I meant to add this to my post earlier but got so caught up in my thoughts.  dhakra there is nothing wrong with what you said or with being honest in what you think.  A mans point of view is not only important it's valuable in fact your being among us as well as other men not only in this thread but others gives us a chance to read a different genders thoughts and feelings. You taught me that after assuming you were a girl LOL!!  BIG MISTAKE!!   It's not just about sharing it's about learning an