I know as much as we want nothing to go wrong with our otp’s life, living as a celeb will always encircled with rumours, bad news, maligning attempt from haters, they cant escape it, the difference is how they handled it. I believe kjw is an adult at first, mature and wise in handling the issue, he had quite an experience living as celeb plus his management company also proactive (perhaps they can enforce some legal action to protect their artists). I will not defy that this is one of bittersweet experience for kjw; bitter in context of how his image almost being tarnished, while sweet is how much support he received and how many seong deok mi around the world willing to protect him
He already played his part ; strong and firm denial ( no means no; he is not playing around the bush) it is upon us whom willing to have faith on him or not, for me i do. Regarding that LE had to unfollow KJW, that was also her choice, why only do now? Only she can answer, but i bet she felt that was the last rational resort to calm the things down and i hope she will be smarter in future for her post ( crossed finger) Someone pointed that this one was started by other ship sasaeng, well, my word is, we cant control human, this is real world, there will always someone who will never leave chance to hurt others. They forgot to put themselves in others shoes because they are intoxicated with obsessions, they forgot the one that they intended to hurt are HUMANS at first place, they are being ignorant as how much karma will take a place, if it isnt happening for their celeb, perhaps it will soon happening in their own life, once bitten twice shy ; then they will be reminded of how much hurt that they had cause to others. Perhaps that is the only way for them to learn. We can lecture, give advices, being sarcastic, alas at the end it is their choices.
Someone said, there will be no smoke without fire (regarding ppc), the thing is, it is quite clear how strong statement of denial given by pmy in her interview, the fire itself started by the shippers. To how much extend can pmy do if no one can keep faith on her words? Do you expect in every single iv she had to deny it? It is quite irrational. I disagree to put the blame on pmy’ side just because this issue came from the sasaeng. WE as rational and educated fans had so many options to defy this kind of thing and malign act. We can directly report or inquire the managemnt part, showing emotional support the least, instead of pointing out the blame on actor/actresses, thinking back, all this horrendous experience was started by us, the crazy fan ( not all of us, some who are so obsessed.) How much turmoil had been experienced by pmy just because of this issue, she almost enclosed herself into a shell so that no one can hurt her anymore. WE do not have rights to just straight away put a blame on her just because she does not open her mouth everytime a male lead playing opposite her involved in rumours. WE do not know perhaps she already gave her support in a way that we dont know
At last, can we just stop debating on this topic, it is already closed and sealed. I do miss how much this forum pointing out our Labit moments instead opening this and only see the debate regarding this topic. Sorry for my long writing and no offences everyone. Peace out.