zantac_2
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believer in soulmates, but not fate.
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maybe he has an inuit background.
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^cant say that happens to me since im already incoherent and drool when i speak normally
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i rarely if ever initiate first text of the day if im interested in someone. also i rarely ask questions. i try to write in a way where my thoughts can be extend upon, which at the same time would answer questions that i want to ask. sometimes you have to look beyond the text to get a better understanding on people.
having said that, when im totally infatuated with someone, ill always initiate and spam my messages. go figure lol.-
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when i bring up past relationships, most of the time i just wanted to talk to someone about it. there are other times i use it to gauge what peoples attitudes are in a given situation.
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i dont befriend any of my ex. for me, its part of moving on. i may consider becoming friends further down the line when both of us have clearly moved on. even then, it would be very casual, like an acquaintance.
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both have to have solid foundations and desires in being together physically. i think what seperates the failures from the success stories is that one (or both) arent fully committed to actually developing a real relationship. its easy and fun talking with each other for countless hours over a medium, but pointless if they have no desire in being a real physical couple.
where an established couple faces a scenario where both will be separated by long distances, committment and tenacity is a must. and this is more of a personality thing. some people arent geared for this. and in this case, its upto the individuals to find out whether they are compatible in this aspect. and of course a bit of luck and being naive helps.
i havent been in one. but this is how i would approach long distance if im ever given an opportunity to enter into one.-
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^sounds like youre in luuuuurve.
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at the previous building where i worked, there was a woman there who had me at the palm of her hands. i would use every opportunity to perve on her, and im sure she knows this as well. this one time when i went outside for a smoke break, she was there sitting on a bench not far from the main entrance. the bench i sat on, i chose purposefully to position myself for a 10 second runway show as she will undeniably walk past. i got what i wanted, and more. just a little after the point where she turns and has her back to my view, she does a hair flick with her hands. now this could have been logically reasoned. but a part of me strongly believes she did it purposely with the intent of telling me something along the lines of; i know youre looking at me and you better be, because im fine as richard simmons. but you cant have me.
i have never wanted a richard simmons so much.
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pride and prejudice.
cant believe i actually enjoyed it. so much, that i watched it again a few hours later. oh god. -
Is it such a big deal if he doesn't text me every day, in your opinion?
no. some people are really just busy. give it a few days.
on a different note, and i think i might have told you something similar before, you really should approach this with little to no expectations. i know its difficult, in what i assume is your first love? given your age and being a long distance relationship, there is no reason for you to think about long term relationship goals now. yes, there is that very chance you will get married and live happily ever after. but the total opposite could happen as well. theres really no way to foresee, but only make wise choices. that only comes with life experience. on the contrary, going ahead with this will give you that life experience. -
deadpool.
i probably only picked up half of the references used in the movie. and im a pretty savvy 90s pop culture guy. -
how do you not know who youre talking to when theres visual confirmation through something like facebook? id say hes pretending and probably shy, hence his funny behaviour.
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^just move on. that way you dont have to worry about the whys, whats and what nots.
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bars are a much better place to meet people than clubs. you just need to experience it more to get comfortable. it helps when you have very outgoing friends to help build bridges for you.
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^theres no middle line. you either walk away, or be the home wrecker.
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^assuming he does like you, do you really want to be in a relationship with a guy who carries such subpar qualities?
god damn. some dudes have it easy.-
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Why would a guy tell you how much money he makes on the first date?
money talks. brings results.
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^damn. im putting that in my to watch list. the last movie where i saw helena bonham carter in a romantic role was conversations with other women. enjoyed that one a lot. plus, it has daniel day lewis!
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went through a dennis villeneuve marathon yesterday to prepare for sicario.
incendies
enemy
prisoners
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^youre going to find mixed responses with that question. but i do think guys in general are less picky than girls when it comes to career and ambition. i personally dont care for it.
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^not for me. but if i feel disinterest in her responses like one worded replies then i usually take that as a pretty good sign.
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I don't suggest going back on OKC for guy friends, that'll make your bf feel insecure.
annoying for the guys on okc as well. its a dating site. find friends elsewhere please.
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^or (most probably), he does not care for facebook, or any social media for that matter.
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Ask The Fellas
in soompi hangout
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think of it as that. he is mostly giving you 6 days a week, and only 1 day for his friends. if you want to experience his nightly/early morning crawls then setup date nights that would be just that.
as for your insecurities, that is on you alone. from the sounds of it, his track record proves otherwise. your neurotic thoughts towards his level of committment can only change if you make the change. reflecting on sejabins advice, why give him this much attention? apart from being a bore, he hasnt done anything that should be of concern.
from the scope of it all, should both of you really be in a relationship? on one side, you have a guy close to hitting 40s still hanging onto his youth. and on the other side, you have a girl who has trust issues. that to me, is incompatibility.