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  1. omgosh. don't put these types rules on yourself. Just date if you find someone that you like. it's really that simple. 
    personally, I think it's easier if you find someone when you're younger than older. By 3rd year, generally people are looking for internships/jobs/figuring out graduation plans. 1st two years you tend to kind of play around. When you start relationships you go through that honeymoon phase and... well for me, it was really distracting (as great as it was). But honestly, relationships is always about time management with every other thing in your life -- so... just be good at time management and not losing track of your priority. 
    I personally think Campus Couple is way easier to deal with than long distance. just because of the distance. I can list 10 friends right now who broke up from long distance. 
    from what I understand, a lot of my friends who broke up from long distance, they felt like they were trapped. They couldn't enjoy the life they had in college because they'd have to get home earlier to skype their S/O etc. Some people run out of things to talk about, their schedules are different (this esp. so if it's like a high school/college couple or college/out of college couple) etc. When you're together... well, then you hang out together, do similar things. What I don't recommend is dating someone who is in the same club, sport etc as you because then you see them wayy too often. Like do activities that aren't just with your S/O you know? college is honestly a pretty big place that you'll have your S/O pretty near by, but not so nearby that you're with them 24/7. (well you could be if you want to) And also, if you break up and you don't have like 100% aligning activities, you could probably avoid them just as easily. 
    But to be fair, I also know people whose long distance relationships have survived... but honestly it's not that many. I personally think long distance is really difficult -- it requires a lot of effort, a lot of trust etc. But when you survive it, you probably will have an extremely strong relationship. 
    And this is a little bit tangent, but my two cents with relationships is that you can never be "prepared" to go into a relationship. You just go into it and have fun during the ride. (just don't do stupid things you'll regret) You might last until marriage, you might not. I know people who get married to their high school sweethearts, people who marry their S/O from college, people who thought they would but break up 1-2 years after graduation, people who date for 6 months and get married.   


  2. direct is so much better. honestly if you passively withdraw away. maybe the other party won't even understand what you are doing. when someone does the latter to me, i always ask myself what i'm doing wrong. because i thought things were going great.

    and you keep leading someone on. and that's the worst thing i think you can do to someone's feelings. (and it wastes their time) i mean they might be hurt at first, but i think they'll elarn to appreciate it 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    ahaha actually sorry deleted :x.
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    help me 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    the 1st & 3rd, i'm thinking of the blue ones.

































































































































  5. my question is on good morning texts.

    so I always interpreted them as something special because I've never received them from my guy friends up until my first boyfriend (now-ex) shortly before we started dating.

    I have this guy who I've known for like a month or so, and since about two weeks ago he's been sending me these good morning/good night texts on a daily basis and since I reply back to them, he replies back to that etc etc. so we are constantly conversing every day over text. My guy friends in general tend to be the quiet, nerdy types who don't like to text while as he is very outgoing so at first I thought it was just his personality/hie way of getting to know me. But now I'm posting because I guess the back of my head is curious if there is something more or if I'm over thinking things.

    So idk. interested? just friends?
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    wash with soy face cleaner (x2)
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    spritz evian mineral water (idk if it does anything, it moisturizes a LITTLE but more than anything, it just wakes me up)
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    estee lauder toner (for combo skin)
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    eucerin moisturizer + SPF
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    physician's formula primer/corrector*
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    MUFE HD foundation (#142)
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    eyeliner with Stila eyeliner pen
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    maybelline stiletto mascara (only cuz my clinique one ran out)*
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    maybelline bouncy blush in plum*
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    lip balm (or tinted colored) sometimes lipgloss/lipstick. but they wear off when I eat so I don't really bother.
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    * = I skip these steps if I don't have much time.
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    ** sometimes, when I'm REALLY out of time, all I do is do up to Eucerin or up to foundation.
































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































    lately though, I've been wanting to try BB cream or concealers so that I don't have to wear foundation every day... (but still have even skin)








































































































    It’s night right now.
























































    There’s something else you should be doing at the moment.
























































    You ate chicken today.
























































    You are lactose intolerant.
























































    There’s a nearby TV on.
























































    You get along with your neighbors.
























































    Twilight is a horrible series. (the movie)
























































    You’re hungry right now.
























































    You have worked out today.
























































    Running a mile sounds awful.
























































    You have a job.
























































    You love to bake Christmas cookies.















































































































    Your parents are still together.















































































































    You woke up before 8 this morning. (i actually went to sleep at 8 this morning...)
























































    Baths are better than showers.















































































































    You are 5’5” or shorter.
























































    You hate British accents.
























































    Victoria’s Secret is a good store.
























































    Cats are better than dogs.
























































    The 90’s sucked.
























































    Your cell phone is right next to you.
























































    Your favorite color is either blue or purple.
























































    Your hair is short.
























































    You are by yourself right now.















































































































    The last thing you drank was water.















































































































    You’re in your PJ’s right now.
























































    Your hair color is natural.
























































    Fred from Youtube is annoying.
























































    You don’t drink soda.
























































    You are at least 130 lbs.
























































    There’s at least 20$ in your wallet.
























































    It’s cold out.
























































    Orange juice is better than apple juice.
























































    You love someone right now.
























































    Video games are awesome.
























































    Your sheets are white.
























































    You have read works by Shakespeare before.
























































    You’re fat.
























































    You’ve been professionally diagnosed with a psychological disorder.
























































    You know someone in the hospital right now.
























































    You’ve showered today.
























































    You know someone who has beaten cancer.
























































    Sneakers are your favorite shoes to wear.
























































    Chocolate is better than vanilla.
























































    You’re allergic to peanuts.
























































    You’ve never been to New York.















































































































    You’ve never been on a varsity sports team.















































































































    You want to go to Europe.















































































































    You’re using a laptop right now.
























































    Plastic surgery is a good idea.
























































    Vanilla is the best scent a girl can wear.
























































    You’ve made yourself throw up.
























































    You’ve cheated on someone before.
























































    You have a broken heart at the moment.
























































    Your friends do drugs.















































































































    School is too early.















































































































    Your nails have nail polish on them right now.
























































    You’re Italian.
























































    You have a tan right now.















































































































    You’ve been on a diet before.
























































    You shop in plus sized clothing stores.
























































    Hot Topic is scary.
























































    There are socks on your feet right now.
























































    You’ve used a hair straightener.















































































































    Shopping online is easier than shopping in an actual store.















































































































    You’re in Verizon’s network.















































































































    Cheesecake is delicious.
























































    Your BMI falls into the overweight category.
























































    You have gotten your hair cut in the past month.
























































    Your birthday is within the next 2 months.
























































    You’ve been rejected.
























































    Comedies are better than action films.
























































    Math is the best subject.
























































    You are fluent in more than one language.
























































    You love Greek food.
























































    You consider yourself a picky eater.
























































    You have more than 3 pillows on your bed.
























































    You live with your parents.
























































    You’re happy right now.















































































































    You are a high school graduate.
























































    You have a pet cat.
























































    You were born before April 5th, 1991.
























































    You have brown hair.
























































    You have blue eyes.
























































    Your last name is longer than 5 letters long.
























































    You are in a relationship.
























































    You are can count to 20 in another language.















































































































    You have studied a foreign language.
























































    You voted in the 2008 presidential election.
























































    You own a vehicle that is older than a 2004.
























































    You have worked 3rd shift.
























































    You have worked in a fast food restaurant.
























































    You drove somewhere that was further than a half hour away today.
























































    You live in New Jersey.
























































    You live in Montana.
























































    You live in Pennsylvania.
























































    Your last name begins with an ‘M’.
























































    Your middle name begins with a ‘C’.
























































    Your first name begins with an ‘S’.
























































    You are older than 19.
























































    You are younger than 16.
























































    You are an only child.
























































    Your parents are divorced.
























































    You have more than one sibling.
























































    You are an Aquarius.
























































    You are a vegetarian.
























































    You have a gym membership.
























































    You are in the military.
























































    You have a relative in the military.
























































    You have been to Canada.
























































    You have been to Mexico.
























































    You have been to Europe.
























































    You are currently enrolled in college/university.















































































































    You have done something you told yourself you wouldn’t.
























































    You have braces.
























































    You wear contact lenses.
























































    You have a tattoo on your ankle.
























































    You have a tattoo on your wrist.
























































    You have a tattoo on your lower back.
























































    You have a tattoo on your upper arm.
























































    You have a lip piercing.
























































    You have a tongue piercing.
























































    You have your nipples pierced.
























































    You have your cartilage pierced.
























































    You have curly hair.
























































    You have received flowers from someone in the last 2 months.
























































    You are engaged.
























































    You are married.
























































    You have children.
























































    You are an aunt or uncle.
























































    Your bedroom walls are blue.
























































    Your bedspread is red.
























































    Your bedroom carpet is beige.
























































    You have been out to eat at a sit-down restaurant in the last week.
























































    You have been drunk in the past 24 hours.
























































    You have lost your virginity before you turned 15.
























































    You are bisexual.
























































    You watch Scrubs.
























































    You watch Jon & Kate Plus 8.
























































    You watch American Idol.
























































    You have been to the movies within the last month.
























































    You have cursed in front of your grandparents.
























































    You had a lunch box with a cartoon character on it when you were little.
























































    You actually pay attention to politics.
























































    You are still waiting for your first kiss.
























































    You have kissed someone within the last week.
























































    You have kissed three or more people this year.
























































    You would kiss the last person you kissed again.
























































    You were told you looked cute today.
























































    You were hugged today.















































































































    [One of] your best friends is the opposite sex.















































































































    You have paid more than $100 on one item of clothing.















































































































    You had a date to prom.















































































































    You are a good speller.
























































    You are always on time.