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ugh !  i have the most horrible day ever !

I left my volunteering in the hospital early, because of my "girl problems"

If some girls know what im talkin about...

( guys may not be.. xD. but anyways... )

I felt bad after wards and im scared that the volunteer staff members

will kind of kick me out of the volunteering...

T_T Its not my fault that i have "Girl problems" ...

I know i should ignore it.. but i just can't,

ive been moody sooo long... and i have been waiting it

to come for so long, and i didn't want it to come on Wednesdays... Which

it will suck even more because you know... Moody.. and everything !!!

I still feel bad now. :( im afraid.

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I updated the Soompi app through Apple and they don’t have the same stuff as this. Where are the forums and etc on the updated app? I had to use the browser to get on the forums.

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I dont know if this is right place for this but today is day 4 of bad few days. I met a sweet guy on a language app and it was fine at first then it grew into more, talk everyday ,always good morning and good night. It has grown to be much more intimate pretty much just without label of bfgf,as he didn't want to confess it in chatroom(kakaotalk). Hes pretty much said I will and should be his gf. Anyway we r very intimate both of us and he does get moody ...misunderstanding of words meanings but he just goes quiet or huffy.. but all works out. Friday morning he was all happy, liking photos;) and we even talked about carving pumpkins for next Halloween so future thinking.. I asked for a voice call in evening..(havent had one in the 2months I've know him) and he was no why r u obsessed with them..I said y do u not want one..his reply because I can not talk to you fluently. I said in 2months we will be in person, so I thought ud want some practice, then I said I'll stop asking if u want. Then he went quiet.. no good morning on Saturday..didnt read my emoticon till late (I didnt msg at all Saturday just emoticon cos I thought he was busy cos he always say hi first time diff.  Then sunday didnt read my messages all day.. or night and monday the same.. I tried to voice call to see if hes physically alright  but nothing. I dont know if hes blocked me, I can see his profile and everything.. but I know he hadnt left the chatroom(I accidentally did) but it still showed him there. So he can see if my picture changes and his hasnt.. but I dont know what to do... do I just wait.... he knows that I dont know that going quiet on app means bad thing he always said we have full lives and so it's ok if we cant talk all time. But I'm freaking out as I dont know what's going on and I dont have any other way to contact him.. but he said only last week I was his favourite woman how he like message platonic and sexually ,perfect love (his words). Could he be just mad and needs time??? I really dont understand but I dont think hed just go...help.

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2 hours ago, Duracell Bunny said:

I dont know if this is right place for this but today is day 4 of bad few days. I met a sweet guy on a language app and it was fine at first then it grew into more, talk everyday ,always good morning and good night. It has grown to be much more intimate pretty much just without label of bfgf,as he didn't want to confess it in chatroom(kakaotalk). Hes pretty much said I will and should be his gf. Anyway we r very intimate both of us and he does get moody ...misunderstanding of words meanings but he just goes quiet or huffy.. but all works out. Friday morning he was all happy, liking photos;) and we even talked about carving pumpkins for next Halloween so future thinking.. I asked for a voice call in evening..(havent had one in the 2months I've know him) and he was no why r u obsessed with them..I said y do u not want one..his reply because I can not talk to you fluently. I said in 2months we will be in person, so I thought ud want some practice, then I said I'll stop asking if u want. Then he went quiet.. no good morning on Saturday..didnt read my emoticon till late (I didnt msg at all Saturday just emoticon cos I thought he was busy cos he always say hi first time diff.  Then sunday didnt read my messages all day.. or night and monday the same.. I tried to voice call to see if hes physically alright  but nothing. I dont know if hes blocked me, I can see his profile and everything.. but I know he hadnt left the chatroom(I accidentally did) but it still showed him there. So he can see if my picture changes and his hasnt.. but I dont know what to do... do I just wait.... he knows that I dont know that going quiet on app means bad thing he always said we have full lives and so it's ok if we cant talk all time. But I'm freaking out as I dont know what's going on and I dont have any other way to contact him.. but he said only last week I was his favourite woman how he like message platonic and sexually ,perfect love (his words). Could he be just mad and needs time??? I really dont understand but I dont think hed just go...help.

So...do you guys think I should just wait.. as he cud just be thinking language barrier might be a prob...we clicked and I'm going out of mind with what to do? Dont say move on, as that wud show I never cared for him which is wrong because we both pretty much were in like like (he emphasized on the "I like like you" alot).

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On 11/15/2019 at 3:35 PM, Sushimi said:

I take friendships very importantly. Cause never really had one good one. That friend is still the best friend that I once had.. It’s hard yeah..we were very close. Now she got new friends and she just throws the friendship away :) she never listen to my problems and just left.

 

My friend, I understand you. I am a girl and I consider my friends as sisters, so I feel sad when they change, it is logical to feel sad

 

Don't expect much from people, they always break their promises, only true family can be good like parents and siblings (not always but some people are lucky in their families )

 

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So my best friend just confided in me that she often dreams that her husband is seeing someone else behind her back? Should she talk to her husband about this? She kept insisting that its not a good idea to tell him about it because it may really happen... some old wives' tales. But oh well..

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On 11/15/2019 at 3:27 PM, Sejabin said:

Why a friendship with a girl can let you so brokenheart like this? :relieved:

and your words seems you are falling in love and not the words for just casually friendship.

I would never being this sad for any of my girlfriend because we are girls. If we met handsome men sometimes we forget our friendship LOL 

 

I think sometimes when you are school age, you have friendship with classmates :) 

 

you know at that teenage stage, you are still young, and you study together, go out together, etc etc (I know @Sushimi is 20 :) ) 

 

so still fighting over a guy  is not yet a big issue lol

 

but later in workplace, it is different. girls fight over each other's fiances even husbands, so like you say, fighting over handsome men :) 

 

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4 hours ago, Sejabin said:

Her sentence “hang on to something that is even wasn’t there..” 

 

what is this?????????? and she changed her name on the phone as her real name.. ???? I never put dinni name and alief name on my phone like my baby or my love or anything 

 

It is loneliness :( 

Sometimes people use word "my best friend" or anything

 

I use people's name too just like you :) 

 

you are right, no need to use nicknames :) 

 

it is good you are married :) I didn't follow, but last time you were in love, so you married your guy, late congratulations  :wub:

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18 hours ago, Sushimi said:

 

What if I tell the both of y’all that she is the one who typed it? What’s wrong with changing it back?

 

It is OK :)

I understand. You believed her when she wrote her nickname :) , but later when she changed towards you, you tried to get over the problem, and considered the friendship over.

 

I know that betrayal is painful :(

it happened to me often. Don't be surprised. That's life

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13 hours ago, Sejabin said:

@Sushimi you let others to touch your handphone? Even my husband can not touch my handphone without my permission lol or we will have world war 3 qeqeqe 

 

really my friend, you have the best sense of humour lol, me too, no  one dares to touch anything belonging to  me, I start screaming right away :D 

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