raziela 7,270 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 10 minutes ago, epinklyn said: Yeah i agree NQ is so selfish, after he got what he want (hug), he just left and tell SS to finish her chores #sigh, what a typical men, dont care what happen on the household when they were leaving near or far, short or long term, they just happy that they can see their love ones is there, and back to daily rutines #doh! But i also agree from @rhaps POV about NQ' selfishness. So NQ is just a typical of most men ups 18 years old boy, with a heavy burden on his back and sorrowfull life. And at the end of the day after a long long journey, he came home and he just want one warm hug from SS... @raziela 7 minutes ago, rhaps said: Yes, he is selfish. But he still remembers to buy her a present? And he still remembers that she wants that since she was a kid , even when he is already infatuated by MSS. And I think SS herself didnt ask what he has been doing for 6 months, and didnt know that he almost died in the battle vs the horse gank. It is understandable, though ..because she is sad because of MSS. But NQ has his burdens too, like Xia Hou and the Demon sect, as well as MSS, of course. Actually, that's why I love them. They are 2 young people who are still growing and still needs a lot to learn, like learning to appreciate the people around them and to communicate. They are also kids who have been living a harsh life, so perhaps they only consider how to survive and forget about those little things that seemes to be unimportant. So I really wish that the scriptwriter and Director can show us their growth correctly You both make good points! He definitely is a typical man. I think I'm harder on NQ because SS pain is so visible to the audience and I hate seeing her hurting. As a female I think most girls can empathise to some extent with how SS is feeling in these scenes 5 1 Link to post Share on other sites
rhaps 14,351 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Yeah, it's because we are watching NQ 'having fun' with beautiful girls vs SS being desperately alone, so it's hard to imagine the burden that NQ's hold. That's actually my issue since the beginning of this MSS's arc. I dont think the scriptwriter + PD showed a balanced view for NQ-SS. SS is not a weak girl either in the novel, and I dont really like how the drama makes her as a 'victim' and only waits for WGM's help. I like the part when : SS was taken into prison, and she still looked calm and composed. She is really brave and I admire her And from the quarrel scene between NQ-SS in the novel, we could see that NQ felt that SS didnt appreciate all of his hard work all this time, so he burst out. I dont blame any of them, but this is their learning process to be together and, the novel has portrayed it beautifully 7 Link to post Share on other sites
Snow Guardian 1,293 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 50 minutes ago, raziela said: I still think that NQ is very selfish. It's not like he just hasn't seen her for a few days or weeks. He hasn't seen her for 6 months! Anything could have happened. If he truly cared he would try harder to figure out what was wrong or listen to what SS was trying to say. If SS isn't talking then why not ask CPP, the Goldfish gang, the Princess, the girls at the Red Sleeve? He doesn't even ask her what she got up to during his absence. Fact is he doesn't really care enough to find out because he is too absorbed in himself (and MSS). Thanks for the behind the scenes @epinklyn Seems like there is a great atmosphere on set. CFY bullying SS and CPP actors in real life too From their interactions you would never think there is such a big age gap between SYR and CFY! Yes. That's why I called him selfish jerk. And i think tonight I will see him falling down to yanming lake. Seriously, SS should stay away from NQ at least, for few days. Too bad, NQ was injuried and she has to come back and taking care of him as usual. Sighhh... 3 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Snow Guardian 1,293 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 I am dying want to know in the drama, how does NQ feels while he was touring around chang'an city with mss??? Could the almighty aunts showing their mercy to us by explaining his thoughts and feelings clearly??? Does he ever thinking about ss, at least miss her a bit??? He had been away for such a long time and separated with SS, but once he returned, they both act like strangers. Especially with mss in between their relationship and trying to enter their world Seriously, whenever I heard mss's name. I would freak out and feel like being haunted by those anxious feelings (hopefully tonight I wont dream about her). 1 3 Link to post Share on other sites
UnniSarah 59,466 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 7 minutes ago, Snow Guardian said: Yes. That's why I called him selfish jerk. And i think tonight I will see him falling down to yanming lake. Seriously, SS should stay away from NQ at least, for few days. Too bad, NQ was injuried and she has to come back and taking care of him as usual. Sighhh... I agree he is very much a selfish prick but his love and need for her to be by side FOREVER is very touching @Snow Guardian. This kind of affection can be toxic but in NQ's case it isn't toxic. SS has doted on him like forever and she loves him to pieces. Something inside him make him worthy in her eyes. He does do kind things but it is always in the shadows where no one can know about. Everything he does is always in the shadow. 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
satanghaesolim 3,254 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 I love everyone's discussions it helps me to understand and accept the reasoning behind the drama changes better Thank you! Spoiler I also found the reunion of NQ-SS really really sad. SS looked really intimidated by MSS. It was like her home had just been invaded by a bunch of aliens. It was sad seeing her running away and hiding and crying while making the noodles. Props to CPP for being a loyal friend, he even tried to cheer her up by saying they should commercialize the desiccated sour and spicy noodle soup ball to make some silver. Eldest brother was giving all the credit to MSS for helping NQ break the realm successfully. But CPP said that it was all due to the sour and spicy soup noodles he was eating at that time which may have reminded NQ of SS. NQ is still treating SS like a young child he thinks that a simple toy can make her unhappiness go away. Or maybe guys think that there is no problem that a gift can't solve LOL. SS parents are really sweet even the Zeng's servants were sweet and welcoming. I liked scenes with SS in these last two episodes they are showing SS's thought process from trying to accept and imagine life with MSS and her role and position and not liking it one bit. In the next two episodes it should be SS finally deciding that she doesn't want to live in a situation with MSS and finally rejecting the idea coming up with an alternative and running away (and becoming a problem child LOL). I think this thought process is done better than the novel. I have also accepted SS running away from devil NQ. After thinking about it it's more realistic to be scared. If some one you knew suddenly became a vampire and showed you their fangs I guess no one wouldn't be scared LOL. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
satanghaesolim 3,254 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 (edited) 2 hours ago, epinklyn said: Hello hello, what is this? They are asking questions based on this weeks episodes for a chance to win a prize the black thing in the picture. The rest is the broadcast schedule and VIPs get 6 episodes in advance. Some of the questions Spoiler When SS went to the Zeng household what gift did she bring/ What gift did MSS give to SS? Where did NQ go to search for SS? Ho many eggs did NQ find in the rice container? When NQ is writing how many brush pens are there Edited December 14, 2018 by angelangie Mod Edit: Do not quote images 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
UnniSarah 59,466 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 37 minutes ago, rhaps said: Yeah, it's because we are watching NQ 'having fun' with beautiful girls vs SS being desperately alone, so it's hard to imagine the burden that NQ's hold. That's actually my issue since the beginning of this MSS's arc. I dont think the scriptwriter + PD showed a balanced view for NQ-SS. SS is not a weak girl either in the novel, and I dont really like how the drama makes her as a 'victim' and only waits for WGM's help. I like the part when : Reveal hidden contents SS was taken into prison, and she still looked calm and composed. She is really brave and I admire her And from the quarrel scene between NQ-SS in the novel, we could see that NQ felt that SS didnt appreciate all of his hard work all this time, so he burst out. I dont blame any of them, but this is their learning process to be together and, the novel has portrayed it beautifully I totally agree with u @rhaps They made Sang sang look weak. How can she be weak when she shines so brightly. How can they make her appear to be always dependent on NQ and then show how brave she is. There are to many contradictions. They make her appear to be a child of 15 years of age. If she was 12 or 13 years old I would be able to believe her weak personality but in the novel from the age of 4 she has always been the brain behind the operation and NQ would excute it. They tried to hard to change their relationship especially when SS became scared of him once he showed her he joined the devil. Smh smh smh Then we see her no longer scared of him. It does ale sense. Once smomeone scares you , you avoid them not run to meet them head on. It’s like that’s scene never existed between them. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Snow Guardian 1,293 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 19 minutes ago, UnniSarah said: I agree he is very much a selfish prick but his love and need for her to be by side FOREVER is very touching @Snow Guardian. This kind of affection can be toxic but in NQ's case it isn't toxic. SS has doted on him like forever and she loves him to pieces. Something inside him make him worthy in her eyes. He does do kind things but it is always in the shadows where no one can know about. Everything he does is always in the shadow. Your words are so touching I know how deep he loves sangsang. But, in the drama, somehow, I cant take it.... They look like strangers after he returned from wasteland. I just dont like their vibe whenever they are seeing each others. I dont know, right know I only wanna save my phone battery for tonight shows, LOL 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Lynne 23,159 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 20 minutes ago, satanghaesolim said: I love everyone's discussions it helps me to understand and accept the reasoning behind the drama changes better Thank you! Hide contents I also found the reunion of NQ-SS really really sad. SS looked really intimidated by MSS. It was like her home had just been invaded by a bunch of aliens. It was sad seeing her running away and hiding and crying while making the noodles. Props to CPP for being a loyal friend, he even tried to cheer her up by saying they should commercialize the desiccated sour and spicy noodle soup ball to make some silver. Eldest brother was giving all the credit to MSS for helping NQ break the realm successfully. But CPP said that it was all due to the sour and spicy soup noodles he was eating at that time which may have reminded NQ of SS. NQ is still treating SS like a young child he thinks that a simple toy can make her unhappiness go away. Or maybe guys think that there is no problem that a gift can't solve LOL. SS parents are really sweet even the Zeng's servants were sweet and welcoming. I liked scenes with SS in these last two episodes they are showing SS's thought process from trying to accept and imagine life with MSS and her role and position and not liking it one bit. In the next two episodes it should be SS finally deciding that she doesn't want to live in a situation with MSS and finally rejecting the idea coming up with an alternative and running away (and becoming a problem child LOL). I think this thought process is done better than the novel. Yes, all I felt when I was watching their reunion was this heavy feeling that refuses to go away... and all I can think of was thank god Chen pipi was there. Sang sang’s sadness and confusion oozes on the screen..... SYR and CFY acted those scenes very well. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Snow Guardian 1,293 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 7 minutes ago, UnniSarah said: I totally agree with u @rhaps They made Sang sang look weak. How can she be weak when she shines so brightly. How can they make her appear to be always dependent on NQ and then show how brave she is. There are to many contradictions. They make her appear to be a child of 15 years of age. If she was 12 or 13 years old I would be able to believe her weak personality but in the novel from the age of 4 she has always been the brain behind the operation and NQ would excute it. They tried to hard to change their relationship especially when SS became scared of him once he showed her he joined the devil. Smh smh smh Then we see her no longer scared of him. It does ale sense. Once smomeone scares you , you avoid them not run to meet them head on. It’s like that’s scene never existed between them. Totally agree with your argument! I heard many viewers are disappointed with the changes in the drama. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
satanghaesolim 3,254 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 9 minutes ago, lynne22 said: Yes, all I felt when I was watching their reunion was this heavy feeling that refuses to go away... and all I can think of was thank god Chen pipi was there. Sang sang’s sadness and confusion oozes on the screen..... SYR and CFY acted those scenes very well. Yeah it was like SS's heart broke but she's not quite sure why. I want NQ to see how well CPP is treating SS and see that SS is liked by a lot of people as well. 3 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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ningsangcpp 380 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Just started watching ep 47 Spoiler Our Sang Sang just left NQ right in the beginning of the ep hehehe 7 Link to post Share on other sites
Lynne 23,159 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 @angelangie This two gifs hurts me so much! What happen to her is so unfair!!! Spoiler This act of sharing her food while imagining NQ was there is her way of staying sane I guess @ningsangcpp I’ve seen it too.. Looks like @UnniSarah will get her felicia soon 3 3 Link to post Share on other sites
stucked 18,535 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 This maybe sad but I am hopeful. Go on baby! You can do it! Let him realize you deserve better. Oh my heart. Cr oerhath IG Spoiler Spoiler 2 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ningsangcpp 380 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 32 minutes ago, ningsangcpp said: Just started watching ep 47 Reveal hidden contents Our Sang Sang just left NQ right in the beginning of the ep hehehe Update: WOW I just had to say I love ep 47 and I'm not even finished yet. It's so NQ SS dedicated and the background music is lovely. I love it!! And it shows NQ starting to talk to himself and his thoughts 3 3 Link to post Share on other sites
stucked 18,535 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 1 minute ago, angelangie said: seeing her like this hurt me too.....sorry im on SangSang ship i hate seeing her like this...... Reveal hidden contents This. How can you be like this when you are part owner of the house. It’s like she was thrown away. Aaargh. Crying now. Again. Haha. 3 3 Link to post Share on other sites
kiara_bleu 574 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 5 minutes ago, ningsangcpp said: Update: WOW I just had to say I love ep 47 and I'm not even finished yet. It's so NQ SS dedicated and the background music is lovely. I love it!! And it shows NQ starting to talk to himself and his thoughts I especially loved that: Spoiler His flashbacks are of their simpler times in Wei City and before he joined the academy when their whole world was just each other 7 Link to post Share on other sites
stucked 18,535 Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 Just now, angelangie said: i love these parts lols....cause i guess this is when we have NingSang rs being push into another lvl And the background music is just.. haha.. and it does.. you’d know that SS leaving him will just open the floodgates of emotion from NQ.. brat as he is but he got it coming... LOL It’s just funny how SS just has that small body bag on her.. and we all know what’s inside.. SILVER!!! She may be an emotional wreck now but she knows her priorities! Money!!! HAHAHA! 1 8 Link to post Share on other sites
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