Having A Bad Day? Wanna Rant? Right This Way!

[Guest ericwilliamson]

Hay Guys...

I am   Eric Williamson from USA. I am new to this forum. I want to join this community to know little more about more and more people. 

[oryxncrake]

There's something about me that people are compelled to disrespect me in any way they wsh. I can't imagine them treating somebody else the same way. 

[rectitude*]

No matter how much I try to understand her, I just can't.  Why is she being so pathetic?  It's her life, not mine, but I can't stand it.  When will she open her eyes and see her worth?  Why is she acting that way for such a worthless guy?  I will never understand.

[nn_nn]

I am upset when boyfriend thinks "calling me" as the most highest precious present that he give me for the day. Jeesh! call me because you miss me, you want to hear my voice and etc not because I want you too! yeah I want him too! but if you keep doing that I will eventually get tired

[CamelKnight]

3 hours ago, nn_nn said:

I am upset when boyfriend thinks "calling me" as the most highest precious present that he give me for the day. Jeesh! call me because you miss me, you want to hear my voice and etc not because I want you too! yeah I want him too! but if you keep doing that I will eventually get tired

Painfull! I feel for you

[nn_nn]

10 hours ago, CamelKnight said:

Painfull! I feel for you

 

Thanks boyfriend just disappointed me as the day pass. The last time when we fought, it is because he doesnt want to call me back after his dinner. We barely spoke for no more than 30 minutes. I was like oh, call me back later okay? he was like nope! I am going to call you tmr. My respond was I am going to be upset if you dont call me back and he got angry with me. With my stubborn personality I end up getting angry back! Few hours later he called me, i asked why he said he thought back about what I said when we first start dating & he wants us to be long term leading to marriage. he didnt want to just have small things ruin us as a whole. Well if he have the thought to think and say that why cannot he do it!! Told him before that action speaks louder than words; I dont want to hear sorry and he stop saying "I am sorry" to me 

Oh and he told me the last time we spoke! that I should be happy & lucky that he calls me !! f* you lol I didnt want to make a big deal out of it then I just made comments on it but I need to talk to him about it once he gotten better (hes sick! btw)

*****

I have learned a lot about myself as an individual and as a partner with you. I realize I have a lot to improve & learn from. One of the most important ones are immaturity & self-love. I need to trust myself, trust us and be more mature. I need to not act rash upon the situation. I need to not check your phone coz if you cheat you wouldnt be stupid enough to leave evident on your phone. If you want to be with her you would've long before I came.

breath girl breath 

live and learn

laugh through the struggle and just live girl breath girl breath LOL

[CamelKnight]

48 minutes ago, nn_nn said:

 

Thanks boyfriend just disappointed me as the day pass. The last time when we fought, it is because he doesnt want to call me back after his dinner. We barely spoke for no more than 30 minutes. I was like oh, call me back later okay? he was like nope! I am going to call you tmr. My respond was I am going to be upset if you dont call me back and he got angry with me. With my stubborn personality I end up getting angry back! Few hours later he called me, i asked why he said he thought back about what I said when we first start dating & he wants us to be long term leading to marriage. he didnt want to just have small things ruin us as a whole. Well if he have the thought to think and say that why cannot he do it!! Told him before that action speaks louder than words; I dont want to hear sorry and he stop saying "I am sorry" to me 

Oh and he told me the last time we spoke! that I should be happy & lucky that he calls me !! f* you lol I didnt want to make a big deal out of it then I just made comments on it but I need to talk to him about it once he gotten better (hes sick! btw)

*****

I have learned a lot about myself as an individual and as a partner with you. I realize I have a lot to improve & learn from. One of the most important ones are immaturity & self-love. I need to trust myself, trust us and be more mature. I need to not act rash upon the situation. I need to not check your phone coz if you cheat you wouldnt be stupid enough to leave evident on your phone. If you want to be with her you would've long before I came.

breath girl breath 

live and learn

laugh through the struggle and just live girl breath girl breath LOL

 

You can do it!

Seems you're (still?) acting out of emotion instead of taking a deep breath and think before you respond. Understandably, since it's something that matters to you. However, especially in cases where the situation involves something dear to you, it's often best to take a step back and bite your tongue for a few seconds before responding. Think, why does he act that way? What's making him tick? You already know when you don't take a deep breath, you'll bite his head off, with the obvious loversquarrel following suit. It's the quickest way to the end of the relationship.

Instead, hold it in, wait a bit before you respond. Is it necessary for you to go off on whatever he did or would you be able to let it slide?

One of the reasons why my marriage is doing so well, is simply because we both were fed up with the constant bickering in former relationships. We both decided to step back and simply talk instead of shout and scream. It still happens on occasion that we simply misunderstand and we end up fighting. But in the 7 years I've been with my wife, I've had less fights than I've had with women I've had relationships for less than 6 months.

Breath girl, breath. Zen is the way to go

 

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Oh yeah, rant. Erm... I hate it when my cookies are downstairs and I'm upstairs. Curse you cookies! For making me get up and... oh look, cookies!  

[nn_nn]

3 hours ago, CamelKnight said:

 

 

it is how he said it that makes me pissed off. 

"you are lucky that I call you. I hold my bathroom #2 to talk to you. what is it that you want from me?" 

whenever he call me, it would be around 10-11ish and then we only talk for less than 20mins

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I want in&out but I cannot have it !!!

[CamelKnight]

10 hours ago, nn_nn said:

it is how he said it that makes me pissed off. 

"you are lucky that I call you. I hold my bathroom #2 to talk to you. what is it that you want from me?" 

whenever he call me, it would be around 10-11ish and then we only talk for less than 20mins

Quality is not measured by the amount of time you spend together, but what you do in the time you have together. Make the best of those 20 minutes if that's all he's got

[nn_nn]

@CamelKnight you are so positive !! seriously, i still have heeds to learn

[lollibap]

I keep switching on a cycle of feeling really confident and great and feeling that I have no future for myself and that I'm a failure. Today's one of the low point days...

[DFO-King]

Sick for 2 weeks. Took 2 weeks to regain strength. Failed hard trying to bench heavy today. 

[nn_nn]

Feeling lazy! I want to sleep but then again I want to eat

[Howlol]

Fangirling is suppose to be happy, not suppose to give people trust issue 

 

 

[CamelKnight]

Damn ungratefull sob's. Wait to go to thank for me working my butt off for months to get you what you guys wanted only to slap me in the face the day it's finally taken care of. Ugh. I'll rethink doing that again next time something like that comes up.

[Howlol]

I assume it's a nightmare, but some of the elements are things that will be happening so ._.ll

 

[belle_kd1413]

I think everyone here hates "young" people. Ugh.

[GiaGia]

Not sure if I'm mad because I'm hungry or mad because I don't have an appetite and don't know what to eat 

[Howlol]

I shouldn't have done this 

Especially X. X is my favourite so why did I do this and it's just a few days before X.

I am such a bad person  It's not something major but this is so rude of me

Saying sorry won't make any difference, I shouldn't have done it in the first place

 

[Howlol]

I should stop doing it.