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    JiHo: This thing called marriage... is... so... nice.

    BokNam: Getting married and then having a one-sided love on your husband - that's really something not easy, Noona.

    JiHo: Is it obvious?

    SeHee: Is it because of this?

    SeHee: Wonseong-ri's Sniper - it's that person. Coming into this company - is it okay?

    HoRang: I'M (GETTING) MARRIED!!!!!!!!

    SuJi and JiHo: AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

    SangGu: We're doing a contract? For our date-relationship?

    SuJi: I like CEO Ma~ I wanna date (you)~

    WonSeok: Hyung and SuJi? It's a total bok-bul-bok (lucky or not, meaning "a toss in the air") and feels like it's the ruination of your life?

    SuJi: SangGu Oppa~~

    JiHo: All these... how can (we) do it all?

    SeHee's Mom: Our daughter-in-law is so precious, how can I (order) you around~?

    SuJi: JiHo, too, is her in-law life starting?

    JiHo: A way to go into that man's heart... is there a road to there?

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    JiHo: Cat~ How are you here?

    SeHee: She took a taxi herself and came. Because she couldn't open the door so she cried in front of it and called out.

    JiHo: She has... that kind of capability?

    SeHee: ... ... No... of course.... [laughing and crying right now, HAHAHAHAHA]

    SeHee: Because... it was a joke...

    JiHo: Ha... So you... joke... huh...

    SeHee: Yes...

     

     

     

    *on the floor rolling and crying*

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  3. It doesn't help that at the last part, they were discussing about having friends, with SeHee saying that 2 is plenty when JiHo half-laughed that she only had 2 (unlike others who have a lot). SeHee thought that 1 friend is good. And then they agreed that loving once in a life is enough. WHAT?!

    They're at vastly different places now, with JiHo starting her One Love and SeHee already done with his.

    Huh. No wonder SeHee's dad was so insistent that he marry. I guess he didn't care so much if his son married or not, but he didn't want the past scar to stop his son from finding love and receiving love and pushing him to work towards marriage was one of his ways.

     

     

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  4. WHAT? SEHEE WAS ALMOST MARRIED??? HE EVEN FILLED OUT THE FORM WITH SOMEONE CALLED JeongMin?!?! Did I see something wrongly??????

     

     

    Ma SangGu is SO. KYUTE. He was crying because no matter how much he thought, he can't sell his company. But if he can't sell his company, then he can't see SuJi (the last time, she sneered at him to sell his company and then come find her if he wants to sleep with her). But to him, love and his company are equally important, so that's why his heart is hurting - to the point that he cried like crazy. HAHAHAHAHAHA. Is there another one of him? I want one! And SeHee offered to buy cakes at the cafe for everyone just to keep them from interrupting SangGu and SuJi.

     

    BokNam laughed at JiHo, seeing how smitten she was with him and told her the reason SeHee revealed to him about why he married her. And she goes skipping all the way home, noting that there are so many stars in the sky... when it was a cloudy night and neither star nor satellite can be seen. *snort* Before that, after the meeting with their other friends, JiHo had confessed that she liked being "in" with the Married Club and SangHee dryly replied with Maslow's Theory of Needs, breaking it all down to "animal nature" and she side eyed him so hard he actually noticed. So she complained that how there were absolutely NO stars that night. Heh.

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  5. 2 hours ago, yerinfish said:

    But then again, in real life I've heard two male friends hesitant to marry, when the ladies were of course 101% sure of them.

     

    Not a guy, but pretty sure much of it is because men see marriage as a responsibility on their shoulders that they'll have to support even when they're at their wits end, no matter come what may - in other words, it's like a coffin with no escape route, and they cannot see what the world in the future will hold and are not sure if they are ready to handle that kind of uncertainty. Usually, they'll phrase this as "not ready". Women instead believe it to be a union where they gain someone reliable to lean on when things get difficult - it's like gaining a sturdy pillar in life who will always be there to help when things get too much. If real world gets too much, they can hide in the world that is their nuclear family, and husband will sort the big problems, or at least, you know, there's a safety net. And you know, dealing with the great big world is scarier than dealing with family who knows you.

     

    That kind of thinking is most probably because of the belief that men have to be breadwinners and head of their households while the wives can just... I dunno... be nice housewives. Maybe it would be better if both sexes went into this thinking it as a partnership, where both have to be reliable pillars, both while facing the world and home.

     

    And men can be really hard on themselves (because of all the burden and worries!) while the women tend to be more optimistic when judging their men. I dunno, I guess you can say that the men are being worrywarts about not being good enough while the women can see these men for themselves and all the good that they are.

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  6. WHY DOES THE EX HAVE TO COME BAAAACKKK??? NOOOOOOOOOO!!

     

    Do people really go round searching for their exes in real life like they've got nothing to do? Or is Korea that small??? Why is every other drama character bumping into their ex and having things stirred up???? 

     

    I wish SeHee and JiHo a peaceful life... where they can't be without each other. Hehehehehehehheheehhehehe!!!

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  7. 1 hour ago, lclarakl said:

     

    I don't think in any of my comments did I say she deserved to be harassed.  However, I have said, and I will stick by this, that she needs to dress appropriately for the occasion and be conscience of her environment knowing that she's surround by men who make harassing comments.  Just because you have the right to do something, doesn't mean you always should. If there is a lion outside your home waiting to attack. Just because it's your yard, doesn't mean you would be defiant and go outside anyway with no protection.  Just because something is wrong, don't expect people to do the right thing. 

     

    Mmm, that's right. Those scumbugs are not human. They're animals. Can't even think, can't even control themselves. Better go eat dog food. Human food is wasted on them.

     

    The very point here is that victims have had enough of people telling them what they should do, what they should not. When something goes wrong, they're the ones who first blame themselves when - and this is the very crux of this issue - THEY ARE NOT THE REASON THEY WERE HARASSED. If we keep subscribing to the idea that women should be policing themselves because men have no decency, when we keep blaming the woman for not acting "as she should" then what is the point of society, what is the point of laws, what is the point of social etiquette. It becomes a world where might is right. Let's just throw everything to the dogs.

     

    I'll tell you the reason why I was livid when I read your posts. Because it was victim blaming in essence. Yes, I agree with you that reality demands that a woman be conventionally innocent and agreeable to be seen as a good woman and any woman who's even a little "wild", a little "foxy", a little "easy" is seen as openly welcoming attention of the sexual kind. NO. A woman may wear short skirts because she likes how it makes her legs look long. She might like sex because the orgasm and the adrenaline makes her touch the sky, makes her happy. A woman might like not to wear a bra as much as she can because the damn thing is so stuffy. That does not mean that anyone has a right to her body, a right to be asking anything of her, to be leering at her and regardless of what she does, it does not mean that anyone should take it all into consideration for matters that are unrelated.

     

    When something untoward happens to a woman (or a man, whichever), the cause of that reason is because of the harasser who acted, not the victim who was just minding her own business. You can put the bra on, you can sit on the edge of your seat, far from the creeper. What the victim does does not matter. The harasser can still harass because he's a filthy nutjob with a brain problem. The cause of the harassment is the harasser, not the victim. Point your fingers right.

     

    "Just because something is wrong, don't expect people to do the right thing." Humanity is done for, especially if we're just accepting this line of thought.

     

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    Also, again you missed my point and took it out of context. Watch the drama in detail and the message the writer is trying to make. Just like Facebook. You can friend whoever you want and ignore those you don't want into your private circle. SJ's workmate said she keeps ignoring her friend request.  For SJ, this is her personal space. She has control over who she allows to view her personal page. When she has these one nightstands, she's controlling who she has sex and when. Those things can make a person feel a little more in control or empowered. 

     

    And that's the way it should be???? Why is that linked to some neurotic reason?

     

    When people want to feel in control, be empowered, they can plan. They can reject outings. They can go shopping. They can get a dog. They can get a cat. They can join a club, be the leader, start deleting people off their Facebook accounts or ignoring requests... etc. There are so many activities that a person can do to feel empowered and in control. My god, they can even go Machiavellian and psychotic and go round manipulating people. Who has sex for the utmost purpose of feeling in control???? Do you think this is BDSM where there's a dominant and a submissive?? People have sex mostly because they like the orgasm! And because, well, to show love and intimacy and whatever that is not there in one night stands but in loving relationships. 

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  8. 16 minutes ago, lclarakl said:

    As one lady I spoke to once said, "I may have been a victim, but I'm a woman with rights! I have a voice!"

     

    And then someone comes and shout, "those men came at you because you didn't wear your bra! And you sleep with other people casually! (You deserve it!)"

     

    Since when does anyone sleep with others just because she doesn't feel in control??? She sleeps with men she likes because she likes it. So what.

     

    And of course when you've got nothing to lose, you're ready to kill anyone.

     

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  9. 3 hours ago, lclarakl said:

     

     

    Hmmm.....interesting. To read your post, you would think she has to put up with sexual harassment and not stand up for herself in order to keep a job because she is "barely hanging on".  This woman is driving a new car in a city that has one of the most robust transit systems in the world. A car also has other expenses such as gas, insurance and maintenance. She's living independently in a nice apartment which seems to be a difficult thing in South Korea. She's also able to travel. SJ is living a comfortable life. She's not working in this job because she can barely hold on, she's working in this job because she has a goal--to be the boss one day.

     

    Sigh. So you're telling me that having the exact same standard of life as the arses around her is a privilege that she has to give up her dignity to enjoy - it doesn't matter if she's given it all she's got, doesn't matter if she's gotta drop everything and run for work whenever the call comes, doesn't matter that she's sacrificing her off time whenever they call, it doesn't matter if she stays late to deliver results, doesn't matter if she's equally as competent and successful in contributing to the company. How hard a woman work doesn't matter - because it's not women's right to have a decent, good, comfortable standard of living. To enjoy that, women have to endure harrassment, irregardless, just to have a taste of what life the men get... without harrassment.

     

    You know, in some professions, a car is a need. She has to meet clients all over, come at the shortest possible notice. People do business with successful people. A car is a sort of branding too.

     

    She's not living in a nice apartment. A nice apartment is SeHee's apartment. She's living in a box. She's living in a mid-scale one/two room plain place. And for all we know, she has no one else to rely on, no family home reasonably near her workplace, like JiHo, and most probably, that place is a rental not under her name - snort, what "nice apartment" is that?

     

    She has a goal - to live her life. And like I said, she never said she had to be a "boss" in that company. And every company only has one boss (or two if it's a partnership but what are the chances she'll be offered that in this company) - so to achieve her dream, she's gotta get out of that company because no old pug is gonna make way for her, a ~lady~. If you have a boss, you're not a boss. I'm speaking specifically of the word 사장, not your average corporate department head. There's a reason she hasn't left yet. That reason might just be "no recourse yet".

     

    Opening a company is not some hobby you do. It takes lots of resources.

     

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    To reach that goal, she's willing to let men grope her despite hating it. However, she doesn't seem to have a problem with having casual sex with men she barely knows then throws that into the face of the man she really likes; which may be her way of telling herself that she's in control. I see her as sad and a woman who has lost her way and  tries to pretend she's in control. 

     

    She's not willing to let men grope her. She's enduring because she cannot afford to lose what she will lose - yet.

     

    Who cares if she doesn't have a problem with casual sex? That's her body, her right. As long as it's consensual in all directions. That has no implication and shouldn't be a consideration in anything else unrelated - and "unrelated" also means whether a man, whom she's totally uninterested in and even offended by, has a right to leer and and harrass her. And the answer is always NO. What she does has zero influence in their right to her body - which is absolutely nothing at all times.

     

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    While at a school friend's wedding, the women around her talked about how they heard she was a prominent figure in the business department. SJ commented that they just say that to make fun of her. She then told them that the real success was JH.....JH who didn't have a place of her own, who had a rocky job, who had been top of the class, etc. In the eyes of SJ, JH was to be admired.

     

    You have got to be kidding me. She wasn't jealous of JiHo. She was standing up for JiHo, whom the other brats were obviously looking down on for not being conventionally successful - they weren't even seeing her as their equal.

     

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    She became angry when she heard about JH being harassed by her co-worker. She wanted to "kill the jerk". She wanted to call him up. She wanted to "kill him in the night".

     

    That shithole was about to rape JiHo. I would have killed him myself. 

     

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    This is the same woman who let men grope her body against her will--and hating it. This woman was also happy when Mr. Ma stood up for her. Yes, standing up against sexual harassment caused him to lose the deal, but he felt good about protecting her.

     

    Again, she wasn't willing. She's enduring. And why wouldn't anyone be happy and grateful when someone's willing to stand up for her.

     

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    No, I'm not waiting for her to "reach the end of her line", I'm waiting for her to become a strong woman and standup for herself in the face of harassment; to realize that she doesn't have to let men harass her in order for her to achieve her goal of one day being successful. I'm waiting to see the same fire in her eyes and anger she experienced when she found out JH had been harassed. 

     

    It appears that even her boss tells her married male peers to not "work late with a single woman like her because it could start nasty rumors". I'm waiting for her to stand up to her boss who uses her as an "entertainer".  

     

    When the boss said "like her", he wasn't referring to her "image" as a "s.lut". In general in Korea, a single woman working in the same place as a man can get tongues wagging. Which is such goddamn cowshit when in actually it's just two coworkers working in... the same building. Not even in the same cubicle. It's like when a man and a woman are near, their small brains can only think of sex and they have absolutely no control and will have sex like animals.

     

    I am also waiting for the day ALL women realise that they can become conventionally successful without having to endure harrassment at all - if only because I'm waiting for the day all women can be successful without meeting sexual harrassment at all to be the truth and reality.

     

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    I'm waiting for her to start caring about her reputation, the same way she's caring about Mr Ma's reputation. I'm waiting for her to start respecting herself. She's trying to reach her goal in a man's world. Yes, I feel she should walk away from a job for which she's being sexually harassed.  Proper course is she reports it and stop doing anything that would be perceived as probably cause.

     

    I feel like she should walk away too. I think she feels the same. The bills probably don't though. Proper course is "proper" for a reason. The result can be something infuriatingly "improper", especially in a company that's so sexist all 7 ways to hell.

     

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    FYI, I work in the financial world and I'm the "boss" of a large department. I live in the Southern USA where there is the "good ole boy" system which operates very similar to the world SJ is working in. You can be strong and respected, without being silent to harassment. You have to be willing to lose in order to gain. I'm waiting for SJ to realize that. When she does, she will then be a strong woman in my eyes.

     

     

     

    Congratulations boss. Not eveyone is as lucky as you.

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  10. 1 hour ago, gilaswan said:
     
    Actually, what her sunbae said was, "She must think she's the "Gap" (갑) in this." :lol: Gap refers to the more favourable position, and "eul" (을), the subordinate. The Chinese character for 갑 is 甲 or "A"; 을 is 乙 or "B". This notion of primary and secondary in relationships stems out of a very extreme interpretation of Confucian ethics, as you have mentioned. 

     

     

    LOL, what did I write. There was just so much I got confused. Yeah, that Gap-Eul relationship. You're right.

     

    But Sunbae was talking about himself, not HongJoo. I checked the clip again.

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  11. 8 hours ago, gilaswan said:

    The notion of Korean order is very Confucian, and it's something that non-Confucian states and communities have difficulty fully comprehending. I cannot say that I do not come from a Confucian society - to be fair, my country's political ideology is fairly founded upon Confucian principles. But at the same time, there are many other mitigating factors that result in us being quite stuck between being neither fully Confucian nor fully Greek in our cultural philosophies. So this is where I will say, while I understand the S.Korean notion of hierarchy (and therefore order), I don't understand the extent to which this is practised almost blindly (cf. the scene where HJ makes a statement against social order when her sunbae asks the maknae of the office to go buy food, just because). But this is an ideology so deeply entrenched in S.Korea that people (such as this writer) are starting to ask - does it make sense? Should it be this way? "Because I am older/richer/better connected/of a higher social status, some of these rules just don't apply to me, and they shouldn't because in my being older/richer/better connected/of a higher social status, I have done things that have benefited our community. Your cutting me (more than) some slack is expected as a form of gratitude you show me." 

     

    Actually... Confucianism is just ideas about Ethics, Behaviour and Government - aka, how one should act in a group. There are mainly three parts to it, being the "Li", the "Yi" and the "Ren", which represent "Doing the right things at the right time to build an ideal society", "Righteousness" and "Humanity", the last of which can be further broken down into "seriousness", "generosity", "sincerity", "diligence" and "kindness". 

     

    So while there are hierarchies, they are relationships that demand respect in both ways. Like the wife who is supposed to respect her husband and her husband who is supposed to give her the same privilege. The golden rule in Confucianism is "Do not do unto others what you won't do to yourself". A subordinate is supposed to respect the authority of the superior, but that does not mean being a yes-man because the subordinate, in his respect, is also supposed to advise his superior if it seems like he's taking a wrong course of action.

     

    It's an ideology that encourages order ("Mandate of Heaven") and demands that people act with civility, humanity, with respect and in all ways, for the good of the society.

     

    But you know, government asses and the bureaucrats like to hold on to power so they conveniently forgot about the respect going down and just demand respect to come up their way. And then that became bullying.

     

    Partway through Joseon, their take on Neo-Confucianism became so rigid and further bound by more self-created rules that they lost the ability to change and keep up as society does unlike the Mings to the East.

     

    Another thing in South Korea is unfortunately the Korean War, which practically leveled the entire country. The Koreans had to build everything in the quickest time, with not a second to waste. They were so ruined that no one thought they'd actually survive past a few years.

     

    So when you need things done and have no time at all for "nonsensical" feedback, what do you do? Follow the army ways and bring them into the office - General calls out demands, Soldiers can only follow, Boss shouts out orders, workers follow. You dither, you're fired. And that gave rise to the concept of "Gap" (the superior) and the "Eul" (the subordinate) in Korea... which just kind of got bastardized into what we see today.

     

    In actual fact, HongJoo's immediate superior just refered to the Gap-Eul concept last episode when she came and left in her sun-dress. "I'm like not be the Gap - looks like I must be the Eul."

     

    Tradition? Humans only "traditionalise" what they like. Or at least, only those with the power to do that - which are the Gap-s.

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  12. 9 hours ago, lclarakl said:

     

    Based on what has been presented in this drama, it's not about surviving, it's about wanting to be a boss. I think we're going to see a change in SJ and she's going to stand up for herself. From what I can see, SJ is working for the wrong company. She doesn't have a boss that respects her as a valued member of the team. She's shown as a woman who it's okay for men to grope. Then the people who are at these meetings go back and talk about her. 

     

    I'm waiting for her to become a strong woman who will put these men in their place.

     

    You're not waiting for SuJi to become a strong woman. You're waiting for SuJi to reach the end of her line, reach her threshold. Because she's been a strong woman the whole time.

     

    SuJi's ambition to be a CEO, to be a boss, means richard simmons in her life as an employee. Not everyone can be a boss at the drop of a hat. Not everyone has the resources immediately. Some have to work to make it. She's not hanging on because she "has to be the boss". She's hanging on because that's what pays rent, pays for the gas in her car, pays for food on the table, water, electricity, life. Because that stupid job pays for what she needs to live. Not everyone has a fake husband like SeHee when they're destitute who'll let you live for cheap with your dignity intact after quitting your job.

     

    Don't you think that she's thought of quitting? Who the hell doesn't in such circumstances?? Are you telling me that she should raise hell, put those men in their places and go become a beggar after she leaves the place? 

     

    Not everyone is lucky like BoMi to have SangGu and her colleagues as workmates who respect her as a person, an intelligent part of the team, female or not. Who's to say that SuJi leaving for another company will save her from these assholes? There might just be new chicken butts. But there's one thing that's clear - she WILL suffer a step back in the career ladder. Better the devil you know than the devil you don't - at least until you have your bearings and know what your plan at least 5cm forward is. And she's firefighting everyday to think about it. They just call her any time at the drop of a hat.

     

    And WHY does she have to suffer a step back after all the hard work, late nights, insufferable drinking meetings just because of the male chauvinistic pigs that sneer her way anyway? Why does she have to escape and lose everything she worked hard for when the sexist horror isn't supposed to happen at all? She is not even sleeping with them to get contracts. She is not even bra-less with them and on the odd chance they catch her before she can slip to the bathrooms to put it on, she's not wearing anything figure hugging and thin! If anything, BoMi wears shorter skirts and no one in that blessed company says a peep! That's richard simmons rumours by woman who are so confused and used to the blatant and casual misogyny they can't see they're crazy nuts. She is just doing her thing as a professional.

     

    Even if she wanted to become CEO, where does it state that she wanted to be a CEO of THAT company? And like I said, why does she have to give up her ambition because of a few cow manure who don't know the meaning of dignity and grace.

     

    You are right. SuJi WILL stand up to these pigs. Not because she did anything wrong or disappointing or because she suddenly gained strength and courage but because they are the ones wrong and who deserve a smackdown. It is survival. It's not because she wanted to be boss. Don't get confused.

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  13. 37 minutes ago, cadymcbronzie said:

    HJ reached home and spoke to Eomoni.

     

    JC went to the laundromat and bumped into Eomoni there. He was feeling a bit awkward but addressed her.

    As he was placing the laundry in the washer, he recalled the conversation.

    He then went to her and asked her.

    He kept on calling her Eomonim, but corrected himself by calling her Ahjumonim. 

    She then apologised.

    He then hugged her.

     

     

    This was a really touching part of the episode.

     

    HongJoo tells Mom that she doesn't blame herself for not being able to prevent Dad's death, and that JaeChan is a person who gives her happiness, and so Mom knows that HongJoo will survive whatever comes in the future, no matter what she dreams.

     

    So when she bumps into JaeChan, she apologises for her actions and tells him to just call her Mother like he blurts out these days (Mother is closer than Ajummeoni and over the few breakfasts, they've gotten a little closer which is why JaeChan slipped up). She knows that she was being ridiculous, as her head tells her, but her heart made her irrational - just because her child was so precious to her, she lashed out at another person's child.

     

    So she apologises for that and thanks him for cherishing HongJoo. They go on a "call me Mother" spree and JaeChan slips up and calls her Mother-in-law. HA! Then corrects it to Ahjumeoni... pfft.

     

    Later, Mom puts JaeChan's ring back on HongJoo's table, giving them her blessings.

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  14. Aigoo.........

     

    SeungWon's friend asked SeungWon to ask his brother to look into his father's case (of injustice) when they met as customer and cashier at the convenience store but SeungWon told his classmate that his Hyung is really busy and out of his mind because of a huge case right now. So Classmate told him to pretend he never heard that.

     

    But now... Classmate's father apparently committed suicide in jail........................

     

    Aihyoo... I cannot take anymore deaths this week....

     

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  15. Oooh... Nam HongJoo. Going good!

     

    She is so, so clear headed. She broke through the nonsense that was YooBum's rubbish defense and if it weren't for her clear-headedness, the judge and the prosecution might have failed to make a comeback because of emotions fuzzing up their logic.

     

    YooBum proposed that though Writer might have assaulted the Assistant, he did not kill Assistant. (Ah, and because JaeChan went ahead with his charge of murder, he has to prove and argue for murder beyond any reasonable doubt and anything less will deem Writer as Not Guilty.) Because Assistant might have lived (heart beating, irregardless) after the assault but they'll never know because the doctors cut his heart out for donation. Therefore, he asserted that the cause of the death, per the criminal law, of Assistant was the doctor, and by default, the father, who gave permission to let his son donate his organs. In that case, Writer is NOT a murder and the charge of murder by the prosecutors cannot be proven guilty beyond doubt.

     

    And then Dad gets all worked up, blaming himself for killing his own son. HongJoo calms him down by shouting all over the court room that it makes no sense because if Writer NEVER assaulted Assistant, he wouldn't be brain-dead and his life wouldn't have been taken from him anyway. In any case, he was going to die either way. So the judge shouldn't be basing the case of guilty or not for murder on the time of death but rather, he should be looking at the very start of the case - which is the assault that set off the chain that took Assistant's life and is therefore the main cause of a young man losing his life way too early. And the assault and subsequent push was done by Writer which means that HE IS A MURDERER.

     

    That's what they were explaining with their hands earlier.

     

    So dammit refreshing. Oof.

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  16. 2 hours ago, lclarakl said:

     

    From what I've seen of her in this drama, up to this point, I don't see her as a victim, I see her as a mutual participant; "you do this for me, I'll do this for you." She's using her own sexuality as a tool to climb ahead in the company.  However, now, she's beginning to feel ashamed of her actions. 

     

    2 hours ago, lclarakl said:

    Her character is really sad to me is because she's not using her brain to get ahead, she's trying to use her sexuality. She's not asking others to respect her, she's giving them permission to treat her as they way.

     

    What the hell. I don't even know where to start rebutting.

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  17. 4 minutes ago, yusefull said:

    I wanted to knew korean just to be sure the cat is okay. The way SH act with kitty before leaving her to go to the vet with JH, so sweet. I don't know why JH would give it a name when kitty is kind of a name already.

     

    The cat's name is literally Cat, not Kitty.

     

    4 minutes ago, yusefull said:


    I still believe the cat react because of SH mood. The cat understand another cat (SH) the best. That why he was jealous when she talked about dog yesterday. Did they make SH go to the hospital (for nothing at all) just to show us that when the cat go to the doc, SH go too ?

     

    Nope. JiHo sent Cat to the vet in the morning and SeHee was supposed to get her back by 7pm.

     

    4 minutes ago, yusefull said:

    SH investigate dog before telling JH is kind of nice. He don't want to accuse someone without reason. Weird, I feel the most honest guy lie but don't lie at the same time.

     

    It's not only because he doesn't want to accuse someone without confirming it. It's also that JiHo told him about how important that job was for her - she did go round the neighborhood looking for other part-time jobs but they all rejected her (seriously, it's just a part-time job. Why so many requirements?) and she only got her current one because of BokNam. And for the time being, she's planning to continue working there for a while.

     

    4 minutes ago, yusefull said:

    SJ coworker looking at her breast. That botter me so mutch. I hate her work place. I feel like she is so alone in it. She even wait for going out of the bathroom that the other girls leave.
    I think she feel so bad about her life that she is not happy no meet SG. I kind of understand why she wouldn't want her coworker to see the rose. With how bad they are and that could make it worse if they see it.

     

    Other than the sexist pigs, rumour has also passed through her workplace that SangGu ruined his sponsorship because of her and they're all guessing that there's something between the two of them, with the bad words of course directed at SuJi and SuJi alone. That's what SuJi told SangGu when he didn't understand why she was so standoffish.

     

    4 minutes ago, yusefull said:

     

    I love the way SH look at the rubicube. The coworker believe in him but nothing. I think he was thinking too mutch about JH to solve it.

     

    Nope, he's just thinking about how to solve it using his logic.

     

     

    Hope that clears all your doubts!

     

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