Guest Regrets Posted January 31, 2009 Share Posted January 31, 2009 i like personality but the person has to look at least decent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kryiss Posted January 31, 2009 Share Posted January 31, 2009 honestly for me... the type of personality that i like in a guy is really hard to find... but if there's nothing about his appearance that i like physically.... then i would not be interested in dating them. i would always be interested in dating someone because of their physical appearance first and then i'll see if their personality is up to par later on. it's even in our human nature to find mates based on their physical appearance to make good offspring in the future. yes as strange as that sounds but it is true >.>. and anyways, people's personal physical preference are all different... so i'm sure that everyone will find the right person for them no matter what they look like :] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Aimiko Posted January 31, 2009 Share Posted January 31, 2009 Truthfully, I care a lot of people's appearance. I find it quite important..but if you're decent looking, that's good enough for me already. However, even so..I often find myself liking guys with a beautiful personality too. And no, they're not ugly somehow.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest starstung Posted January 31, 2009 Share Posted January 31, 2009 Having both is great but if I can't stand listening to that person speak (probably because they get obnoxious/cocky/self-absorbed and not as a joke,) I rather just have the personality. Just my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest KOGEPANN;) Posted January 31, 2009 Share Posted January 31, 2009 Although the physical attraction comes first and personality makes things waay more definite in some cases, I think it's also possible for attraction to develop later on in the relationship, I'm talking from personal experiences where I've went for guys where the scale was favoured more on the personality than physical appearances side, the thing is that their personality made them attractive to me. strange huh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yokoya LL Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 I choose personality over appearance. Although the guy has to be at least decent. But if the guy has a wonderful personality, it will probably make him the best looking guy ever to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest A-Jaey Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 What attracts me is the physical appearance. What keeps me is the personality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cherrierus Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 ^^ I agree!! Personality plays a huge part, but you may not know their personality unless you spend time with them, and normally when you are physically attracted to that person you try to know them better. Even so, there are also cases where you just get to know someone through school and school activities or camps where you have to learn teamwork where you really get to know a person. My experiences, then you grdually get attracted to their personality and physically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sixth. Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 i'd love to say i go for personality, but really... the physical attraction is just so important. i mean, yes, personality is good too, but for me, no matter how good the personality is... if i can't get that physical attraction, it's just not good enough for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MsChen Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 I go for physical attractions first. Then, I get to know the person and then I weigh personality over the physical attraction. It's always good to find someone that's good looking and has a great personality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest playedescapade Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 lol so general question: do you think you will HONESTLY choose personality over physical attributes/attraction? (i'm not speaking about going out with a richard simmons gorgeous model or something. just the scale is tipped in favor of one over the other) Of course not. Why choose one over the other when I can have both? But honestly, how they look is what attracts me, but what their personality is like is what i use in deciding if they're worth pursuing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LazyAzian Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 I go for both looks and personality. But usually physical attraction first, then I get to know them, and if they have really boring personalities I don't bother. Especially if they don't know how to convey their emotions towards other people (==" ) . . . I'm not shallow :3. Shallow people aren't always pretty IMO, strip them of their make-up and designer goodies and they'll look like everyone else. The truly beautiful people are the ones who don't' wear make up. My sister is really pretty, one time one of the girls at school asked her why she doesn't wear make up, she just replied "My face has nothing to hide" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Beautiful*Nightmare Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 What attracts me is the physical appearance. What keeps me is the personality. Took the words out of my mouth I won't go out with someone if I'm not attracted to their physical appearance, but at the same time, I won't stay with a person if I can't stand their personality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SaLina Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 preferably i would like both...butt looks fades..personality stayss....honestly i would say personality.. i have some friends that are consider to be very attractive...i thought so as well in the beginning..but than been by their side for yearss...i dun see them as phsycailly attractive as before...me..to me they just look consderially normal, not over the top pretty (like i use to) ].. i wouldn't say their looks had fade (common we're jsut young adults) more like i got use to their appearance..soo i dun find them that phsycally attracted anymore....more like i stayed friends with them cuz i like them...(personality wise) ahha but i do find myself fonding over cute guyz..but like just a crush ..not anything major liking... the guys that i have liked before were all base on personality..and gotta say they weren't the best hottest looking gusy..but decent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest loveabella♥ Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Physical attractions ): I'm not really picky about guys being super hot/cute but I have a certain type that goes into play D: Sometimes it's about how the person looks that makes you treat them differently from a regular friend...if that makes sense O _ o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kumadana Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 well i think personality will hook you. theres this guy i like . . . at first i thought he looked really weird because he was ginger well i;m asian and i generally go for the skinny pale type then i got to know him then i realized that he was soooo good looking. he;s just so skinny, pale (hahah i find that funny because he;s ginger), and his teeth are amazing. so i guess you get used to them later Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AresJK Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 the two of them are not seperate things for me body represents mind mind represents body yes it sounds pretty corny but what can I say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest littlejade Posted February 16, 2009 Share Posted February 16, 2009 personality of course, no body is that hideous. & if he had a nice personality, he would look decent anyways! n not scruffy etc.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Regina Rae Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 wellllll. of coruse, it's hard for anyone to like someone if they are not physically attracted to them. but, when you think about it, looks are so petty. there are so many other things that make up a person. looks aren't even half of that. like i said. looks do matter. but, not as much as everyone makes them out to. ^^. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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