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I finally was able to watch the last episode with the subtitles and I am very satisfied with the ending.
BTIMFL is one of the best K Rom-com dramas ever. I loved the writing and directing, and the actors were awesome. The story was relatable, moved at the right pace and was never boring. I laughed, I sighed, I cried, and I became frustrated, but never bored. I loved that all the main characters had solid story lines. This drama dealt with current issues such as sexual harassment and men in the workplace devaluing women and their accomplishments. However, it was also balanced showing that all men are not sexist. Some of them get it and support women ambitions.
One couple, started with a one night stand, one couple married for convenience, and the third couple was together for many years. The drama showed the growth each individual and growth of relationships. The drama related the progress in such a way that I was vested in each couple and wanted to see each couple work out their differences and succeed. In the end love is what bonded each couple together and each couple had their own unique way of expressing that love.
Kudos to the writer. I know that when I cannot find anything else to watch, this drama will be one of my go-tos and I will recommend it to anyone looking for a good drama with a great plot line and solid writing.
Excellent drama, great job all.
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3 hours ago, Snowz123 said:
Regarding your frustration on why WS just won't marry her, I was discussing it with a male friend whom I introduced to watch BTIOFL, haha told me that guys may get complacent since he already have all he wanted, the girl he loves, sex, companionship, etc. Why bother with marriage when you can get it without marrying? That's why always be careful if you were to move in with a guy. Not to imply that all guys are like that, indeed there are responsible guys like SG who would consider marriage despite him getting the sex as well lols.
As my Southern American mother used to say "why buy the cow when you can get the milk free." I think your male friend is correct. WS has all the benefits of marriage now; why make it official? I love how K-dramas always have a subtle message...as you said, be careful when you move in with someone (and I agree all men are not the same) because sometimes both the male and female can lose sight of the value of marriage. Marriage is a binding commitment between two people. I think that is why although, SH and JH did not love each other, once they made that commitment to one another, it bound them together whether for two years or a lifetime.
In SG's case, he is a mature traditional male. He values the institution of marriage and making that commitment is something that he would look forward to.
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4 hours ago, roseeflower said:
Well i feel like I’m also in the minority but I really liked episode 12. We finally get to hear sehee’s point of view and during the episode we saw him trying to come out of his heart breaking past on his own...
After the sunset kiss, Sehee smiled more around Jiho, secretly took pictures of her, gave her a sweet praise about her beauty that she looks the same with or without make up. Being a frugal person that he is, he didn’t hesitate to go and buy an expensive gift for her, spending money on her (only kitty had that kind of privilege before) he even tried to win a snail plush while going through the embarrassment of being a loser at darts game in public
just to give her a stuffed animal that she likes. In the last scene he asked her to come and sleep on the same bed because he wants to be close to her. Step by step he is getting there ...I understand some are disappointed because it feels like we missed a step or two by not getting the typical confession scene in kdrama but to me all this small gestures shows that he loves her too, is just that Jiho is the type who wears her heart on her sleeves so it's easy to see what she feels while sehee’s actions are more revealing about his heart than words.
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I agree with your assessment and I enjoyed episode 11 and 12. They are already married; therefore, they can miss a few small steps, they've already taken the big one. I guess I am in the minority with you because I do not need the confession, their actions show it. Because of SH's analytical mind and the fact he hurt someone before, SH might not confess to the very end. I also think that the kiss said a lot; at least JH thinks so.
Sometimes being in the minority is not a bad place to be.
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I felt really bad for WS and HR when WS came to the conclusion they must break-up. They really love each other; but they are not a couple. As SH pointed out to WS, "I want." WS loves HR, however he does not look at her as his other half. It is as both of them are in a one-sided love. HR has supported WS in his dreams; however, she does not fully understand his dreams. HR is so focused on being married and having children, she never asked WS what he wants out of their relationship or marriage. Does he want children? I hope they are back together in the last episode; however, they need time away from each other. If at the end they decide they really want each other then HR must make some compromises and WS must start to view her as "us, we and our." I loved the scene where SH thought that BN was a stalker, when he put his hand out for JH, he said," Let us go home to our house', which meant he had already included JH in his life.
This drama is refreshing and I am loving it.
Many of the 2017 romantic K-dramas have been enjoyable and well-written. There are a few dramas that I would recommend viewing this year. The writers are starting to write dramas about life in today's society and not as it used to be. Everything changes, nothing remains the same and finally K-dramas are changing also. I hope they never lose the respectful way they present love and relationships; however, I am glad to see dramas that are more realistic and present today's POV.
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7 hours ago, aisling said:
I'm a bit confused by the ending. What do JH exactly mean when she said she's going to play as a striker(?) and protect her heart? Is it like kind of her "slowly trying to give up" or "I'm gonna make this guy fall in love me" thing? What do you guys think???
Protecting her heart does not mean she is not going to try to win him over. Protecting her heart is a smart move. In the unlikely case she does not win him over, unlike SH, she will be able to survive with her heart intact and move on to another relationship.
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22 hours ago, eunji18 said:23 hours ago, PororoQueen said:
Agree @eunji18, I miss SH old hair style which made him looks more mature, wise, cool although "plain"
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I wonder if SH still in love with his previous woman, we don't know a lot of his background - and it's killing me, PD-nim hasn't shared more of this. I think the kiss preview is just Ji-Ho's daydream hehehehe
-Actually I prefer SH kiss her during the wedding tho..
Yasss, he's more mature with the previous hairstyle. I felt like I watched different drama. But Ji Ho liked it anyway
Just hoping the writernim wouldn't dissapoint us. The drama has been so good SH is older than JH, ( I don't know how much), perhaps he decided to change his hair style to look closer to her age. Ji-Ho does like it.
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I love this drama. The writer and director are awesome.
What I like the most about the drama is that SH and JH talk to each other. They are open with their feelings and know how to express them in a courteous and respectful way. They have an honesty that is rare.
I love the pace of this story, it moves, quickly, but not too fast. They have moved from landlord and tenant to friends, the next step is lovers. JH and SH are becoming comfortable with one another and are learning each other. As they go along, they will find that they have a lot of things in common. Where he is logical, she is creative; therefore, they balance each other. Once SH acknowledges his feelings, JH will score 99.9 points and be his perfect match.
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10 hours ago, Dramanoona said:
Regarding BN, I'm still quite in the dark. I was so sure he's some kind of a stalker but there are some things in the ep 9 preview that do not add up like why is JH still working at the restaurant even though there's already a not so subtle sign of trouble/danger brewing(since the snapper scene did not have any conclusion) and also there's the lack of emphasis in the stalker side story since they made way for more SH/JH moments. I'm glad tho that the writer takes the most interesting turn every time but it sucks because I can't come up with any theories at all!
I agree with you. By definition, (a stalker is a person who pursues game, prey, or a person stealthily), BN is a stalker, whether he is harmless or dangerous, I do not know. This is what I do know, and I admit the episode was not completely subed; therefore, I might be missing some nuance that is important to making that determination.
1. BN has been banned from other dating sites because of accusations of "stalking" (I give them credit for not taking the word of the accuser, but deciding to do their own investigation into the claims.)
2. There is an unsolved kidnapping case close to an area where BN might have been know to frequent.
3. He knows things about SH and JH that he should not know as a casual bystander.
- How does he know that JH hair looks better in a bow?
- How does he know about SH long term plan concerning his mortgage?
- How does he know they have a "fake marriage."
4. He is too familiar with JH, once she said that she was married, he should have backed off. He did not but continued to flirt and pursue her.
These all might be red herrings, I don't know. What I do know is that BN has his answer, SH will come for JH if she is harmed.
We cannot take it for granted that because BN did not go after SH when he kicked and knocked over his bike means that he is not a stalker. Many times men who will prey on women will not go up against another man.
I do not know what twists and turns this writer has in store for us; however, I am ready for the ride. It is clear to me that SH and JH like each other. It is just that JH has realized her feelings first. Because of SH's logical mind it might take him a few more episodes before he accepts that fact that he likes her and that she is a integral part of his life.
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I am enjoying this drama. I only saw the first 10 or 15 minutes of episode 7 this morning, but it was so funny. Just as I thought, SH is jealous of JH and his female colleague called him on it. SH is falling fast. I wonder if this is his first real attraction. I think, he does not know how to approach JH on an intimate level and not open himself to possible pain and or disappointment. I, also wonder if he is afraid of being rejected?
I loved how the women were falling all over BN. JH's friends were supposed to come to the coffee shop to teach him a lesson about harassing JH; however, they are in lust for BN.
Even SH's colleague likes him. It is so funny.
In the beginning, I thought, Oh boy, another contract marriage themed drama. However, this show has many perspectives. It deals with young people and their relationships and also the attitudes young women have to deal with in the workplace. I think what I like the most about this drama is that it takes a look at how many men treat women in the workplace. It is the right topic at the right time. Although the topics are serious, this drama is light; therefore, one can enjoy it, become enlightened, without being smacked in the face.
I have to watch the entire episode tonight. I am not going to read the comments until tomorrow, because I do not want to spoil my fun.
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10 hours ago, lclarakl said:
I don’t think SeHee will be jealous, but with a logical person like him, Bok Nam will be considered as a threat to his 2 years plan of marriage.
Oh, I think he is jealous. He might not recognize the feeling; however, he is jealous. He is logical; however, he still wants his cake and eat it too, as the saying goes. He does not want to be burdened with a relationship; however, he wants the perks of a relationship i.e. breakfast in the morning. I think SH will find out soon; that he has grown use to JH's presence and want her in his life; however, it will be harder now to make that transition since he has made an richard simmons of himself.
JH, although, she is a little crazy, is intelligent, honest, and as SH said, pretty. The two actually talk to each other, for the most part, understand each other, and like many of the same things. They move to the same rhythm (algorithm). JH is the perfect match for him, sadly, right now he cannot see it. Once she starts acting single, SH's eyes will open quickly.
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12 hours ago, stargazer187 said:22 hours ago, Carmarie said:
JC was trying to rescue when HJ ended up saving both of them. Remember the scene by the river when young HJ, with short hair and a baseball cap, was holding the rope around JC's waist, while he swam down to rescue another boy? I think that WT was that boy. If that is the case, maybe that shared experience somehow tied them together.
The one JC save from attempting suicide is not WT. He's the soldier's brother. He's also the JC's dad hoobae at the police office. He feels guilty of what his brother did, so he tried to drown himself. Thankfully, JC and HJ
@stargazer187 You are correct. I went back and looked at that scene again.
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1 hour ago, bebebisous33 said:
Thanks for the shout out!
I was busy at school... I have just finished reading the recap. So to me it seems that YB is the reason why the events have changed and I have the feeling, he is the reason why there are these dreams. If you look back, each actions of YB caused something terrible, YB was just the only winner. However, since HJ, JC and HWT are having these dreams to stop him, YB has to make rash decisions in order to become the winner hence no one could dream that JC would get shot. Notice that the trigger was, when YB showed the picture to the father of the archer. He had to do something as he realized that he was about to lose again. There is no way that HJ and HWT could dream this. If we look back, LYB's actions are getting worse and worse.
I like your analysis, because it is going in a different direction than what we were thinking. Great job.
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On 10/19/2017 at 10:06 PM, carolinedl said:On 10/18/2017 at 11:51 PM, gilaswan said:
@carolinedl I think what Wootak said was that he's a 3rd generation only son, which would explain his parents fawning all over him in an over protective way (chopping all persimmon trees just because one fell on his head). It's quite common I suppose, in a highly patriarchal society that sons are accorded that sort of status. My son, for example, would be a 2nd generation only son, cos my husband has no brothers, and well, neither does my son!
That said, if Wootak is a 3rd generation only son, then that would explain the dream where his parents were adamant about HongJoo's family repaying their debt for their son's death. It would also mean that the theory that he is the dead AWOL soldier's brother would be wrong. Neither can he be the AWOL soldier's son (even if age was not an issue) because that would not make him a 3rd generation only son, because his father would have had only sisters (not true for dead AWOL soldier whose brother was a policeman).
Thanks for the clarification. And sorry for answering so late but I did not want to spoil myself. But here I am since I saw the new episode. True, but that is if he is a 3rd generation son. It was shown with the empty refrigerator that it was certainly not the case. Thus his identity is still a mistery. I wish they would give a tiny more clues as to who he is!
I still think he is somehow related to the dead soldier to be honest. When the other dude mentioned secret, the first thing that came to my mind was name change. I think that might be a possibility, that he changed his name when he entered the police academy so that he would not be associated with the dead soldier.
I have not seen the latest episode; therefore, my thinking may not be relevant any longer. I think that WT is the boy that JC was trying to rescue when HJ ended up saving both of them. Remember the scene by the river when young HJ, with short hair and a baseball cap, was holding the rope around JC's waist, while he swam down to rescue another boy? I think that WT was that boy. If that is the case, maybe that shared experience somehow tied them together.
There is something else going on WT and a mystery does surround him. Although I am anxious to find out what it is, I like the way the writer is drawing it out by giving us small tidbits. However, those tidbits give us even more to ponder. Nice job writer.
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4 hours ago, bedifferent said:
I think what we are talking about is what SeHee is feeling. We can be ourselves and live by our standards when we can be independent from things that control us. For SeHee, it's money. He doesn't want to be doing things according to others so to him, paying off the obligation of the home loan free him. Once he is financially secured, he would be happy staying home with his cat, away from the demands of others. He even wants to die at home. He's emotionally dampened so he doesn't get pressured and affected by conventional reasons. I think he is closest to nirvana than all the Kdrama characters I've watched.
I think you are right; however, without SH realizing it he has expanded his, circle, to include JH. When he watches her fill the kitten's bowl, he knows he made the right choice. Both of them are at peace at home, she has no demands on him and he has no demands on her. The actors are great in making us feel the serenity and peace the characters feel at home.
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11 hours ago, bebebisous33 said:
While SH comes as a little off (emotionless and detached), SH seems to be the best man from all the three because he is a good observant. Then he is a good listener and doesn't get upset so easily. Through his rational thoughts, he is able to communicate to his partner properly so that they don't have conflicts, while the other two men have issues with communication and listening. JH and SH are created to underline the contrast to the other couples. There might be no obvious feelings but they are attentive to each other. There was no real difference between the couple in the subway and JH/SH. SH also gave her the seat, when one was free, but he left her to go to another seat,
I concur. Before I read your post I was thinking that I love the fact that JH and SH talk to each other. SH can ask JH any question and she answers it honestly and vice versa. I love that they have open communications and; therefore, avoid misunderstandings. Perhaps it is because they are not in love, they do not feel that they must hide their feelings from each other. As you stated , they are attentive to each other's needs, it is, how can I explain this, natural, it is without thought. SH needs water, he does not have to ask, she gets it for him. If SH senses JH's distress, he offers comfort without being burdensome. This drama is so refreshing.
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6 hours ago, cherryblossomkawai said:
Anyway It seems they will be married next episode and I just have to ask how she will pay rent without a job. I really hope she won't return to this a**holes.
If his father honors his word, he will pay off SH's debt, he will not have to worry about mortgage. Since SH will no longer need rent money, perhaps SH will allow JH to pursue she dreams and in turn she will continue to keep the house, make sure the cat is fed, take out the recycling, and cook.
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15 hours ago, qynn said:
It seems like SH was envisioning more of a marriage of convenience than a contract marriage when he made his proposal. JH admitting that she was someone who would eventually need love and affection threw him, but he did accept her proposal, so I'm curious if he will approach it more from a contractual standpoint going forward. Or if they both will?
So far this drama is a nice change from many of the, what I call, formula K-dramas. They are both going into this marriage, both stating they don't "like" each other; therefore, it is a understood that it is a marriage of convenience. However, we can see that they both are developing feelings for each other, even if they are in denial. I love the fact that they ended up proposing to each other. It was a nice twist. We were led to believe, at the end of episode two, HJ said yes; therefore, I was pleasantly surprised that she did not accept right away, but finally came to the conclusion that SJ was what she needed.
If the previews are any indication, we are in for some laughs, but along with the comedy this drama is bold enough to tackle serious issues. As @Camillajames wrote it is great to see this drama tackle sexual assault in the workplace. Until this recent sandal, many women have suffered in silence, organizations have covered it up and others have calked it up to the cost of climbing the corporate ladder. No one, female or male should be sexual assaulted or harassed in the workplace. Harassment and sexual assault should never be necessary for one to move forward or to be recognized for their talent or hard work.
I am glad I stuck with this drama, I am very pleased with its progress so far.
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3 hours ago, mapleoaks4 said:
I'm hoping that this turns out to be a "real" marriage and not a contractual one. It's an unconventional marriage for sure, but they'll begin to rely and hope in each other and it'll turn into a "real" marriage. It's sort of like an arranged marriage where the couple don't really know each other but they grow to learn and love one another. I don't recall there being a marriage portrayed like this in drama world. So hoping its not just another contractual marriage! Although it probably will be.
I agree with you. I do not want this to be a contractual marriage, but a real marriage; although, I am sure he will have some stipulations. I hope those stipulations are about do's and don't about not rushing things and letting them flow naturally, rather than about length of time.
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53 minutes ago, raqlobster said:
Just watched the 2 episodes earlier. And I like every bit of it. The things they say, it is reality.
I can totally relate with SH's planned life lol he is thinking about the future. He chose to have his own place even if he have to pay for 30 years (that is reality when you get a housing loan), choosing a place with a hospital nearby is a must for emergency purposes esp when we're older, and yes there's nothing more certain than having a property in this world (he said in this country but it also applies to other countries).
At first, I did not get this drama at all and I fell asleep while it was on. When I woke up, episode one was playing again and I decided to watch both episodes. Now I get it and so far, I like the premise of the show.
SH has his life planned out, and he never needed a woman to complete him. He has his career, his house and his kitten. However, SH is being harassed by his mother she is trying to run a guilt trip on him, trying to get him to marry. His father will pay off his loans if he marries. In the meantime, JH keeps his house clean, makes sure the kitten is fed and likes the same sports team he likes. She also keeps her emotional baggage to herself. Therefore, if SH must marry someone, why not marry someone he feels comfortable with. It will solve his problem with his nagging mother and the bonus, he will not have to wait 30 years for his house to be paid off. JH will fill that lonely void SH now knows he has and JH will not have to worry about a place to stay, and will have more freedom to work on the projects she wants to work on; a win-win situation.
I am looking forward to watching this relationship develop. It should be fun to watch SH go from an unemotional statistician to a loving husband.
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On 10/7/2017 at 3:42 AM, yusefull said:
HJ wake him up so he can get out but he must decide to get out. We didn't see her change the futur but rather telling him to do it.
WT was at the restaurant but he couldn't have done anything if JC didn't act.
Maybe they can change the futur but until now, none of those two did it. They make him do it.
I give up! I have learned that sometimes you must sit back and wait.
7 hours ago, carolinedl said:Of course not! What I was implying is that they can do it, the three of them, only when they are together or connected. Think of it: when JC stopped the car, the three of them were there; at the building, they were also there, for the restaurant too. Somehow, I think the future could be altered once they met, once JC and WT developped the faculty to dream after meeting HJ. Before, HJ could not do anything, but once the three met, the three developped the faculty to alter the future.
I think it would be unfair to JC if only him can change the future, take action. What will happen the day he will need to be saved? HJ and WT won't be able to do anything for him?
I agree that the three of them must act together.
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45 minutes ago, yusefull said:
I believe they could only tell JC how to change the futur but he must be the one to do it.
The cop didn't do it, he was on the scene but it's JC who acted.
But we will know soon enough. Since it's magic, not sure we will get a true logic.
Remember WT made a small change, he brought JC to the restaurant instead of his partner. He made that change himself, he did not tell JC what to do; JC stepped up because he was there, since there is not indication no one but WT had the dream he was the change maker. It was his actions that changed the situation. HJ, because of her dream that JC was late for work (she and WT had conflicting dreams) and; therefore lost the case. HJ, by getting on the bus and waking him up at his correct stop, made a small change and her actions changed the situation, she was the change maker and not JC. Therefore, all of them can make changes that affect future outcomes.
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On 10/5/2017 at 2:15 PM, Carmarie said:On 10/5/2017 at 11:00 AM, yusefull said:
The synopsys wqs telling it but why do I feel like that only JC got the power to change the futur. Even the cop, he didn't change it he make JC change it. I like it more that way.
Very interesting. Great observation, I like it.
After watching episodes 3 & 4, all of them have the power to change the future outcome.
I was starting to write my working theory, when I happened to see @kaqueski post. I share her thinking.
My working theory is that all of them, if someone had not stepped in to save their lives, would have died; however, this line of thought not work with Hong Joo unless her gift was unique. Perhaps Jae Chan received his gift/curse when his father died; however, he was so resentful in the beginning that his ability was dormant until Hong Joo was in trouble. I remember Hong Joo telling Jae Chan that they were only two, that was before Woo Tak started having his dreams. Both Woo Tak and Jae Chan had previous interaction with the Hong Joo's or her mother. Therefore, I think the dreams started with Hong Joo. Is it something that was passed down through the generations that she doesn't know the origins of? This is a theory in progress. I am sure my theory will change as I watch more episodes.
One thing I am sure of is that LYB does not have the ability to see the future at this time. If he had, he would have known that he was going to lose this case. I do not call LYB pure evil, I just think he is an egotistical slime ball, who for money, will sell his soul to the highest bidder. In other words, I think he is corrupt, but I don't think he hit Woo Tak on purpose, because he turned his head to look at Hong Joo at that moment. He is a person who does not take responsibility for his actions. Case in point, he was driving the motorcycle when they got into the accident; however, he wanted Jae Chan to take the blame. I think he tears, and rolls those small sheets of paper when he is scheming.
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3 hours ago, yusefull said:
The synopsys wqs telling it but why do I feel like that only JC got the power to change the futur. Even the cop, he didn't change it he make JC change it. I like it more that way.
Very interesting. Great observation, I like it.
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19 hours ago, Carmarie said:
Could JC's precognitive dreams, have something to do with him meeting HJ earlier? These are the questions I have; therefore, I hope to have an answer in the next two episodes. Water does take a different path if it is blocked, but we can remove the blockage and therefore, allow it to flow in the same direction. JC'S actions saved three lives, HJ, her mother, and WT. Are their lives going to take a different path or has a blockage been removed allowing them to stay on course and follow their true destiny.
I now know that both JC"s and HJ's fathers were killed on the same day, by the same person. Their fathers both made a conscious decision to sacrifice their lives for others, they were both hailed as heroes and were both memorialized at same location. It makes sense that HJ and JC's paths would cross on that day. ( I like this writer, she did not make their paths cross randomly, but has a logical explanation.) I have not figured out how WT fits into this equation. I am still forming my theory, and since the volunteers at Vicki had not completed subbing, I will wait until the weekend look at episode three again and watch episode four. Perhaps by Monday, (in the states) I will have a working theory.
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I have just finished reading the recap. So to me it seems that YB is the reason why the events have changed and I have the feeling, he is the reason why there are these dreams. If you look back, each actions of YB caused something terrible, YB was just the only winner. However, since HJ, JC and HWT are having these dreams to stop him, YB has to make rash decisions in order to become the winner hence no one could dream that JC would get shot. Notice that the trigger was, when YB showed the picture to the father of the archer. He had to do something as he realized that he was about to lose again. There is no way that HJ and HWT could dream this. If we look back, LYB's actions are getting worse and worse.
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I am in full agreement; although, I would not say the last two episodes were weak.
If episode 15 was not written the way it was written, the ending would not have been as satisfying for me. We would not have witness the angry outburst from SH, the great scene where they spent the entire day in bed (he had on the same sweater from breakfast at dinner), or the great dinner dialog where they decided that love was the most important thing in their relationship. WS realizing he only loved HR and HR's proposal to him. I was sad watching episode 15; however, it made episode 16 all the more special. I loved they was the writer wrapped up all the important story lines.
Like you, I do not think episodes 15 and 16 took anything away from the beauty of this drama. I loved this drama from episode 1 through 16. The writer, director and actors were all amazing and I give them a big round of applause. Job well done! However, those who are disappointed are entitled to their own opinion. What is so great about this blog we can all agree to disagree. Perhaps some of those who are dissatisfied with the ending of this drama can suggest other dramas with better endings.
Hopefully I will see all of you in future posts.