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This is such a boring two episodes! It was such a useless episodes. They have so many important things that need to be fixed, yet the writer is writing useless things.  

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I binge watched this drama.. I adore daeryuk n doran couple.. They have been the most genuine couple.. I just don't like doran being pushed down by the lies of her father.. Y doesnt he doesn't stuff properly.. If he wants to hide something, do it properly!! The way Daeryuk defends her n supports her is really worth mentioning.. But I really want DoRan to stand up for herself.. At first, due to her adopted father she bared with her adopted mother n now for DaRyuk n her father,  she is baring all humiliations in her in-laws!! I just want her to be independent.. I guess she didn't have much independence as when her adopted father died n she started to get the hang of being free.. DR took her off to his world.. But now I want her to realise her dreams of being a lawyer.. I want her to fulfill her dream.. I m not interested in the new guy but yes it will test how much daeryuk believes n loves DoRan.. I want this separation of them make them more strong.. 

Jang DaYa is the most annoying character ever seen.. She instead of dreaming abt becoming mistress of the house n throw tantrums n make her house miserable, should look at her husband.. I could already see him getting affected by the other girl.. I really WI to divorce this nuisance n make her come to her senses n reality.. I really find her n her mother annoying.. 

I don't find Daeryuk's mother annoying.. I just find her childish, she wavers easily n has every emotions easily!! 

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I just saw the end of the episode. DR asked WDR for a divorce at the end. And looking at the preview, they will be divorcing in next week’s episodes. 

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I have mix feelings about tonight’s episodes.  

So first off, I understand Do Ran doesn’t want to stay with her husband anymore knowing what his in-laws would treated her.  And she knows very well that she can’t be with him, another word she is not thick skinned like DY.  But I truly believe she went about it a wrong way.  What is this drama or the writer trying to do? I mean I see this a lot in a drama.  Woman would leave a man without saying anything and keeping them in the darkness and make the matters worse.  I believe that a couple needs to talk out the problems.  Her husband does not deserve the silents.  DR has been so patient with her.  For her to treat him like that, I am not ok with it.  She needs to tell him the reason that she wants a divorce and then he can decide whether he wants a divorce or not.  DR wanting a divorce is making matters worse.  Now the whole world is going to know.  

 

Also, as for Mr. Kang’s crime, do you guys really think he did it? 

 

While watching tonight’s episodes I was so nervous for what’s going to happen.  

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9 hours ago, Jamie Hartford said:

I have mix feelings about tonight’s episodes.  

So first off, I understand Do Ran doesn’t want to stay with her husband anymore knowing what his in-laws would treated her.  And she knows very well that she can’t be with him, another word she is not thick skinned like DY.  But I truly believe she went about it a wrong way.  What is this drama or the writer trying to do? I mean I see this a lot in a drama.  Woman would leave a man without saying anything and keeping them in the darkness and make the matters worse.  I believe that a couple needs to talk out the problems.  Her husband does not deserve the silents.  DR has been so patient with her.  For her to treat him like that, I am not ok with it.  She needs to tell him the reason that she wants a divorce and then he can decide whether he wants a divorce or not.  DR wanting a divorce is making matters worse.  Now the whole world is going to know.  

 

Also, as for Mr. Kang’s crime, do you guys really think he did it? 

 

While watching tonight’s episodes I was so nervous for what’s going to happen.  

She keeps doing the same stuff never talk to him about anything just tales the most destructive path she can its tiresome

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21 minutes ago, dramaninja said:

She keeps doing the same stuff never talk t him about anything just tales the most destructive path she can its tiresome

I have to agree with this.. I guess DoRan got this habit when she lived with her adoptive father.. In order to make him happy,  she kept mum.. I guess she blames herself for ruining the reputation n other stuffs of her in-laws which will make DaeRyuk unhappy.. So she decided on her own that she would divorce him.. I felt pity for daeryuk.. He looked ruined.. As she left the run GB n left him without any reason.. It seems he is ready for the divorce.. 

P. S. Was the new lady with Jang DaYa talking abt Daeryuk? I hope they don't separate permanently.. Getting other ppl in the mix.. I wouldn't like other ppl to come inbetween DoRan n Daeryuk.. I m not thrilled with the love triangle angle of the story!! 

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41 minutes ago, Jamie Hartford said:

I have mix feelings about tonight’s episodes.  

So first off, I understand Do Ran doesn’t want to stay with her husband anymore knowing what his in-laws would treated her.  And she knows very well that she can’t be with him, another word she is not thick skinned like DY.  But I truly believe she went about it a wrong way.  What is this drama or the writer trying to do? I mean I see this a lot in a drama.  Woman would leave a man without saying anything and keeping them in the darkness and make the matters worse.  I believe that a couple needs to talk out the problems.  Her husband does not deserve the silents.  DR has been so patient with her.  For her to treat him like that, I am not ok with it.  She needs to tell him the reason that she wants a divorce and then he can decide whether he wants a divorce or not.  DR wanting a divorce is making matters worse.  Now the whole world is going to know.  

WDR was always the one fighting for their relationship so if they divorce now, I don’t see why he should still continue chasing her. If she doesn’t think he’s worth the trouble, that her circumstances are greater than their marriage, that it would be easier to live her life without his family baggage, then he should really not pursue her anymore even after divorce and even after he finds out the real reason of their divorce. 

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I am glad that Doran didn't condemn her father. I was worried about her reaction when she learns he was jailed for murder. Her crying scenes break my heart :( She is the most unfortunate person here in this drama. And as for asking for divorce, she loves her husband but she knows how society will treat her father, esp. in her nightmare, the one of people throwing eggs at her dad. WDR's family will never accept her and her dad in the family, that is why she chose to leave.

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12 minutes ago, celebrianna said:

WDR was always the one fighting for their relationship so if they divorce now, I don’t see why he should still continue chasing her. If she doesn’t think he’s worth the trouble, that her circumstances are greater than their marriage, that it would be easier to live her life without his family baggage, then he should really not pursue her anymore even after divorce and even after he finds out the real reason of their divorce. 

I know what ur saying is reasonable.. But I still want them together.. What to do!! As I have soft corned for DoRan coz of her pity life.. I just hope DaeRyuk n DoRan get together.. Hope DoRan takes a step for her love.. It's time for her to stop thinking abt consequences n follow DaeRyuk as DaeRyuk did for her!! 

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9 minutes ago, icyphoenix said:

I know what ur saying is reasonable.. But I still want them together.. What to do!! As I have soft corned for DoRan coz of her pity life.. I just hope DaeRyuk n DoRan get together.. Hope DoRan takes a step for her love.. It's time for her to stop thinking abt consequences n follow DaeRyuk as DaeRyuk did for her!! 

Don't worry they will unite again as usual in kdrama. It is the man who always keeps fighting usually. Women in kdrama always back off. I wonder why.

 

I know that the main theme here is the father's problem of facing society's prejudices. That's why the writer will focus on this. The past seems mysterious yet. We need to know what really happened. How will Kang face people when they know the truth. Still Daya and her aunt are involved as Kang was accused of killing Daya's dad.

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32 minutes ago, nohamahamoud2002 said:

Don't worry they will unite again as usual in kdrama. It is the man who always keeps fighting usually. Women in kdrama always back off. I wonder why.

 

I know that the main theme here is the father's problem of facing society's prejudices. That's why the writer will focus on this. The past seems mysterious yet. We need to know what really happened. How will Kang face people when they know the truth. Still Daya and her aunt are involved as Kang was accused of killing Daya's dad.

I hope soo.. They reunite.. 

I really hope that it will be revealed that Mr. Kang didn't murder anyone purposely.. I first thought DoRan will become a prosecutor n solve her father's case.. But DaeRyuk came on the way n they got married!! 

P. S. I really don't like love triangle or rectangle in stories.. Hope it doesn't happen for DaeRyuk n DoRan couple 

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2 minutes ago, icyphoenix said:

I hope soo.. They reunite.. 

I really hope that it will be revealed that Mr. Kang didn't murder anyone purposely.. I first thought DoRan will become a prosecutor n solve her father's case.. But DaeRyuk came on the way n they got married!! 

P. S. I really don't like love triangle or rectangle in stories.. Hope it doesn't happen for DaeRyuk n DoRan couple 

I don't expect a triangle. Probably the new man will love Doran one-sidedly. She won't feel anything towards him.

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1 hour ago, nohamahamoud2002 said:

I am glad that Doran didn't condemn her father. I was worried about her reaction when she learns he was jailed for murder. Her crying scenes break my heart :( She is the most unfortunate person here in this drama. And as for asking for divorce, she loves her husband but she knows how society will treat her father, esp. in her nightmare, the one of people throwing eggs at her dad. WDR's family will never accept her and her dad in the family, that is why she chose to leave.

 

So here, I totally understands what you are saying, that no one will understand him!  But the question is, what is marriage?  I mean the promise you made at the archel, through the bad and the good, sickness or health, be there for each other.  This is one of bad things, she can’t come to quick judge what he will do.  No matter what, she needs to talk things out with him.  Asking him what is the best solution.  I mean there are so many solutions besides divorce, like they can move out!  I mean, he served his time for God’s sake.  She doesn’t need to stay with her in-laws.  Yes I am glad that she is standing by his side, which fits perfectly with the title, but she needs to understand that there is another person in her life that cares about her.  Also, I believe HJ will be by his side too!  She needs to learn how to share her burden with other people, not doing all alone!  

 

Although, HJ did say that their family misfortune started with the guy that killed her brother-in-law.  Idk how her reaction will be when she finds out!  Let’s hope she is not the last person to find out!  

 

So now, DR knows!  Who else is going to find out?  Unless HJ goes through his stuff, which I doubt is going to happen bc she is not that kind of person would go through other people’s stuff.  

 

So I did find it funny that HJ never questioned Mr. Kang’s past.  She never once curious about it!  For example, when they were at the movie theater, he told her the name of the movie that he watched long time ago, but never questioned why he hasn’t watched a movie since.  Also, where did he learned how to bake bread.  She is not like DR, who asks so many questions until she gets the bottom of it.  I don’t know where I am going at with this, but that’s how I feel.  And I am not ask her to be noisy, but not questioning things and believe that he is the perfect guy, it is good on the one hand, but also bad on the other, bc there is no body without a flaw.  She is the kind of woman you won’t find in today’s society.  Also, idk what the writer is going at with her character and the relationship between her and DR’s father!  But the bottom line is, let the past be in the past!  He served his time and pay for the price that he probably didn’t even commit, so everyone should forgive him.  

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1 hour ago, icyphoenix said:

I know what ur saying is reasonable.. But I still want them together.. What to do!! As I have soft corned for DoRan coz of her pity life.. I just hope DaeRyuk n DoRan get together.. Hope DoRan takes a step for her love.. It's time for her to stop thinking abt consequences n follow DaeRyuk as DaeRyuk did for her!! 

My problem with quite a few of these drama when it comes to marriage is the way their society treat marriage in the sense that the spouses’ families take priority over the married couple. Where I live the married couple becomes a family and the man becomes the head of the family and his family with his spouse and children takes priority. However, I acknowledge that different societies have different values so I have pretty much accepted this “different” way of thinking where the married family is inferior to the spouses families. I think this way shows the reason why I personally think “the man shall leave his parents and become one with his wife” is the better way for a married couple. 

 

I can’t expect WDR or KDR to think this way though because they live by their society’s norms.

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9 minutes ago, celebrianna said:

My problem with quite a few of these drama when it comes to marriage is the way their society treat marriage in the sense that the spouses’ families take priority over the married couple. Where I live the married couple becomes a family and the man becomes the head of the family and his family with his spouse and children takes priority. However, I acknowledge that different societies have different values so I have pretty much accepted this “different” way of thinking where the married family is inferior to the spouses families. I think this way shows the reason why I personally think “the man shall leave his parents and become one with his wife” is the better way for a married couple. 

 

I can’t expect WDR or KDR to think this way though because they live by their society’s norms.

Yes what ur saying is supposedly what a marriage relationship should be.. But in most Korean dramas n in my country too, it is believed that girl should tolerate every bad things which happens in in-laws home n should not talk abt it to her hubby.. If she does then she is considered home breaker n a bad daughter in law.. 

I really hope they show a change in KDR n WDR interms of their relationship in front of the society.. WDR is really a pretty forward kinda person.. Hope KDR also follows his step

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Does anybody have the translation for the preview? Where did DR's stepmum get that money? I like that she gave it back and threw it in MIL's face. Maybe stepmum can be a better mum niw and stand up for DR like she never did before.

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Seems like Stepmum's finally gonna stand up for DR. I like that. About time she supported DR after all she did to DR in the past.

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2 hours ago, Jamie Hartford said:

So here, I totally understands what you are saying, that no one will understand him!  But the question is, what is marriage?  I mean the promise you made at the archel, through the bad and the good, sickness or health, be there for each other.  This is one of bad things, she can’t come to quick judge what he will do.  No matter what, she needs to talk things out with him.  Asking him what is the best solution.  I mean there are so many solutions besides divorce, like they can move out!  I mean, he served his time for God’s sake.  She doesn’t need to stay with her in-laws.  Yes I am glad that she is standing by his side, which fits perfectly with the title, but she needs to understand that there is another person in her life that cares about her.  Also, I believe HJ will be by his side too!  She needs to learn how to share her burden with other people, not doing all alone!  

I get your point. But if you think about it, maybe Doran doesn't want to cause a separation between WDR and his family. She loves him enough to be ready to sacrifice that love. She wants him to be with his family. She is wrong of course because WDR will never be happy after she left him and he deserves an explanation. But then Doran is not brave enough to tell him the truth, as it is too horrible.

 

as for Doran's stepmom, she is a bit changed. I believe she loves Doran, especially when she hugged her after Mrs Oh kicked her in the cold. She was so worried about her and kept looking for her. She hurried to Kang's house to make sure Doran is OK.

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2 hours ago, icyphoenix said:

Yes what ur saying is supposedly what a marriage relationship should be.. But in most Korean dramas n in my country too, it is believed that girl should tolerate every bad things which happens in in-laws home n should not talk abt it to her hubby.. If she does then she is considered home breaker n a bad daughter in law.. 

I really hope they show a change in KDR n WDR interms of their relationship in front of the society.. WDR is really a pretty forward kinda person.. Hope KDR also follows his step

@icyphoenix, that is why I find it the strangest thing for a husband to allow his wife to be mistreated by his family and vice versa. My society’s value is different to this and while marriages are indeed increasingly broken nowadays, it is really through the fault of the couple and probably through their lack of faithfulness and communication but hardly ever because of their parents. Nevertheless, in drama shows like this, when I see how lightly they take marriage to genuflect to their parents, I can no longer take the couple’s marriage or commitment to it seriously. This is why if WDR and KDR does in fact get divorce I really don’t care if they get back together. They would have already failed at the marriage so why try again? It’s not like his family and her family won’t still be the same.

 

@Ayame, it seems like the writer will be repeating what you told us twice before that she did to the couple in her drama Blow Breeze. Never watched it but I remember you said it a few months ago.

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