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  1. The moment I stepped into the workplace, I knew it was not going to be a good day.
    Lets just say I just sent my manager an e-mail about the unacceptable and unprofessional behaviour of a fellow co-worker today. I am not a nurse, but she dumped her responsibilities for one of her patients onto me - a CONFUSED patient who fell earlier in the day! The patient was at risk of falling again, yet she made me watch the patient and try to settle her down whenever she tried running away. To make matters worse, she put both of us at risk when she almost fell and grabbed onto me!
    I do not mind people who are slow or not that bright, but lazy people? They are the ABSOLUTE WORST!

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    Jeon Hye Bin used to be a natural beauty, but ended up getting plastic surgery because she had an accident while filming. If I remember correctly, she had to do a "stunt" where she was to jump over a wall. Unfortunately, she did not land correctly and ended up face planting into the wall/ground. She had no choice but to do surgery on her nose and teeth, and because of it, she faced depression for awhile.

     

     

     

     

  3. I have used it before, but I was not the one doing it. Some hair salons use it now.
    It is quick and efficient, BUT it also comes with risks. Hair stylists tell me that it is not that easy to use in terms of handling it. Not to mention, if it decides to malfunction, it can burn your hair when it gets stuck.
    I prefer the good old hair curling irons. It is much safer since you control how the machine works.

  4. I am the complete opposite - I can swim, and quite well, too.
    Learning how to swim was not an option. Some of the people in my family had near-death experiences with drowning before, so my parents made sure my siblings and I all knew how to swim. We used to learn at community centres until we stumbled across two brothers. Both of them are professionals from HK who pushed their students into competitive swimming. My older sibling and I did for a bit, but in the end, we stopped. It was taking up too much time and the lessons were a killer - yes, swimming 25-50 laps in Olympic sized pools!
    I remember how annoying it was for me and how much I hated going to lessons. But I am thankful now that I realize a lot of people do not know how to swim (most of the people I know do not know how to) and I am able to play near and/or in the water without any worries.

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    Everyone is different, so a week may or may not be too fast. I think it also depends on how much time you have spent together. A week where you only hang out once or twice is considered fast, but if you hang out with the person everyday and get to know them well, then it may not be considered fast. In the end, it is all a matter of timing and how you feel about the person.

     

     

     

     

  6. No wonder I never attract Asians as an Asian female.
    I'm glad my parents are not the stereotypical Asian parents when it comes to marriage then.
    (yes, I am being serious here)

  7. Korean entertainment companies are evil! Debuting such young ones and making people like me feel old. Yes, two years is a lot.
    I don't know them well since I just stumbled across their "Wolf" music video this week and became addicted to it, but the group is a cute bunch and I am glad that they have masculine voices lol Suho is such a pretty boy, but I would totally keep Chanyeol in my pockets if I could!
    Now I feel like a pedophile .... :(

  8. Tell them when the two of you are ready. There is no rush to do so when neither of you are ready, and if anything, tell them after you are in college. By then the two of you are adults, so hopefully your parents will be less judgemental. In addition, the separation (despite studying in the same area) will put the two of you to the test. Both of you will meet new people and spend less time around each other, so see how things go from there. If the two of you are still serious after a period of time and are ready to break the news to your parents then, only then should you let them know.

  9. No, it is not a problem.
    You are either not ready to date (commit to a relationship) and/or you have not found the right person yet. If your friends become pushy, let them know that you are taking your time. Do not feel like you have to keep on going on dates just because others want you to go on them. You never know.. sometimes the right person comes along when you are not even looking.

  10. It varies.
    I work shift work, so my shifts are 8 or 12 hours. I either start at 0730, 1000, 1130, 1930, or 2330. On day shifts, I usually go into work sleep deprived because I can never sleep early. I would tell myself to go to bed early in the evening, but I end up sleeping way after midnight. As for night shifts, depending on how late I stay up the night before, I either sleep the entire day, or wake up for several hours, then take a 3-4 hour nap before waking up again.
    As for the days off, it depends on whether I have plans that day. If I do not, I tend to sleep in until 1300 to gain back the hours of sleep I have lost, or if I am getting off a night shift, I sleep until dinnertime since I usually do not sleep until noon. Shift work is bad for your health. The only benefit in terms of sleeping that I have gained from it is that because I am sleeping all over the place at random times, pulling through and staying up when I need to will happen.

  11. Rather than making assumptions as to the reasons why she does not want her parents to know about you, why not ask her about it? It will save you your sanity from trying to figure something out about a person you are "dating for fun". Have you ever asked yourself why you are even concerned about what happened? If it is all about fun, you would not even think twice about why she does not want her parents to know about you. IMO, if it is really just for fun, you would be glad that you do not have to meet her parents (to avoid any threats or whatnot from her "mean" parents).
    Her parents are probably strict when it comes to the guys she dates. Like most parents, they probably see most guys as not good enough for their daughter. Another possible reason is that she is also dating you just for fun and/or she believes it is too early in the relationship for you to meet her parents. After all, the two of you just started dating recently, so in most people's opinions, introducing the person they are seeing to the parents at an early dating stage is not really important.
    In the end, it is up to you. If it annoys you that much, I guess you might as well end it soon, rather than lead her on.

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    I would rather have a 32A than a 32D. A D size has a harder time trying to find clothes that will fit their upper body well (breast area, waist area, arm area) in terms of proportion wise. In addition, you will receive a lot of unwanted attention and most important of all, you can only enjoy them when you are young. Unless someone has breast surgery, their breasts will sag over time, and do remember that as we get older, our back is not as strong and as straight as they used to be. People with big breasts tend to suffer a lot of back pain and problems as they age.

     

     

     

     

  13. I would never date a man who smokes, let alone do drugs.
    Some can say that it is not that much of a problem since it does not describe how someone is, but I find both of them rather unattractive. I wouldn't want to be caught up in a relationship with someone who is or has a high chance of becoming addicted to drugs. As for smoking itself, I dislike the smell and it is a serious turn off for me. I have coworkers who smoke and whenever I use a phone after they have used, I cringe. I automatically put on some gloves and use alcoholic wipe on the phone.

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    If I am home for several days (which is not too common), I would wash it every other day. Otherwise I shower every time before I go out (which can be up to everyday for an entire week). I know it is bad, but my hair gets oily and flat extremely fast. If I sleep on it, it will be a complete mess by the next morning.

     

     

     

     

  15. Break up. You deserve someone much better.
    If he meant it when he said he did not love his ex-girlfriend when she asked him about it, it would have only meant that he was talking to her again because he wants to remain on good terms (as friends) with her. BUT the fact that he said that he did not mean it at all is another situation. Now if she was aware of him being with you, then he would just be clearing things up with her, but that is clearly not the case. As for the other girls, it looks like he is keeping his options opened. Even if he is doing what he is doing for attention, that is not acceptable. Just because you are not physically there with him does not mean he is free to flirt and do whatever he wants.
    Take the break away from each other to break up. Some may say that it is such a cowardly thing to do (as in not breaking up in person), but why torture yourself for the next 5 months as you pretend you do not know anything. The break away from him will make it much easier, and it is not like he even deserves your respect.

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