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I dont know how much lower or how low I can go about my expectation/ standards. Seriously, how difficult is it to call your girlfriend at least three times a week? we have been doing a lot of overtime at random hours, 6-7 days a week sometimes for 3 days 12 hours straight. Even though we might see each other at work daily, but it is not like we can hug or talk to each other intimately or normally { no dating policy at work } Everytime when I brought the issue up, he starting to call/ text me then after a while he would be back to how he was. I dont understand !!! do mens really hate talking on the phone. I wish we have the leisure of talking face to face but we dont !!!
we live about 1hr apart
and last night he comment on how I have been clingy lately. My question were "would you rather have me be clingy to you or some other guy?" his respond was "to me of course"
maybe I should learn a bit self-control, self-restrain
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On 11/22/2015, 9:28:33, soyable said:
sometimes there is no hidden meaning. Maybe she just want / need someone to talk to beside her best friend and her boyfriend. REASONs
1/ best friends knows too much
2/ doesnt want to talk to the boyfriend. she needs space from boyfriend or want to give him space
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So my ex cheated on me but why would he delete me off of social medias then when I tell him to add me back he does?
probably show off how happy he is being single or that he can run all over you. If he ask to get back don't !!!
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how do you help your man save money, and still keeps the relationship fun/ interesting!
We love to eat, love to explore new places/food and etc but we have been spending alot of money on food outing and stuff that we buy for each other and etc ..
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recently we start a journal where we would write our thoughts (whats on your mind?/ what I notice/ thinking/ rant/ vent ..etc) and give it to each other every other week but so far no luck. we both have been receiving a lot of overtime hours, and he is always exhausted after getting off work. .. he told me that he wrote one sentence in the journal and it is on what he notice of/about me. He told me at the start of our relationship that he needs constant reminders however I feel like with phone calls/ text there shouldnt be one! if you miss someone, want to hear their voice or just want to know how their days are going and etc - you would call them right?
I seriously dont know what other alternative solution to go about with my bf. I tried to do the reward and punishment but that dont work so well. My bf is really carefree/laidback kind of person; he doesnt know or doesnt think he did anything wrong unless/until you tell them. A while back I was angry at him about something and I stayed silent about it for 1 hrs after that I couldnt hold it in and told him; he said "I thought we are happy; I am happy being with you"
a few days ago the argument or disagreement was about me being jealous of his female friend(s) being overly too friendly while I were there (she tried to tickle him and he was like "are you trying to touch my butt?" I bust out with the "wtf") And the fact that his face lit up at the mention of her name. His explanation to me was because she havnt been out with them often or all the time; well his bffff and him dont hangout often like they used to before; we are always together & he ditches them or the fact that they arnt fond of me much so he doesnt want drama lol
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How do you get a guy to listen, pay attention?
Honestly? You have to make it interesting for him. There's no other way. At least, not for me. If you want my undivided attention you'd better come up with something mighty interesting or oh look, a squirrel!
Setting alarms doesn't seem to help him, nor do post-its. It's like I know my wife wants me to make a list of clothes I want to take on vacation (for real) and I just can't be bothered. It's not like I don't have the time, I just find it a tedious job so I'm postponing till Christmas come. Which is too late since we're going on a holiday in just over 2 weeks lol
It seems he's jealous though. You can work with that. At least get him worked up over something :). You could hint that you're so lonely just about any message from any guy would do. See if that get's his attention.
What I notice about me & him is that we have almost the same mentality when it comes to relationship and love. That is why we last til now even thoug we literally fight get angry almost always lol We both feels that if you complain of being lonely, and is ok to talk to another guy that basically you are just with me coz youre lonely. If thats the case then its better not to have me!
make it interesting? that just telling a pig to climb trees, I am not really that creativity.
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Guys when you and your significant other have a disgreement and arguement, how do you want/like her to be? When your annoyed, mad frustrated what do you want her to do or be like? There's a reason im asking this but i will respond back after i see your guys answers because i think it might change your answer.
Bf and I argue all the time but we always manage to talk it out, compromise to make both happy. When we are annoyed, mad, frustrated we just stay silent and do our own stuff until both are ready to talk.
What would I want him to do ? well I want us to talk it out regardless
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I dont want to my words to be repetitive, because I know for me. If someone keep saying the same thing repeatedly I will just zone out to whatever they are saying and I dont want him to do the same to me. I told him before and he told me "its not annoying, or bothersome. I forget so you have to reminds me" However it is not the 1st 3rd or the 5th but the zillion. How do you get a guy to listen, pay attention? funny thing is that even though he wrote on his white board "call babe often" and even set alarm he havnt been calling me for like he regularly does ...I am annoyed by his action. He have a habit of being good for the first few weeks then all go downhill
He is very laid-back, he let me do whatever I want. Literally I never feel like being tied-down; the only time that he was being possesive or overprotective was when we were chilling with his group of friends and this one guy from the table across from us peek over to look (i dont even think it was at me; because there were a bunch of girls and 3 guys. I felt his arms around my neck. Then again at the same place he dug his face on top of my neck nape. At work we not allow to disclose our relationship to anyone else beside the management, but there was one time where he was forcing or demanding his coworker to take a break so he can spend time with me.. I like that ! lol how can I get him to show more of that? I asked him before, and he said "you can do whatever you want, I trust you" it makes me feel good but at the same time sad lol
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Rather to say he cares; more like about himself not about her. If the guy truly wants to be with you he would do anything and go through all trouble to make it work. He is saying that because he doesn't want to be lead on or later if her feeling changes he wants to know about it and break ties so he doesn't get as hurt as when he go on thinking everything is fine but in fact the relationship is rocky
i havnt specifically talk to him about it; but mentioned it to him since we have been dating on what I like, dislike, what I want, looking for and etc. He is the type of guy that forgets or do things when he wants to; so sometimes I get the vibe that he doesnt care much about me or even at all. He talked about the future with me at our 4 months being together; then again recently but I feel like he just wants to settle down with anyone in general.
Before when asked what he wants from the relationship; he said he wants me to love him unconditionally but in order for me to love him unconditionally he needs to show me that he loves me too (emotionally physically and spiritually) however it seems like he is only physically attracted to me coz that was what he told me (his exact word was: you are very attracted and I am physically attracted to you) when asked if what other traits about me that you like he couldnt give me the answer.
in short I feel insecure, obsessive (bc i always try to talk to him all the time, always try to get his attention and etc) Our ritual time together is on Sunday and Monday but lately we have been doing alot of overtime hours so the only time that we actually get is sunday.
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False, havnt exercise yet and still putting it off for 3+hrs now lol
The next person is currently not liking their boyfriend much
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was lol
the next person is at home chilling with netflix and in-n-out
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At what point in life would you want to settle down and prioritize a relationship?
Right now is a good time for me to settle but as far as making the relationship as my #1 priority is still unsure for me. Surely I do like him a lot but I feel like we are not on the same page; we arnt connected as well as I thought/ would like us to be at 7 months.
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How long have you guys been together? talking? seeing each other? Sometimes he needs time to recognize/see that he have a good/best wing girl at his side. Try having more heart to heart conversation with him in person, keep working with him. What I learn from being with my current one is that dont whine, nag or complain. Be a girlfriend not his mother; He will listen more when you tell him what you want, how you feel about the situation, offer a solution instead of lay the problem on the table waiting for a solution. If the solution you come up with doesnt match his liking, he will do a counter-offer of solution ...Just know there will always be a 25-50% of him saying no to stuff, dont take it personally
boyfriend is being weird lately. before regardless he would text me good morning every morning on/off. sometimes he would text me consecutively for months then stop, sometimes every other day. Now he doesnt do it at all, so instead of getting angry I texted him good morning everyday but he dont respond back. When I asked him if he receive my stuff he would shyly say yes and then apologize. I dont want/need apology i want him to respond. Yes I understand hes working night shift but it is not like I am asking him to stay up at 7am to talk to me. That would be so inconsiderate.
How do I get him to do that again?
Also yesterday he was talking and asking me how many children do I want to have? When do I feel like its a good time to move in with him? I told him that "moving in is out of the question, the only way to have me move in with you is to ask for my hand. And he didnt say anything. Does it means that hes just looking for an access of sex whenever he is horny lol because if we move in together we will be together almost 24/7 and it is more easier for sex too
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first time seeing this commercial
The next person is missing six flag commercial with an old man dancing !!! that was basically the sh***t in my era LOL