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365 days of war in my country. So my plan is to just stay alive.
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On 4/21/2022 at 10:30 PM, ferily said:
I'm here again. I've tried everything. Now I realized, that everything is ok if I not sign in. But when I sigh in, I'm like a banned user.
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I can enter forum k-dramas & movies, but can't enter forum shippers' paradise. If I use vpn I can enter both forums. Was I blocked somehow?
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It is unusual to see that somewhere in the world people live their usual lives.
I don't know if I'll ever be able to return to Korean dramas. Now all my thoughts are just to survive...-
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Ok, i got it. There is no point to write here anymore. I tried my best to write according to all rules, but, I, guess, I failed every time, so my posts were deleted. It's sad, but I will have more free time now.
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16 minutes ago, Jcanqueen12 said:
I don't think I can watch any more of Sung Hoon's dramas. Lawddd his character here...just ruins it for me.
Also I can't shake the feeling that PSH might be infertile and the mistress' baby isn't his. Like they keep on showing BHR taking pregnancy tests but to no avail. There must be a reason why...I feel like it's foreshadowing either that or BHR might move on with Dong Ma and get pregnant quickly. I mean this is a makjang after all.
He could have done a vasectomy.
But yes, I also think that something is wrong.
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21 minutes ago, Lfd said:
I loved this she needed an iron skillet the more he acts I can’t stand him. None of them hasn’t any feeling of what she has been through with him remember she is the one that had a bleeding ulcer and it wasn’t her work she loved her work. A lot of women kills their husbands because of cheating and then a baby. What I have seen out his dad is not good remember the golf clubs the beatings his son took. Wife needs to just run from that family and fast before she does murder somebody
And no one cared that her illness could return because of stress. They only care about pregnant mistress.
She was the only one who cried during that scene, but her tears are not important.
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6 minutes ago, Green Chilli said:
if they think her son is in love with mistress , they should not try to get the DIL pregnantI'm sure that they think, that BHR will give them a baby after divorce and they or mistress will raise it. So no harm for them at all.
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33 minutes ago, Green Chilli said:
like parents like son , you cannot expect any better from them.
if none of them find her acceptable , they all should strive for the divorce not make false promises.
YES!!! They must tell it to her face, that they are in "team mistress" now, so BHR realized, that she is fighting on her own.
His parents convince her not to divorce their son. It's not like she decided to save this marriage on her own. She trusted them, but they betrayed her. They even worse then their son.
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2 minutes ago, Green Chilli said:
BHR husband does not deserve respect , her sixth sense is correct that it is the gift by mistress .
she is housecleaning and threw away stuff which is old and shabby
She is plotting and planing affair in her mind to avenge her pain but it does not go anywhere , when she met the guy she basically set clear terms that it is to repay the wine , not to take a. Or am gesture as romantic gesture , did not go all pouty to get his attention and mentioned that she can introduce an announcer if he is interested...
more should be done to mistress and PSH as punishment
Yes!!! And she didn't say anything bad about her husband. Even now she didn't say anything bad about him to her friends. But PSH started to badmouth his wife from the very first meeting with SW. So who disrespect whom?
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And I can't remember any Korean drama where PIL were trying to help their DIL to save a marriage when they found out that their son had an affair. And they can easily thrown away a any DIL if their son has a "better" catch. I guess it's a traditional pattern for Korean society.
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It was a public place, common. Everyone could see them. If they don't want their face it's their problem, but they thrown their DIL's face to the ground. I can't even imagine how humiliating it's to find out that your parents-in-law are not ashamed to go public with theirs son mistress. Hello!!! It's not ok!!! I can't even imagine those rumors now.
I hope she will ruin their reputation in the end as they don't want it anyway..
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25 minutes ago, partyon said:
In my opinion, BHR is a narcissist.
1) She victimizes her husband (blames him when he's not even at fault)
2) She controls her husband (because "she knows best") - overstepping his boundaries
3) She doesn't have empathy for her husband because only her needs are important. Also, since she's not in touch of her own emotions, she can't understand or sympathize with other people's emotions.
4) She doesn't take no for an answer. A "no" from someone is a personal attack towards her and she will not have it. The worst word you can say to a narcissist is the word "NO"
5) She can't control her emotions - her emotions control her
6) Her self-confidence is based on other people's perception of her. She feels the need to be adored and looked up to. That's why she must look perfect, her husband must look perfect. That's the only way she feels worthy as a person.
I can change "she" to "he" and we'll have PSH's portrait.
And, of course, it's so disrespectful to throw away her husbands and his mistress love-token. It's amazing how her husband, his parents and even a mistress treat her like an idiot, but very irritating when she proves she is not. BHR should run from this family. They are toxic.
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1 hour ago, hyall said:
I didn't say it was abuse but if you keep yelling and controlling another person that can become abusive.
If you start giving justification for beatings it never ends, it works both ways you cannot have the right to not be beaten if you do not respect other people's right not to be beaten. What if he hit her back for hitting him. Is that justified?
Everyone will have a reason to beat another so the law says you cannot hit another person.
If you don't know how to hit back, soon you'll become a pushover and a victim of abuse. It's not a justification for beating, it's self-defense.
By the way, 50's wife hit her husband twice in the last episode. I can't remember that anyone felt sorry for her ex
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3 minutes ago, hyall said:
I am really surprised that hitting another person is okay with you. It is never okay. You cannot do that under any circumstances.
Of course, hitting is not ok. And cheating too. You cannot cheat under any circumstances.
And once more time. Abuse is a pattern of behavior. BHR is not an abuser and her husband is not a victim of abuse. It's an insult to real victims if we'll continue to call him like this
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Ok, lets see the signs.
QuoteEmotional abuse includes undermining a person's sense of self-worth through constant criticism; belittling one's abilities; name-calling or other verbal abuse; damaging a partner's relationship with the children; or not letting a partner see friends and family. You may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if your partner:
- Calls you names, insults you or continually criticizes you.
- Does not trust you and acts in a jealous or possessive manner.
- Tries to isolate you from family or friends.
- Monitors where you go, whom you call and with whom you spend your time.
- Does not want you to work.
- Controls finances or refuses to share money.
- Punishes you by withholding affection.
- Expects you to ask permission.
- Threatens to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets.
- Humiliates you in any way.
Psychological abuse: involves causing fear by intimidation; threatening physical harm to self, partner or children; destruction of pets and property; “mind games”; or forcing isolation from friends, family, school and/or work.
Financial or economic abuse: involves making or attempting to make a person financially dependent by maintaining total control over financial resources, withholding access to money, and/or forbidding attendance at school or employment.
Physical abuse: involves hurting or trying to hurt a partner by hitting, kicking, burning, grabbing, pinching, shoving, slapping, hair-pulling, biting, denying medical care or forcing alcohol and/or drug use, or using other physical force. You may be in a physically abusive relationship if your partner:
- Damages property when angry (throws objects, punches walls, kicks doors, etc.).
- Pushes, slaps, bites, kicks or chokes you.
- Abandons you in a dangerous or unfamiliar place.
- Scares you by driving recklessly.
- Uses a weapon to threaten or hurt you.
- Forces you to leave your home.
- Traps you in your home or keeps you from leaving.
- Prevents you from calling police or seeking medical attention.
- Hurts your children.
- Uses physical force in sexual situations.
Sexual abuse: involves forcing a partner to take part in a sex act when the partner does not consent. You may be in a sexually abusive relationship if your partner:
- Accuses you of cheating or is often jealous of your outside relationships.
- Wants you to dress in a sexual way.
- Insults you in sexual ways or calls you sexual names.
- Has ever forced or manipulated you into having sex or performing sexual acts.
- Holds you down during sex.
- Demands sex when you are sick, tired or after beating you.
- Hurts you with weapons or objects during sex.
- Involves other people in sexual activities with you.
- Ignores your feelings regarding sex.
Sorry, but I can't see him as a victim of abuse.
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1 hour ago, africandramalover said:
I'm beyond horrified that we live in a world where spousal abuse is justifiable.
Domestic abuse, also called "domestic violence" or "intimate partner violence", can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner.
Pattern is a very important word. One hit is not an abuse. You can't use this word whatever you want.
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22 minutes ago, D27Gjk68 said:
I'm still checking in on the thread and liking comments but this is why I stopped posting. It also seems to me it's mainly women posters blaming the wives (that might just be because the majority of posters are women.)
Me too. It's uncomfortable to watch episodes and uncomfortable to read this tread.
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1 hour ago, hsmz said:
Because that's marriage should be... Everything should be considered special and needs to be cherished, even slightest things like buying a cheap chocolate to your spouse.
It's not good to avoid quetions like this.
So, once again. According to PSH a queen and wife should be treated differently. So I want to now how? So how a man like PSH should treat a queen and how a wife?
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7 minutes ago, hsmz said:
Sorry, I've read about gender equality before, how woman now stand tall together with man, having their voice out, having the same education...
but in marriage, the husband should not received the equality that he deserves? only him needs to serve his queen, and queen keep on hurting in inside, and outside (with the slaps & bloody nose?)
It's not about gender equality. He himself said that he treats his wife differently. So, he believes, that he treats his wife better than a wife (not just his wife, but every wife in the world) should be treated. So I wonder, why his actions should be considered as a special treatment.
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19 minutes ago, hsmz said:
Yeah, she wanted her man to treat her like a QUEEN, must fetch her when he drunk, entertained her drunken mistakes but she? Yelled at him only because he asked for fried egg, threw him slept on the couch when he came home drunk. emotionless husband much?
Sorry, but I don't think that it's a special treatment. It's how a normal husband or boyfriend should act.
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13 minutes ago, hsmz said:
Did she treat her man like a KING? When you expect something from others, you should give too.
One way road will never going to be 2 way roads.
Like a queen or like a king it's how? I can't understand the difference.
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Sorry, but what's the difference? Wife can't be treated like a queen?
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