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  1. 17 hours ago, dvdwyn said:

     

     

    i think the fact he still wants to save his marriage, he is able to forgive her.. but why and how? thats not a normal reaction, people get extremely sad and angry when got cheated on....

     

    how they get married in the first place though? is it because they thought they might complete each other.. there is no sufficient flashback.. 

     

    in the previous drama, when the hubby played by this same actor, lol, got cheated in "my wife is having an affair", he shows more emotion, so much anger... (normal reaction from a guy when they found out the wife is cheating, unlike in this drama, its like he understand himself why the wife cheating on her)

     

     

     

     

    yes there is no justifications for having an affair as  i also mentioned in my previous post, its better to separate first than having an affair.. 

     

    however i have experienced so much in life that i do not hate or judge someone so easily, especially since i do not live in their life... 

     

    some people: oh, look at that cheating bit*h! what an adulterer, lets throw stones at her...  i hate her so much! 

    me: hmm, what cause her to cheat, what happens in her life... how can i help her to be in the correct path.. i am going to pray for her life..

     

    humans are not that perfect, humans make mistake.. , some learn, some dont ...:) 

    thats why the divorce rate is very high lately.. life is not simple as well.. there are many who get married thinking they will never cheat on their husband... after some years of dead marriage everything changes.. also if there is a traumatic experience in marriage, like death of children etc, which i first thought happen in this drama..

     

    another example i encounter in life, a couple got married.... the husband got inherintance from the father business before they get married and then lose the business after marriage, work freelance / almost no career, spend so much time with his friends.. ,(go home at 2-3am everyday) the wife work whole day long, take care of the children, when she ask the husband to help take care of the children, or just simply drive the children to school, the husband refuses and told her its the wife job to take care of the children... , no more communication, years and years go by... , the wife is now tempted in having an affair.. mental abuse is sometimes more deadly than phsysical abuse... yes, there are many husband who simply abandon their wife and expect the wife to be loyal till death?.. 

     

    however, talking about justifications, i guess there is no justifications as well for the young girl to fall in love the angel hubby.. ? even its a selfless love? since he is a married man? i am curious how she turns out, if she is a selfless girl, she should help them get back together... no matter what... , i can see that she is falling in love with him as well now..

     

     

    I see that you are very experienced in life and saw and heared more stories about  other people's lives than me. I salute your high level of tolerance and acceptance for different kind of humans. However I don't share this attitude. I have the feeling that nowadays, we are programmend to see the other side of the stories and try to give people always some sympathy for whatever they are doing. As if all humans are naturally kind hearted and good but they just lose their ways from time to time and commit some sins. I used to be like that too. That's why morals nowadays are very underrated . Because we started to accept every behavior, even if it is very clearly wrong. 

    I came to realize that actually there a huge ammount of people who are bad by choice. And they have no remorse about causing any harm to any one, as long as they are having their fun. As for " the husbands abondonning their wives and expecting their wives to be loyal to death" , well I guess it is very clear that these women are in a non-fonctionnal marriages, they are with the wrong life partners and have every right to walk away . It does not give them the right to cheat . I am not calling any one to be stoned or punished for cheating. I would stand for strengthening the sense of right and wrong, to live by high respect for morals and call people , me included, for more selfcontrol. Respect, Loyalty and strong-will  will pay off .

    As for Ji An , it is not clear if she is in love for angel hubby , but I will suppose what you said is right and that she is in love , well she indeed is trying to get them back togther, she made the wife hear what CEO talked about her, and told her to get back to her sense already . So JiAn was one of the reason they broke up. Making her break up with CEO is a way to help DH and his wife get back together. She is not trying to tear them apart.  At least until now.

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  2. 5 hours ago, dvdwyn said:

     

    y so much hate? :)

     

    clearly everylife is different.. we can not judge someone so easily.. this drama makes it easier to side against the angel hubby though.. 

    however i notice something that the angel hubby lacks in skill, that is communication... which is vital in every marriage.. 

     

    how can he abandon his wife in communication areas, spend so much time with his family / brothers drinking around where he can spend all those time with his wife, or at least make effort to romantice their dull lifeless llife..  no wonder the wife is having an affair.. 

     

    i myself a young middle aged men, average looking, self made, successful and married.. i have encounter so many girls and married women who tried to seduce me or invite me for an affair.. (the young beautiful types and career woman whose makes me wonder what is wrong with their husband? watching this great drama i can relate when they told me about their marriage problems.. )

     

    let me tell you all they want is basically an attention and communication... they want comfort and happiness... which they never get during their marriage life with their husband... some husband just take their wife for granted once they get married.. 

     

    when i rejected the affair and advise those married woman to basically separate first instead of having an affair (when there is no more love), they are stuck in dillemmas because of family status and most importantly children... like in this drama they also have a son... 

     

    by the way anyone know the soundtrack from episode 7 and 8 near the ending , cant wait for it to be released... ost is great... one of the best dramas in 2018..  got me posting something in a while... 

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I am not getting your point at all. If the angel hubby lacks in communication and is neglecting his wife and spending more time with his bros than her, does it justify the cheating ?? I am sorry . There is no justification for having an affair. She could have asked for divorce and lived her life and met men or whatever. But as long as she is the wife of some man , she had to respect that. She is bond to respect her husband and make sure to not be a disgrace to her son. The same goes to men by the way. If a man is not happy in his marriage he has only 2 choices: work out on saving it or divorce . Looking for love and attention and affection from some stranger, while you are still married is just beyond wrong . There is absolutely no way that adultery could be given a justification. Even your personal experience that you stated does not make me change my mind about that.

    I am hating her for her selfishness. She never thought about the harm she is causing to the people arround her. She has no loyalty to PDH at all. She had the affair with the man , he hates the most. (While JiAn, the stranger, she hates the CEO just because PDH hates him, she slapped the office guy just because he talked trash about PDH,  do you see the huge difference?) . His wife has no morals. And that's where my hate comes from. And as I said before, she didn't put her son and his future first. At some point of life , our lives are not only about us and our desires , we have to give up on a little bit of our ego and own happiness  to protect the people we love or at least not hurt them.  However this woman her ego comes first. Remember the scenes where she was at DH's mom Birthday but was eager to see how many times did she got called by the CEO and how she smiled at her phone? She is happy to get the attention and see him desperately wanting to reach her out . She is pissed because she got dumped. She couldn't handle that at all. Her ego was hurt badly.

    Anyway maybe other people could sympathize with her. But not me.

     

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  3. off topic:

     

    Being single for a long time ,  I am taking notes from DJY on how to seduce a man :D I will create coincindances and go eat and drink with him and stick to him until he will feel empty if I am not arround. Ok thanks DJY.

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    Guys, I hate his wife so much. I admire how he is helping her out to get out of her broken heart feels.

    Why is our Ajasshi  so out of this word?? :wub: She doesn't appreciate what kind of man she is having by her side. She does not fit to his enviroment but I can conclude that back in the days they were madly in love and tied the knote. Day by day their differences in personalities are taking over the love and attraction they got for each other . However they got a cutie pie son who deserves to be loved and raised by his parents in a stable home. PDH is over coming the pain of betrayal of his cheating wife just  for his family's sake . However I doubt his selfish wife ever thought about the pain she is causing to her son by having and affair. Tryin to divorce his dad and make him go down hill in his career and marry her lover and bring him a step father.

    I hate her for all of this and I hate her more because she is taking the spot of someone who could be giving more love and support to PDH. This man deserves a lot better life partner.  His family are so genuine and fun to hang arround with. They have a lot of warmth and love and support to each other. Personally I would love to have such in-laws.

    I don't know in which direction the sotry is heading to. I can't decide, if PDH keeps this woman and his family , he is concidered a winner against shorty CEO or if he divorces her and quit his shitty job and winning over his own life and leaving DJY and his wife and all the toxic parts of life is concidered that he won . However I am not sure if the writer is trying to give us a lesson on how to fix our lives or just portraying the hidden parts of our lives , where we endure a lot of crap , because it is just part of life.  Few of us will be rebelling and quitting jobs because we have other responsibilities, that tie us down to our situations.

    This is a very brilliant drama. I will be looking forwards to every episodes with a lot of curiosity..

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  4. I love love love episode 5.

    It is so nice to see LJA warm up little by little towards our Ahjashi .

    Life is so hard when your working place is a battle field, where you have to survive and overcome every misery to protect your family and fulfill your duties. I can feel his heavy breath to my bones. And LJA , too. She now sees what kind of life he is leading. And I guess she is now can relate more to him and see that life is hard for every good person.

    I hope she helps him out unveil his unfaithful wife. She really makes me hate her every episode more and more.

    I also hope LJA will expose the CEO to the cheating wife and make her take revenge on him and that both of them, cheaters, go down hill

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    The new character added to the cast , the actress, is damn funny. She is so refereshing . Her interraction with Director-nim is hilarious and the facial expressions of the big bro while hearing them talking crack me up everytime.

    I bet she will be willing to be his leading lady for his next project and that both will give it a try.

    I will be looking forwards to this..

     

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  5. I am amazed at the role chosen by Jang Ki-Young . He is smart enough to drift from the perfect guy who never gets the girl image. I salute him for that. That's a really brave choice made by this young talented man. It proves his passion about acting . Few would have done the same .

    As for IU she never disappoints me with her natural acting . I  never get why she gets bashed about her acting's skills. She is one hell of a good actress in my opinion.

    Lee Sun Kyun-shi you have my all attention in this drama. I don't need to go on and on and on about how much I enjoy your acting :wub:

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  6. Ok I know I am supposedd to be happy for our "oppa" and wish him happiness. But I can't help but be pissed off right now. I really do not have anything againt JHB . She is nice,  funny , confident and beautiful woman in my eyes. She is a good catch to anyone. BUT why on earth did he put on a show for a very long time as being the lonely and single oppa, while he was dating her since last year ?  Why filrt with IU on the set of moonlovers and make up the whole scene on the SBS awards night? I am sorry LJG-Fans,  am very disappointed in him.  If he didn't build up that image based on hiding his love-life I would be gladly congratulating him for meeting someone, he likes. However it turnes out to be a fake image  and lies lies lies just to promote his movies, dramas etc to only spread his fan-base. So it is aaaaalll for the business and money. Which is very unnecessary. He could just have kept his love-life as mysterious and very privat. And no one will be against it. We would have all accepted him that way. But telling every time that his lonely and searching for love bla bla bla was really unnecessary.  Anyways, I wish all the best for Hye-Bin. And good luck for IU  :wink:

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  7. I was a silent Goblin-fan and always been a supporter of KGE and GY is my first k-crush.

    After reading the posted letter. I had to come here and join you guys on this ship. I am also as confused as you about her letter. It seemed to me as if she is being missing GY, not KS, and the final sentence is kind of borrowing KS 's words to confess something in her heart. I hope, I am not wrong about this and really wish these two get to work in some photoshootings and other projects to get even more closer and who knows what could happen then.

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    I have never been able to digest the news of KGE dating SHK. Sorrryyy he is tooooo old for her and they do not visually fit. I know a realtionship is way more deeper than these superficial things. BUT  I don't know why I can not bring myself to accept her choice. Maybe because I have been  shipping her with  Seo KangJun. (after cheese in the trap) The dating news with SHK hit me very hard in the heart:crazy:

     

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  8. yorabun anyonghasayo!

    Happy new YeAaaaR !

    I wanted to  share with you  how happy and excited was I on the last day of 2016. I was preparing some dishes and cleaning my home to welcome the new year with a tidy start. Yup I celebrated the new year alone . I live abroad and I do not have close friends here. Anyway , Everything was going as planned. Delcious meals are prapred. A clean home. Nice lounge clothes. Some candles with sweet fragrance. Everything was beautifil. But the most epic moment for me was, when I accidentaly  found a link to SBS Drama awards live and with eng. subs. Haaaaalleluja! And who was there when I first tuned in?? yes, our Wang-janim receiving his top 10 stars award. IT WAS HEAVEN! He looked really stunning. I knew LJK since the drama "my gril". He never looked more handsome than at this awards ceremony. Back to his seat, I saw the rest of the cast of moon lovers. I was really so excited. Like I am meeting friends after a long time !  They literally made my evening very beautiful. UI and Lee JuniKi , kasahamnida . They really really really tried their best to console our broken hearts from the goreyo story with a live modern "romance" between our OTP .. They looked so so so gorgeous both of them. And believe it or not, I am now feeling much better about the ending of the drama. I don't know how, LJK and UI did it, but they succeeded to give me and many many fans the closure, we needed for Wang So and Hae So. 

    The whole cast of moon lovers, who were there, had a very pleasant  presence. They seemed delighted  and as real-life close friends. Enjoying hanging out together. Congatulations for LJK and IU for their awards. I wasn't expecting them to win this much awards.

    The only thing that made gringe is me  seeing KHN sweating that much while receiving his award. I felt he wasn't prepared at all. I am confident aht he will  make it big in 2017 and I hope he gets good dramas and  also becomes less awkward and as cool as his half-bro Wang Yo. :blush:

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  9. The "soon" and the "leaked" final scene on IG of LJK and IU are making me restless, people.

    One day I am all optimistic about a special episode  the second day I am all down and lost all hope for a special episode,  after seeing that romantic doctor already started airing. 

    Then I read your comments , guys. And my hopes for a season 2 or a movie go up up up ! Until I remember the poor rating issue and start doubting if the cast will make the move and accept to do anything related to MLSHR ever again. 

    Why are you toying with your fans, dear LJK/IU?? Why do you keep teasing us and not letting us move on with our lives? Have mercy on us! jeabal , tell us what if there is anything related to ML in the future and stop giving us little hints hope:tears:

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  10. annyeong chingus,

     

    I must admit, I miss this thread so much. I miss the live recaps that made me laugh like crazy in the subway or curse at my phone, every time HS did something stupid to WS. I still remember the the crazy laugh I had,  when someone wrote " WS is all suited up , Goryeo -style , he even curled his bangs and looking so fancy" or when I was reading the comments about ChaeRyoung death and then the expression" Chae ryung burrito" was invented. I was at first very sad about HS not forgiving WS but after I red that , once again, I had to LOL for a while and forget about HS-WS crisis. 

    Thanks guys for the good time in this forum. This thread is filled with not only with smart and insightful comments but also with very funny ones, which made it always a delight  to read your comments. I hope I will see many of you discussing a new awesome drama soon . :wub:

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  11. reading those comments won't give me courage nor strength to sit and watch episode 19 and 20! Really really really sad to hear  that this amazing drama with this amazing leads to be a victim of sloppy editing . Cutting important scenes and filling the time with trivial stories killed the brilliance of this master-piece. The journey is sad and but their love will have a happy ending , they said. Well, feed that to the dog, instead. I am anxious and depressed as I am right now. I don't want more drama in my drama.

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    Anyways thanks to all the amazing people, who made this thread an amazing place to read their excellent analysis of the characters and the amazing GIFs , pics , fan-arts, MVs etc.

    Thank you and I will be back  in few days for sure after watching the two last episodes. #Anyeong!

     

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  12. 1 minute ago, junejungki said:

    I shud listen to u guys. I shudnt watch episode 19. Just wait for the recap. My sisters were really mad at HS. Something is wrong with her brain. She cant see things clearly

    It is ok! richard simmons happens all the time. But for tomorrow's episode, dear @junejungki, wait until the episode is over then see the clip of the final scene and decide to watch or not.. This is my plan! My heart is to weak to handle sloppy ending, sad ending ,HS death, WS tears etc.  I need time to prepare myself to accept this kind of things, when I am to attached to the OTP. And assume , you are the same. So let's stick to this plan.. :D 

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  13. 12 minutes ago, junejungki said:

    I'm angry too. The snake Won stil alive. That richard simmons YH wish comes true. She betrayed Wook & So will grant her wish. Stupid HS still blame So for killing Chae Ryung. HS better quickly die & return to present time

    I was busy , so thank God ,  I didn't watch the live streaming ..  after reading this I won't watch ep.19.. I will wait for 20 and watch them both with subs.

    I love myself enough to not let the writer, the PD, the Drama  ruin my Halloween mood! :sweatingbullets:

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  14. The late night thought: 

     

    After watching evil Queen tragic death, that she somehow deserved and the very scary side of So, that I didn't want to see, while watching her dying, I am still curious  about on why on earth does the evil Queen hate Wang So this much?

    Because of the scar, she did on his face? Well , I can understand that she will be eaten up by guilt, by shame for doing such a horrible thing, But instead of treating him like her enemy, wasn't she supposed to spoil him and treat him the best , because of what she did to him? if he reminds her of the day her King, left her to marry another woman and she associates him with her defeat and "rejection" from her loved man, she could just avoid him but not insist on torturing him, harassing him and treating him as enemy? I really really want to know the reason behind her biiiig  resentment towards WS. Could it be, that he is not her own son?

    How could a mother  HATE  her child for no reason at all?  why-gif.gif?w=190

    I hope someone could do a psychoanalysis of her character. :sweatingbullets:I am very interested to understand .

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  15. I blame myself for watching MLSHR even though I knew the c-version and didn't like it, and was expecting that the korean version would be different..

    Well, that was silly.:tears:

    Seeing WS going all shady is damn scary, people. How can I sympathize with him? He is the same wolf-dog of episode 2. I don't know, what to feel about all of this!  

    Thank God I will start a new job next week and keep busy with my studies. I don't think I will be able to watch episode 19. The emotional turmoil is very overwhelming. I will skip to 20 .

    and hope to be able say A Dios to the drama in good way! and will remember all the beautiful scenes between our OTP :tears: I really wish it won't be the same as the chinese one! It was an open ending ................... I hated it 

    p-s : what saddens me further, is the fact that even WS has found love and comfort in HS, he never could forgive his cruel mother. I putted  so much hope in this. I thought love and care could heal his wounds but they didn't.  With power under his hands, the hurt and emotionally abused child in him is taking his revenge now. It really aches my heart. I can somehow relate to that. But I hoped, I really hoped that he overcomes his hidden pain.:tears:

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  16. 24 minutes ago, redlion said:

    Just wondering..... so how many casts would be left in the end of the show??? :huh:

    lol only 1 : Yeon-Hwa, left alone :vicx:

     

    37 minutes ago, pass3rby said:

    The word "wook" has turned into a verb? "Don't wook me," means don't give me promises that you can't keep.

    I think in the end, in Goryeo universe, there's gonna be Gwangjong and her Queen left. Wook and Won will be sent to prison. Something will happen to Baek Ah, and maybe Woo Hee, related to Woo Hee family background and what she did when YO reigned. Ji Mong might be dead and go back to the future, Jung will leave the palace to live somewhere. Queen Yoo will live a very long and miserable life, witnessing Gwangjong's golden age from afar.

    HaeSoo will die in WS' hands and go back to the future. I trully hope that Ep 20 will be dedicated to Go Ha Jin and someone from the future. I mean, the entire episode. (Wishful thinking).

    .. It is also used as a noun : example : Don't be a "wook"  means "don't be a loser" or "don't be a jerk":w00t:

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  17. 4 minutes ago, am420 said:

     

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    Truthfully, I'm hoping that we don't have to witness any of the YH/WS marriage. 

    agree with you ! and Hell No to that! if they do this to us, I will think that  the writer, director are sadist! They will put us through this unbearable  pain! I will hate the drama forever. Imagine showing a hotter kiss between WS-YH than between WS-HS! 

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  18. 2 hours ago, shae said:

    Hmmn, Methinks your chances would've been slim depending on family connections. You would have none. Assuming that you know Korean, your modern language would be a hindrance.

    My co-watcher (belligerently) and I joked about why time travel series for brown people are non-existent. There aren't any time periods that we would choose to go back to. How would Taejo's court treat me if I landed in the prince's bathwater? I think I would learn how good those sword skills were before I could figure out where I was or ask.

    Forget about scars and being Queen. Do you know what they used for tampons? Stay here.

     

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    lol sorry I didn't think this much. I was just thinking of replacing Hae Soo. Like Go HaJin did. 

    But if I think about it "rationally" , well I will assume that I will be transported as a commoner , not connection to the royals, However , I wish that  if I am transported to Goryeo, I am  automatically transformed as fluent in Korean but I keep who I am , in 21th century. Well, medical student. So, I could help treat many people and be famous ! :w00t: I will be the personal doctor of TaeJo maybe. And I just hope he won't be willing to marry me, too, cause I have an eye for his 4th Son. :phew:

    About the looks.  If I will be transported as I am , well I surely look nothing like Asians. With my south European features, I don't know, if I will be accepted as a normal human-being back then or not.  So they might get shocked, afraid and kill me , assuming that I am an alien or something. Well, in that case,  I won't make it to see the princes.

    Or I will use JiMong , my drinking buddy, to make them think I am kind of God's daughter and they will cherish me. :w00t: Then I will ask them to marry me to the 4th prince coz daddy God, wishes so!  Lol, all options are open! Please don't destroy my fantasies 

    p.s: No I don't know what they use as tampons? I assume it is something disgusting. :vicx:

    here is a MV to remind myself and you, my friends , that this Drama  is not a romantic-comedy . It is a fricking tragedy , fantasy and melodrama.

     

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