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is having a  son while  legally free   an  impediment  to  a  relationship  or  marriage  in  korea? why  should  it  be a  liability,  i  seem  to  think  that korean  society  has  not  been changed  in  the  last  century or so etc.  etc.  as  for  sk  and  jae  young,  jae  young  seems  to  be stifling  her  and there  is  no affection  between  the  two then. just  break  the engagement  and  follow  your  heart.  you  can always  change  your  mind while still  not  married and b etter change  your  mind  right n ow  than  be sorry  later.  korean women  and  men  seem  to be stalkers  and  really  clingy  when it  comes  to  relationship.  what is  jae  young  hold  on  soo  kyung?

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On 1/27/2016 at 2:33 AM, Ldy Gmerm said:

Now JY was foolish a. how did you get your hands on wedding pictures of HT's from 4 years ago (creep) b. did you think that PSK would not know about it? c. is he even aware that HT's wife is dead? Why show pictures of him with another woman who has passed away? JY really miscalculated with that and he will be angry it did not work like he wanted it too. 

the picture is of JY & PSK engagement

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4 hours ago, lauren2b2 said:

is having a  son while  legally free   an  impediment  to  a  relationship  or  marriage  in  korea? why  should  it  be a  liability,  i  seem  to  think  that korean  society  has  not  been changed  in  the  last  century or so etc.  etc.  as  for  sk  and  jae  young,  jae  young  seems  to  be stifling  her  and there  is  no affection  between  the  two then. just  break  the engagement  and  follow  your  heart.  you  can always  change  your  mind while still  not  married and b etter change  your  mind  right n ow  than  be sorry  later.  korean women  and  men  seem  to be stalkers  and  really  clingy  when it  comes  to  relationship.  what is  jae  young  hold  on  soo  kyung?

its kdrama land. In reality   females in  korea  do have  sex   without being   married.  why  do you think  there is like in a  small  area  there is   like  over  50 million  people  there.  its  like rabbits.

1 minute ago, anbud said:

its kdrama land. In reality   females in  korea  do have  sex   without being   married.  why  do you think  there is like in a  small  area  there is   like  over  50 million  people  there.  its  like rabbits.

 

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45 minutes ago, Brenda Capers said:

the picture is of JY & PSK engagement

 

Yes I know..It was included in the spoiler in the same post. See below..But thanks.

" JY possibly has pulled out pictures from his engagement with PSK (the woman in the pictures looks like PSK not Oh Young Chae.) "

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1 hour ago, Ldy Gmerm said:

 

Yes I know..It was included in the spoiler in the same post. See below..But thanks.

" JY possibly has pulled out pictures from his engagement with PSK (the woman in the pictures looks like PSK not Oh Young Chae.) "

since i am new to this thread i didnt see any spoilers....could you please advise how to find spoilers?...thnx...oh and how do you change member name if possible?

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18 minutes ago, Brenda Capers said:

since i am new to this thread i didnt see any spoilers....could you please advise how to find spoilers?...thnx...oh and how do you change member name if possible?

seeing  spoilers  takes away  the   drama of the   series.  what  is the  point of  watching  a  drama  when  you  know the  outcome    of it.lol

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I think JY will end u pushing PSK into a corner and this time she won't stand for it. I think she will fight for what she has and wants with HT. Question is will he?. I see a lot of reluctence from HT to move from his dead wife, he's constantly feeling guilty and once he finds out who PSK is he will feel unworthy and less then her which will give him an out to leave. PSK's lies and unwillingness to be honest with HT will also play a huge part in their demise. 

Now JY's mother pissed me off, if I saw the woman engaged to my son obviously happy with someone else why would I want my precious son to be with such a woman?, but nope its all back to greed and being family with KP group. PSK should've said it right then and there she has no intention of marrying her psychopath of a son.

I feel we might get a damn murder mystery with this drama, seeing that JY is crazy and about to lose all his damn marbles.

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Reading the comments on this thread makes me a bit hesitant to watch this regularly cause it may ended up being a total makjang.  Daily drama writers can sometimes go all over the place with various scenarios that can make my head spin, well  we are in Kdramaland.

I really like the actress playing PSK but writer nim please give her some backbone and don't be to submissive.  I am also guessing that PSK and HT wil get married before she found out that HT's MIL is her bio MOM.  I just wanted to throw Halmoni somewhere she is an evil witch.

 

 

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3 hours ago, Brenda Capers said:

since i am new to this thread i didnt see any spoilers....could you please advise how to find spoilers?...thnx...oh and how do you change member name if possible?

Spoilers are used for a couple of reasons on the forum (in my experience and opinion)..a. to protect those who may not have seen the episode and do not want to read what happened yet and b. to help those who may have slower internet connections not have to waste bandwidth downloading large pictures or video.. 

below is what a spoiler looks like..

Spoiler

 

I normally put video and recaps in them to help those who do not a. want to know before the watch and b. to help those who may not be able to hand the large file down load.

As for how to change your member name you can check under the help section or message one of the moderators. I have never had to do that so I am not sure what the process is or even if you can. 

To view the inside of a spoiler just click on the arrow. 

 

Now every time I see JY i too think he is an inch away from actually killing someone or kidnapping PSK. (this one could happen as he looses his head when he realizes she does not like him and never will.) JY and his mother pushing for that marriage will not have the desired effect that are wanting.

I do agree I think that PSK will see HT be hurt by her not telling the truth and she will fight to be with him. But I think she will have to convince him as well since he is thinking a lot about his wife. It is going to take a lot for him to step away from her memory and move on with someone new. He will feel it is a betrayal to her but I think his son will be a deciding factor and his feelings for PSK.

@ObsessiveCompulsive

I agree if you see a girl your son has been trying to marry for 4 years laughing and smiling brightly with another man and you have never seen that with your son or she calls you "Ahjumma" instead of MIL then there is a reason. I think his mother knows this girl is not into her son but because of her greed to be in laws with that family she will try to continue to force that engagement just like her son. I am sure she know she is obsessed with that girl and his love is all one sided but her agenda is bigger then her sons mental well being also they are going to scream foul when PSK does something like marry HT. If she was going to be ok about a possible break up with her son and not covet that company for him (not sure why he can't take over her company) she would not be buying up the stock. 

That woman wants that company anyway she can get her hands on it. If marriage did not work and her son marrying in to take over then a hostile take over for revenge is coming.

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I think that PSK will have ran off to marry HT before her family finds out who his MIL is and the truth about what happen to her step daughter as well. No way would they allow that marriage if they knew before hand because Halmoni has a lot to hide in how she stole PSK from JS in the first place and lied on her about abandoning that child to her son PST. Then we have PST who has to pay for the crime of killing JS's step daughter and HT's 1st wife. It was an accident but he let another get out and take care of what happen never checking things for himself. Also he will be too afraid of what JS will do and say if she finds out along with PSK and HT.

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I dont think PSK needs to tell HT who she is..since im sure the reason she hasnt told him who she is, is because she wants to be sure he cares about her and not who she is.......what she needs to do is to break up with JY and tell her family and his that she broke off the engagement and that she wants to break up with JY.....I also think PSK is stringing JY along until she is sure of her relationship with HT which is a big mistake on her part...secondly unless her daddy falls head over heels in like with HT the will not be accepted as a boyfriend or husband material because he is: an orphan.....widowed (meaning he has been married before)....has a son.....and to boot when they find out who his mother in law that is going to be all she wrote!!!!!

I doubt very seriously they will run away or elope that rarely happens in Kdrama's if ever......they are going to wait to be accepted and recieve approval..

Which reminds me I am sick of the same senario......couples having to get approval for marriage and the mother crying weeping screaming slapping threatening and saying over my dead body will I agree to the marriage...then after sometime giving in and saying what parent can win over their child.......Writer's.....people come on let's move on from this senario....they do this with people in their 30's..40's...50's...60's....come on now....

And come on really the couple's have to move into their in-laws house with them does anybody live outside their parents home living with your inlaws and because of mother n law like the one's i described earlier could be the reason the divorce rate is so high in Korea....just my observation !

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@Brenda Capersi do agree  with  you.  parents  or mothers  in  particular  rejecting a woman  or  vice  versa  to  be  a  daughter  in  law  even  if  they  are  of  legal  age  is  sickening. i will  not  agree  if  the  couple  is  in  their  teens  but in  their  late  20s  or  30s,  move  on  no  crying  or  wailing  will  stop  that  marriage.  they  are  of  age, 

i  also agree  about  hyuntae's  mother  in  law unable  to  find  her  daughter  in  the  age  of  facebook, google,  internet  as   not  so convincing.  all  you  have  to  do  is google  your  ex  husband's  name,  it  took  her  days  to  decide  whether  to  use a  detective  or not,  how  indecisive.  they  all  live  in  one  place.  it  would  be  harder if  the  husband  moved  his  business in  the  provinces  or  overseas.

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JANG SEUNG JO.....seems like the crazier he gets the finer he gets.....I saw him in I order you and really wasnt my cup of tea...but his appearance in this drama and his character I feel really attracted to him and he keeps getting better looking and I find myself being drawn in....and I have to add his body is even looking so good with his outfits...when he walked up on PSK & HT in the car that crazed look in his face made him look .... sexy sexy...and that stance in that outfit he had on made him look even more super sexy sexy...!!!!!!

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@Ldy Gmerm,

HT and PSK are sure of their feeling for each other but they started off wrong. Both of them are at fault for keeping certain information about themselves to themselves. HT did say once when asked about the child on the phone and he told who he was. Other then that he's said nothing more. I think the part about his wife dying was not made clear to PSK in their conversation at the camp site. By PSK and HT not speaking up and telling each other about their lives things will go south for a moment. The pressure is being put on  PSK by her family to get married to JY to stop the rumors in the company about her and HT. 

Now JY has found out HT has a son and assumes he has a wife somewhere. JY made sure to take PSK to HT's house to prove he does have a family. This is where I think the misunderstanding will come in because these two do not talk. Instead of confronting HT PSK will do her usual and not say anything and will avoid HT and believe he played her and does have a wife. 

As been mentioned HT is feeling guilty towards his deceased wife and kind of hesitant to start another relationship. Then there's JS and his son to consider in him having another woman in his life. 

I think it will be HT who steps up to find out what is going on with PSK and why she's avoiding him. 

 

 

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PSK does need to tell HT who she is before he finds out the wrong way. She has hung out with HT long enough to know he is not the type of man to want her for her family or status. IF anything it would turn him away from her as he would feel not good enough. But the main thing is honesty. You can not start a relationship on a lie and with the way Korean society is HT would want to meet her family and get approval for a marriage or even dating. He would not date her without doing that as he would seek approval from his Mother in Law JS as well since he considers her his family. PSK not telling HT the truth does not allow him to decide for himself to continue to be her friend or more if it came to it and was wrong and it will cost her. 

Episode 20 Video:

Spoiler

 

JY picks up his mom from the dinner he had with JS and the rest and it seems he may be questioning her about HT on the sly and she is telling him about his wife being dead I bet as he seems a bit too attentive to her responses. Later he is smiling and smirking like he has just got what he needs to break them apart. In the end though she will still choose HT over you JY.

Well Halmoni has found out that her daughter in law's friend is JS when she was shown the interview JS did in a magazine. The old woman could not get out of that hair dresser's chair fast enough. She made it home and had to take a pill at finding out her daughter in law  has been in contact with her old daughter in law and she went into a panic pretty much telling the confused woman to not see her or talk to her again more than likely leaving the woman shocked by her yelling at her over her new friend.  Yes, nasty witch you are scared this woman will tell her side to the new daughter in law and this woman will find out where you are.(I am sure her daughter in law already knows JS past just not who the players are in it.)  Is this woman even aware that PST was once married? I guess so and she was also told that PSK or OH Bae as she was once named was abandoned by her birth mother. Mother in law needs to realize the dirt she did to JS will not stay buried for long. She has had 20+ years of her lies to get what she wanted and eventually what she did will come out. 

PST is filled in on his wife meeting his ex and they both fret about it scared but for different reasons. He afraid JS will find them and want to see her daughter and his mother for the lies she has told on JS and to PST about that woman abandoning that child when the woman beat her and kicked her out stealing that baby from her. 

PSK is a little bit too obvious in her connection with HT. As she opens her mouth when they asks about where he is possibly and she blurts out what he replied in a text or just what he is about. OF course they all look at her and wonder if she has been texting him and she realizes what she did. 

She and HT are chatting and he gets off the phone only for that girl to come along and want to say something to her. 

PSK told JY again in this episode that she does not love him or want to marry him of course he did not take it well. She told him she was in love with or liked HT. Of course that set him off to drag her out and drive her to his neighborhood to see him greet his JS and his son.

You could see he was not listening to her and feels that because he has waited for years for her has done all he could to be beside her and that she is the only one for him (his words) that she should be with him because he is in love and obsessed with her. Pulling out the engagement photos to show her that they looked happy or he was was nuts as she had to come out with it making him angry.  

JY shows her HT coming home greeted by JS and his son and PSK had the nerve to cry and be upset. Frankly HT never lied to her he told her when she picked up his cell phone and inquired who the boy was that he had a son. She choose to not listen to him and believe the co-worker who said he told a lie. Also what could JY say is he telling her he is a widow or is he making it seem like he has a wife.  Either way I feel that PSK should not have shed any tears as HT never lied to her. (she keeps making assumptions instead of asking questions. She is the liar and her crying and saying his name as JY stood beside her was crazy. She had no right when HT has never lied to her and she is so foolish and that is why she is stuck with that crazy man JY even when she has told him time and time again she does not love him or want to marry him.  JY will make it seem like he is still married for sure if she is unaware of his wife's death. But the problem is someone his friend at the company or that girl who likes HT will end up telling PSK after she has given HT the cold shoulder for a bit that his wife is dead and he is a widow. By that time she will have to find him and asks him things she should have asked him about before kissing him. PSK will feel like she has been betrayed when that is not the case.

So now that he has shown her the son HT never hid or told him about the wife he had who may have died (although I can't see him telling her that.) I can see him letting HT know about PSK as well who she is or just that she is engaged to him. It will be a divide scenario by trying to separate the both of them. 

This is why PSK should have told HT who she was and that she was in an engagement with JY . Because JY will use it as a weapon to shock and hurt HT a bit and try to distance them. HT is a man that would not have spent so much time or kissed a woman who was engaged to be married to someone else he would have just stayed as work colleagues.. PSK did a disservice to him and herself and she will pay for it too. 

I have a feeling even if he manages to keep PSK for a moment and get her to the alter its not going to last. This girl will wake up and decide to go after what she wants eventually. 

Everyone in this drama has a connection and are either friends,acquaintances or friend enemies. You have JY's mother who is a friend enemy to JS and her loose mouth friend. JY is trying to marry PSK who is JS's bio daughter. PST is JS's ex hubby and father to PSK and he is the hit and run driver that has killed JS's step daughter and HT's wife leaving him a widow and his son motherless. HT is JS's son in law who will end up married to PSK who JY and his mother the friend enemy wanted to use to get in good with her  family. PSK's step mom is wife to PST and friends with JS who is bio mom and has no idea that the people that hurt JS are her Mother in law and her husband and that PSK is JS's daughter. A big fat tangle weave of connections that is going to blow up eventually. 

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Just when i thought i couldn't be more irritated with PSK, I was wrong she has succeeded once again in falling for JY's complete and utter BS. How dare she be upset in thinking HT lied to her, everything about her is a damn lie. What she's going stand there and cry without confronting HT and inquiring about his "wife"?, If she starts giving HT the cold shoulder and believing the person whom she knows to be crazy (JY), I hope he dumps her richard simmons first. What will she have to say once he finds out the liar in their relationship was her? And the only one in a "relationship" was her??. PSK might be kind hearted and nice but she is still a selfish entitled brat as well!

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One of the things I dislike about PSK the most besides her being untruthful about who she is. Is she is the type of person that jumps to conclusions and does not bother to asks questions before letting her emotions rule her. We saw it before when she shows up at the bar and that girl who likes HT is all over him and she gets mad assuming that not only was his SIL a  woman he was seeing (Just because she came to the office to go to lunch with him but because he told her or let her believe she was a girlfriend) but that the girl all over him was with him too. She accuses him of having many women (being a player) instead of just asking him if he was in a relationship. (She deserves to be taken in by JY for not paying attention to what HT told her.)

Now we see this all over again. She asked HT who was the child in the photo and he told her his son. Why she wanted to believe that it was a fib per the co-worker then instead of listening to HT when he told her I do not know (I guess because she liked him and did not want to think he had a relationship that deep with another person and she thinks kids mean he is with someone.) but now she goes and sees him with his son and his MIL and starts crying when nothing he has said has been a lie to her. After the truth she has kept form him she has no right to even feel betrayed or shed tears. I guess she feels that it is ok for her not to admit to being the Chairman's daughter and being engaged but HT should have told her his life story. You can best believe she will be giving him the cold shoulder now thinking he has a wife and has been playing with her. But she is the one who has sought him out and kissed him not the other way around. She played with him when she is actively engaged. His wife is dead. Her jumping to conclusions and going on information from a 3rd party (JY) will bite her as someone will later tell her that his wife is dead and he is not seeing anyone. Either the friend of his or that girl will let it out. Prolly when PSK makes a snide nasty remark about him if asked about him or she is closed mouth when asked a question related to him. Once she finds out that he is a widow (per the convo at the camp grounds) (I hope it is not before she is about to marry JY either she deserves to get close to the alter with him.) she will realize how foolish she was but I am sure by then HT has found out who she is and that she is about to be married to JY by then and will be angry and hurt.

You can't tell me JY does not know that HT's wife is dead.His mother was giving him the information in the car and I am sure he was able to find out by having that team leader check for him as well. He intentionally mislead PSK but then she left the door open for him to do so. Next thing to do is the same thing to HT I bet ,as he will be confused by PSK's immature behavior and cold treatment and JY or the team leader will tell him who she is and that she has been engaged to JY for 4 years thus making him think she was a player. It is crazy for JY to want someone that has not wanted him and just because JY loves her they should love him. Telling her he has waited a long time for her and its time to marry is not her fault as she told you and you knew she did not love him and did not want to marry. Forcing her to marry him will not make her heart turn to him. He will never have her heart. But then he will find this out the hard way as I see a run a way bride coming. 

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