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Hello viewers,

 

Right now I am having challenges with the live stream - if there is a techie out there please let me know what does this mean - "The media could not be loaded, either because the server or network failed or because the format is not supported". It happen in all my browsers. Provide help if you can.  I will continue to try but if there is one thing I am a bit upset about is the regular live streaming challenges that I had to face with KBS, Now the other site that I have been using is giving me trouble, geezz!!

 

I am ready for the end, it took me over 7 days to watch the subbed version.

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I watched the clips and this is what I got from it, hope it helps:-

 

MY still got it in spite of her health troubles, thank goodness for the pen recorder.

 

Ep 48

  • MS although happy to see MY/HS are getting on fine is a bit troubled as to the reason why YH called the maknees over to help them out more.  He relayed this to JH who does not think much about it.
  • Scum ex and Yang are in discussion in their plans to steal from MY.  MS being suspicious of his scum father later confronted him about his meetings with Yang the reasons etc., MS warns the scum, they argued, MS leaves.
  • SH/YH discuss MY's health issues and are trying to do stuff to make things easier for MY/HS.
  • SH stopped by MY, they talked, SH called MY - mom and hugs her:wub:.
  • It seems that JJH has consented for the couples to be together, DY told JH the news.  CK is hurt that DY seems to be farther from him than before as she has no interest in the hospital.
  • JJH baby sits ES and introduces her to tea which of course ES does not like, she prefers juice they did come out with a happy solution at the end.
  • ET/YH had their first date - no ES etc., they took pictures, held hands, walk and talk
  • MY is suspicious of scum ex's meeting with Yang, she talked about this with HS and later got some information from MS.
  • MY realizes that scum ex knew about her illness and is trying to take advantage of her.  MY later meets ex where she is in a daze and signs over her building to him.  As soon as she signs the papers, the scum ex is about to take it when MY proved that she was pretending and catches him.

Thoughts

 

I am hopeful that next week will be the last episodes as I think for the most part all of the key areas have been covered.  MY/HS are together and are likely to have their wedding, ET/YH will get married despite the fact that presently his foreign health aid is having some problems which may require them to travel, JH/DY are a couple with JJH finally relenting to the respective pairs being together as she loves them so much and know how good they are for the other, flat couple are there with WAM learning to adjust , MS getting a family regardless and has matured somewhat, HH is just HH.  The show as I have previously stated lacks passion but it was overall okay. I just wish and hope that the live stream sites do not give as much trouble.

 

Take care, have a good week and gone for now

 

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MS finds out that his father met with Mr. Yang and know he plans to do something bad with MY. MS confront his father and they fight. MS will take his mother side guaranteed. MY start forgetting even more. At the end of the episode MS father find MY wandering the street. He finds her in her forgetful state and take her to a cafe and intends to have her sign some papers. Probably all her assets or shares or something like that. She change completely and grabs MS father hand and say something. He is shocked and the episode ends. 

 

There is a preview.

 

MS father is utter trash. I hope he is cutoff completely by MS at the end.

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While I’m still very much annoyed that they made MY sick, I really enjoy the moments where we see how much the two families have grown to become one. Yoo Ha bringing the younger siblings (including MS) together and encouraging them to pitch in more to help their parents was really sweet. The three younger siblings coming together to try to figure out what’s going on with their parents is another mark of how far they’ve come. I’m glad that HS has finally decided to openly tell the family about MY’s illness and asked them to support him and MY more because they need it. I’m looking forward to watching them grow closer as a family.

 

Once again I enjoyed SH and MY’s scene and it was so precious when SH finally called MY, “Mom”. It was suggested several episodes ago but SH objected to it because she remembered her birth mother unlike her other siblings and didn’t feel comfortable doing so. I guess she’s finally at a place of acceptance now so she’s able to call MY “mom”.

 

In MY’s final scene with the scumbag-ex, I felt how fortunate she is to have a new family who loves and cares about her. Had she been on her own with only MS, I don’t know what would have happened to them. Thankfully they have a big family now that will support them through this difficult trial. I have no doubt that MS will be very upset when he learns the extent of what his father has been planning. However, now he has a support system because I’m sure either MY, HS or both will be there for him as parents. 

 

I can’t believe that after all this time DY and JH can still make me giggle like a little girl. DY’s house was actually the light and amusing parts of this episode for me. From JJH and ES bonding, JJH giving consent to both couples, DY’s intoxicated dad complaining about the lack of love he gets from his family, etc. I understand his concern about the hospital but it never seemed that DY was interested in the hospital. I can only assume he wanted her to marry someone who would be capable of managing the hospital. I feel sorry for him since he said he worked hard to build up the hospital for her sake. I hope he finds a suitable resolution to this issue.

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Hah!!!! MY was just pretending. She is still the undefeatable MY!!!! bravo!!! Mr Yang's conscience got the better of him and seems he will tell all to MS about his father's plans to swindle MY

 

JJH is the best babysitter for ES. She even takes care of her nutrition. But ES in return is good for JJH. ES gives JJH something to do and someone to give all that caring to. The Park family are good for JJH family and vice versa

 

YCK, if he opens up his mind will see that the Parks are good for his "hospital" too especially their relationship to MY. I think and I hope that MY and HS once they know about the trouble the hospital has regarding getting ET's project sponsored and financed, will help since it is for a good cause. It is a research project that could help many people.I could understand YCK efforts in dealing with the business arm of the hospital. He is doing a good job so far as the hospital is still running well, but he needs to be more open and not so prejudiced against less moneyed people than he is, because it is not about how much money one has, it is about how much talent, dedication, effort and perseverance one has in completing projects and goals. If YCK opens his eyes, he will realize that he has got "gold" in his son in law to be-JH because he embodies all the qualities of an achiever of his personal and career goals. CK will also widen his connections by having MY as an in law. It will be a win/win for him. But he has to see it not only from that perspective but also from a humanistic perspective of love and family.

 

In the meantime, ET needs to be more supportive of YCK. Since ET is heading the research, he needs to give some time to help explain to the government agency the importance of his project and get approval. As a Medical Director he has to be able to see the business part of running a hospital. Supplies, salaries, maintenance etc need money. So giving brother in law a pat in the back once in a while, some family loving and appreciation is not a bad idea since that is what YCK is needing at the moment.

 

As for DY, since she is jobless right now and there is a job offer by her father in the hospital, why not give it a try. She does not like how her father looks down and talks down on JH. She also does not like how her father measures a person's worthiness by the size of their wallets but that has nothing to do with the job, it is only her father's opinion. However, she can make a deal with her father that she will take an entry position and try it out. She will not know until she tries. It might be the right job for her. She can talk to YH about what the job entails. She can help her uncle get sponsorship for his research and many other hospital projects and programs that could help the hospital help people. If she ends up not liking it, she can then quit. It does not hurt for her to try.  

 

HH on the other hand, with JJH baby sitting ES, she can now give full attention to her own business projects. The children are now free to visit back and forth between homes and they, especially older ones SH/YH and even ET are all working together to care for MY.

 

WAM has now seen the rewards of her hard work when she realized how much she earns and it gave her life. She is now putting to use her good cooking and attracting more customers to her cafe. One touching moment with her and SH when she told SH that she knew and understood what SH was going through because she had cared for her father for many years until he died and said for SH not to worry about the household chores so much but to take care of her family. Wam is not that shallow afterall. She just needed a push to dive deep.

 

The best part of the episode is the family coming together to care for MY and the scene that made my cry was the convo between SH and MY and SH calling MY "mom". 

 

Now that everything is getting resolved, do we hear wedding bells? 

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6 hours ago, zenya22 said:

YCK, if he opens up his mind will see that the Parks are good for his "hospital" too especially their relationship to MY. I think and I hope that MY and HS once they know about the trouble the hospital has regarding getting ET's project sponsored and financed, will help since it is for a good cause. It is a research project that could help many people.I could understand YCK efforts in dealing with the business arm of the hospital. He is doing a good job so far as the hospital is still running well, but he needs to be more open and not so prejudiced against less moneyed people than he is, because it is not about how much money one has, it is about how much talent, dedication, effort and perseverance one has in completing projects and goals. If YCK opens his eyes, he will realize that he has got "gold" in his son in law to be-JH because he embodies all the qualities of an achiever of his personal and career goals. CK will also widen his connections by having MY as an in law. It will be a win/win for him. But he has to see it not only from that perspective but also from a humanistic perspective of love and family.

 I partially agree with you, but it was the first time we actually got to see CK in a more humane perspective.  Cannot guarantee CK's help in ET's project, reason he shafted ET once and it was YH who got ET the support he needed.  This is also why ET does not put much focus on CK as due to his actions CK has been marginalized in the family as they have all grown with their own lives being enriched by other people. CK on the other does not see that and looks at profit, class etc. as you have earlier stated once he open his mind to other possibilities then he'll become richer.  JH took CK's words to heart and may be in the future could provide him with the help he needs.

 

6 hours ago, zenya22 said:

As for DY, since she is jobless right now and there is a job offer by her father in the hospital, why not give it a try. She does not like how her father looks down and talks down on JH. She also does not like how her father measures a person's worthiness by the size of their wallets but that has nothing to do with the job, it is only her father's opinion. However, she can make a deal with her father that she will take an entry position and try it out. She will not know until she tries. It might be the right job for her. She can talk to YH about what the job entails. She can help her uncle get sponsorship for his research and many other hospital projects and programs that could help the hospital help people. If she ends up not liking it, she can then quit. It does not hurt for her to try.  

 

One thing I like about DY is that she is decisive in her personality, likes and wants, she also knows her parents.  As a result, I disagree with you here.  DY at home provided CK assistance with his job, she has an idea what it entails and did not like it. She found her talents & happiness in home design /interiors & JH, also knowing CK's personality he will not be satisfied with letting her have an entry position etc.  Everyone knows that she is his daughter, if she started as a clerk he will look on it affecting his image etc. also look on how he was when DY rejected MS, he still tried to pressure her in accepting him as he meets his criteria for a "son-in-law" which is money and connections.

 

SH's home life has somewhat settled with a supportive husband and WAM in her own way, finally getting a mom etc.  These women nightgowns suck/uuuggly and should be cut up for cleaning furniture.   BTW I miss Manager Ko.

 

The upcoming episode preview shows how JH and MS are dealing with MY's illness, ET's choice of not going to deal with vehicle program by using he is getting married as an excuse but to me that can be resolved if all three of them go together - ES can get a lot of world experience and growth over there, YH can still be a doctor.  MY calling out scum ex on his crap was nice to see.  MY knows that she is being watched so in order to catch him she had to be bait.  Glad that at least Yang had a conscience to do the right thing.

 

Gone for now

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On 9/3/2018 at 9:04 AM, chasen8888 said:

One thing I like about DY is that she is decisive in her personality, likes and wants, she also knows her parents.  As a result, I disagree with you here.  DY at home provided CK assistance with his job, she has an idea what it entails and did not like it. She found her talents & happiness in home design /interiors & JH, also knowing CK's personality he will not be satisfied with letting her have an entry position etc.  Everyone knows that she is his daughter, if she started as a clerk he will look on it affecting his image etc. also look on how he was when DY rejected MS, he still tried to pressure her in accepting him as he meets his criteria for a "son-in-law" which is money and connections.

 

but there maybe a way around that. JH said to JJH that DY and her father love each other but they don't know each other. For father and daughter to understand the other, they have to learn about the other. Very astutely said. That is one of the reasons JJH knew JH is so good for her daughter. JH instinctive understanding about human nature. Volunteering is one of the best educational tools and many students and young people especially the well to do children are encouraged to do so. The volunteer experientially  learns practical lessons applicable in life not taught through books. It also boosts the resume. The hospital needs designers too for upgrading and making the hospital atmosphere look and feel people friendly especially the pediatric area. ES room, when she was  confined, looked dreary. DY can volunteer to donate her time and talent to re design a part of the pediatric area as in a waiting area or the wing hallway. Donations from her rich friends including MS can be solicited for the materials which would not cost much. She can ask the Park gang for help to complete the project, over a weekend. A new paint on a wall,  a drawing of loved characters here and there, simple colored chairs and tables etc. CK will be delighted when he looks at it as boosting his image by way of "noblesse oblige", his way of giving back to society by letting his daughter volunteer for this project. At the same time, CK and DY can learn about each other as JH suggested...... just my thoughts 

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@chasen8888"These women nightgowns suck/uuuggly and should be cut up for cleaning furniture'; and

 'ES can get a lot of world experience and growth over there'.

 

:lol:ROFL. I noticed too, esp WAM's. There are too many gathers, layers and frills. Someone ever mentioned she dresses like a christmas tree and even on the bed now. I do not like the way the wardrobe manager dresses up the present YH. She doesn't have to look plain while dating. If the characters really have to look realistic, then everyone shouldn't sleep with the lights on and some with heavy makeup still on too. Once I saw ES with her shoes and socks while playing in YH's room at night. Most of all, how I wish my kids would obediently listen to my every single instruction when they were young, such as brushing teeth, putting on the headphones immediately when told, etc, just as how ES behaves.

 

I would be very concerned about the suitability of a young kid living in Africa although she will be with her parents. The living conditions such as poor sanitation and hygiene , drinking water standard, control of diseases, order and security issues, etc may not be suitable for preschoolers. But well, it's a kdrama afterall.

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9 hours ago, newyee said:

would be very concerned about the suitability of a young kid living in Africa although she will be with her parents. The living conditions such as poor sanitation and hygiene , drinking water standard, control of diseases, order and security issues, etc may not be suitable for preschoolers

This makes me very sad for the millions of preschoolers growing up in Africa, tragically unaware of how unsuitable it is for them.:D

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1 hour ago, midjohn33 said:

This makes me very sad for the millions of preschoolers growing up in Africa, tragically unaware of how unsuitable it is for them.:D

 

:D I'm not sure but I presume growing up there as native Africans, the babies would have some kind of immune system from their parents to adapt to the unfavourable environment. But for a young kid from a developed country such as S.Korea to reside there, it may be very difficult for her body to adapt.

Besides, the mortality rate of young Africans is relatively high as child mortality rate is closely linked to the level of development of a country.

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7 minutes ago, newyee said:

 

:D I'm not sure but I presume growing up there as a native African, the babies would have some kind of immune system from their parents to adapt to the unfavourable environment. But for a young kid from a developed country such as S.Korea to reside there, it may be very difficult for her body to adapt.

Besides, the mortality rate of young Africans is relatively high.

 

Yes, infant mortality in much of Africa is high. I think actually that a child of foreign aid workers, especially doctors, is probably going to be much better off than the local kids. Especially because if things get really bad, they can leave, unlike the locals

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@newyee I really hate it when they talk about Africa. Africa is a whole continent, not a small country. I guess it is easier than to speak about a specific country that some people would not be able to localize. Nevertheless, African countries are diverse and realities are different, sometimes even within the same country. A few years back, while in Ethiopia, I met a physician (I think he was a surgeon) working (volunteering) in an Ethiopian hospital in the highlands. He was there with his wife, his grown-up daughter and his then 8 yo son, who is now a teenager. His wife was working at an orphanage affiliated to the hospital, so his child was playing everyday with the children in the orphanage. I think they stayed there for about 3 to 4 years before heading back to the US. As a side note, I remember his wife donating blood every 3 months because they didn't have enough blood for emergencies - she was literally the universal donor. And this is not the only case I've heard of. I know many (now) adults who grew up in various African countries, and they grew up just fine, in fact, just two weeks ago I met a guy whose daughters, now 12 and 6 yo, spent most of their past years in Namibia.  

 

On the other hand, it is true that we are more sensitive to things to which they developed a certain resistance. I remember being sick two or three times (although I was not a child). It had never happened before and if hasn't happened since to have those symptoms, but the third time I already knew what to do and I didn't even visit the hospital. After your noted that Africa is a dangerous place for children, I thought about it and I didn't find an answer for Africa, but I have one for Ethiopia. I think one doesn't have to be crazy to take their children in Ethiopia. The same could be true for Kenya, Egypt etc. I haven't traveled all over Africa, so I cannot generalize, but I probably wouldn't take children to Eritrea, Sudan, Libya and the list can continue.

 

But volunteers do not live in the same conditions as the general population. If they are not pioneers in a certain area (those are most of the time missionaries, not physicians, and they first go there alone, not with their families), they live in decent conditions. I lived in the campus of a school in Eastern Ethiopia and I thought it was alright "for Africa", but when some volunteers from a hospital 30 km from where I lived visited our place, they felt sorry for us. I still think we enjoyed decent accommodations...

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@HannahmiriamAgree they shouldn't use Africa in general but I just assume ET worked at the more 'backward' country since much foreign aid is needed. I remember in 'Descendants of the Sun', the PD came out with a fictitious developing country named Urk where the leads worked as volunteers so no one could argue about it.  

When my daughter was 15, she joined her school's overseas volunteer mission for Cambodia. She needed 3 inoculations against malaria etc before the week's trip. Though they stayed in church premises and many parts of Cambodia are opened to tourists, still, there were friends who fell sick. Thus I can't help but feel fearful for ES if she were to go to 'Africa'. Call me an overanxious mum.

Kudos to all volunteers and missionaries who sacrifice themselves and their families for the good of humanity!

But I am curious how ET and YH will solve the 'Africa' issue they are facing now?

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