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  1. THIS AGE GAP BROU-HAHA

     

    Please do not judge me for saying this.... but I've been wanting to say this for so long already.

     

    I have nothing against ahjummas or middle-aged women, we will all get older/mature eventually anyway.  And there is always that graceful way to get old, and still look just as fabulous, and be a woman of substance.  ;)

     

    But I think all these over-the-top reactions to age gaps, criticizing if the male lead is way older than the female lead, but exalting if it is the female lead who is older --- seems to do just one thing ...TO FEED THE AHJUMMAS FANTASIES.... that whether guys are old or young, all will fall only for them and not for those cutesy, youthful type.  Now that is just delusional. UNREALISTIC. (knowing how the male species operate and behave--- well i'm not generalizing though :sweatingbullets: hahha).

     

    The ahjummas in Korea might be really scary ...for Kdrama storylines to bend-over-backwards for them all the time.

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  2. 3 hours ago, t123han said:

    Because he came to know that jian stole the money and had not spoken to her the whole episode . Initially he had intention of ignoring her like he did whole day , but I think he changed his mind last minute when she passed by him. DH is fool like that .. his heart cannot not ignore jian when she is near him :)

     

    This was after the loan sharks called him about the stolen money (certificates) that was brought to them??  i seem to have memory gap on this part of that episode :P

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  3. And so i have been reading some random blogs about couple relationships... to past away the time.
    Some have happy stories, some not... some mind-boggling.

    But one couple "profile" who both partners have a hard time letting go (when they were breaking up) left me stunned...Hahhha

    because strangely, it seems to remind me of the DH-JA dynamics..

     

     

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    Profile of A & B

    YOU HAVE THE MOST  INTENSE ,LIFE CHANGING RELATIONSHIP 

     

    Clearly what you have is karmic, the most life changing relationship that you will experience, and this  kind of relationship, even if not brought to a physical level, will leave a mark on you for the rest of your life.

    From intense desire, obsession, acting completely out of the norm, something is triggered by each of you and  you  are never the same again.
    The bond is felt like something beyond your control, and, especially in the beginning of the relationship, this might be frightening.

    First, you feel this unspeakable attraction towards the person in front of you and you’re drawn to that person like a moth to flame. You surrender. And start interacting, talking and, from the first words, you feel like there was something meant to be. Things usually evolve very fast and, before you even realize what’s happening to you, you wake up one morning with an obsessive, compulsive and oh, so incredibly beautiful and intense relationship. You feel the depth of what’s lying in front of you and, scared, you try to run....but alas, it’s not possible. It really isn’t. You’re stuck.

     

    With growing awareness... there’s a feeling of intensity in the air  bringing intense feelings and issues right up to the surface but not quite through it. There’s a lot of unconscious behavior...  you feel and sense this  but can’t articulate it, much less direct or utilize it. 

     

    Still you were not able to resist...cannot resist...for your connection cannot be avoided. It was meant to be lived, consumed down to your last living cell.  The need to be with one another is simply irrepressible.

     

    Your innermost psyche is going to be laid bare... all secrets and the subconscious will be pried open.  Like how the most hidden feelings and obsessions could be coming to light for the very first time.  Like you never thought you are capable of feeling.

     

    Usually when these kind of relationships end, it might be very hard for you to be just friends, and sometimes these relationships ten years down the line can still bond the two of you and just the thought of that relationship can trigger an emotional response so intensely.


    A helps B change , like a powerful transformation. A have triggered buttons in B he may have never thought were there and purge out things that have been hiding deep inside him.

     

    The arguments in these kind of relationships can make one literally feel like they will die or breakdown is the relationship should end. It is as if they cannot live without the other person. One can get so fearful that one argument can be the end of the relationship.


    This strong emotional reaction can be new, this can really happen to anyone, even to the calmest and to the sweetest....explosions galore like a volcano can happen over and over again to the person who is being triggered and transformed.

     

    Even the nicest of people, all of a sudden can display the most aggravated and frustrated emotions from this awakening when their buttons are pushed by their partner. They can go their entire life not reacting that way in relationships, but then someone with a powerful connection to them comes along and literally reveals like a mirror the shadow self of the other person, the side that we keep hidden!  Dark energies that need to be transformed, things we bury and suppress. We deny our dark side our desires, and this person comes along and pow! 
    The energies aroused are almost uncontainable.

    (hahhhahaha...whatever :tongue:

     

    A brings it out in B and force him to deal with it.  It can be a painful process but these relationships can be very healing for both.

    This can work if the other person is ready to recognise their weaknesses and work on them. 
    A relationship that cannot be taken lightly, and the passion and union will be very hard to forget.

     

     

     

    Oh wow... so who pushes the button of whom... hahhaa
    Well they both definitely pushed my buttons...:tongue:

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  4. I was also wondering about that... why their son was made to study overseas so early.

     

    I mean i understand the quality of education they are after or for him to learn English, for him to be independent? or learn the western culture/way of life.   But why at a very young age? he's practically still a baby.. still in his formative years, when the parents' presence is most important?? shouldn't they have waited until he was already in High School or College?

     

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  5. 2 hours ago, africandramalover said:

     

     

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    In my rewatch, I've also wondered to myself, would I ever date DH? Assuming we were in university together? Would any of you date a DH? 

     

     

     

    Would i ever? Girl !!! he had gotten so well in running ... it's because of those times trying to get away from me throughout college... round the university grounds..w-aahahha. 

    Lucky him i don't run as fast as JiAn..:tongue:

     

     

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  6. 7 hours ago, sadiesmith said:

    Thank you for the much anticipated pictures. IU looks so feminine with her hair done like that, but LSK needs to stay home until he grows out his hair. What the heck did he do to it?

     

     

    LOL. ...  i think in that one photo LSK is just wearing his cap backwards.

     

    Hahha we're just so used to seeing Engineer DH in suit as compared to this rugged and laid-back look of LSK :tongue:

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  7. 15 minutes ago, sadiesmith said:

     

    I think there is a way to link individual posts.  I'll see if I can figure it out.  The fan page exclusively created for all things My Ajusshi sounds more and more like an excellent idea.  How do we go about creating one?

     

    I feel like we are under the ever watchful eyes of DC fans on the other side of the world.  Is it still okay to proceed?

     

    They can lurk at their own risk...

    Someone give them the links of those "fan-fics" and have them translate that ..waahaha

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  8. 19 minutes ago, mujay said:

    :lol: laughed like a loon:lol:

    You see.uri ahjussi even close his eyes 

    Waa .. heart attack literally..lol

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    I think after blusing ahjussi recieved inviting  dinner date, there'er be moment to give sweet smack to a lovely girl with shy sad eyes .B)

     

    Smack time..

     

     

    Shy ahjusshi is feeling it....wahhaha

    Their lips touched...and BAM !!!! :tongue:

     

    And yeah they're going to go out and have dinner...

    Will there be smooching after desserts?  How will we ever know!!?

    I want visuals, billboard monitor size visuals...pleeeasseee

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  9. 3 minutes ago, reign143 said:

    We really didn't get the answer as to why Halmoni Bong Ae loves the moon so much, but come to think of it, It's one of the reason why DH found out where JA lives and how he said JA is a good person because she takes good care of her grandma, It's so heartwarming :) Thanks to the persimmon DH has the reason to follow JA and Halmoni and for her love of the moon, they are like cupids to make DH and JH to get more closer :wub:

     

     

    And Halmoni became an instant DH-JA Shipper.... 

    She held DH's hand expressing her trust in him to be there for JiAn.
    Grandmas knows best.

     

    :blush:

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  10. Not sure if this had been posted already before...

    About LJE's  Birthday Mini-Fanmeeting Event & Screening of MA  (Episode 15)
    5.16.2018

     

    When she blew the candles and made a wish.. it is for MA to have the highest rating on their finale.

    And her wish came true.

    :)

     

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    And this heartfelt message....

     

     

    Spoiler


    Lee Sun Kyun birthday message for her :
     

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    LSK :

    Jieun- ah !

    Congratulations on your 26th Birthday !

    Since last year's cold winter... about 4.5 months

    I felt so grateful to be able to work with you.. and your character Lee Ji An

    I was really happy 

    I believe through this project, you have proven the qualities you have
    not just as a singer.. but as an actress too.

    So I am really happy for you !
    I hope you'll receive lots of love as actress Lee Jieun too.

    I learned a lot and was really happy.
    You've worked hard.

    Thank you for being with us.

    Stay energetic and fighting !
    Let's be happy in the future too.
    Though we won't be able to meet often,

    But just like Park Dong Hoon, 

    I'll always root for you on the sidelines.
    Thank you, Happy Birthday to you !

    Thank you.

     

    ♥ ♥ ♥

    ♥ ♥ ♥

     

    LJE posted:

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    He is such a thoughtful, caring soonbae to LJE.

    Such a sweetie.

    And he is cute too... handsome...and yes hot ! super ! :tongue:
    I am triggered by those haters who say otherwise.
    Seriously even on an acting level he is one of my top favorites.

    Pretty actors who cannot even act have no appeal to me at all.

     

     

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  11. Alway's Something There to Remind Me
     
    I walk along the city streets ..you used to walk along with me
    And every step I take reminds me of just how we used to be
    Well, how can I forget you, girl?
    When there is always something there to remind me
    Always something there to remind me

     

    :rolleyes:

     

    Lady bugs
    Coffee
    Sneakers
    Slippers
    Electricity poles
    Copier machine

    Soccer
    Traffic lights
    Telephone booths
    Cellphones
    Beer
    Persimmons
    Moon
    Trains

    Railroads 

     

    Always something there to remind me
    I was born to love her, and I will never be free
    You'll always be a part of me

     

     

    How cool is that... the MA Team has their own chatroom .. Hahha just like us here in Soompi..

    Can't let go?

    What is moving on? 

    :tongue:

     

    Seriously their drama, their bond is epic, as I've said it's going to be a classic and will be remembered for a long, long time.
    The team should be friends for life... have a regular meet-ups.. atleast once a month.

    Better yet make a new project together.

     

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  12. 5 hours ago, anipanch said:

    @sadiesmith haha actually I've read that LSK doesn't like participating in intimate scenes after getting married :unsure: It kinda disappointed me but well, man has his priorities XD Although he still has some racy scenes in movies, so he can't say no entirely

     

    I think his movie Petty Romance was after he got married, and it's full of racy scenes hahha ^_^

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  13. 11 minutes ago, sadiesmith said:

    Hahaha... Sounds like someone has been reading too many fanfics (totally not me ... ).  :ph34r:

    The director really has gone overboard with his "creative" story-telling when all we wanted in the end was old fashioned smooches.

     

     

     

    Fanfics?..w-hat fanfics... i haven't read any.......... big-grin2-smiley-face.gif

     

    Why and how could a mere handshake be more erotic 1000x volts levels than the whole shebang if it comes to that.... TELL ME WHYYYYYY !!!!!??? naughty-smiley-face.gif whyyyy

     

    How is that even possible ... the touch was sooo intimate.

    Or are we just too deprived of DH-JA skinship.. arggghhh

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  14. 27 minutes ago, mushroomsoupie said:

     

     

     

     

    No matter how you interpret it, this scene is just (heartwarmingly / heartbreakingly) beautiful.. It's been a week and I can't seem to let this drama go... The withdrawal is real..

     

    That GIF attacked me on all levels... im shookt..  big-eyed-smiley-face.png

     

    He held her hand so tightly .... those imprints... is giving me scandalous visuals hhhahhhaah

    imprints on her hand..on her bare shoulder..on her back ...on her waist.....argggghhhhhhh :blink:

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  15. Okey i am so not over with my rant yet too....  angry-smiley.gif
     

    I was trying my very best to let it pass ...those photos on his office desk... but

     

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    I was thinking (to pacify the team-YH audience, okey they had to put a picture there...but why so many? one would have been enough...If just to be fair on both sides, they should just have left his office desk bare... or just put a cactus plant on it...whatsoever :angry:
     

    • But to pacify my own irritation... that photo of  him and the brothers on his desk isn't it just part of SH's dream/fantasy ?  So i guess it's what YH's photos represent  too ... unreal... and will never be real anymore !!!

     

    • Funny KH.

    When he saw DH gazing  at JA like a love-sick fool :tongue: he just had to hand him over the shades to lessen the intensity..bwahhaha.

     

    • KH is awesome too by asking DH to live with them when YH left.

     

    • YH will stay in US until son finishes college?? at that time the kid is probably still in grade school, long way to go til college.  Spending more, and more years apart is clearly not an effort at all to save whatever is left in their marriage.


    • This is not to condemn YH any further...but in Seoul when she and DH were living together, she still managed to get into an affair....what more when she's miles, and miles away overseas.. if she did it before...can she not do it again??? Hah!

     

     

     

    So i think, since the MA audience is divided into two (the Shippers and the Non-shippers)...
    In order to satisfy both they wanted to do "two versions" of the ending...  well i guess they did that two versions AND MIXED IT TOGETHER... thus the bipolar ending.
    :mellow:

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