mintcracker
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I would consider 40 to be pretty high a number.
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Everyday. My hair gets oily by the second day =S
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yoshikay13 said:
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Bright smiles (lopsided smiles are adorable)
Twinkly soft eyes
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Emotional bonding can build the best sparks ever. Don't write him off just yet, give it another two or so dates to see if there's even alittle bit of attraction- you've only gone out with him 4 times, sometimes the best relationships start with hardly anything, then before you know it --BOOM
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Mature alittle and work on your impulse control, words are cheap. Stay single, your ex got tired of being your punching bag, threatening to break up or saying it's over gets too much after the 2nd time.
I had impulsive exes who said hurtful sht (not about breaking up) in the moment too, I hated it. meiko540 said: DFO-King said: So it's ok for you to break up with your ex several times but when he breaks up with you once you think it's the most painful thing huh. Pay back is a bit h huh. If I was your ex and you broke up with me several times I wouldn't even consider wanting you back. My opinion let your ex go because idk what'll happen in the future but I have a feeling you might do the same thing again. So lets stop the dance and not repeat history. -
pasdechat said: What are your opinions on attractiveness in males?
Double v.s Single?
Built v.s. Lean v.s. Skinny?Personality v.s. Looks?and why?
Single eyelids. Not that I really seek out this particular physical characteristic in men, but my boyfriend has single eyelids and I find him attractive. So there!I like lean with a slight build. I'm not into really skinny nor really bulky. I never quite understood the attraction in washboard 6 pack abs until recently...Personality overall is more important than looks. Not that personality is the only thing I care about, however. I must find him physically attractive as well (although my standards in physical attraction doesn't necessarily translate into conventionally handsome). -
MrPower said: What are some deal breakers for you?
Oh, and when do you think it's okay to fart in front of your bf?
I had a strange realization yesterday that none of my girlfriends ever farted in front of me... or at least I didn't smell/notice it. -
Hey first of all I suggest breaking up with your current bf, you're emotionally unavaliable and you're essentially using him so it's really unfair and hurtful.
Since you have unfinished business and have feelings for your ex, I think you need to sort that out first. Meet up with him and have a proper talk. Don't just stay with the current one because it's easier 'financially and emotionally'. Put yourself in your new bf's shoes. How would you feel if your bf went to meet his ex to discuss feelings even when you expressed your discomfort?
You're emotionally cheating right now. -
I guess I should have said stereotypical jock. Difference between a lot of White guys and Asians are Asians are less likely to be spontaneous, they're generally more uptight. You say 'I dare you to go jump into the ocean right now naked' a lot of Asian guys would refuse because it's 'too cold' or because 'that's crazy' or 'someone might see them' but a lot of Caucasion guys would be like ' Suree I'll do it if you makeout with me after' or 'I'll only do it if you jump in with me/buy me dinner' etc.' Take note, the scenario is at night, and you're alone at the beach
haha.
Sure it depends on the person, but international students do act differently from a lot of the Asian guys who were born/grew up overseas. I have dated a couple of relatively Fob guys and even though one of them was really outgoing and had charisma, they both used to take jokes seriously and wasn't as carefree and sarcastic as some other guys who grew up over here.
Now of course I'm not saying every international guy who grew up in Asia isn't fun loving, but I'm just saying on average they are more composed and conservative? They are just different.
Kerriganton said:mintcracker
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mintcracker
said: He was whitewashed because he acted more like the stereotypical white guy than the stereotypical korean. Hence "white washed"
White washed doesn't mean you're ashamed of your culture and can't speak the language, it simply means you think differently, have a different sense of humour (fobs tend to take things more seriously and aren't' as laid back and jokey) and generally are 'westernised.'
I don't see how it's derogatory? How is it offensive?
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Jenny No said: mintcracker said: Jenny No said: Well at least she is being honest, if she admitted to it herself. Kissing isn't exactly cheating, though I would be more upset if she did it sober.
However, from what I've seen, if you're in love with someone your 'search potential mate' sensors turn off and take responsible actions in order to stay faithful to the SO. Also as someone who parties a lot, I can say once I am in a relationship I don't enjoy it as much. If I do party without my bf, I end up texting him the entire time anyway and make an effort not to get too drunk. Point is, I am just not interested in hooking up with other guys.
One drunken kiss can be an honest mistake, you can probably forgive her. If it bothers you a lot or it becomes an ongoing issue, then you have every right to be upset enough to end it. Just no revenge drunken kiss of your own, stooping down to that level achieves nothing. -
^ It depends on the girl but generally we would like you to call us because it's a way for you to show that you're thinking of us. We also don't want to feel like we're the overeager one?
The texting thing, I don't really care. Some girls like to play games, some girls like to hold back?
The last question I can't answer as I usually insist on carrying my own stuff-I have arms, I'll use them. I think girls expecting the guy to carry their bags is laughable but lots of Asian girls do this so *shrugs* -
Lol...Another one bites the dust.
5 Songs over a one month relationship? And here I was thinking she couldn't get more melodramatic.*face palm* -
Jenny No said: Well at least she is being honest, if she admitted to it herself. Kissing isn't exactly cheating, though I would be more upset if she did it sober.
However, from what I've seen, if you're in love with someone your 'search potential mate' sensors turn off and take responsible actions in order to stay faithful to the SO. Also as someone who parties a lot, I can say once I am in a relationship I don't enjoy it as much. If I do party without my bf, I end up texting him the entire time anyway and make an effort not to get too drunk. Point is, I am just not interested in hooking up with other guys.
One drunken kiss can be an honest mistake, you can probably forgive her. If it bothers you a lot or it becomes an ongoing issue, then you have every right to be upset enough to end it. Just no revenge drunken kiss of your own, stooping down to that level achieves nothing. -
Kerriganton said:
mintcracker
said: He was whitewashed because he acted more like the stereotypical white guy than the stereotypical korean. Hence "white washed"
White washed doesn't mean you're ashamed of your culture and can't speak the language, it simply means you think differently, have a different sense of humour (fobs tend to take things more seriously and aren't' as laid back and jokey) and generally are 'westernised.'
I don't see how it's derogatory? How is it offensive?
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He was whitewashed because he acted more like the stereotypical white guy than the stereotypical korean. Hence "white washed"
White washed doesn't mean you're ashamed of your culture and can't speak the language, it simply means you think differently, have a different sense of humour (fobs tend to take things more seriously and aren't' as laid back and jokey) and generally are 'westernised.'
I don't see how it's derogatory? How is it offensive? -
Kerriganton said: mintcracker said: Jenny No said: I'm dating a white guy. A French guy who speaks Korean to be specific.
I stopped dating Asian men altogether, NOT because I wanted to be white, but mostly because they were... how can I put this... so close-minded. As a Korean girl, I had to fit a certain criteria. Shy, cute, hate to party, Christian, have only Korean friends, a stereotypical 'Korean girl' - all of which I was not.
If an Asian guy who was more open minded I will date him, but for now, I'm happy with my French guy. -
HappyExpress said: I don't understand why people are quick to judge when Asian girl date white guy they are consider self-hating Asian richard simmons
or when white guy date an Asian girl they are called Asian fetish lol.... I mean come on, sure they exist but that's stereotyping. I haven't date any white guy just because I'm not into them. When I go out sometime I get mean glare when hanging out or standing next to a white dude, like wtf he just a friend, hahaha... I thought it was funny and sad at same time.... -
Jenny No said: I'm dating a white guy. A French guy who speaks Korean to be specific.
I stopped dating Asian men altogether, NOT because I wanted to be white, but mostly because they were... how can I put this... so close-minded. As a Korean girl, I had to fit a certain criteria. Shy, cute, hate to party, Christian, have only Korean friends, a stereotypical 'Korean girl' - all of which I was not.
If an Asian guy who was more open minded I will date him, but for now, I'm happy with my French guy. -
I don't think it matters who anyone else dates. Like who cares if someone dates an indian, a ginger or a pom?
Like Jesus, go obsess over your own lives. o_O
Some Asian guys are awesome, some Asian guys are losers, just like how some white guys have to go to Japan just to get laid. You have the rotten apples in every group of people. -
She's demanding and immature as f- I'd dump her, don't know how you handled 6 months of that.
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She knew exactly what she was doing. Drunkenness lowers inhibition, it doesn't make you do things you wouldn't wanna do.
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Harry goes through girls quickly, but Taylor goes through men even faster so... They deserve each other. Google Taylor Swift dating and there's like a list of all the known men she had relationships with, plus the rumoured ones. It's a long as list ><, and she's also had like 4 exes from high school so that's like 18 exes. =X
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My parents have issues and my dad has been emotionally and verbally abusive for as long as I can remember.
Recently, he told me during one of his lectures (started because I got home at 12am) that I was an embarrassment and that 'trust me, anyone who gets with you is just out to use and play you, because nobody decent would possibly want you with no agenda. I'm telling you this as your dad, they're playing you.'
=( That hurt. Yes I'm having issues with school and my life direction has been fcked, but he still didn't need to say that. And even though it's been 3 months since that conversation, I still remember that comment. He repeated it two times seriously and it wasn't out of anger either. It pains me. My parents have really been a huge reason why I have abandonment and other issues, I'm trying to work passed them, but it's hard. There's been so many incidents and so many comments...I'm never going to forget.
My ex was a great guy who certainly wasn't using me, but it's hard not to feel inadequate when you've had an abusive ex and a family environment where being screamed and yelled at is a daily occurrence. It used to happen 3 times a day. I just wish I could get away from the memories.
Sometimes I wish I could just turn around and walk away without ever looking back. I want to emancipate myself from them, but at the same time I love them so...I guess it's never going to stop.
I had impulsive exes who said hurtful sht (not about breaking up) in the moment too, I hated it.
How Many Girls Is A Lot For a Guy To Have Kissed?
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^yeah but when ur older than 20, any answer is the wrong answer so I try nt to ask. If it's too few I'm skeptical, if there's 25+ I'm turned off.