Guest Apple.Mint Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 For me it's like i want a guy with good personality but decent looking enough that I won't puke if we kiss..or if we touch. This guy is rather sweet and nice to me [he likes me] but..no matter how hard i TRY, i cant get over his physical attributes.. even though he's tall [6ft, something i loooveee] but but..he's chubby..and his face..oh lord I know it's so shallow but like iono why i can't get over it! the last guy that i was a bit attracted to he had really bad acne but he was so sweet i didnt care how he looks hahah so after this experienced i would say 70% personalities and 30% looks =] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Babiebim Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 well for me, physical attraction has to take place before any personal attraction. I have to be at least interested in his looks first to start noticing other things about him. Yea, I know, so shallow. But if the guy is a pigheaded beauty, still no, I can't stand stupid people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest clear_blue_rain Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 i'll be honest my bf is not the most handsome guy ;; but he does have the sweetest personality that all my friends are jealous of!! XD he's soo sweet its definitely the personality idk but when my parents see him... they'll be like, "how come you didn't get a better looking guy?" my defence:: because nobody has a personality like him XD hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Black.cherry Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 Both.I've met ugly guys who want gorgeous girls and arrogant dudes who think they're perfect. Physical attraction is the main reason why i'm attracted to him if I dont know him initially.Good personality is def a good sign for a relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ra.jann Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 Frankly speaking for me, looks first then the attitude. XD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest klassikm3 Posted December 4, 2008 Share Posted December 4, 2008 hey i think i know what song ur talkin about! its on my myspace! is it rob thomas? little wonders? but yea to be honest i would go for physical attractions. but everyone knows in the end it comes to personality Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coolcoke. Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 I'll be totally honest and shallow, but I don't 'think' I can't be with someone if I'm not physically attracted to them. But I can't be with someone who I don't like personality wise either. Both personality and pyschical attraction matters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest o__xmonii Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 i think.. sometimes physical appearance shapes the way u associate with them/talk towards them in the future. and after that.. personality defines whether u think positively or negatively abt them.. and like or hate them lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Desda Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 personality over looks all the way. at a glance, first impressions are important, in other words, their looks. but afterwards, if you stay with them due to their looks, you might regret it. and of course, afterwards, you get to know all the guys around you and not just the 'better looking ones,' you might find yourself attached to the right one. you might even learn to embrace all their disfigurements Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mary-xo. Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 Honestly, id pick personality over looks any day. Of course, looks is what catches your attention, and makes you want to get to know that person more. But personality is what you makes you fall for that person. And personality can make imperfect person perfect.if that makes sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest domoarigato Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 omg. this might sound shallow.. but sadly from my own experience... the physical attraction needs to occur first ... even the littlest.. if that person is FUGLY.. no matter how good their personality is... its just not going to cut it... sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest EHNerJI Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 looks are what grab your attention, but the personality is what keeps it. lol xD personally, i will become 'attracted' first, like if he's goodlooking or w.e i'll be like : D and then when i get to know him better, if he has a great personality too then.. XDD like, the guy i like now, i first noticed him because i thought he was cute : 3 but then i got to know him better and i really liked ... him XD if his personality was crap, i'd prolly just have a crush on him.. the way he looks. nothing more haha. so for me, personality is more important, but that doesn't mean that physical attraction doesn't. it does, just not as much =/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mintchoco Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 It truly is about personality. ...or at least how both your personalities mesh. My friend dated a model who he said was gorgeous; but her indecisive and submissive demeanour made him end the relationship. He said women should be strong and opinionated. Confidence is key. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lovenotee Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 yeah its about personality.. looks first tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest plumangel3 Posted December 6, 2008 Share Posted December 6, 2008 same for me. ^^ its a mix of both. looks get my attention but then if their personality is horrible then its such a huge turn off for me :S lik right now, my crush is pretty much based on looks cuz i think he's such a cutie ^^;; thats why i want to get to know him more before i can truthfully say that i like him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gisbiz Posted December 7, 2008 Share Posted December 7, 2008 physical attraction's like fashion. it goes out of style quickly. while personality's like an old classic movie that you can watch over and over. i'd definitely stick to the classic movie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest p a r q u e. Posted December 7, 2008 Share Posted December 7, 2008 Personality. The guys I really liked weren't even that great looking. & my mom says DaeSung is ugly, but I like him. LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ponta Posted December 7, 2008 Share Posted December 7, 2008 Looks are always first, come on your first impression is what you see. But talk to them a bit, whether or not they look good or not, their personality will show. Either way in the end if you love him/her, all the little things you don't like won't even matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WendiiE Posted December 7, 2008 Share Posted December 7, 2008 I would choose personality first. I really don't like guys who are good looking with a bad personality. It just ruin the whole thing for me. lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spark Posted December 7, 2008 Share Posted December 7, 2008 there has to be physical attraction present in order for anything to really start. the personality will just add to the guy's attractiveness ;] but i love looking at hotties ehehe eye candy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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