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15 minutes ago, cenching said:

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Nowadays there are lots of female sexual predator who prey on young boys. But they received much lesser sentences than the male counterpart. I am a mother of 2 boys, IF one of my boys is abused by any of those females dog I would hunts her down and make sure that she receives the same sentences as a man....:skull: There were many cases in US where under the influences of the mother in order to gains upper hand in divorce court, daughter made false testament that dad molested her.

 

We should not take a higher moral ground when it convenient. Two wrongs don't make one right....

 

 

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Chingu....It´s like you are in my mind. I agreed with everything that you said. Gender equality should be in all aspekt! 

 

 

 

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25 minutes ago, Sarang21 said:

There is this topic on mind that I would like to ask about your opinion. It´s about the whole Jung Joon Young situation that went down. Now everyone that was friends with him is accused of being involved in that situation or that they had some knowledge of what he was doing. 

 

I agreed to a certain extend...because there is this quote: "Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are". But then I thought to myself can I trully say that I know everything about my friends or that they know everything about me and what I do? There are some friends that I share more about myself then others. So is this guilty by association  fair?

 

What are your opinions?

 

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In some ways I do believe in a Japanese proverbs that say, "If you are unclear about the man's personality, look at his friends". In JJY's situation I would say, innocent until proven guilty.

 

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2 minutes ago, sushilicious said:

In my own perspective why the controversy articles came about and on fire are partly the divorcées & their fans fault that pretty much causes everything to go haywire.

 

Fans wise, if they just don’t start spreading and hype the entire situation nothing would have happened and I believe cause of this hype, the actress then release the nips thing? If that’s the case, it’s pretty much the fans who helped to get to this point.

 

At the same time it feels like a scheme to promote reputation...

 

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In celebrity divorce cases, the public will know what is going on ONLY IF the celebrity involved made an "announcement". As a public figure who has many followers in SocMed, the moment you post something especially the juicy stuffs, it will spreads like wild fire. The reason why a public figure should be careful in SocMed....

 

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1 minute ago, Sejabin said:

 

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like gay men will mostly hang around with gay men too? Or with the girls? 

 

Or calm people will be friend with calm people too. Noisy people with noisy people. Stone headed people with stone headed people. Soft people with soft people.. etc..

 

Like a normal worker will hang out regularly with a well known Yakuza, pimp, convicted pedophile or drug addict. In JJY's case his crime is hidden in his phone and certain circle. Without a solid evidence we can't say that every single mortal around him is involved in his crime.

 

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13 hours ago, sushilicious said:

 

Question to all. Why is it so typical for the guy to be the one to blame?is it possible to have the girl as the instigator?

 

 

This is a difficult question to answer because there is no one answer. I think historically, there are a lot of factors that have contributed to this - some of it @Lmangla had already brought out - that in former generations, women relied on their husbands to provide for the family so the women were mostly confined to managing the home and the children. First of all, this wouldn't have given the woman many chances to meet someone else and second, it was less likely for a woman to want to put herself and her children at a disadvantage.

 

But that being said, this isn't the only reason. I think that we also have to understand that men and women have very different needs. IF we stick to just cheating - men typically cheat physically while women cheat emotionally. I am not saying that this is true in every case but there is some truth in that men seem to be able to disassociate emotion with the physical act while women typically develop feelings first before they get physical. So in essence, it's almost easier for a man to cheat than it is for a woman. 

 

At the end of the day, I do believe the both men and women are capable of being the instigator. It's all about the choices we make on a daily basis. To love someone means to choose that person every day. It takes commitment and constant effort from BOTH parties. Ask couples who have been married for more than 30 years and they'll tell you it's not easy. But one thing they will tell you - that divorce was not an option for them - meaning that they were in it together, come what may. That is what marriage means. 

 

This is why divorce hurts. Because think about it - you've been playing for the same team all those years.. building a life together, working towards your dreams together, having children, looking at the same direction.. then one day, you find that you are no longer in synch and you don't recognize the person in front of you. And if there is a 3rd party involved, that hurts even more because now the special bond you shared with your mate is broken. 

 

I agree with @nrllee in that divorce is never cut and dry and there are a lot of factors to consider. Really then, we must be respectful of the parties involved and let them sort it out on their own. They're the only 2 people who knows what really happened in their marriage and they're the ones that have to live with the consequences of their choices. If they choose to stay together or divorce, it's their choice, their life and they will be the ones to live said lives. 

 

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1 hour ago, Sejabin said:

not too shipper. But I just love them both :wub: :dissapointed: I hate SJK :bawling:

Is this the same hate as you hate KJW? :lol:

 

On a serious note, since both SJK and SHK are keeping quite, it's difficult to guess what might have happened to cause the divorce. So it's better not to go around hating one party. For all we know, he might be the more innocent party. I agree that both parties are at fault to certain extent.

 

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Talking about divorce in non celebrity or people who I know personally in real life, I RARELY want to get involved.  I don't even want to give out much opinions because as a married person myself I know how complicated marriage life is.....I don't even want to get involve in hubs-wifey or lovers quarrels. Because most of the time when they already made peace with each other the outsider who gave advice will become the bad guy....:skull: Usually I only provided  a listening ear....:sweat_smile:

 

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2 hours ago, Sarang21 said:

I agreed to a certain extend...because there is this quote: "Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are". But then I thought to myself can I trully say that I know everything about my friends or that they know everything about me and what I do? There are some friends that I share more about myself then others. So is this guilty by association  fair?

 

What are your opinions?

there are some industries and circles where the word 'friend' is defined very loosely. basically it is all about networking and putting your face in pics in social media. but are they truly friends who you can rely on? who knows things about you? the actual inner circle of many celebs is very small and it is a reason why so many are lonely and fall into depression, addiction etc.

 

it looks like they have this wide circle but in reality, they lead a lonely life with hardly anyone to call if they are having a bad day. so fans automatically saying everyone associated is guilty may not be accurate because the person would have a wide circle -- thats how they network to be successful.and you also have to consider that networking is a matter of logic and business. meaning, you may not like the person but you tolerate them because of the connections etc. so it can be difficult for fans and outsiders to spot on who is the real friend and who is just friend for connections...

 

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9 minutes ago, Sejabin said:

But somehow they still come to us to tell their story. We are too lazy to listen to theirs

kekeke... it always feels like when I am really into watching a drama, I will get a phone call and I am half distracted that it takes me a while to hear what someone is saying on the phone... :sweatingbullets:

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so does this happen to you? there is a great OTP scene like a kiss or hug or some conversation and then a family member walks in and asks what you want for dinner or whats on the news blah blah... and all your OTP swooning is interrupted.... :sweatingbullets:

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17 minutes ago, Lmangla said:

so does this happen to you? there is a great OTP scene like a kiss or hug or some conversation and then a family member walks in and asks what you want for dinner or whats on the news blah blah... and all your OTP swooning is interrupted.... :sweatingbullets:

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I know what you mean...it happens to me a lot...I need a "Do not disturb" sign. Sometimes I will lie that I´m doing something important for university and that they shouldn´t disturb me :joy:.

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I feel sorry for him as it is rather unfair because it was only her claim and nobody can ever find out if it’s the truth or not... even if he denied it, it will just be a he-said-she-said thing. If he is evil, he can just say some discrediting stuff about her, and again, no one will be the wiser. 

 

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