Guest ax1989 Posted August 4, 2009 Share Posted August 4, 2009 hm.So if a guy has a lot of female friends, but definitely not a player (trust me on this one)...... why do you think that is? Also, do you think if a guy has a lot of female friends, they'd not have any trouble asking out girls they actually like romantically? And how would they act different around the 'special' girl? Any of the guys here have majority of female friends? It sucks how everybody assumes he's a player just because he has lots of female friends but... any experiences? What do you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mannosuke Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 If a guy has a lot of female friends, then I would think he just has a lot of female friends, or finds that he gets along with them better, or simply doesn't get along with guys as much. The number of girls he's friends with does not correlate with his ability to ask you out. A friend is a friend, no matter what gender they are; he will treat his s/o the same way a guy with lots of male friends treats his s/o. It would be logically incorrect and even rude to assume he's a player, but I can understand why considering how most members of society cannot be bothered to put any additional thought into a situation before jumping to silly conclusions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AzNsk8er4Lyfe Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 well if he's not a player, maybe he's more feminine than other guys, or maybe gay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ReadyToRead Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I can relate to a guy who has "many" female friends and you got to understand that having a ton of female friends doesn't necessarily make it easier to ask a girl out. I think I have so many female friends is mainly because of connections with other friends (networking basically if you want to put it like that LOL) and me being able to connect more "conversationally" with female than my male friends. I mean it's definitely easier to talk to girls on a lot of issues and problems that you'd probably never talk to your guy friends about with guys you don't really "TALK" But then again I am somewhat of a flirt/player/etc, :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest saranghae<3 Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 One of my longest friends is a guy and he hangs out a lot of guys. He was made fun of in grade 6-8 but it has been a lot better now. He is NOT gay, he just gets along with girls better, and definitely not a player. Hes the only guy my parents let me hang out with one on one xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Metamorphosis Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 my experience with guys with a lot of girl-friends is they LOVE WOMEN, not woman.. if not, then they're really nice/down to earth or gay =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LazyAzian Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I have lots of friends that are girls, more than guys, because I get along with them better. I'm gay, there's different types of gay people, I happen to be the softy gay, so I get along with girls and my guy friends are softer to me . . . Just because you're gay doesn't mean you hangout with a lot of girls, there are gay guys that get along with guys better. Basically, you won't know until you really get to know the person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest angelZ Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 My personal experience is that they're gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest It4cH1 Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 In high school. I had tons and tons of female friends. no im not gay. I grew up with an older sister, so i relate to females better imo. and eventually i started liking some of my friends, but who wouldn't... but who knows, you can be that friend. guys who have more female friends, tend to understand females better in a relationship. Why? Because they have basically been in a friend relationship with several females. If you hang out with only guys, you think like a guy. If you hang out with females, you eventually learn about relationships from the other side of the mirror. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest xyunaxfantasiesx Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 ...is gay..j/k My friend has MANY female friends, and when I first met him, I thought he was gay. However, he's apparently not. I'm just waiting for him to come out of the closet. lol Some guys just know how to listen and be a good friend I guess? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 한스 ㅋㅋ Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I don't see how having many girl - friends is something wrong or even hard to do. I know at least 15 girls without thinking. I don't think it matters much. You can just be friends with a lot of people even if you don't have any certain interesting qualities. It starts to change if you're seen alone with many girls, or maybe always seen with a different girl 1 on 1. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lala4ever Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 my first thought is that they're feminine. and girls like that ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lovesicles Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 my boyfriend has a lot of female friends. especially when he was in high school. at first, i thought he was gay. :l Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dreamyxxx Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 i had a guy friend who mainly hung out with girls and he was definitely not a player later, he confessed to me that he was gay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Xahns13 Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 Ha, I've been one of those guys since first grade, and it doesn't really mean anything. I'm nowhere near a player (I'm keeping faithful to my girlfriend <3 ), and from that, I'm not gay xD I think it's just 'cause it's easier for me to get along with girls. And I guess I'm feminine? Idk, but apparently girls want my legs o_o But anyways, it doesn't really mean anything. Sure, it MIGHT mean that they're gay or just really feminine, but generally, it doesn't mean anything. But unfortunately, some people have thought that I was gay, even though I'm not T.T Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest deportedkorean Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 My personal experience is that they're gay. lol...yeah...I've noticed that too (or that they're very in touch with their feminine side). But that's only if they ONLY hang out with girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest aznpridefolife441 Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 haha the girls are just jealous i see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jobenLOL Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 im a guy and pretty much almost all of my friends are girls & i have a few close guy friends too. idk i just get along better with them, alot of the guys where i live are a bit..... immature? they just annoy me so much LOL. so yeahh since i do hang out with mostly girls i think its harder for me to ask them out, cause i see them as just a friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest onhotwires Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 If it makes you feel any better, I have a guy friend who has a lot of female friends, as well as a girlfriend. And she ain't got nooooootthing to worry about lol, just ask any of his female friends. If we didn't go for him before, we're not going for him now. That's not every case, but I'm just throwing this out there. why do you think that is? it can just be circumstances. it just sometimes ends up that way Also, do you think if a guy has a lot of female friends, they'd not have any trouble asking out girls they actually like romantically? Us girls can give pretty good advice. B] And how would they act different around the 'special' girl? He's nicer and would obviously go the extra extra mile to be w/ her and to help her out. He ditches the female friends for you, lol. (not like permanent ditching...but say he's hanging w/ some of them...and he walks over to you and spends more time talking than he should.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ax1989 Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 Thanks for all the replies. It helped. Well he's definitely not gay, nor is he at all feminine. He enjoys fixing automobiles and working out and hunting and.. all that 'manly' stuff. Though he seems really mature for his age, and somewhat sensitive, but not in a cliche way - he just likes to talk to everyone (though most happen to be women) and he is a friendly bloke. I think he's just a really nice guy.... (who happens to look like Robert Pattinson ! ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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