I Like Him But My Pride Is Too High

[kirra12]

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I dont know why, but since I was young,

I always end up 'ignoring' guys that I have a huge crush on.

In school I have a lot of eyecandies and usually those are the ones that will end up being my bfs,

instead of the ones I really like, since I can't seem to look them in the eye and having comfortable conversation.

I often bump into the guys i like (just because i know where to find them T.T)

and yet, when they look at me, I would automatically pretend that i didnt see them.

This happens all the time and I'm starting to worry cause I'm getting older, T.T

I am not sure how to 'lower' this pride..

HELP?

(and this is my first time asking help, cause right now, a guy that I like becomes a classmate of mine this quarter)

Edit : Seems like i got it down wrong,

well anyways.. yeah, whatever it is that im having a problem with,

idk still how to solve it, like i said, i cant even make any eye contact yet,

is there any way to make this thing gone?

[Guest chopstick^^]

I don't get what pride ur talking about? .. U just seem shy.

[Guest squishybear]

It's not a 'pride' problem.

You're nervous and shy around the guys you like. It has nothing to do with pride, in fact, it seems like the opposite. You're embarrassed. Which is perfectly natural and normal. Just make small steps like first making eye contact. Then after you master that, try having a small conversation. Then eventually work your way to being his friend.

[Guest koiey]

I don't get what pride ur talking about? .. U just seem shy.

yeah o.O I don't get it.

the eye candy guys are the ones you make your BF..

does that mean the ones you like aren't eye candy looking?

and you're embarassed about what they look like?

[Guest Painterlyy]

Hm...maybe you just have got to find a guy that means more to you more than your pride.

[kirra12]

Seems like i got it down wrong,

well anyways.. yeah, whatever it is that im having a problem with,

idk still how to solve it, like i said, i cant even make any eye contact yet,

is there any way to make this thing gone?

yeah o.O I don't get it.

the eye candy guys are the ones you make your BF..

does that mean the ones you like aren't eye candy looking?

and you're embarassed about what they look like?

no, they are candy looking, and i am not embarrassed bout them at all ^^

its just that i couldn't have eye contacts with them,

for whatever reason that is..

[Pogichinoy]

Be around them more often, and hopefully that will break down the walls and make you feel more comfortable looking at them in the eye.

[Guest jollyrancher]

it's not "pride"

since you like them a lot you just can't get over the awkward ness stage

as my friend always told me, "just. say. hi. it won't kill you."