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The divorce news is hitting many fans hard. Still it is their pte lives but being celebrities there is no such thing as pte lives sometimes. Again i echo the wise advices of many users here to not spread untrue news abt their current situation.

 

Did sense something not quite rite esp with the wedding ring news, still SJK showed his support for SHK drama n both openly declaring all was well etc. Since we may never know the reason, i do admit SJK shocking announcement seems to put SHK in a bad light.

 

As for the rumours of affairs with other ppl, seriously dun think SJK will do something like tat with the makeup artist or his current co star N SHK will not be having some secret love affair with PBG. There r certain lines one does not cross n believe both Song Song n the so called alleged 3rd parties have better common senses n mortal compass than to do tat.

 

With regards to latest new abt SJK announcement without informing SHK, since both had agreed to divorce the shock is just the timing. For SJK to suddenly annouced n for SHK to find out from media does paint SJK in a bad light. Without pointing fingers, no one (other than couple n families) can say why he chose to act in tis matter. Only time will tell n till then lets respect their privacy. Can imagine how bad it is for them (couple n families) rite now to be hound by press n media.

 

For everyone's sake, esp for their families, hope the divorce proceeding will be without drama n all will be healed with the passage of time.

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I wonder if the distance between them became a realization of what they truly want. To me, both seemed to jump back to work too early. He was shooting his currently aired drama in Brunei while hers was in Cuba and that's not including events and such. 

 

Sometimes, being apart can be tricky to the mind. Because one starts to question things, then it becomes not so strange and more normal to become an individual rather than a couple. A marriage honestly will never work if a couple doesn't grow together. One can't journey alone in something that's meant to be a union. 

 

One thing is certain among rumors and speculations is that the love isn't there anymore for someone in the marriage to call it quits. No one knows exactly what happened and probably won't unless there's proof out there but it's hard to imagine SJK just up and file one day. Something drastic has happened between them for a while that lead up to that. It's that gap where a lot of people are trying to figure out. 

 

If a marriage is worth fighting for a couple will find a way to make it work. It's that simple. No marriage is beautiful everyday. It consists some ugly moments, some questionable moments but through it all there are beautiful and precious moments to balanced everything out. All in all, marriage is somewhat uncertain, the two people that are together has to make sure to keep it on a straight and narrow road. 

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Reminder

 

Pls do not attack each other. We are outsiders and we have no inside knowledge of what actually happened between the two of them. As their fans, everyone is hurting for them however we will never fully comprehend their hurts or the things they are going thru. As their fans, we can only pray for the best.

 

So we hope not to see any more one of u attacking each other from this reminder onwards.

 

Regards,

Angie @LavelyShai @stroppyse @youngatheart

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For those who asked, my perception as a Korean living in Korea is similar to that of others, its sad but we don't know what went on and therefore should not judge. The speculation amongst my friends here is that they simply realized they were very different after their honeymoon phase and separated quietly. Obviously they would move on eventually (I don't consider it cheating if they were separated) and one of them did so they officially filed for divorce. No one knows why SJK filed the way he did but everyone has their reasons and that's up to them. As fans, taking sides just shows you were never a real shipper to begin with. Both can be wrong, both can be right. But making up random things and scenarios and then showing that bias just reflects on you guys as shippers, not them. 

 

Marriage is a complicated thing and sometimes it doesn't work out. I don't get why some people are still like "praying they get back together" because if they don't want to be together anymore then as shippers we should respect their wishes instead of wanting to impose our wants and desires just to keep a ship afloat. These are two real people in a relationship, not just characters in our dramas.

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58 minutes ago, falakmeer said:

I completely agree with you.they really need a counselor not a lawyer. They are not an arranged marriage that they should decide to end their marriage so soon just coz of some personality diff. Its such a tear jerker how fans are begging them to reconcile.some have even started to trend #songsonggiveeachotheranotherchance on twitter.

Fingers crossed what's gonna happen

 

Arranged marriage can work because I happened to be in one :) my marriage is going on 20 years now but frankly it's takes more work than those that have dated before marriage. My husband and I are completely different as far as personalities goes. What he likes, I don't but underneath it all we grew to love each other despite our differences. 

 

Counseling only helps if both are committed to it. But sometimes, one might already come to the conclusion that it's beyond repair so going their separate ways is the best option. Whatever the case between SJK and SHK they have reached a point of no return because to publicly announced a divorce is pretty much a done deal. 

 

There's one question I believe a couple should asked themselves, "can you see yourself living without the other person?"....that either will prevent a divorce or start one.

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EDIT: @falakmeer deleted their post but it said: 

29 minutes ago, falakmeer said:

Own advice?.sorry I dint get you

 

My response: 

 

You're telling others to mind their own business and not judge but you're sitting here judging Song-Song for their divorce. On top of that, you're making up scenarios and speculation that is harmful. Some examples of what you've said are:

 

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seems actor joong ki doesn't know what married life demands.he seems to have fantasized marriage while as kyo trusted him even after going through bad experience in past

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Do you guys think that joong ki's free behaviour with actress ji won off-screen can be a reason.is that what they mean by personality diff. you see it's natural for a spouse to expect reserved mature behaviour from spouse towards colleagues esp females. 

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It's he who has kept himself busy for months .he doesn't have any reason to be angry or hurt
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.its really sad how kyo was afraid of relationship with an actor,how jk made her believe him and marry him.and now he filed for divorce.

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Wish someone comes out to counsell them

 

 

Do you not see the hypocrisy in your words? You're telling others not to judge you but you're judging these two as if you knew the details of their relationship and keep speculating on rumours. I see a lot of bias towards SJK and hate for his actions but you need to understand that these are two REAL people who have made a decision for THEIR lives. Wishing someone could mediate them or blaming one party is disrespectful. So yes, please heed your own advice and remember that YOU'RE no one to judge. 

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4 minutes ago, Learry said:

Source claiming to be close to Song Hye Kyo reveals reason for divorce

The unnamed individual added that the stress from the failing relationship caused the Korean actress to lose five kilogrammes

Posted:28 Jun 2019
 

Interest in Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo’s personal lives has risen to all-time highs in the aftermath of Song Joong Ki’s shocking declaration that he was filing for divorce from fellow A-lister Song Hye Kyo.

Although both actors have asked for the public’s understanding that they will not be discussing the details behind their split, that hasn’t stopped speculation about a third party being the cause of the breakdown of their marriage, which lasted less than two years.

A source claiming to be close to Song Hye Kyo has since stepped forward to give her side of the story, claiming that the Korean actress has been under so much stress due to her failing relationship that she has lost five kilogrammes.

Her drastic weight loss is claimed to be the reason why she has been spotted without her wedding ring on multiple occasions – the band is reportedly too big for her to wear. The source went on to share that the 37-year-old has tried all sorts of ways to try to get the ring to fit again, including layering it with smaller ring so that the band would sit on her finger, rather than sliding off every time she tried to wear it.

The unnamed individual let on that the biggest reason behind their divorce is because the couple do not see eye to eye about starting a family. They reportedly had a huge fight about having children last year, and Song Joong Ki moved out last September because of they could not reach a middle ground.

The former power couple met on the set of 2016 hit drama Descendants of the Sun, and started dating under the radar. They announced in July 2017 that they were going to get married and tied the knot in an intimate ceremony on October 31, 2017.

https://entertainment.toggle.sg/en/hallyubuzz/article/source-claiming-to-be-close-to-song-hye-kyo-reveals-reason-for-11670920

 

 

 

Thanks for the info,

 

If this is true not sure why it wasn't discussed beforehand. Having a child and religion is two important topic that should be brought up while dating. If someone marrying another person knowing they don't want children yet hoping they would change their mind after marriage is asking for a heartache. 

False hope is never going to sustain a relationship. 

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(Sorry I don’t know how to make the text smaller on my phone. I wrote this in a note then pasted here)
 
 

Ok. I’ll start by saying I am not a diehard shipper but I have been upset by some of the responses and the willingness to believe rumours and drag either party through the mud. Please understand that I am here because divorce is tricky and it is neither SKH or SJK who have final say over the statements being made. Their legal teams and agencies will have been over everything as a strategy for divorce proceedings—ugly but true. 

 

First. It is clear that there were no extra martial affairs. Park Bo Gum’s agency would never take legal action if that was the case. Same with SJK. The agency wouldn’t start legal battles if they might lose because the rumours are true. 

 

Second. The source for the “revealing secrets and lies” statement is from an “acquaintance” on his side. Let’s be real. If there was someone close enough to know that and they then leaked it to the media... well they aren’t a good friend to either side or the couple more generally. It is sensationalising and a good headline—click bait. 

 

Third. My gut says that filing separately and without notice is because of disagreements over assets. (More on this below)

 

Fourth. Also regarding his filing separately, it must be very difficult for both of them right now. When people are going through trauma they respond differently. Public image-wise filing separately, before his drama finished was a very risky PR move for SJK. (I do not think he knew there would be so much backlash against her; also he should come out and say that people shouldn’t be going after her but my guess is his lawyers have told him to keep quiet). Meanwhile SKH has stated it was personality differences. That is a real thing. It doesn’t matter how in love you are with someone if there is a fundamental difference in how you want to live your life it can undermine that love. It can be little things or big things—in other words everything from how you live around the house, how you want to spend money, or starting a family

 

Finally

I am a student of language and am very sensitive to how people use words. In his statement the language reflects genuine pain. Hers is distancing—this is a way to protect yourself from pain, it doesn’t mean she isn’t sad or upset. SJK is clearly the more emotional/reactive while SKH is the more rational/less emotional side of the relationship (imo). Both are legit and there is no shame in either approach to life. Nevertheless it can cause huge problems in a romantic relationship. It starts off exciting because there is a natural push-pull but overtime it causes stresses. (I’m saying this from personal experience. When you are that different it takes twice as much work). 

 

BUT!!! I think ultimately their agencies and legal teams are taking different approaches. Personally I think (the way the legal teams are perusing the divorce) is about assets rather than anything else. That is why they are saying he isn’t seeking alimony(as far as I can tell there is no such thing as alimony/spousal support)... therefore one of them probably has more assets and he is willing to just split everything in half rather than determining who gets what. He wants to get out quickly and cleanly and perhaps she is choosing to “quibble” over particular assets—say to split evenly they have to sell property or stocks and she doesn’t want to do that (Say her house). Both are reasonable attitudes... they have both worked very hard to get where they are. 

 

(Example personally I would want to go item by item because the idea of selling certain things for a quick divorce would be really upsetting to me...)

 

Ultimately we will never know. I like to think though that neither party is to blame. Speculation isn’t going to help us or them. True I’ve just speculated that it is assets and difference in how they express emotions—so feel free to ignore what I’ve said.

 

Remember if this is hurting you, you have support from this community. Take care of your health, eat something extra delicious, and go for a nice long walk/take a bath or shower/listen to your fav music. Xx

 

Link to info about divorce in Korea where I got my information regarding alimony. 

https://www.international-divorce.com/d-korea.htm

 

 

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Hi everyone, this is my first time im posting in here but I’ve been silent reader since the first.

I really love to see how everyone cherish songsong couple and also whenever I saw songsong its give believe that love is really beautiful.

I was so shock when the divorce news came out, suddenly it feel really empty. To many question that no one except them can answer, like :

-          How can this happen?

-          How can SJK filled the divorced paper first?

-          How SHK still keep remain silent ?

-          How can they aren’t fight for their marriage?

-          Are the rumours true ?

-          Etc

Well I know no one cant answer except them.

Since SHK is really private person maybe she will remain silent, I wonder how she feel right now. She really hurt because her marriage life, she is hurt because seems like everyone point finger that this is her fault. Can she handle all of this? Will she still believe in relationship?

I know SJK must be really hurt too, we know how much SJK loves her. Its must be really hard decision first. He is head of family so how much he broken until he filled that? He must be really hurt too. He must be hurt that he can keep his marriage life.

How much they go thru until they cant fix something that they build? Both of them must be really hurt.

I cant belive that the couple divorce hit me really hard, I just feel I was broken like them. Maybe some of you thing I being exaggerating about this, but maybe because I just into their relationship.

I’m still hoping they still have negotiation before the final. I hope they remember when they start,when they together and how the cherish each other, I really hope they can go through about this. I still pray to the God that they can reconcile everything maybe it sounds selfish as their fans, but only God can make everything happened.

And if still cant work out I hope they can end it with right way and not hurting each other. At the end they are the couple that have been loving each other so much.

Sorry if my English has a lot of mistake since I’m still learning. And lets us pray for the best.

 

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Butterscotch 2020  thanks for your post it enlighten me and somehow ease the pain for what’s going around. Both are in pain and if only anyone will just leave them alone as it’s their lives and business to deal with not adding more pain by siding and pinpointing whose at fault  will stop this divorce to get more uglier . I can only wish for both to be strong  and hope the pain will not take long to heal for you both can find happiness and joy. Life is shot whatever and how you want your lives is yours to live! Praying for both 

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EDIT: I would like to emphasise that I am not a legal professional, especially not in korean law. I looked it up because I was curious about comment that SJK was not seeking alimony. So any of my comments are based on that rather than in-depth knowledge of the Korean courts and particularly divorce proceedings.

I just wanted to tie this off because it is becoming clear that the reason for [filing separately might be] about who split the money not because anyone did anything wrong. [EDIT: following the comment from @stroppyse I have edited my comment to remove 'contested divorce' and have qualified it accordingly]

I realise most people will not ever read this now but I think it best to make this clean. I also hope this clarifies the new article on Soompi which discusses how they will split the assets. The comments on the article are for the most part misleading. 

1-In Korean law what you brought to the marriage is yours. (exception-if you were unemployed; stay at home mom; etc)

 

2-What you acquired during the marriage entirely under your own name is your. (if you bought a dress with your money, that is your dress it doesn't count towards the total amount... you get to keep the dress).

 

So no one is trying to take anyone else's money. 

 

What the question is: How to divide the assets (stocks, property, high value items like art) SHK and SJK acquired together after marriage. This could be tricky if they bought a house together. If she paid slightly more but he has paid for all the refurbishment--the same amount of money has gone in to the house from each person. But who owns more of the house (and therefore its value) is it her because she put in more money or is it equal because his contribution after purchase was the same.

The article points out that because they haven't been married very long and because the majority of their money was made before the marriage it should be relatively easy. 

The conflict, it seems is that his side want to do a lump sum but her side want to go item by item. Both approaches are reasonable and it is one of the most common problems in divorce. This isn't a question of 'who gets more' but 'how do we split things'. 
 

In context the fact he isn't asking for alimony (let's be clear, alimony is not a thing in Korea), means that his side acknowledge that she is wealthier, she has more assets than he does. Therefore he is not seeking to split the total money 50-50. 

 

A break down (i'm using small, fake numbers to make it easy):

 

Before Marriage:

SKH $100

SJK $80
Couple $0

 

During Marriage:

SKH $170

SJK $150

Couple $50
(total $370)

 

Dividing assets 50-50:

$185 each

(SKH +$15; SJK +$35)--This is not going to happen. He is not making money off the divorce

 

Dividing without dividing pre marriage assets:

Each keeps their money from before and only divide what they got as a couple

SKH $170 + $25 = $195

SJK $150 + $25 = $175
 

The problem could be that to get that $50 divided equally they have to sell things that she does not want to sell (like property).

https://www.soompi.com/article/1335518wpp/song-joong-ki-and-song-hye-kyo-to-reportedly-divide-combined-net-assets-over-100-billion-won 

Finally, regarding the rumour that he is being pre-emptive so that she doesn't spread lies... Ok. Pretty crass way to put things but I think it is referring to the issue of assets. She stated personality differences (I still think this is correct) but he did not want that to be seen as the reason they filed separately. Rather the reason there is a contested divorce is assets rather than an affair or other sensational reason for divorce (abuse or abandonment).

I hope this helps anyone who reads this. All my best.

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43 minutes ago, Butterscotch2020 said:

I just wanted to tie this off because it is becoming clear that the reason for a contested divorce is about who split the money not because anyone did anything wrong.

I realise most people will not ever read this now but I think it best to make this clean. I also hope this clarifies the new article on Soompi which discusses how they will split the assets. The comments on the article are for the most part misleading. 

1-In Korean law what you brought to the marriage is yours. (exception-if you were unemployed; stay at home mom; etc)

 

2-What you acquired during the marriage entirely under your own name is your. (if you bought a dress with your money, that is your dress it doesn't count towards the total amount... you get to keep the dress).

 

So no one is trying to take anyone else's money. 

 

What the question is: How to divide the assets (stocks, property, high value items like art) SHK and SJK acquired together after marriage. This could be tricky if they bought a house together. If she paid slightly more but he has paid for all the refurbishment--the same amount of money has gone in to the house from each person. But who owns more of the house (and therefore its value) is it her because she put in more money or is it equal because his contribution after purchase was the same.

The article points out that because they haven't been married very long and because the majority of their money was made before the marriage it should be relatively easy. 

The conflict, it seems is that his side want to do a lump sum but her side want to go item by item. Both approaches are reasonable and it is one of the most common problems in divorce. This isn't a question of 'who gets more' but 'how do we split things'. 
 

In context the fact he isn't asking for alimony (let's be clear, alimony is not a thing in Korea), means that his side acknowledge that she is wealthier, she has more assets than he does. Therefore he is not seeking to split the total money 50-50. 

 

A break down (i'm using small, fake numbers to make it easy):

 

Before Marriage:

SKH $100

SJK $80
Couple $0

 

During Marriage:

SKH $170

SJK $150

Couple $50
(total $370)

 

Dividing assets 50-50:

$185 each

(SKH +$15; SJK +$35)--This is not going to happen. He is not making money off the divorce

 

Dividing without dividing pre marriage assets:

Each keeps their money from before and only divide what they got as a couple

SKH $170 + $25 = $195

SJK $150 + $25 = $175
 

The problem could be that to get that $50 divided equally they have to sell things that she does not want to sell (like property).

https://www.soompi.com/article/1335518wpp/song-joong-ki-and-song-hye-kyo-to-reportedly-divide-combined-net-assets-over-100-billion-won 

Finally, regarding the rumour that he is being pre-emptive so that she doesn't spread lies... Ok. Pretty crass way to put things but I think it is referring to the issue of assets. She stated personality differences (I still think this is correct) but he did not want that to be seen as the reason they filed separately. Rather the reason there is a contested divorce is assets rather than an affair or other sensational reason for divorce (abuse or abandonment).

I hope this helps anyone who reads this. All my best.

I too would want to clarify something about contested divorce in korea.i studied this type of divorce yesterday unfortunately coz of kikyo separation.republic of korea follows the model of guilt based divorce....meaning the spouse guilty of breaking the marriage cannot file divorce and if filed won't be accepted.the fact that jk rushed to file it while kyo was out of country without even letting her know clearly shows he chose the contested type so that kyo automatically falls in guilty spouse category which pretty much explains why so many fingers pointing on kyo......quiet a disrespectful and unethical way of initiating separation.so jk being the one to file separation has already acquitted himself of any marital faults.division of assets is part of contested divorce proceedings, not the reason. reasons which the non guilty spouse can file divorce from the guilty one fall under six categories.whoever in this forum wants to know these 6 categories can very well check on google as I don't know how to attach exact link here.if someone can show me how to then I will link here .

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On 6/29/2019 at 12:56 PM, gelli aduviso said:

I agree..some of the people here are not shippers for songsong couple in the first place but just butting in and just being nosy about the issue..I am more than hurt and sleepless because I'm concerned about the couple and it pains me more to read that people are making up false accusations and reasons about their divorce...I pray that they can reconcile and resolve their issues privately...I love you forever SongSong couple!!!!

Yes exactly. Im silent reader here but i do ship them from the very beginning & eversince with kyo itself. Let's just pray for both of them. As they've said, let us respect their decisions. Whatever the reason was, it's their private life to protect with. Though sad as it was but the fact that songsong couple exists once was enough to cherish the memories forever... 

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I have to say, from a simple bystander perspective (and I consider myself a bystander because I can’t say I’m the most invested fan), it is quite distressing to read all the news and ensuing speculations surrounding the divorce. As it is, divorce in itself is already a very painful affair. Having the entire world interested in your private pain only adds to more distress. This is almost like Princess Diana and Prince Charles’ divorce all over again.

 

I don’t understand Korean law. Add to that divorce and marital laws. So all I’m getting is what I’m reading here and what the translated articles have said. In my years of interacting with English translations of Korean text and limited understanding of Korean, I realise there are many poor translations out there. Some terminologies used by English translators (whose first language may well be Korean) are poorly chosen and give wrong impressions to non-Korean/English speakers. For example, the use of the word “alimony” when there is actually no such concept in Korean law as I understand it now reading this forum. Regardless, SJK unfortunately or otherwise, comes across as the aggressor now in this suit. Perhaps not so from the Korean perspective, but certainly in the world where I come from, his actions seem very ungentlemanly, and an absolute disappointment from how he had once upon a time portrayed himself as different from other Korean men vis-à-vis his treatment of SHK, someone who it would seem has suffered unfairly in relationships with chauvinistic men. Korean men continue to come across as oppressive and controlling, regardless of what their dramas try to portray of them. All in all a very negative impression and taste I am getting of their culture with regard to how they perceive gender issues. 

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1 hour ago, gilaswan said:

I have to say, from a simple bystander perspective (and I consider myself a bystander because I can’t say I’m the most invested fan), it is quite distressing to read all the news and ensuing speculations surrounding the divorce. As it is, divorce in itself is already a very painful affair. Having the entire world interested in your private pain only adds to kore distress. This is almost like Princess Diana and Prince Charles’ divorce all over again.

 

I don’t understand Korean law. Add to that divorce and marital laws. So all I’m getting is what I’m reading here and what the translated articles have said. In my years of interacting with English translations of Korean text and limited understanding of Korean, I realise there are many poor translations out there. Some terminologies used by English translators (whose first language may well be Korean) are poorly chosen and give wrong impressions to non-Korean/English speakers. For example, the use of the word “alimony” when there is actually no such concept in Korean law as I understand it now reading this forum. Regardless, SJK unfortunately or otherwise, comes across as the aggressor now in this suit. Perhaps not so from the Korean perspective, but certainly in the world where I come from, his actions seem very ungentlemanly, and an absolute disappointment from how he had once upon a time portrayed himself as different from other Korean men vis-à-vis his treatment of SHK, someone who it would seem has suffered unfairly in relationships by chauvinistic men. Korean men continue to come across as oppressive and controlling, regardless of what their dramas try to portray of them. All in all a very negative impression and taste I am getting of their culture with regard to how they perceive gender issues. 

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I have not been following the Song-Song couple other than enjoying them in DotS, and while saddened by their divorce as I am saddened to hear about any divorce since most couples don't marry thinking that they'll get divorced some day, I don't have any particular views on their divorce.

 

However, I did notice comments regarding Korean divorce law in this forum, and wanted to clear some things up. First, let me start by saying that I do not know if the Song-Song couple are having a contested or uncontested divorce. An uncontested divorce can be granted by having both spouses appear at court together and confirming that they both want a divorce. Otherwise, it does become a contested divorce, meaning that one spouse wants a divorce and one doesn't.

 

Regarding the division of the couple's property, a judge does decide that and they do have guidelines and precedents on how to do so, including what assets each party had prior to the marriage as well as assets accumulated during marriage. It's true that there is no alimony, however, a judge may factor that into the asset division if there is a mismatch in terms of the earning power of the spouses. Thus, the less earning spouse may get some assets from pre-marriage even.

 

However, given that both SHK and SJK are earning very nice livings for themselves, I don't think asset division will be a huge issue unless there are things that they attained together where the division is not easily agreed.

 

For what it's worth, I don't blame either party for the divorce, at the current level of available credible information anyway. There is a lot of speculative stuff, both in the media and in various blogs, but very little of it seems grounded in any actual information, regardless of supposed "friends" saying stuff or not. I realize that SJK announced the divorce and may be filing the divorce papers, but I'm willing to hold off judgement on both SJK and SHK for something which must pain them both on a personal level.

 

So, if this thread could at least stay civil as it's grieving and acknowledge speculations as just speculations rather than fuel to start flames, that would be much appreciated. Please note that we are actively moderating this thread at this point, and will try to step in as quickly as possible so that the thread does stay civil.

 

@angelangie @LavelyShai @youngatheart

 

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Hello guys! I'm also a silent lurker in this forum and it is my first time to post. I know what had happened is kinda disappointing and many of us are also dishearted. Many of us started to point a finger who to blame between them. But come on guys, if marriage is not yet the end of their story as well as divorce.. We don't know what really happened between them, but what we can do now as a fan is to extend our prayers to them, maybe to think divorce all over again and decide. We may not know what will happen next but at least we know that we do what we can. Things will certainly happen, we really don't have any slightest idea about future. But praying in to something that maybe many us will believe that is already impossible will never be a bad idea. It may result in to something good or maybe not but at least i know that whatever happens, i did something for them as a fan for the both of them.

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1 hour ago, stroppyse said:

However, I did notice comments regarding Korean divorce law in this forum, and wanted to clear some things up. First, let me start by saying that I do not know if the Song-Song couple are having a contested or uncontested divorce. An uncontested divorce can be granted by having both spouses appear at court together and confirming that they both want a divorce. Otherwise, it does become a contested divorce, meaning that one spouse wants a divorce and one doesn't.

 

Hi, I wanted to say that I have amended my comment. I do not know whether the divorce is contested or not and should not have made a statement that implied one rather than the other. Apologies as the last thing I wanted was to give fire to any further speculations. I merely hoped to outline my thoughts and impressions. best -B

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