Online dating Yes or No ? in soompi hangout Posted February 10, 2015 I've used tinder to meet people before, I wasn't looking for a boyfriend though. It's fine to use dating websites to find a potential partner. It doesn't necessarily mean you're desperate, it's just a good source in finding someone. I wouldn't use one now just because I'm from a large city and I'm currently at a uni with 35k students, so I have a wide social circle I can go to. If I feel like there isn't anyone in my area that's good, I would possibly use a dating website.