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On 13/02/2017 at 8:56 PM, abni01 said:
I suppose I have a relationship advice question.
My boyfriend of almost 4 years left me over a year ago. Soon after, he was with someone else and they were expecting a baby. I guess I should mention his motive for leaving me was to be with this girl. Fast forward to now, he is still with her and they have had their child. The child was born before they were even together for an entire year. Mind you, we are what is to be considered young I would say. We are not teenagers, however I don't think the typical person plans to have a family at our age. All of his family is still friends with me on social media and for a while I often hung out with his cousin (whom is more like a sister to him, as his mother raised her), his family likes my photos, and they sometimes reach out to me. Anyhow, throughout the entire past year and up until currently he searches me on his Facebook account. Yes, I log into his account as he still has the same general information. I get that I am wrong for that, but sometimes it overcomes me. Anyway, it was less frequent before.. maybe once a month or every other month.. Recently it's been about every 2 weeks or more. Does this mean he is not yet over me, missing me, regretting his decision, or am I just over reacting and he is curious? I feel as though it must mean more than just curiosity..
I understand that my best decision is to let go, so in no offense, please spare me that. I have really done my best.. and I truly am doing alright. I have lost 60 pounds since we have been apart and even gotten a really good job as well as I am trying to enroll back into school. I just miss him and really do think we let our young and dumb ways get the best of our relationship. I in no way have any intentions of messing with his family, I am not a home wrecker and do not plan to be. I wish no harm on his current girlfriend at all. I do miss him and hope that maybe our paths cross again in the future, however I understand that may not be in the cards. It is just bugging me incredibly so that I need to know what's running through his mind when he searches me.
Don't forget the reason why you two are apart, and the reason why he stalks your facebook. You're learning about yourself and who you ultimately want as your companion. he was part of that process, and you were a part of his. You don't need to feel sorry for him, you can be better for someone new. Use the pain he gave you to learn and grow for the future. Just stay happy and healthy.
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On 24/02/2017 at 9:19 AM, fashioncriminalxo said:
Do guys talk about their feelings to the girl they like, whether they're dating or not? If they so, is it a big deal for the guys?
Do they show their actions more than they speak about their feelings?
It really depends on the person, how open they're to talk about life in general and how comfortable you two are..
On 19/02/2017 at 4:53 PM, halfmoonsmile said:Let's say that a girl takes at least 2 hours to send you a message. What would a guy think? Would he care she's taking a while?
No we will not really give a damn unless the person likes you, it's a different feeling
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3 hours ago, omochi said:
Set to watch the finale of Descendants of the Sun
The drama is so good im a huge fanboy
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16 minutes ago, chiluvskk said:
He is Chinese and no we haven't done it, he's very respectful and hasn't pushed for anything at all. We only hug and hold hands (which is even slow for me lol)
Best effort would be asking the friend about his background. I dont have enough information about him to judge
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10 minutes ago, chiluvskk said:
Hi guys
I've been dating a guy I met through mutual friends for 2 months. During times we hangout he specifically call these "dates" and has refused to let me pay because he is traditional. He calls/texts me every day or other day. He also buys me small gifts all the time.
Recently I asked him if he was looking for causal or serious dating (this is because he's 11 yrs older than I am). He says he's looking for serious dating but only see us as being friends due to the age difference and that we live kinda far from each other (We only live 30 miles from each other!)
how am I supposed to interpret this? He still contacts me and wants to go out, with him picking me up and paying when we go out. I'm so confused, do guys do this for their female friends?
Hmm you mind telling me where hes from ? Also one very personal question. Have you guys done it
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Hey guys i always wanted to ask if a girl flicks her hair does it mean to richard simmons off or shes interested ?
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Just had a bowl of shark fin. Ate it loke noodles lol
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6 minutes ago, omochi said:
Assuming she told you outright she had ps then she's prob not afraid to show you either.
Assuming you asked if she had ps then you are probably not afraid to ask further either. Rude? Perhaps.. but then again you'll never satisfy your own curiosity otherwise lol
Haha i always wanted to ask a korean this. Maybe one day i will or perhaps it might just destroy the image i had in mind
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How rude is it for a guy to ask a girl for her pre surgery picture?
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