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  1. 5 hours ago, triplem said:
    5 hours ago, Ameera Ali said:

    @triplem , what I am gonna do with myself in Monday & Tuesday  without our drama :bawling::bawling: 

     

     

     

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    I know the feeling . It was my happy pill to start the week. But I hv a political drama with my favourite oppa , so I am not feeling so bad . Plus I’m enjoying Perfume as well. But Garlic couple left a void that is hard to fill. How’s your Angel drama ? 

    sometimes watching daily/weekend drama is good because you don't have to ask that question of what to watch for at least 6 months. :D hahahhaha....

     

    5 hours ago, triplem said:

    I think there are no official subbers for Love Affair . Tough . 

    Think I’ve overdosed on rom coms ...time for some crime 

    normally am not a fan of OCN but it has one of my favourite actresses. so maybe I will check out watcher if in the mood. has it started yet?

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  2. 13 hours ago, kokodus said:

    Sometimes I feel like I'm such a pushover. I guess people must think that they can stomp on me and walk away like it's no big deal. But you know when I try to be stubborn and don't give in, later I feel like I'm being mean and rude unnecessarily. At the same time when I do give in, like now, I end up pitying myself for being a pushover. I don't know what to do with myself. Really I'm so tired now. 

     

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    feeling better today?

     

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  3. 8 hours ago, dito said:

     

    I had a strong feeling 321 was going to do exactly that. His entire relationship with WW is based on him making all decisions and manipulating WW into thinking he did it for her/them. WW was actually getting more and more frustrated with his plans ever since KH pointed out the flaws in their 'Great Plan' but since she has already committed herself to 321, she went along with his nonsense plans. She was starting to make her stand when they were looking for the apartment ....but got suckered in again by 321's sob story about wanting his own house since childhood. If you remember 321 even made her feel guilty about being too difficult about the whole thing. Thats what 321 always does, when WW doesn't follow his decisions. 

     I actually believe he is not even in love with her at all. He just needs another earner helping him out to reach his retirement goal early. If WW hadn't fallen for him, he would have found another gullible woman.

     

     

    I don't feel like I am watching a cheating drama because none of the leads are in love with their partners including 321 and weiwei. these two are actually in love with this grand plan which actually sucks. financial freedom is about living and enjoying life. yet, here, you have these two choose each other because they had this idea in their head about the things they would like to achieve and since both had similar wants, they settled on each other. in the first date, 321 said he liked weiwei because she was the first girl who insisted on going dutch. now, that is just absurd -- he thinks any women making some sort of demand on him is silly and burden. how on earth is that a relationship? even with the wedding planning, he said that he had heard of women wanting certain things for their wedding and how that caused fights and he found that silly. so his ideas about relationship is what exactly?

     

    weiwei also was in love with this plan and not actually 321. so on the first date, she wanted to pay but what was she actually doing -- she was signalling her independence and her ability to stand on her own. this has continued into the relationship where no one knows of their dating on weiwei's side. not even keifei. why? because that girl would ask 10,001 questions and weiwei has no answer. whenever keifei asks about 321, her answers are monosyllables. she doesn't talk at all about the kind of man 321 or how he makes her feel or why he is the ideal partner. nothing.

     

    so their 3 year relationship was almost like they were both single but with a common financial goal. thats why they were no demands of each other and they were okay with that. keuhan's entrance into her life has her questioning what she wants from a relationship. she is shaken when he is angry that her boyfriend didn't pick her up from overtime. why does that seem like such an emotional moment to her? because she has not experienced that love and concern from 321. the guy never bothered to pick her up or ask how she managed to get home. she is not impressed by keuhan's money but it is his concern that shakes her. interesting no?

     

    both weiwei and 321 had this idea in their head that they would get married x age, have kids by x age and then retire by x age. this was their life plan. they met each other and felt they both fit these plans and got into a relationship. it wasn't about love or affection but common goals -- however, they don't see each other as true partners even in those common goals. thats why 321 bought the house in his name (not jointly) and he quits when he feels like without telling her.

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  4. ep 5 thoughts -- zi yuan has no understanding of why kehuan is so mad because she has never worked. she sits there and takes his money and is all about smooching other people. so she really can't feel his pain where he feels like his 7 years of working hard was in vain and everyone gives her the credit for his success. meaning he never worked hard. OUCH!

     

    baiyang and keifei are cuties together but baiyang needs to stop feeding zi yuan info when kehuan keeps telling him to stop. now that it is obvious weiwei and keuhan like each other, what roles will baiyang and keifei play?

     

    321 is such an idiot -- he made it seem like weiwei is the reason he quiet when it was only because he got a better paying job. he put the blame on weiwei so that he doesn't have to serve out his notice period and jump quickly. hmmmph. and to top it off, he doesn't even handover properly and weiwei has to take the heat from the team.

     

    R&D fella asked actually embarrassing questions -- why doesn't weiwei know where 321 is when they live together? why are they communicating by phone? in a normal relationship, that would send alarm bells but since weiwei seems determined to put her head in the sand, she doesn't want to know that her relationship with 321 was already on shaky ground. at least she got mad that he quit without telling and even got a job without telling her. what exactly is she to him then?

     

    and new boss maizi is definitely interested in 321 -- the way she went on and on about how 321 is a great asset when he just started working a few days back. and to top it off, she gave him her handbag -- is he her boyfriend to carry it? 321 is money hungry that he might just dump weiwei even without telling her...

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  5. forgot how hilarious it is to watch a drama with timed comments on viki.

    "how are they eating so much?" "who cares, it is not your stomach!" LOL :joy:

    and this one "wow, they didn't waste the food like in other dramas." LOL :lol:

     

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  6. 12 minutes ago, Dhakra said:

    I know, but @Lmangla should post the correct link that leads to June 2019 and not 2018. :D

    technical glitch dhakra; actually linked last month's post but for some reason, it showed the beginning of the thread instead. no idea why.

     

    1 hour ago, Dhakra said:

    +2

     

    Seems like the Song couple of out of tune. I feel bad for her, she is a cutie.

     

    But I am more shocked about the suicide of Jeon Mi Sun. I liked her role in Witch at Court :( 

    true; jeon mi sun was in so many of my favourite dramas. :(

     

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  7. 3 minutes ago, Sejabin said:

     

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    but Song Joong Ki is too open. Why must declare it on public? I just know that he is a dramatic person. Or it is hurt him so much and he wants the whole world know about  it. That he is hurting. 

    At least SHK still stay cool. About it. SJK is an expressive person.

    this is why never married a noona. If you are not experienced enough :joy: 

    actually think that he has also been quite private about to a certain extent. he hasn't gone into lots of details and is keeping quiet. the statement through lawyer was rather emotional and so we know he is hurt but there are no major accusations like it happens in some really nasty divorces. by nature, any breakup is messy no?

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  8. 7 minutes ago, Sejabin said:

     

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    we are women. If something hurting us we will not be able to see what or who is hurting us. Specially if we are in the same pict together. But SHK still put it there. She is still want it. Specially a pict that they were wearing their wedding attires. 

    Well marriage never been an easy journey. Never. I am just curious why it is SJK who filled the divorce. 

    one never knows -- thats what I have learned. we think someone would react this way based on how we react but it is actually hard to tell... hopefully we will never know the why and the reason remains private. otherwise, we will get into he said-she said messes and those can get nasty.

     

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    P.S -- should start planning for july birthday post. hmm, theme? how about "change" -- so @kokodus @nrllee @sushilicious @Sejabin and others here, any suggestions? also for nice kpop songs ?

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  9. 13 minutes ago, Sejabin said:

     

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    I just cannot believe it is come from Song joong Ki. How hurt is he to be able to filled divorce. While SHK is still posting their wedding pict and some of their picts together in her private IG. At least for me she is still loves him and still wants her marriage to go on. Because if it was me, I will deleted all picts . Like it’s never happened before. Hmmhhh.. 

    @Sejabin ~ they are just like two normal individuals. many couples break up but hesitate to clean their IG or facebook because they are not ready. remember one friend kept pics for close to a year before she removed the entire lot but she shared with me later that it was because she didn't want people messaging her asking "what happened?" -- so she disconnected from fb for a while.. so different people react differently. we read based on our take but one never knows. shrug.

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  10. 23 minutes ago, nrllee said:

    FYI @sushilicious @triplem it’s getting kinda tense in the SongSong shipper thread.  Lots of people wanting to vent (some newbies coming in).  Might wanna send one of the mods who are responsible down that way to rein in the vitriol somewhat.  It’s getting kind personal in there.  :sweatingbullets:

     

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    @sushilicious is actually an event organizer like me and neither of us have mod roles. we only moderate the fun stuff like events. hahahah...  @triplem moderates the drama threads. the shipper section is moderated by 4 other mods -- you can see the names on the front page (lavelyshai, angelangie, stroppse, youngatheart)

     

     the song song thread has even lost its name! it no longer says song song couple. guess it would be weird to write "ex" and so it just has the two actors names...

     

    7 minutes ago, Sejabin said:

    I just read an article. It’s shocking. SHK. didn’t know at first that her husband divorced her 

    in pretty much all cases, divorce is not a surprise if there was trouble and the couple have been separated for a while. it is more a situation where they were talking about it, getting frustrated with each other but neither was quite ready to make the move. then finally one does and it feels like a surprise to others who weren't aware that things were not well. this happens with regular ordinary divorces as well. so it isn't shocking for me at least.

     

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  11. finally someone with brain; Jenny is so spaced out. she casually mentions to eun seok that man soo knows but hasn't told but she doesn't seem very stressed or weirded out by it. eun seok on the other hand is like "what????" and asks "so does that mean he is trying to protect you?"... and their confrontation at the end was fun because eun seok is basically throwing down man soo's facade of dutiful son-in-law mask and is asking who is man soo. hopefully we will get some details about man soo next week because he is easily turning out to be the most interesting. he also gave a little tease by telling shady mom that song ah used to yongman's wife. but then he deleted song ah's file. it almost feels like he is trying to build a domino effect of bringing down shady mom by putting one piece after another.

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  12. 1 hour ago, cenching said:

    @Lmangla

    I think their divorce process will take longer than a month since they didn't talk it over (looked like it) because they seem to have lots of joint assets, work commitments etc etc that need to be talk over...they are rich, aren't they??? I am not sure about SK's Laws too....But I saw this morning in CNN PH that they threaten lawsuit to whoever spreading false rumors about their divorce....

     

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    read it in allkpop that lawyers expect it will be wrapped up quickly in about a month. guess, the sooner it finishes, better it is. read that the drama company producing arthdal, their stock fell about 2% yesterday following the news! can you imagine a divorce affecting a stock?

     

    1 hour ago, nrllee said:

    It was just the way he did it and what he said in the announcement leaving her side scrambling to respond.  Had he wanted an amicable divorce he would’ve waited and BOTH release statements at the same time?  Like Fan Bing Bing and LiChen.  SJK and SHK were obviously not on talking terms when this blew up.  This is an ugly divorce.  There will be rumors and talk for a long time.

    am not surprised that it wasn't amicable. with amicable (public anyway) breakups, there is a joint effort when it comes to handling the early rumours. so whatever cause, my take is that she didn't put in the effort to keep up appearances (the ring fiasco). she had in some sense decided it was over. he was the one left scrambling to fix the image by wearing the ring everywhere. so they weren't on the same page even when it came to keeping up appearances and dispelling the rumours. so it means it was already very bitter and angry. so how to put a joint divorce statement that would be mutually beneficial? like you said, there will be rumours and talks for long time as they were seen like this fairy tale couple.

     

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  13. 19 minutes ago, jaydendoji said:

    The strange thing for me is he happily watched Stage Play (or maybe musical) with his film co-stars at night and then release the divorce statement next morning.

     

    Add. I wish they release statement Like Fan Bing Bing couple. This one turns out ugly.

     

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    at first reading it sounded strange but when I have gotten the context, it doesn't seem that strange. one of my friends went through divorce but there was trouble in her marriage for 3 years. all that time, she put up a front till she couldn't do it anymore because everyone knew about it anyway. even after people knew, she wasn't sure about the divorce. she kept waffling for months whether or not to file. finally she decided because of some incident. so sometimes, it is like there is a tipping point.

     

    so it looks like he was trying very hard to keep up appearances (if he didn't go, people would say he was depressed and something wrong etc). something happened  or there was an emotional moment after he went home and he was like "I can't do this anymore" and decided to file.

     

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  14. 10 minutes ago, cenching said:

    @Lmangla

    In most celebrity's divorce cases except if the men were proven unfaithful, the women were always the culprit in the eyes on the public....SongSong should had issued a joint statement in the beginning to minimized the media circus, BUT NO!! SJK was the one filling for divorce while wifey was working in Thailand (if I didn't get in wrong), so he gave an impression of wanted to be OUT ASAP hence the blames are put on her shoulders...

     

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    yea, there is speculation that she may not have been willing for a divorce because of image/film commitments. so there is also this whole ring issue -- he was seen wearing the ring and doing PR image. before the drama aired, he said marriage is good and he was happy. whereas, she was seen multiple times without ring. so basically there is the thinking that this guy was passionate and tried really hard but she didn't even put that kind of effort to fake it.

     

    so now he can't take it -- and hence, his very emotional statement. for korean netz, it looks like he was very unhappy and desperate to get out. plus, like you said before, she has a bit of cold / standoff image? whereas he has a warmer image? and he was seen as more in love with her than the other way around. apparently he was the one who wooed her and so there is the thinking that if the one who loved so intensely leaves, then something has to be wrong. so yea, it will be one media circus. but should be finished in a month once divorce comes through?

     

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  15. 12 minutes ago, cenching said:

     

    The media is starting a witch hunt and most of the mud slinging are directed to SHK....Is SJK has been canonized recently??? <_<

     

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    I could not understand till I read the netizen comments. so basically, there are some reading between the fine lines -- one, his report came through a lawyer and this lawyer also apparently made a strong comment that he generally defends people who are innocent. so something to do with divorce laws in korea about how the injured party has more rights. also joong ki's words about not wanting to put blame and argue, hence, the affair rumours.

     

    the other question is that he has gone for contested divorce instead of mutual consent. so the official statement is that he filed for contested because there was settlement that has to be arbitrated. both have lots of money. the other aspect is that he filed in the middle of his drama airing like he couldn't take it anymore. netizens are like how bad was it that he did it during the drama airing especially as he has a very easygoing image. tvn also put out a statement that it was actor's personal life and it does not impact schedule.

     

    there are also reports that they have been living apart from september when the drama started filming. so there was trouble very early on. so netizens are also finding her excuse for not wearing a ring bogus. there was a report where the source was stated as friend -- apparently, hye ko lost lot of weight due to problems in marriage and hence was not wearing the ring.

     

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    was reading the netizen comments on song-song divorce -- wow, picture was so much more complex. it sure is going to get nasty. can anyone tell me why folks seem to be saying that she dates all her co-stars? didn't she just date publicly 2 fellas? lee byung hun and hyun bin? were there other rumoured ones?

     

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  17. does anyone else think that the actor who plays eun seok feels both young and old at the same time? hahahah.. so he has kind of a baby face but then there are moments, when he seems so mature and so is probably playing younger?

    anyway, it was basically eun seok's episode - he bonds with dong joo over basketball and dinner but it was his chat with yong man that had me laughing. the two cousin brothers basically doing a one-upmanship on abs was hilarious. it seems like they are sort of fond of each other underneath and kind of react like two kids still.

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    @Lawyerh ~ I also got the same result and just reading the write-up makes me confused. what exactly is passion supposed to mean? and absolute boyfriend sounds like such a boring drama that I didn't even read recaps.

    Spoiler

    You secretly crave a romantic relationship like that of Uhm Da Da (Minah) and Ma Wang Joon (Hong Jong Hyun) in "Absolute Boyfriend"!

    Dating a top star? Sounds awesome! ...Or is it? Dating a top star means you barely ever get to meet, and since you can’t make your relationship public, you can’t ever go out on a date. But if you really love your celebrity partner, you can definitely make it work. Or maybe you want to be the top star in the relationship, which means you’ll have to make a difficult decision between breaking up with your partner or allowing them to be exposed to a threat.

     

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  19. 3 minutes ago, LSGLMH_88 said:

     

    well no he got married in 2013... This drama was probably 10 years bk..sorry my bad... but lee byung hun is a bad choice... very very bad choice...

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    no worries; I just remember that drama because I tried to sit through it but it was so boring! hahahaha... and there was a bed scene that supposedly took 8 hours to film but was like 3 seconds and not even hot. and I was like "wait, what? where is the sizzle? why did they hype it for?" :lol:

     

    5 minutes ago, cenching said:

    @LSGLMH_88

    The rumor mills threw Park BoGum into the mix this time.....:scream:

     

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    poor fella; must be regretting his choice to do the drama; first there were fans yelling at him during the drama and now he gets pulled into it again...

     

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  20. Just now, LSGLMH_88 said:

     

    yaa... lee byung hun..

    was he married at the time? I remember she was seeing him when they did that drama together. what was the name -- something to do with gambling? casinos? can't remember. but I thought he was single at the time because this drama was really old and ages ago...

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