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[Current Drama 2019] Love in Sadness, 슬플 때 사랑한다 - Saturdays @ 21:00 KST

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22 hours ago, dolorisbrady said:

Honestly they all deserve each other , I think they should turn the gun on each other , No one should be left alive at the end due to stupidy. But I'm not the writer so I dont know jack lol. 

 

Seriously though there is a part of me that feels

for KIW,  He was abused and became the abuser , Thanks to his father its sad.

 

 

:joy: @dolorisbrady I must agree with that. But this behavior is expected of KIW, not SJW. And the YMR said he loved KIW so he would give up the idea of killing himself, but soon after, he dumped KIW on his own and went with SJW! Seriously, I was very angry. What a useless scene! Why do all that, then? It only counted on the performance of the actors, especially RSY.

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44 minutes ago, juli® said:

 I was looking forward to it, but since KIW is going to die, what's the point?

Who said IW is going to die, he got shot and jumped into the water from the preview not fall in? Many people get shot and survive. This is the 21st century and medicine is much advanced. I know you think that Ma Ri and IW belong together but they don't. When IW wakes up from his fake obsession and false love, he would not want Ma Ri and neither does Ma Ri. Hae Ra also deserves someone who will love her not someone who can't love her, nor someone who says he does not love her. Why would Hae Ra need that kind of man? You know why MR and JW deserve each other, they have the same mindset and personality. And hey, MR  has the face of HK...his dead wife, so JW can have Ma ri. 

 

If you look in the preview, IW jumped into the water holding a gun. He did not fall in. That means he did not get shot somewhere vital. 

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20 hours ago, zenya22 said:

Who said IW is going to die, he got shot and jumped into the water from the preview not fall in? Many people get shot and survive. This is the 21st century and medicine is much advanced. I know you think that Ma Ri and IW belong together but they don't. When IW wakes up from his fake obsession and false love, he would not want Ma Ri and neither does Ma Ri. Hae Ra also deserves someone who will love her not someone who can't love her, nor someone who says he does not love her. Why would Hae Ra need that kind of man? You know why MR and JW deserve each other, they have the same mindset and personality. And hey, MR  has the face of HK...his dead wife, so JW can have Ma ri. 

 

If you look in the preview, IW jumped into the water holding a gun. He did not fall in. That means he did not get shot somewhere vital. 

@zenya22 I didn't see this, I saw that he was shot and fell into the water. If he doesn't die from the shot, he will certainly drown. Now, if he doesn't really die, fine, I'll love it, but the YMR will not be free if he doens't die. And it only has 4 more eps. It's a short time for him to recover. I do not want KIW and YMR to stay together anymore. Not after what she did in those 4 eps. :rage:

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On 4/21/2019 at 6:23 PM, juli® said:

There are abusers and abusers. Not everyone should be treated in the same way because not everyone is equal, there is much more to be found than the human mind can understand

No one is the same as another, we are all unique in whatever place we find ourselves in, however an abuser is an abuser anyway one looks at it and abusers can use their childhood  history or whatever experience they had that caused their behavior as an excuse to continue with their abuse which is not acceptable. As I said in my earlier post, that IW's childhood past has been written about from the beginning and we all talked about it, we sympathize with him and some hearts even bled for him. However, IW or any other man who have gone through horrid childhood can't make that as an excuse to beat other people, their wives or children. Because at some time they will have to pay for those actions one way or the other. That is the way life goes. Whatever actions one takes there is a consequence and the consequence does not necessarily mean that it is coming from outside of the person because the worse of the consequence usually comes from inside of the person, the emotional/psychological ruination of the person by himself. IW has put himself through misery and suffers most when he beats his wife, yet he does not know when to stop, but why does he do it, because he had a bad childhood? So he should be treated differently and excused for his actions? Life does not operate that way, life will treat you back the way you treat it. For me, as I have said many times before, I would want for IW's ending at a place where he can get therapy and start his life with a clean slate. There are many people who have gone through worse than what KIW experienced  in real life, or people who ruined their own lives when they were at the top of their game but somehow it was when they were at the bottom of the pit that they found the inspiration and the strength to repair their lives and work themselves back to the top and stronger. Being back with Ma Ri is not the answer for IW because it is like giving him back what he is addicted to, what he is obsessed about and continue down the path to hell. No, I don't want that for him neither do I want that for Ma Ri. Happiness is not dependent on another, happiness is from and within oneself. When IW realizes that the source of his happiness or sorrow is himself and was never dependent on Ma Ri, it will be the start of his healing and possibility of a new life. 

 

 I  do agree though,  that the character of Ma Ri needs to be given a smarter outlook, leave both men, take her mother and go as far away as she can, get some therapy herself and start her life fresh. That is the best ending for her and so does JW who in my opinion, needs therapy himself.

 

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I didn't see this, I saw that he was shot and fell into the water. If he doesn't die from the shot, he will certainly drown. 

@juli®You are right, I am sorry, I looked at the preview again and it is different from the first episode where IW was shown feet down first as if he jumped but the preview shows him going down the water on his back holding a gun. I wonder if he will rise from the water and shoot someone.

 

 

 

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On 4/21/2019 at 6:31 PM, juli® said:

:joy: @dolorisbrady I must agree with that. But this behavior is expected of KIW, not SJW. And the YMR said he loved KIW so he would give up the idea of killing himself, but soon after, he dumped KIW on his own and went with SJW! Seriously, I was very angry. What a useless scene! Why do all that, then? It only counted on the performance of the actors, especially RSY.

Omg RSY is Killing it ! . I have never seen evil played so intensely. He has definitely stolen the Show in this drama. Not to take anything away from JHW he is one of my Favorite actors. When  hes on screen it's hard to get unglued from the TV lol. PHB I wasnt to fond of  her acting, I felt from early on that they should have stayed with PHN . But even with all the craziness it has been a great drama. Im looking forward to the Finale this weekend.

 

 

 

Seriously though Wth did YMR think was going to happen when she went back? 

That it was going to strawberry fields forever? Not! .The thing that really set him off , Is when she told him she loved SJW, good God he just imploded. 

 

 

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Hey all!! I have been following the drama and this thread closely.Never posted before now though.

 

I just wanted to say that even though I don't condone IW's abuse towards Mari,I found him to be the most fascinating character in the drama.There is a certain energy and vigour in his scenes.Be it in his interactions with JHR or with his dad.Even his OST,'Nightmare',is extremely powerful.Compared to that YMR and SJW kinda bored me.

 

I tend to enjoy characters who are intelligent,compelling and who have more than one shade.It doesn't matter if they are black,white or grey.I guess this is the reason why I enjoyed IW's scenes.Even though he is a villain,he had multiple shades and most importantly he is extremely intelligent.He can see through lies and through people.Even when he went against his father,he made sure he had some leverage over him.

 

Then we have YMR and SJW,our lovebirds who are supposed to be the tormented protagonists.But I can't just put up with their stupidity.What was SJW thinking when he locked horns with KIW? I know that was supposed to be his heroic moment but it only put Mari in a soup.And Mari knew that IW has her mom who is her Achilles heel.Also provoking IW wasn't exactly the wisest decision because it eventually blew up SJW's secret and affected his reputation.

 

Due to this drama's comparisons with Let Me Introduce Her,I binge watched that drama and noticed the differences despite the similar plotlines.Both the doctor and the abused wife were sensible and smart and I enjoyed how they took down the abusive hubby.

The husband over there was worse than KIW.But he ended up in therapy for his actions.

This drama has more emotions but that one was more practical.

 

Also something has been bugging me about SJW.He knew what kind of a woman his late wife WHK was.He knew she was cheating on him.Yet he never confronted her even once.Now what do I call this? Being a doormat or being spineless? Any individual with minimum self respect would confront his/her partner upon being cheated and try to discuss what went wrong and what further steps should be taken.But this guy did nothing.SJW and WHK had zero compatibility.He is more of an idealist poet and she was a shallow person.So the only plausible reason for him to fall for her was because he was smitten by her pretty face.I believe she married him because he was well to do and could provide her a secure life while she went around cheating on him.

 

IW's obsession with his mom's face has been pointed out many times in the drama but SJW's obsession with his wife's face was never discussed much.He went ahead and recreated his wife's face on another woman.

IW himself pointed that out on SJW's face when he discovered the truth.

 

In YMR's case I understand why she got so attached to SJW.It is because he was the first person to show kindness and affection to her after years of abuse.

 

As someone mentioned above the most convincing ending would be for both IW and SJW to get into therapy.

YMR needs to get away from both the men and rediscover her individuality.

 

Anyways lets see how the drama concludes.I don't want IW to die though.

 

 

 

 

 

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