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  1. speedredefined said: Theoretically, let's say you meet a guy at a nightclub.  And say you and him made out. Theoretically he's an amazing kisser, best you ever had x1Billion.  You told this guy you thought he was hot, and you leave him your name/number (so he can add you to facebook, because said guy doesn't prefer texting unless said girl had whatsapp which she didn't, and told you he'd add you to FB instead).  
    Theoretically, why would you not add him to FB the next day?  Why would you even give him your name / number if you weren't gonna accept his add?  Would it be because you think his pics were bad?  Was he better looking at the club?  Didn't think he was a good kisser (near impossible)??!  Didn't like his "likes"?  Why not just say, "No thanks, I don't date guys I meet at the club"??  or "No thanks, not interested.  Have a nice rest of your night"?? 
     What's the reason!??!?
    Why even bother exchanging contact info and leading him on?

  2. dazz said: Hello everyone :)

    I kinda needed to write something down because i feel somewhat desperate and in need of some opinions.

    I got into an argument with my girlfriend and this argument was already an accumulation of previous arguments and it pissed her off completely - it's actually the first time I've ever seen her this way. Now, it was an argument that could be avoided but sometimes i feel like we don't really connect and we need to sit down and have a serious conversation. This argument we had was about the lack of affection she shows and the irregularity of it, like she only demonstrates affection when she feels like it, whilst I am usually the same ol' me and for me, showing affection, be it a kiss, a hug or whatever is quite natural and something i enjoy giving if she feels like it.

    Everytime we start talking about something a little deeper, about each other's feelings per say - she considers it to be over dramatic and drops the conversation. This is why I have problems in knowing her, because she's just not as open as I am.

    Anyway, we had an argument and since it was I who started it and because I felt I was slightly childish in the way I approached the topic, I felt the need to apologize. I was really regretting and I still am. She warned me before and that the small patience she had was because she loved me. After my apology (It was an extremely sincere apology, i felt like i was losing her so yes, imagine my despair) she says I should decide about what I really want and that I am merely a kid and that she was already tired of those little arguments. She also said that she didn't want to hear from me, no messages, nothing until the time I decide and even so, according to her, only then she would know what to do with me - basically I'm in her hands.

    My question is, after the apology I gave, an apology that demonstrated exactly what I want (her, of course) and that I really regret the fact that I tried to impose my "open" minded attitude when she probably is less communicative and open than I am regarding feelings - please, what should/can I do more?
    She removed a few of our fotos from her instagram :(

  3. as a child and teenager, no.  i did whatever i wanted to do -- regardless of what my parents thought.

    now that i am much older and having graduated university, i always put the thoughts and wants of my parents first and my own thoughts and wants second.

    hm, this topic makes me think of the 18-year old girl who sued her parents and how she'll turn out as a proper adult.

  4. damyoungji said: The moment I stepped into the workplace, I knew it was not going to be a good day.
    Lets just say I just sent my manager an e-mail about the unacceptable and unprofessional behaviour of a fellow co-worker today. I am not a nurse, but she dumped her responsibilities for one of her patients onto me - a CONFUSED patient who fell earlier in the day! The patient was at risk of falling again, yet she made me watch the patient and try to settle her down whenever she tried running away. To make matters worse, she put both of us at risk when she almost fell and grabbed onto me!
    I do not mind people who are slow or not that bright, but lazy people? They are the ABSOLUTE WORST!

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