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I honestly don't want to date a guy who's had more than 2 sex partners. That just complicates things both emotionally and physically (health issues, for example). That's my personal preference. And I don't really care if it's "common" for people to have multiple sex partners these days. I try to keep my number to a minimum (I will only have sex if we've been dating for a long time and I can see myself marrying him). So far, I've had sex with one guy and I honestly didn't intend for him to become an ex but oh well. I try to be very, very careful when choosing people to date, I also don't get people who date for the sake of dating. Again, this is my personal opinion and take on relationships and I know everyone is different. I just do what feels most comfortable for me.

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Guest c.odette

it's ok if you're if you're young. Since you're both learning and it's cute and whatnot.

However, at this age I definitely do not want to be the teacher. Leading him in sex or telling him what feels good is another case, but having to teach him how to put on a condom or having him move mechanically back and forth? Geh.

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it's ok if you're if you're young. Since you're both learning and it's cute and whatnot.

However, at this age I definitely do not want to be the teacher. Leading him in sex or telling him what feels good is another case, but having to teach him how to put on a condom or having him move mechanically back and forth? Geh.

Mechanically?

That's definitely not the kind of sex I want! :vicx:

And you can't just stick it in and out and expect us to moan and spasm like those porn stars you've been watching.

^ lol but porn stars moan in a really fake way though lol.

I see people have been watching porn! HAHA :P

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Hmmm but for dating I think it's mutual discovery. Like... I'm 18. I've never been in a relationship  before never kissed before and never even held hands with a girl before. When that girl finally shows up, she knows she must be special cuz I waited 18 years for her. I mean if I have a different girlfriend every year, then if I date you.... it's not that special. As opposed to.... I never dated but you're the first girl that I've ever met that I wanna date. You see what I mean??? But you could make any relationship special cuz relationships are beautiful that way. XD: Oh btw, I'm not inexperienced due to lack of opportunities. Leading and not Leading.... Hmmm I really do believe it's mutual discovery. Dude's will lead if you make it known to them that you want them to. Some you have to teach. It's not a bad thing if you have to teach them what to do cuz by doing so you just had a heart connect that will make you even fonder of each other. Some may need a little to alot of encouraging. Those are the really innocent and cute guys most of the times. They're sweet hearts and are generally more sincere. Reason behind that... Let's just say you arent' serious about this relationship and just wanna have some fun. Would you be nervous about what you do??? Players aren't nervous when it comes to making a decision on what to say to you or what to do around you. But when someone sincerely likes you, they'll get poop nervous about what to say to you or do around you cuz they're scared of making a mistake and screwing everything up. You see my point?? Anyways... yeah.  ^_^

How is it a turn off??? You want a relationship. A relationship is interactive. There will be things that he'll need to teach you too. Teaching a guy something can be really fun cuz then you can tell how much he wants this relationship. By teaching him things, he'll learn more about you and your likes and you'll learn more about him too. I don't see how that's a bad thing.

What the hell are you babbling about?

I see people have been watching porn! HAHA :P

What porn? : :w00t:

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Guest xsilentangel

as a (really freaking) inexperienced girl, i used to want an inexperienced guy only since i deemed them as more innocent and loyal, but hey, reality hit like a brick. i finally realized that their past is important, but not a determining factor of whether this relationship will be a hit or a miss. going back to my earlier thoughts of dating only inexperienced guys, i think inexperience is more of a turn-off now. with me being a noobie too, nights would be a shipwreck as far as i can imagine. i mean, this doesn't mean i wouldn't go into a relationship with an inexperienced guy. i'd actually prefer an inexperienced guy over a very experienced guy.

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Hmm but relationships have more aspects than just sex right?

Are these aspects taken into consideration in your replies or are they strictly focused on physical interaction?

All in all, I wonder who you would pick between an inexperienced but otherwise good boyfriend and an experienced but not so kind boyfriend.

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A sexual confidence and prowess shows in more than just the sack.

Usually persons with healthy sexual experiences are more secure in their bodies, more confident with the opposite sex and place LESS importance on sexual activity in that it's not sacred and thus not as likely to be a stress factor in the relationship. A lot of people feel empowered by their sexuality and that rubs off on other aspects of their personality and their outlook on life in general.

I think I get your point. Sex is part of any relationship. Experience lessen the awkwardness it can generate. Less apprehension gives more confidence and so on. In the end, it's more about a mindset than the actual ability.

Still, it's funny. If not for the answers in this thread , I get the feeling sexual activity wouldn't be as much of a stress factor.

If women shouldn't be expected to moan like pornstars as someone pointed out, men shouldn't be expected to perform as such either. Isn't having a healthy (let alone sexual) relationship part of a general process of getting to know each other, learning about each other needs and wants? Or maybe I'm getting off topic.

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Guest meiming8_1

To be honest, I don't like inexperienced guys. When I was inexperienced I wanted my bf to be inexperienced, but now I'm no longer I don't want to have that sort of pressure. It's just a lot easier if both of you know what you're doing.

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Guest Special1001

I don't mind if he doesn't have any experience. That means we are first hand owner~ I've met a friend (girl) with no experience but she applied everything she learnt thru dramas, mvs, web, songs, etc in her relationship. I found it was so fun. But the main thing i expect from inexperienced guys is they'll definitely bring such an awkward moments in our relationship and its not fun at all. Even if u chat with them, they'll make u sleep. 

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