better have a good reason to be so vocal now. Again... why she abandoned her daughter and thought that she did a good thing for her as a mom? She is crazy or it is something else? I WANT answers, show!

 

 

 

The scene with Sun ja and three daughter was heartbreaking. Yes, Mi Ri did all of that and I anticipated why Sun ja was upset but I did not think that Sun ja will react this way. Well, it is in her personality. She tells exactly what she feels or thinks. She will forgive Mi ri because she loves her, because she is her daughter. She felt betrayed that Mi Ri was hiding her own feeling  but she knew that all this time. It really made me cry when Sun Ja rejected her and told her to leave. Please, reconcile quickly. :tears:

 

It was sad.  Children with abandonment issues can go one way or another.

1-they act out trying the test the adult's commitment to them as a way of seeing if they will be abandoned again.  It is a way of protecting their hearts.

2-they work at being perfect. In someways they believe that there is something they might have done to cause the abandonment. They don't cause trouble, they don't ask for much, they express gratitude, and they work tirelessly at being perfect.  They often never show their true self because they fear their flaws might make them unworthy. They want to make sure that they are good enough to keep.

 

 

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2 hours ago, hushhh said:

2-they work at being perfect. In someways they believe that there is something they might have done to cause the abandonment. They don't cause trouble, they don't ask for much, they express gratitude, and they work tirelessly at being perfect.  They often never show their true self because they fear their flaws might make them unworthy. They want to make sure that they are good enough to keep.

 

 

Number 2 is Mi Ri.

 

After the last episode, I am very curious about In Sook. She gives mixed signals and I want to know how she is in reality.

I am thinking of a satisfying answer about her behavior but she is still a mistery.

How I wish the writer will give us more flashbacks from the past or at least more informations.

I asked some question regarding In Sook. Why she wants to keep Mi ri hidden? Why she said it was for her own good? Why In sook could not marry Chairman Han`s brother if she had a daughter?

But right now I have other questions. Why In Sook married her first husband? We know that Sun Ja`s husband died but what happened with In Sook`s husband? He died too? If that`s the case, he died before Seung yeon was six. I can`t imagine In sook in Kang family.

Why In Sook was afraid of darkness? It was shown in the earlier episodes.

 

Let say that Chairman Han does not know about In Sook and Mi Ri`s relationship but he will find out soon. So what? What he can do and why he cares?

About Han Tae Joo`s father. He is another mistery to me. Why he treats In sook so bad after so many years? One minute he gives her a compliment, the next he is angry with her. It was not just one time. For exemple, at the memorial of In sook`s husband. He was thanking her for the memorial, the next he asked her rudely if she comes up with a man in the house (because she is still young). He hates her, blames her for something or he has an obsession with her? I want to find out. I hope the show will answer some of the questions.

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The seen between SJ and the 3-Mi- was so touching and hysterically funny.

SJ hitting Mi-Ri because she "wasn't as happy" and the others growing up. Mi-Ri swearing she was happy.

SJ claiming that if a mother could abandon her children by just paying money she would have abandon Mi-Sun and Mi-Hye long ago and Mi-Hye objecting.

 

Tears and laughter all around. 

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Does anyone know the name of the song playing at the end of the episode, when Mi Ri and Tae Ju meet for dinner? The lyrics are in English.

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Yeah, I found the music (shazam helped me) hehehhe

 

 

14 minutes ago, 123sara said:

Does anyone know the name of the song playing at the end of the episode, when Mi Ri and Tae Ju meet for dinner? The lyrics are in English.

 

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Busy morning so no time to post. Just wanted to say the feminist in me might have been more thrilled than the Kdrama ahjumma in me when MR put her hand on TJ.

 

Thank god. The writer wrote a woman in her 30s who is successful. And didn't make her a wimp in private life.

 

The other plots. Blah blah blah. The standard weekend dramas. I will just wait. But gosh it feels so satisfying watching TJ and MR. Look at him he just up and went and held her hand. And said why. None of this idiotic close up of hands almost touching blah blah blah.

 

I have solid hope now we might have a pre mariage bed scene. Hahaha. Just kidding.

 

 

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I'm not mad at IS for leaving her daughter behind.

 

Many a mother have had to leave children behind/given up children for various reasons.

 

I would be very surprised if the reasons that JS believes IS left MiRi behind is her true reason for doing so.

 

I suspect that IS is in some extended long game with the Chairman for some reason and she left MiRi behind to keep her safe.

MY UNSUPPORTED IDEA: IS insisting that Miri go abroad was to protect Miri from the chairman's family.  I wouldn't be surprised if MiRi is a dangerous to the corporation ownership claim.  THis is why the plot makes the chairman unaware of who Kang MIRI is to IS until the next couple of episode.  Had he known He would have dealt with MiRi before. 

 

The reason I'm angry with IS because of the way she treated Miri as Miri's boss.  

 

Did anyone else's eyes pop when IS said that Miri was mean to her?  . . .

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1 hour ago, hushhh said:

I'm not mad at IS for leaving her daughter behind.

 

Many a mother have had to leave children behind/given up children for various reasons

 

again, im not a mother but i dont think i can leave my child behind and move on with my life jst like that... i hv cats and i could never give them away to someone else even when things get hard.. it would kill me.. i jst cant do it sobs.. let alone to leave a child behind like IS did..

 

if it is a matter of life and death i would understand.. maybe IS did that to protect MR who knows right... im not judging..if a mother is forced to leave a child behind, she must has her own reason and i respect that..

 

 

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58 minutes ago, Matilda_Anne said:

if it is a matter of life and death i would understand.. maybe IS did that to protect MR who knows right... but im not judging..if a mother is forced to leave a child behind, she must has her own reason and i respect that..

 

I can't understand how IS could leave a child like that in the cold and walk away.  Assuming that she married into the Han family, could she not have come back to claim her child after the death of her husband?  She took care of TS - which might have been wonderful for him, but IS personality screams $$$ only.  My bet is that she took care of TS since he would become the successor and she would have a gala time with that.  I did not even feel any love when she called MR to come and hug her.  It was just that she got scolded by MS that she came to talk.  Otherwise she would have been thankful to SJ for raising her child.  

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27 minutes ago, Matilda_Anne said:

 

again, im not a mother but i dont think i can leave my child behind and move on with my life jst like that... i hv cats and i could never give them away to someone else even when things get hard.. it would kill me.. i jst cant do it sobs.. let alone to leave a child behind like IS did..

 

if it is a matter of life and death i would understand.. maybe IS did that to protect MR who knows right... 

 

 

 

To each his/her own.

Where I come from town of mothers leave their children with family members and move away to work.

Some leave their children in the country and seek work in the city.

Some leave their children in their place of birth with family and immigrate to find work to support their children.

Some send their children to boarding schools for all kinds of reasons.

These separation are often very difficult for the parents and are seen as sacrifices to ensure their children's future.

 

It is often an easier choice when it is clearly a matter of life and death. 

In the holocaust many Jewish families sent their children to live with friends or strangers to keep them safe.

 

 

 

 

 

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19 minutes ago, hushhh said:

 

 

To each his/her own.

Where I come from town of mothers leave their children with family members and move away to work.

Some leave their children in the country and seek work in the city.

Some leave their children in their place of birth with family and immigrate to find work to support their children.

Some send their children to boarding schools for all kinds of reasons.

These separation are often very difficult for the parents and are seen as sacrifices to ensure their children's future.

 

 

but in those cases, they dont completely cut contact and disappear.. they dont abandon their child. they jst live separately.. im talking about parents who left, abandoned their kids and nvr come back for them..like IS did to MR~~ but u are right.. to each his/her own. 

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Taeju- ssi I don't think you can call Kang Miri " Miri- ya " yet. Not even " Miri." Even I felt uncomfortable watching you try it out. I think she is " Miri- ssi " till you prove yourself. Yunno, slay a dragon or 2. Or a father or aunt. * nudge, nudge, wink wink *

 

All jokes aside I was so preoccupied watching them to even realize till now that Kang Miri has a boyfriend. She skipped the whole formal dating stage and went straight to a boyfriend. Lol. Guy confessed first and all. And she initiated the 1st date and all. You guys know I am talking about the 1st day. Kang Miri has a boyfriend right? Right right right?

 

Golly golly gosh, I know she is a marketing director. But this is the first time I have seen a writer actually making a character consistent. Marketing personnel can't actually be scaredy cats. And she is known for being good at her job. That woman sure knows how to let her guy know she is interested. I really enioyed the scene.

 

But that squishy rice was darn distracting. Squish, squish, squish. Its not bimbimbap right? Can't believe the sound PD left the squishy, wet sound in. There was so much squishing and mixing. I felt as if the rice would have become puree by the time they finish that scene.

 

And IS? The Chairman was right. If she could abandoned her daughter to join the household she can sacrifice anything for her ambition. Just so we are clear here I believe she abandoned her daughter. She did not want her back or intend to bring her into the household later. There was nothing said to her young child.

 

This is nothing like those parents who left their children in another's care with a future reconciliation. There was no continuing contact after leaving her toddler.

 

And now back to my reality. Work, work, work. 

 

Weekend dramas makes me miss Korean food. Can't work out what food poster is in SJ's restaurant. She is supposed to be running a seolleontang jib but all I keep seeing is a jook jib poster. At least it reminds me of the posters I saw in Seoul. Its making me crave something hot.

 

In fact am going to have to hunt me down some bimbimbap today. In order to get rid of the squishy sound in my head. I can't repeat the scene.

 

All I hear is WET rice. Not the romantic moment. Gosh.

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On 5/4/2019 at 7:41 PM, angelwingssf said:

I was surprised that IS told MR that for the first three years all she did was cook everyday for guests.  Would they not have cooks to do that in that household?  surprising what these kdramas depict.  Can't figure out if it is for real or not.  

 

I have heard of young chaebol wives being expected to be accomplished at cooking along with having other acceptable accomplishments and hobbies such as art appreciation. And, since they are not allowed to work or anything, they have time on their hands which is filled with lessons that they deem appropriate. If that were the case for IS and her in-laws' expectations of her, then they probably would have made her cater ever meal to show the progress that she's making with her cooking lessons.  Once she was shown to be proficient, then she wouldn't have had to spend as much time cooking and would have focused on cultivating other suitable accomplishments.

 

So, IS' cooking would have been a part of her grooming for her role rather than because the family needed a cook.

 

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I just want to say that  So Yeon is so pretty and I can't believe she is 10 years older than Jong Hyun  :)  They look so fine together. I cried a river watching this episode. Everyone did a great job

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