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[Drama 2018-2019] Encounter / Boyfriend, 남자친구

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44 minutes ago, dahae2006 said:

I know why Hye kyo accepted this drama. She is the main person in this drama and have a lot of scene that she can portray her rich acting.  i watched all of her drama, her acting is the best in BF.  one of the factor is her co-star.  Bogum has very expressive eyes. his tone of voice, line delivery, gestures and movement could help Hye Kyo acting more shiner too.  could not believe they have 12 years age gap as superb chemistry . They  make us feel their love real and we all so excited over 2 sad episode.  I just wondering Writer is writing this script by watching hye kyo and bogum real life.. Let's  stick around this thread and talked about it after final episode. i tried not to write alot. let's watch/ replay naver video .:D

@dahae2006

Totally agreed with you, I can not believe that Park Bo Gum and Song Hye Kyo made me forget who are they in real life when I am watching Encounter because only Kim Jin Hyuk and Cha Soo Hyun exists in my screen and my mind.

 

For Park Bo Gum's and Song Hye Kyo's acting, I appreciate the most and can only praise the best for their uttermost portraying

. . . 12-year gap, Song Hye Kyo's just married status, Park Bo Gum as Song Hye Kyo's husband's close Dongseng, Song Hye Kyo's entering showbiz when Park Bo Gum is only 4 years old, etc. . . . so what?!?! They are an professional actor/actress.

 

59 minutes ago, dukesa1122 said:

So... my heart created walls around this drama.. I wanna trust the writer but given her previous works, they were heartbreaking to say the least. I hope she will prove me wrong. Because seriously, why build up our otp, make the audiences see how much they have grown as a person and together only to have them break up?

 

CSH’s predicament is really critical. You cant blame her if she’s seriously considering breaking up with him. His family is at steak. But what I’m confused about is, this issue has happened before. They were at a stand still once and CSH made the choice of going back to KJH. What she needs is to be reminded of the fact why she chose to go back to him. 

 

@dukesa1122

Could CSH let time heal the situation by doing nothing yet? If so, CSH, please do nothing when the situation is unfavorable and CSH's mind is unstable. 

 

43 minutes ago, ahdrianaa said:

 

Because she wants his family to accept her, remember her conversation with the old widow.

 

It’s evident even when she is talking to Sec Jang 

SH: (crying) Mijin ah, I truly hate the idea of having to break up

MJ : that’s what I mean, don’t break up. Don’t think of anyone else except the two of you. 

SH : that’s the difficulty, I want go pretend like problems don’t exist but it keeps coming back to me. 

MJ : Soohyun ah look back at your past, you have overcome much bigger problems. So don’t let this bother you.. please 

SH : I am worried, I am very worried.. you know his personality.

 

@ahdrianaa 

CSH can sway her mind from the pressure but no need to rush making any decisions when the situaion is unpleasant. Calm down and think thoroughly is what I really hope from CSH's character now. 

 

@jl08

My view is as follows:

As we knew KJH has been pressured and looked down by CSH's ex-mom in law to indirectly ask KJH to break up. KJK has been asked to break up by CSH's mom which made KJH feel sad and miserable but he has not asked CSH to break up.

 

For CSH, she has been asked by KJH's mom to break up, it is very tough situation but it is totally CSH's choice to decide not to break up with KJH when

- KJH has showed his strong intention to remain relationship with CSH.

- CSH's dad showed her that he can handle with freedom from the Chaebol and his political career.

- KJH's dad's warm welcome could be felt for the dinner and he is watching KJH&CSH as she asked him to.

- Situation in Donghwa hotel is much better after Director Choi has been caught by Mr.Nam’s smart move.

 

CSH has strong support from several closed people for her love life with KJH, only one obvious no-no KJH’s mom...the situation is much better, why would she think about breaking up now...hope not.

 

Nobody can force CSH to request break up except CSH herself because KJH's mom can not speak in the name of CSH to ask KJH to break up as KJH's mom's desire. 

Who decides should take responsibility.

I really hope that CSH will not request for break up just for one and only KJH's mom while KJH and CSH will be in so much pain. 

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*reading and sobbing in silence*

 

After yesterday episode, i decided to put on hold to watch live streaming and just camp here, reading all thoughts. And i came into decision, that i'll wait until last episode next week. 

I guess i'm going to watch all 3 episodes and drinking soju next week while i'm in Seoul. Or maybe not gonna watch at all depends on how this story goes. 

My weak heart :tears:

Oh @thistle let's wait until last episode :tears:

 

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@stardustvoid doesn’t this look like one of the illustrations from the little prince? The man on the fifth planet who has to keep lighting street lamps. This must be symbolic if it is that character.

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I think we should all take a break, go eat something nice and sweet. Lots of chocolate!! I’m off to eat some.

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@ahdrianaa

You have a point there. She didn’t know then that they will have issues with the parentals. I haven’t watch a single scene coz I dont understand hangul so I was heavily relying on your live translation (thank you btw). 

 

@dahae2006

Spoiler

SHK has always been a great actress for me. What people fail to realize is her acting style is almost always through her face and her eyes. No excessive movements. Some people always stop to notice how good she is at acting because they get struck at how beauitful she is. Thank you to this drama, finally her subtle acting style is noticed!

 

PBG surprisingly strike me as almost the same as her. His eyes can be super expressive too. And he is sexy when he’s serious more than when he is happy.

 

@stardustvoid

i think by CSH finding out who the mole is and announcing it to the entire board changes things. Ex MIL cant just file legal actions with that scandal on her belt. Im sure the board has an inkling who’s behind behind Director Choi’s actions. 

 

@NongpeeP

if this wasnt a drama, id say yes. Maybe waiting it out and find a better timing to the situation is a wise choice. After all, theyre not getting married. The scandal and noise from other people will always be there even if they break up. But this a drama after all. They had to build the Catharsis.

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18 minutes ago, ahdrianaa said:

I think we should all take a break, go eat something nice and sweet. Lots of chocolate!! I’m off to eat some.

Sweet mother of Mary it is!! That’s the lamplighter who lives in the tiniest planet. He is bound by duty to light and put out the lamp in his planet. Trouble is, his planet makes a complete turn every minute so he has to light and unlight the lamp twice in a minute.

 

He is a tired man but he can’t stop because those are his orders. In fact the Little Prince offered him a solution so he can rest (by walking three steps towards daylight all the time in his planet) but he refused because all he wanted to do in life was to sleep. The Little Prince loved that man because he was faithful to his orders. He also admired that the lamplighter thought of someone else besides himself. 

 

The Little Prince wanted to stay to be his friend but his planet was so small and could not fit two people. He also loved that his planet had 1440 sunsets. And we all know how cathartic sunsets are for CSH

 

Oh my goodness! Is JH the lamplighter? Or is it CSH? Jiminy cricket!

 

I need a drink or some chocolates...take me with you @ahdrianaa

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31 minutes ago, NongpeeP said:

Who decides should take responsibility.

 

I couldn't agree more. 

In this case, it is KJH's mum who decides what should be done. So she should take responsibility. Totally agree.

 

 

 

 

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*delurking mode again*

 

so are they breaking up or not? I’ve been holding myself not to see all the recaps for this episode but I got a bit anxious when I scrolled through the comments :wacko:

 

quick comments on JH’s mum, as some has pointed before, in reality there are Moms who will not be happy if their son is in love with someone whose social status is above them — aside being a divorcée and older as well —.. It is not just about how scary public can easily judged the one with lower status chasing after money etc. but also in laws with higher status usually behaving too snob because they thought they are above the other family. Would you think you would be happy to have that kind of in laws & drama in your “peaceful” life in a long run?  Yes, it sounds selfish but it is understandable where she came from and it really is up to SH and JH to overcome this by convincing her that she has nothing to worry about.

 

hold on... I got a premonition... What if next episode is the showdown drama between CSH mom and JH mom? Who will devour who? I imagine JH and CSH come to Mama JH to defend her but instead, Mama JH defends JH’s love for CSH and declares her utmost support for our OTP to spite CSH’s Mom! So, the break up plea is canceled... Ha! What a twist!! B)

Now I understand what u r trying to do here writer nim.. <_<so yes yes... happy ending again confirmed.. ok now I can watch happily today’s episode when the Eng sub is out -_-:D

 

Anyhoooo.. sorry for my nonsense.. too anxious to watch today’s episode with Eng sub...

 

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23 minutes ago, ahdrianaa said:

I think we should all take a break, go eat something nice and sweet. Lots of chocolate!! I’m off to eat some.

 

I would want some but im in the ER. My tummy hurts like hell. It doesnt help the fact that my heart is heavy. Im about to be admitted. Food poisoning. And all I can think about is if CSH will break up with KJH or not. :vicx:

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6 minutes ago, stardustvoid said:

Sweet mother of Mary it is!! That’s the lamplighter who lives in the tiniest planet. He is bound by duty to light and put out the lamp in his planet. Trouble is, his planet makes a complete turn every minute so he has to light and unlight the lamp twice in a minute.

 

He is a tired man but he can’t stop because those are his orders. The Little Prince loved that man because he was faithful to his orders. He also admired that the lamplighter thought of someone else besides himself. 

 

The Little Prince wanted to stay to be his friend but his planet was so small and could not fit two people

 

Oh my goodness! Is JH the lamplighter? 

 

I need a drink

Never read The Little Prince but this makes me really want to. 

On the other hand, based on your description of the lamplighter, wouldn't it make be SH instead? For me, I see SH character in the beginning as someone who was always following what was dictated to her and even till now with what happened with the Mom, she is torn into following not her own, but someone else's order. Of course, not that this is entirely negative on her character. SH is mostly bound by her fate to begin with. Anyway, just my thought. 

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4 minutes ago, dukesa1122 said:

And all I can think about is if CSH will break up with KJH or not

 

Oh my, chingu....your tummy is unwell but you're thinking of CSH and KJH breaking up or not? :D

 

How are you? Are you in the ER as a staff or as a patient? I'm confused....:P

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3 minutes ago, aiyumestranger said:

Never read The Little Prince but this makes me really want to. 

On the other hand, based on your description of the lamplighter, wouldn't it make be SH instead? For me, I see SH character in the beginning as someone who was always following what was dictated to her and even till now with what happened with the Mom, she is torn into following not her own, but someone else's order. Of course, not that this is entirely negative on her character. SH is mostly bound by her fate to begin with. Anyway, just my thought. 

You are absolutely correct that in the context of the lamplighter, it could be CSH

 

I previously said that the Little Prince could also be CSH. 

 

Writernim is definitely lurking in this thread and is pulling our leg

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51 minutes ago, leedonghaek said:

 

This! Don't blame SH when it was his mum who caused them to suffer. No matter how good her intention was, it wasn't the right thing to do. 

 

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Kinda reminds me of the time when some fans were blaming KMY for rejecting YSJ in DotS. They didn't even try to understand why she had to do that. Lol

 

 

Yes to that! It was not the right thing to do.  No matter your intention is being a mother is not living for the sake of the world but for the sake of your children's happiness.   She should have talked first to her dearest son. But I always believe that a mother is a mother in terms of loving their children and wanting for the happiness of their children. and so there will be a revamp of Jinhyuk's Omma attitude towards Soohyun because she will see how much Jinhyuk will suffer. 

 

This drama is draining my heart. I can't able to predict what is the writer's plan because when we thought it is the MIL that would give the OTP hard times - it happened now that it is Jinhyuk's Omma.

 

Just hoping for the best.

 

 

 

 

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@leedonghaek

 

Wow! Thanks for all the sweet gifs, dear. You're the best! haha....Diffusing the time bombs here.....:D

 

 

30 minutes ago, ahdrianaa said:

I think we should all take a break, go eat something nice and sweet. Lots of chocolate!! I’m off to eat some.

 

LOL..chingu, we need sugar to sweeten our mood right now. You're darn right...I'm off to find ice-cream...need the sweetness badly and it's good to cool the system too... :D

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33 minutes ago, rosiepeonie188 said:

My weak heart :tears:

Oh @thistle let's wait until last episode :tears:

 

Hugs again!  I am definitely waiting.

 

And I'm not sure how much I will follow this thread because I find all the negative comments very dis-heartening (especially the ones about JH's mom--she's just a humble person who was trying to save her son; her intentions were good even if her actions were poor.  We all make mistakes, and JH deeply loves his mom; so I think she is due some respect.  And I don't like the notion that there will be a sad or an open ending; I don't believe that for a moment.)

 

Anyway, I usually find it best not to watch eps 13-16 on most dramas until the final airs.  But I read recaps so I know what is going on.  And then I watch the last couple of scenes of the final episode.  Only then am I ready to watch 13-16.  

 

Yes, it's not unusual for me to do this.  In fact, there was one show that I loved but I could Not watch after episode 2; I had to read caps and wait until the whole drama was done.  Totally worth the wait.  But I surely couldn't watch while it aired.

Spoiler

It was Come Here and Hug Me.

 

Sometimes we just have to recognize our own limits for what they are.  Respect your weak heart because it's a good thing--it means that you care a lot.  I'm a lot more worried about people who have no feelings--they are the ones who scream just to be heard, and that's no good. 

 

You'll be fine.  I'll be fine.  And I'm confident that we will be happily surprised with the wonderful things that the screenwriter has in store.  It's gonna be a good ending.  

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10 minutes ago, jl08 said:

How are you? Are you in the ER as a staff or as a patient? I'm confused....:P

 

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Im a patient right now. Seriously. I almost smacked my nurse friend while she was trying to put my IV coz thats when I read about CSH breaking up with KJH. Thanks to this drama, I get diverted to how my stomach hurts  atm. :sweatingbullets:

 

9 minutes ago, stardustvoid said:

Writernim is definitely lurking in this thread and is pulling our leg

 

I think they really are. What with everyone micro analysing everything in this drama. They must have tapped each others backs because people actually paid attention to those. Thanks to @bebebisous33 and everyone else here for that. Come to think of it, where is our dear bebebisous?

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2 minutes ago, dukesa1122 said:

I get diverted to how my stomach hurts  atm

 

Oh dear!

Please take care, chingu. Get well soon cos you'll be treated to a happy ending for our OTP. I'm pretty sure it'll be.

One more week to go so you can take your time to recuperate.... :)

 

For now, I just want to rewatch our OTP's sweet moments in all the eps...and abstain from the blame game.....seriously.  lol..

PD Nim -- you caused havoc not only in CSH's and KJH's lives but also in our lives....see what you've done.

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