[Drama 2018-2019] Encounter / Boyfriend, 남자친구

[beebeep]

Hello Chingus, I'm back here again today since I missed JH and SH  

 

Btw, I just watched PBG's interview at Arirang in 2016 and he mentioned that he typically selects movies/drama that has a good message. So, now I understand why he chose this "Encounter" drama despite the negative buzz in the beginning since this drama does have a very good message for the viewers. 

 

Hope you're all doing good and thank you for all the translation, recap, insights and analysis!

[avondale16]

1 hour ago, beebeep said:

Hello Chingus

Hello there too.   Yup. We all miss them too.

 

Hence still lurking here. Have a nice day everyone.

 

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[twtwb]

So this is one of the joys of a long-distance relationship

 

You look so handsome.

My gosh, I better write in my diary tonight. It’s the first time you said I’m handsome.

Really? But that’s what I have always been thinking in my head.

You shouldn’t just think inside. I say you’re cute and pretty and express my feelings all the time. 
You’re handsome. Seriously-so-handsome. You’re the most handsome guy on earth. Jin Huyk is so handsome that I can’t breathe. Jin Huyk is the most handsome man in this world. 
It is so nice to hear, especially when you call me by my name.

 

Are you usually this type of guy? I’m so flustered, and I have goosebumps all over my arm.
What type are you talking about? The lovely obsessive type?
You’ve become so sly.

[stardustvoid]

6 hours ago, gigivillaceran said:

Park Bo Gum responds to Encounter tagged as romance between him and Song Joong Ki's wife

I’m sorry but do we really need articles like this in our thread?

 

Who wrote this heaping pile of ——? How stupid can one be to think Encounter was a romance between SHK and PBG?? And wow, “SJK’s wife” really? They can’t even bother to put her name in the title? 

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Poor SHK and PBG always having to defend their drama from their personal lives connection! At the rate the media is going everything SHK does will always be overshadowed by her marriage. 

 

[Cheryl295]

1 hour ago, stardustvoid said:

I’m sorry but do we really need articles like this in our thread?

 

 

 

 

 

LOL I agree. Why is the article posted here. The source "ibtimes" is a trash gossip website from India and their articles are usually made up and exaggerated. 

 

 

 

[dukesa1122]

9 hours ago, bohmi said:

@dukesa1122

Actually, I still lurk here. I still have some pages to read. I also enjoyed reading bebebisous33's analysis; twtwb's quotes plus images; news from gumtaek and the others; staring gifs and pictures from Jemrie, Buldok, MarJo_Lei, leedonghaek and the others; insights and thoughtful from the other chingu too  thank you very much. Please keep it coming.

 

I know you lurk, chingu. Thats why I said: glad to see you “post” again coz it’s been awhile. Please keep those infos of yours coming. They’re very refreshing! 

 

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I have been lurking for a few days since I’ve been really busy irl. I read posts but couldnt get the time to respond properly. Thank you to everyone who’s posting facts and images and analyses and basically what all think about this drama. The silence is defeaning really.

 

I miss JinSoo alot. Like other members here, I still cannot move on. I have tried and failed to watch other dramas so I decided to just stop watching kdramas. Suddenly, other dramas have too much action or just too much going on in it that the phrase “because this is a drama and not real life” rings so true.

 

I miss SHK ALOT. She’s back in her cave and God knows she wont be caught if she really doesnt want to be caught. 

 

P.S. One of the top posts im looking forward to read is from our dear @bebebisous33  Im not rushing you or anything, chingu, k? Just excited to read your next analyses 

 

P.P.S. Let’s make 11 closer to home, shall we? Kyo’s birth month is on the 11th month. 

[roshzanna]

 Can anyone remember on what episode is this one?

On episode 15 when JH is  about to type his resignation letter, then remember their good memories... there is this scene , they are both in the car, SH driving with this dialogue:

JH: No matter what happens i will protect you

       All you have to do is be happy.

SH: i will ( not sure of this)

 

I can't remember seeing this one... maybe a deleted one?

(sorry idk how to post pics)

 

 

[stardustvoid]

@roshzanna I think that was in episode 14 when they were on their way to Dae Chan’s restaurant, before Jin Myung was arrested.

[twtwb]

I wanted to ask you this if we met again

 

 

“Do you have a boyfriend?”

[roshzanna]

 Thank you @stardustvoid

I rewatched ep 14, i realized i'd missed that part.

Until now, i have not watched ep 14 and  15 in whole, only parts by parts.

I have rewatched all episodes for the nth times but not those 2.

 

 

[xu_lyfe]

Hello friends,

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even I was very upset and my blood was boiling by reading some nonsense article  kept targeting PBG(no wonder SHK stay low and is back to her cave) but i have come to think : I can’t change people’s opinion, but I can  definitely change my attitude towards those “external negative factors”.  

I appreciate SHK and PBG for their braveness and determination to accept this project,  and hence I have another drama that will be forever staying  in my heart attesting time.

 

 

 

 

[rahma92]

2 hours ago, xu_lyfe said:

Hello friends,

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even I was very upset and my blood was boiling by reading some nonsense article  kept targeting PBG(no wonder SHK stay low and is back to her cave) but i have come to think : I can’t change people’s opinion, but I can  definitely change my attitude towards those “external negative factors”.  

 

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whats with PBG?

Boyfriend in japan magazine

[jl08]

15 hours ago, stardustvoid said:

I’m sorry but do we really need articles like this in our thread?

 

Agree with you totally, chingu!

Why do people feel the need to bring over the same article so many times? What good does it do to bring joy to Boyfriend fans? Perhaps it's driven by sadism at its worst. As for the clueless journalists - they always create the wrong headlines anyway. I guess it's because they need to make a guilty living by creating hell for the good people.

 

Do we not see the cast and crew nearly freezing in the cold weather while filming? Please check the bts if you haven't, before making things tough for Boyfriend's lead couple.

 

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I mean, both PBG and SHK earn their keep by ACTING as a profession. Whatever the external relationship of the actors, ACTING is still their profession. Why do others need to set boundaries for them and dictate who they should NOT act with or what they can or cannot do?  Or dictate when they should pose a picture with their spouse or when they should have babies?!

You don't OWN the actors.

 

OR it's because both PBG and SHK are so famous that some feel the need to bring them down?

The K journalists and K nets are really something but the overzealous SS fans and sasaeng fans are just too much.... it's stifling. I hope they'll grow up. It's tiring and irritating to see them intruding in the actors' private lives.

 

 

 

 

BOYFRIEND did so well internationally because we can enjoy the drama without helluva lots of inhibitions. Once in a long while, we are treated with such a beautiful and romantic drama, full of literary works and fine lines that stay with you.

 

There are so many meaningful messages that one can learn to live by and I hope Korea is able to see the main message - that a divorced woman can have a respectable place in society; that a divorced rich and powerful woman has the right to fall in love with a young guy from an average family and still be respected by society. That mothers-in-law have a part to play in the happiness of their children by understanding how much their sons love their woman. That the sons need the moral support from their fathers.

 

That love means having to persevere and overcome obstacles together. That not one party should give up because it's too painful.

 

And if the sea's job is to make waves,

Mine is to think of you, and

Among a multitude of stars, one look down at me

Among a multitude of people, I look up at the star

 

How romantic those words are.

 

If only the human race has more of such meaningful and beautiful lines brought about by BOYFRIEND, the world would be a better place for all, including the journalists and 'fans' who make things difficult for PBG and SHK. 

 

"I wanted to ask you this if we met again.

Do you have a boyfriend?"

 

YES. I have a BOYFRIEND, thank God. I have:

 

A heart-warming drama that touches my soul and calms my heart and reminds me to cherish my loved ones, even when things get tough.

An amazing lead couple who gave their best against all odds, to bring a heart-wrenching yet beautiful romance amidst gorgeous sunset and passionate indulgence with hot kisses and lips smacking...two beautiful silhouettes merging into one in the fading night sky filled with multitude of stars cheering for them....

 

No only are they hungry for each other, but

We're famished with their love for each other too. 

 

So who makes such a beautiful drama possible? 

It's the ACTOR Park Bo Gum and ACTRESS Song Hye Kyo.

 

Don't you think we should cheer them for their dedication and courage, instead of finding faults? A shout out to the KOREAN journalists, KNETS and non-Boyfriend fans!

We're not talking about whose wife. We're talking about the top actress, Song Hye Kyo and the top actor, Park Bo Gum. They have an amazing screen chemistry that goes beyond description. Savour it and not destroy it.

 

And please feel free to have it properly translated to Korean and place it on the major Korean websites! Enough is enough.

[dukesa1122]

@jl08

5 stars and a whole lot of trophies to your post chingu! 

 

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Found this vid in YT and oh my! The feels!  We really saw their relationship evolve before our eyes! 

 

 

Ctto

 

[rahma92]

 

 encounter effect? I hope we get translation about his tweet

[roshzanna]

Love your post @jl08

 

They should be proud of SHK and PBG for accepting this project and delivered it perfectly,that even international fans went head over heels.

 

If our job is to love and support them,

Its the job of the envious people to find fault in them.

 

 

[NongpeeP]

In Thailand, Encounter will air on the main TV channel with the highest rating among such main Channels in the country.

 

Encounter: ”Hearts meet Love”

 

 

 

 

[DSHK]

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zoomed out snow kiss and malecon beach kiss

 

[DSHK]

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Missing the most beautiful couple in kdramaland... Jinsoo couple I really love your chemistry so much, I really hope SHK and PBG will work together again

[bebebisous33]

The importance of nature in Encounter

This drama is really interesting because each episode starts and ends with a drawing. Each pictured scene doesn’t just serve as an introduction to the main topic of the episode, but also helps to understand the characters and their situation. However, if the drawings are all put together, you will notice a common denominator, the presence of nature. And each time, its presence is increasing. But now let us go back to the first episode and the introduced drawings. 

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episode 1

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episode 1

So far, two worlds are introduced: the castle, where the princess is living and the green land where our main character is reading a book. The atmosphere of the first image is gloomy and rather suffocating. It is night, yet the moon is not shining at all. The moon is even hidden by the palace. Under the yellow arrow, you observe the princess leaving the castle on her own, going through the forest full of thorns,

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until she arrives in a new world, where the moon and sun are shining at the same time. There, a man is reading a book, until he notices her and stands up. Both are facing each other. Here, the first drawing represents Cha Soo Hyun’s world, the modern civilization, whereas the second drawing embodies Cuba, where KJH will meet her. So the castle could be seen as a representation of Donghwa Hotel and Taegyeong Group. 
CSH is the CEO of Donghwa Hotel and she has just opened a new resort close to the sea. When the viewer sees her for the first time, she is already looking at the sea. She appears emotionless, yet we can see that the sea has some positive effects on her. She is calm.

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Later, she explains how she developed the hotel. She wanted her future clients to rest by having a view of the sea or of the mountain. As you can see, she perceives nature as something positive, which can help someone to relax. Now, if we connect this to her trip on Cuba (her desire to watch the sunset at a certain beach), the viewer realize what nature means a lot to CSH. For her, nature is beautiful, can help people to relax and enjoy their time. However, the picture above shows that she can not get close to nature, as the window is separating her from the sea. The window could be perceived as a prison window due to the iron bars. This underlines first that CSH is living in a different world, far away from nature, and that she can not live like she would like. The other drawings show her living in a castle or pavilion, surrounded by people or by a fence, or trapped by a window

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episode 3

or even attached to a building.

episode 2 (credit to @Jemrie)

To conclude, she is not just immobile, as she can not move, she lives in an urban world that is suffocating her and she can usually only escape from it through her paintings. The paintings function as a window to a different world, where her fantasy and her feelings are not contrived,

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episode 5

however it is not enough, since her biggest desire is to be close to nature as she likes observing nature (sunset). That’s why she was so determined to reach the beach in order to watch the sunrise, no matter what (broken taxi, no money, no phone). We shouldn’t forget that CSH is determined to renovate the hotel in Cuba without changing the garden, even refusing to put a swimming pool. She even outlined that the strength of this property was the garden. As you can see, she values the hotels based on natural elements:  garden, sea, mountain. She wants people to feel close to nature through her hotels. Notice that after watching the scene where JH was looked down by her ex-mother-in-law (episode 6), she was standing in front of a huge window looking at the sea. At some point, you could sense that looking at the sea had this calming effect on her. For her, nature is a source of strength. Sure, she is a princess in the eyes of many, yet there is one person who perceives her differently. This is not a coincidence that in the episode 5,  driver Nam compared our protagonist to a flower. He explained to CSH that no one can stop a flower from blossoming. As you can see, CSH is like a beautiful flower that has been “put behind a glass” by her mother and ex-family. A flower needs fresh air and water in order to live and that’s what JWS is not able to understand. He realized that in their marriage she was suffocating, hence he released her. In reality, he just created a bigger cage for CSH: Donghwa hotel. 

However, our heroine is not just associated to a flower. She is often linked to birds. 

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episode 9

First, look at the bird sitting on her lap in the gif above (episode 2). Then don’t forget the white howl she offered to JH (episode 2). But most importantly, just before the accident happened in Cuba, a bird appeared on KJH’s table at the cafe. The bird was announcing their fateful encounter.

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In the episode, we see this taking. She looks like a flying bird.

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episode 10

Don’t forget that JWS is always filmed indoors, in suffocating rooms with no windows so that you have the impression, he is living in a prison, even worse, in a buried coffin due to his preference of rectangles and brown/black as colors. However, in his mind, this beautiful flower needed a protector that’s why he is helping her behind her back. She is like a flower with JWS as a gardener who ensures that she doesn’t get hurt. Donghwa hotel can be perceived as a greenhouse, where everyone can look at CSH and even gossip about her. He is just the gardener protecting her. By doing so, he feels that the flower sooner or later will realize what he has done to her so that she will smile beautifully to him like a flower and she will come back to his side. However, the difference between JWS and Nam is that the latter only compared her to one flower, while the other associated her to many flowers (episode 10). For Nam, she was fragile and unique, for our second lead, a lot of flowers looked like her, unaware that his words meant that she was nothing special.

But let’s go back to the drawings… they have all something in common: nature is always present, in the beginning (episode 1, 3, 4) less, but the more episodes were aired, the more nature prevails, whereas the modern civilization disappears little by little therefore there is no castle at the end… just time or moon or sun or stars (drawing from the episode 13, 14, 15 and 16), since Donghwa and Taegyeong Group represent no thread any longer. Nature has won over modern civilization. The reason is simple. First, nature plays a huge part in CSH’s life. Only when she is surrounded by nature (like drawing 1), she can feel free. Cuba is such a place. It has also become a meaningful place for her because she could do anything she wanted without being in the center of the attention. If we look at the first picture above, you can see that the trees are black and without leaves indicating that this is winter and nature is sleeping. We can interpret this scene as if her passionate nature was sleeping, oppressed. In her dark world, where she is so small and powerless, she is also like a flower that is sleeping or has not bloomed yet.

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episode 11

In my opinion, JWS and his mother represent the opposite world. Wealth and their social status are associated to civilization and modern world which are symbolized in the drawings 1, 3, 4, 5 and 11 (castle, pavilion, street lamps, road, windows, fence, wheels aso). That’s why CSH can never be happy with them. This is not random that JWS is always concerned about his image and appearance (he went to the shop because he wanted to impress a picky woman, his ex-wife), as he believes this matters in order to seduce someone. He even bought an expensive dress for CSH. Appearance is linked to artificiality, the opposite of simplicity and naturalness. As you can see, image means a lot to JWS, but it is different for CSH. KJH could move her heart because he wanted her to feel comfortable: the shoes, the jackets, the scarf. He always tries to give her his clothes. He always worries that she might get cold or hurt. A person obsessed with appearance would never accept such gestures because it wouldn’t look good but CSH is not thinking like that.

On the other hand, our hero JH is linked to nature in the different drawings. In the first drawing, he is living in a world so different from CSH: sunlight, green and tree. He is often standing next to the sun. If he is not represented, he is symbolized by the red butterfly (episode 4). The red butterfly has an important signification: it is an omen announcing huge changes in someone’s life. From my point of view, when the red butterfly touches CSH’s head, it was as if it brought back life and feelings to our protagonist. But don’t forget that in the story itself, JH introduced himself to CSH as fruit seller. In the same episode (1), CSH compares him herself to a fruit saying that he was like a white grape. Then in the following drawing,

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episode 12

the beholder discovers that KJH’s home is a tree, whereas her ex-husband’s home reminds us of a coffin. In another episode, JWS uses the metaphor of the wind, when he warns CSH that she might get swayed away.

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episode 8

Here the wind is actually a metaphor for JH. The wind knows no boundary, no limit as it is connected to the sky that’s why the wind should be perceived as the epitome of freedom. Moreover, by asking her not to let herself blow away, JWS actually wants her to remain in his world (“rectangle/frame”) because if she allows this, she will leave his world and won’t be able to come back. Furthermore, by associating JH to the wind, he is implying that her relationship with JH is doomed as the wind is something untouchable. You can not remain by the side of the wind, you can feel it but that’s it. To conclude, our hero is often associated with products coming from the nature: tree, butterfly, wind, grape, sun and fruit. The tree offers protection and rest for birds.

And this is another evidence that JH and CSH are meant for each other. A bird can only feel free and comfortable in the air… with the wind. On the other hand, JWS just compares her to flowers. JWS sent many flowers and even wrote that these resembled her. So the note and the number of flowers give the impression that CSH is not unique and special. This contrasts so much with JH’s mind: “among a multitude of stars, one star stares at me.” So for him, CSH is an unique star that he can distinguish from others… for JWS, it is different. In the end, his gesture shows that CSH is not really meaningful but he doesn’t realize that. Funny is that he thinks a little note, he can woo her so easily… JWS is far from being well educated: his expression skills and knowledge about book, arts and poetry are rather low and poor.

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episode 8

Since Cha Soo Hyun is represented by the moon and the bird, KJH by the sun, the air and the wind, this explains why the beholder often witnesses our protagonists flying a lot in the drawings (episode 6, 8, 9, 12, 14, 16). The sky is their natural environment, hence our couple is often walking in open spaces (top of the hill) and even climbing a tower.

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episode 8

Don’t forget that our couple is represented by the moon, the sun and the star. As conclusion, the sky, even the space are their real element.

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episode 7

Sure, the drawings also reflect the evolution of CSH’s situation and her relationship with JH. At some point, she has freed herself, she is no longer captive like in the drawing from the episode 3 and 4. She is also not surrounded by enemies, like the snakes in the episode 4.

 

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Her emotions have changed as well. She is no longer cold, no sleeping flower. She is warming up, her emotions are starting showing up. As conclusion, nature symbolizes here liberty, but more precisely, the sky and space are the real symbols for freedom. Only at the end, she will be entirely free (no more guilt or insecurities). She is no longer bound by the earth or time, she has become a real moon. She is shining as the sun is shining next to her. As conclusion, the higher our protagonists are/ fly, the freer they are.

episode 16: the climax of their love and freedom

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episode 6

We shouldn’t forget that nature can also be dangerous. Notice that once CSH has escaped from her cage, she always has to face enemies and adversities. And in nature, her enemies are represented by the snakes, waves and the wolf. As you can see, nature is also connected to negative aspects. Nonetheless, this underlines that the problems and enemies CSH and JH have to face are natural phenomenons. This is nothing special but on their journey (drawing from the episode 5 and 6), they need to be together and work together. At the end, the sun has never shone so brightly. The MIL, the director Choi, her ex-husband are symbolized by the waves, the snakes and the wolf but since CSH and KJH never gave up and remained firm, the waves, the wolf and the snakes disappeared. In the drawing of the episode 6, KJH always serves her as a guide, he is her strength because he is the sun that warms her so that the flower can blossom beautifully.  As for the wolf, the viewer shouldn’t forget that wolfs were used to be associated to death and danger in the past (see for example the fairy tale Little Red Riding Hood), while the image of the wolf in modern stories has nowadays changed, since they are in danger. To conclude, the danger coming from nature are linked to the earth (sea, snakes, time, wolf) contrasting to the space and sky, the epitome of freedom. In the universe, there is no limit of time and space.

 

Let me know what you think. This analysis is a composition of different posts but I definitely added a few new elements, like for example the conclusion. As for Alice in Wonderland, this will be posted tomorrow.

 

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