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I used to get really jealous and we would fight all the time whenever his female friend name pops up or whenever his female friends involved in the cirle between us. We talked about it but nothing was resolved. He never assured me that nothing happened between them; only talks! He told me about the past dramas between all of his closest female friends, him and the female friend that liked him but feelings was not reciprocal. I asked him if there is a history or something that I should know about between him and any of his female friends and he told me no!, he said that he does not want anything to break his friendship apart so he always keep boundaries between them. I asked if there is any romantic feelings for anyone of them but never confess because he is afraid that it will ruined the friendship and he said no! I wanted to believe him but I have guy friends too! he always talk about a specific female friend of his and told me personal richard simmons about her that I dont need to know dont want to know and told him to stop. He stopped and for 2 years I tried to have him hang around her whenever they are having a group hangout which was difficult because they are always together for all events and most hangouts. BUT It finally works!! he finally understands!!! However I don't feel so great for asking him to break loose of his 10+years worth of friendship but it is for my selfishness peace of mind yet I am not at peace. Sometimes I get worried that he is going behind my back and hangout with his female friends without me. (because they always try to excluded me out of their hangouts and/or when I am attending they would give me attitude. why should he hangout without me? why is he around a bunch of female friends without the girlfriend. I dont mind him with his guys friends but for female friends !! it is either I am going or you're not going. yes it has gotten to this point! but we are not always together. we may not live that far away but it took both of us 40 minutes drive to get to each other houses sometimes longer depend on traffic situation.) Things was never going well whenever I am around his friends yet I wanted us( me and his female bffs esp the closest one that he hangout with most of the time) to be okay because they are his friends and of course you wanted to be okay with your boyfriend's friends even though they are --- (i cannot even think of a word to describe his closest friends, not to mention the 2 that I dislike) I tried to have a heart to heart conversation which made the situation escalate to today's situation/drama
I dont know what to do to ease the tension between us. We had the talk about a year ago trying to resolve the drama between all of us but it didnt go so well. Should I just leave it alone and just have him hang around with his guy friends or just resolve the issue and everyone try to get along like a mature adult we are "suppose" to be
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On 9/2/2016 at 11:24 AM, MissAria said:
I'm not a guy. I want to know ladies... How do you deal with the insecurity that your boyfriend is meeting other girls... just as friends...
? Do you not feel insecure because you totally trust him?
I got into a relationship. I fell in love too quickly. Love hurts.
How long is the relationship? Have you voice out your opinion or how you feel about him hanging around his female friends? Have you asked him about his relationship with them? (how they know each other, for how long, etc) Have you met them? Is he hanging out with just the 2 of them or with the group? Have you ever tag along to their hangout?
Relationship is all about trust, but I feel like he has to earn your trust. How about sitting down and express how you feel about this! and ask him how he feel after knowing about this?
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lol trying to eat once a day surely is tough!! but I must resist the temptation, and plus I want to see how my friend and bf are able to just eat once a day !!
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Things havnt been going well with the relationship between my boyfriend & I; his bff & I; and it makes me lose all hope of us being able to be more in the future. Yes, we did talk about the future! but when we had the fight breaks out; he told me that "with you being like this; I am not sure about us anymore" which pains me a lot and still does.
he is trying but still half-a** trying!
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On 7/19/2016 at 11:14 AM, jess1ca xd said:
If it is me in the situation. i would still call him up and ask. Damn sure it will hurt but at least you know the problems of why he decides to go on the break.
Be strong! theres plenty of fishes in the sea; at least you tried to work on the relationship so now just find some closure after finding out the reason for the breakup.
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how did the conversation starts and ends? do you have any interest towards her
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I do like the rain but I dont like to get sick
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lately I am feeling a bit off everytime I am with anyone else (guy friend(s) other than my boyfriend. Its almost as if I only want to spend time with my boyfriend most of the time mostly if at all possible. It is strange!
is it the feeling of being overly obsessed or just because I know I will be gone for 2 weeks so I am trying to see him a lot to make up of the 2 weeks that I will be gone and not see him. Few hrs ago I were with my guy friends but I am just not into it as I once used to be ...haha my guy friend joked around saying that now that I have a bf I have a relationship mind lol
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i am a girl
the next person is watching netflix
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false I dont like colas
the next person just finish their workout
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The weather is really abnormal to the point where I just want to throw on some caps and sweats calling it a day at work LOL
also hates how my store keep pulling my bf away from me. For the next 3 weeks he will be working somewhere else which means we wont be able to see each other daily. Our schedule has been really crazy that making me upset. ..
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On 4/17/2016 at 9:35 PM, aok said:
He hides the fact that he has a girlfriend from me even though l know that he has one and l've let him know that I'm well aware of his relationship.
if he hides that from you what other things can he hide
if hes willing to do that to a gf (dont know how long they have been together for) what other things he would do behind your back just like hes doing to his gf
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On 4/14/2016 at 9:34 AM, raymondc27 said:
Hey guys i always wanted to ask if a girl flicks her hair does it mean to richard simmons off or shes interested ?
depends ! agreed with the post above me
look at her overall body language
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some day I am working too many hrs
some day I dont
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False I dress like a homeless person 80% of the time
the next person loves to karaoke !!
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Im craving for jamba juice
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the next person likes to sleep
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Feeling lazy! I want to sleep but then again I want to eat
I got into a relationship. I fell in love too quickly. Love hurts.
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I would be fine with him hanging out with his guy friends, but he has a lot of female friends for which does not like me in the beginning of the relationship. ON top of so they tried to excluded me out of the events or just makes me feel uncomfortable whenever Im present to the event. Yet still he is not single anymore and for him to be around a bunch of these girls makes me feel uncomfortable. I dont like attending those events anyways but I dont want my boyfriend to go alone